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writes:hey, when i was 12 i met my boyfriend, he was 15 at the time, we went out secretly with only a few of our friends knowing, now i'm 16 and he is 19 and we are still secretly going out, firstly, is it wrong for me to go out with someone 3 years older? and secondly when will be the right time to get it out into the open?Thanks whoever has the time to read and reply to this xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys, this has really helped!!! oh and sorry i didn't talk sooner.
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reader, kittykhaos +, writes (6 July 2010):
 your 16 and in england you are legal... when i was 16 i went out with boys who were 18/19 its fine. Now its the other way round and im 25 and my boyfriend is 21 but no one ever seems to find it odd or think its a problem. As you get older the age gap becomes pretty irelivant and seeing as your legal i have no idea why your keeping this a secret anymore.. you guys have gone out for 4 years there must be something there worth shouting about!
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reader, loraemoon +, writes (6 July 2010):
 well you really must like eachother to of been together this long,your young but head strong,if you love eachother dont keep it secret let it out and show the world your serious about going out together, you dont have to tell people its been secret for a few yrs just get on with it be happy
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): Why are you keeping it a secret?
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reader, kahlan +, writes (5 July 2010):
 When you were 12, i think 15 is too old, but the older you get the less the age difference matters. 16 is still a bit young, but as long as he treats you right, and isn't pressurising you into anything, then 3 years is ok. Only you know if he,s right for you. If you're happy,I wouldn't hide it.When my mum and dad met, she was 15 and he was 17. Their 36th anniversary is in September.(Im not saying you should get married like, mum was 18 when they married).
Be happy whatever you decide
Love Kahlan
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