My girlfriend gives her phone number out to other guys and texts them!
Q. My Girlfriend and I have been dating for about two months now. I dont talk to any other girls but she talks to other guys. what pissed me off to get mad at her and write this was she said something like "why wont this guy leave me alone, I dont want ...
A. 10 September 2013: Hey guys since last time this is what has happened. I told my girlfriend I did not like her texting other guys. she told me that bullshit about being friends... Well what happened did happen. She got really drunk with one of her "guy" friends and ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my new neighbour, but I've been in a FWB with my other neighbour for 2 months. How should I play this?
Q. I moved into my apartment building 2 months ago and met my neighbor shortly after the move in. We hit it off right away. We have been hooking up for about a month and a half. It is weird because its like we are in a relationship but we are not.. ...
A. 15 October 2012: Sooo last night was my birthday party, I decided to tell her that we should stop and just be friends... She got me a bunch of presents and made me dinner, and breakfast (in bed!) and got me a bunch of ballons for my bday. when i woke up she then... (read in full...)
How do you ask to have sex?
Q. When you meet a girl and you hook up (for this example kissing) how do you go further past kissing?! For example I went to a concert and I was a little drunk when i was talking to this girl I met. We danced and then we started to make out. I ...
A. 18 May 2012: Thank you for responding!
Sageoldguy1465 lol thats really funny maybe if im talking to a girl and she has a good personality ill try that lol
TrancedRhythmEar Good advice ya i have messed up relationships drunk..but the only thing is my guns are ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to use dirty talk in the bedroom and I have no idea how to do it.
Q. I'm quite embarrassed about asking this, but i have no one else to ask... i'v been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we started having sex, but he never manages to finish 'if you know what i mean' and he told me he'll only ...
A. 23 April 2012: LOL!!! do the laundry haha!!! i am a simple lover too. all that stuff is just fun at times but every time is hard to think of stuff... I got a good orde to tell him. shut up and kiss me lol... (read in full...)
Do I confront my wife about her cheating or just file for a divorce?
Q. i have discovered that my wife of six years is having an online affair,as if thats not bad enough the third party involved mentions in his emails about my children being as his own children and says they will all be together as a new family soon,i ...
A. 12 April 2012: Be a bad ass, print out the email and place the divorce papers right under it!... (read in full...)
Only been together 4 days but I think he doesn't like me anymore! Help!
Q. Well I am only 13 but my boyfriend and I have only been together for 4 days and I feel like he doesn't like me any more, he doesn't reply to my text's and when he does he just put's like 'k' or 'what'. When I say to him I love him he just put's back ...
A. 10 April 2012: He doesnt like you. Hes what 13 too.? I did the same thing as a kid.. i grew up tho
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Married teacher is always staring at me....what should I think?
Q. OMG, I just can't figure what's going on? (my male teacher) He's married and he's 32-33 - ALWAYS stares ONLY at me in class for so long and sometimes I look back, but he doesn't turn away and stares deeper in my eyes, so I instinctively felt that he ...
A. 10 April 2012: This is exactly whats wrong. you need to go to highschool partys and meet people who arent twice your age and married. Talk to them and they will show you some attention because thats what you are looking for. ... (read in full...)
She was a virgin when she met me but had dated a guy before me, I get so jealous because of this! Am I wrong? What should I do?
Q. I'm 5 years of marriage and i am my wife's first man, she was virgin before me i wasn't. The fact is she used to date a guy by distance and we have a lovely friend who is this guy parent! I get jealous everytime we have to go to a child party or to ...
A. 10 April 2012: OMG are u kidding me!! you are jealous about this?!!!!!!?!!!:?!??!?!?!? You were your wifes FIRST!!!!! wow I am so freakin mad right now I would kill for a girl like that!! I dated a girl when i was 17 for a year!!! I found out 3 months in I was ... (read in full...)
How do I become a jerk to attract girls?
Q. what does it take to get a gf? im honest, nice, smart and above average looking. i am 16 but it seems that guys who are jerks usually attract girls attention. How do i do that?...
A. 10 April 2012: I feel you bro. when i was 16 I felt the exact same way. I didnt have any one to teach me or talk to so i started hanging out with the popular group at school. I wouldnt say do that because its hard too join that group. But i played sports and just ... (read in full...)
Ladies: shaved or natural 'downstairs' on a guy?
Q. Ladies thoughts opinions needed: When you are about to have sex/or oral with a guy for the first time and see his thing, is hair down there a turn off? is shaved more a turn on? or trimmed? also what about hairy thighs? shaved? leave alone? I am...
A. 6 April 2012: LOL!! i think its different for guys and girls cause it doesnt itch at all!!! It just looks bigger!! which i guess is more of a guy thing to look bigger, but i guess girls would rather it look like there doing a man than a lil boy lol... (read in full...)
Ladies: shaved or natural 'downstairs' on a guy?
Q. Ladies thoughts opinions needed: When you are about to have sex/or oral with a guy for the first time and see his thing, is hair down there a turn off? is shaved more a turn on? or trimmed? also what about hairy thighs? shaved? leave alone? I am...
A. 6 April 2012: Well this is awkward, I should have read this before I just took a shower lol. Thank you everyone for your responses I honestly thought that girls preferred shaved because it looks bigger, and there for it is better.. I never thought it was weird ... (read in full...)
Should I trust her? Should I let them hang out?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. We've had our ups and downs but I would consider it to be a great relationship. We spend most of our time together, we still do cutesy things, and we rarely argue about things. H...
A. 5 April 2012: if shes going to this guys house alone to hangout I would definitely be pissed. I think that crosses the line. If they are just getting coffee then who cares. I would tell her straight up that i dont want you to hangout with this guy alone, I trust ... (read in full...)
I have red hair & very fair skin, I am always the subject of jokes, do people really find this unattractive??
Q. Okay so I am cursed (or blessed depending on how you look at it) with naturally red hair and super pale skin(even if I get sunburnt it just becomes even paler) and I was wondering if people actually find this to be such a bad thing. I have had to ...
A. 5 April 2012: Yes people make jokes about having red hair and pail skin.. depending on the color of red it usually is really sexy!at least I think lol I think being light skinned color is kind of a turn off. I think you should try to get a tanning membership, or ... (read in full...)
He is flirting on Facebook, with 3 girls, should I end the relationship?
Q. I know I shouldn't have done this but i went on my boyfriends facebook because I had a gut feeling he was taking to someone. He's never had a steady girlfriend and once he met me he stopped going out partying like he used to and actually fell in ...
A. 5 April 2012: My ex GF did the same thing you are doing. You cant f**k the computer! Hes not cheating. Its the internet and hes talking to another girl. Hes just talking and maybe his talking is flirty to you but maybe thats just how he talks. My point is your ... (read in full...)
Should I just have a one night stand?
Q. I'm a female in my mid twenties and haven't had sex in over eight months. I am constantly horny and masturbate almost everyday. I have never had a one night stand with a guy because I always feared stds and what not as well as my reputation because ...
A. 5 April 2012: Ya give a guy a chance!. There are so many great guys out there! Dont be so picky! it seems like you have been in a relationship before maybe what you think is the typical prince charming isnt. Try to date or talk too someone totally different! ... (read in full...)
Why did my married collegue keep taking off his wedding ring at lunch?
Q. Hi ! I just had a business lunch with a male colleague. During the entire time, he kept taking his wedding band on and off and twisting it too. It was not very subtle and a little distracting. What does this mean?...
A. 29 March 2012: It doesnt mean anything. And alot of guys do that because it is uncomfortable. I know my dad doesnt wear his because it hurts his finger and it swells.... (read in full...)
Should I reconsider the trip for my reputation? Is it too early to go on vacation together?
Q. I'm 21 and I've been dating someone from my university for two months. We've planned a 3 day trip to another state for spring break. We both think it would be really fun to explore another city together. However, my mom was furious when she...
A. 15 March 2012: Just share the same room and save money. Thats dum your in college. Money is tight. Why get another room.. and why would anyone find out? your going together, no one else is going. dont tell ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm a bad wife because I don't like giving him blowjobs, what can I do to stop being disgusted by them?
Q. Hi, Im 24 years old and newly married for 9 months. Our sex life has been great except that my husband really likes for me to give him blow jobs, but no matter how hard i try i feel disgusted to do so.I think the taste/smell is what puts me off.I ...
A. 15 March 2012: solution is simple. Give him a blow job for a little bit and just warm him up. Just make sure, or tell him not to finish in your mouth, then have sex.. I tried to explain this to my gf it was like talking to a wall. ... (read in full...)
Cheated, broke up, and cannot move on
Q. Exactly a year ago I posted this: I was in a wonderful relationship for over a year and we were really deep in love with one another. Then one day I went for coffee with a guy I used to love and we slept together. I told my boyfriend right after th...
A. 14 March 2012: I am in basically the same situation you are in. We broke up about 6 months ago. I basically emotionally cheated on her. I didnt do it on purpose I was really drunk and went on facebook and I thought i was talking to her but it was someone else. I ... (read in full...)
How do men react when they get to know that their partner has been masturbating in secret?
Q. what are men's reaction to their spouse's secret masterbation? im 34 and Ive been living wth my bf almost 11 years ... its been almost four years he lost his sex derive ... we do it almost once a month ... and Im always horney ... we love each oth...
A. 13 March 2012: Its very normal.. and if you got caught maybe his sex drive will come back.. I am assuming he is around your age soo sex drive is still there. i wouldnt tell him.. what are u gona say like i jerk it when you arent home... Just start doing it when he ... (read in full...)
In a breakup why do people take the cheaters side?
Q. I was watching George Clooney's The Descendants the other day. The movie is about a character that doesn't know his wife was cheating on him. Everyone knew and didn't tell him. He never treated the wife bad or cheated on her. She screwed him over ...
A. 12 March 2012: The took the cheaters side because she was there original friend. When in a relationship your original friends, before the relationship starts, usually stick bye your side and may agree or disagree with what is going on in your life but are always ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend trying to protect me or control me?
Q. So I guess I should start by saying that my life has been chaotic the past month. I've been looking for a job for a few weeks with no success, and ended up taking a job at a "gentleman's club". I'm not dancing! Just waitressing. It's been ...
A. 12 March 2012: Hes not being controlling at all... In fact he is being the best boyfriend ever.. I dont know one of my friends, one person! that would be okay with his girlfriend working at a gentlemen's club. The way both of you are handling this seems really ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend identifies himself as "queer" Does that mean he doesn't consider himself male or female?
Q. hello people, quick question. my bf says he gender queer does that mean he doesn't identify as being male or female. assuming I'm right about the above, what does that make his pronoun, he she? neither? both? thanks for any help you give ...
A. 12 March 2012: Are you sure he wasnt joking.... that doesnt make sense if hes your boyfriend....
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I regret the awful texts I sent to this guy I like, while I was drunk. Do I have any chance of working things out with him?
Q. I did an awful thing last night. I got drunk, I'm sorry HAMMERED and decided to text mean things to a boy that I really like. We met last weekend and we've been communicating via text message and were planning on seeing each other soon. ...
A. 12 March 2012: Lol this is exactly what happened to me this week! My friend gave me some shots and he told me it was like just rum! and i didnt know it was Bacardi 151 It was really strong! like so strong! then after 4 shoots and I was already drinking before he ... (read in full...)
I wet my bf's bed, how do I reduce the embarrassment?
Q. I have an embarrassing problem, that i'm almost too embarrassed to ask you all about. Last night I stayed at my boyfriend's house, we've been together 2 and a half years. I woke up to discover I had wet the bed. I was absolutley mortified, as I hav...
A. 8 March 2012: You have been together for 2 and a half years. It wont change how he sees you because he probably should know everything about you by now.. My roomate pissed his bed a couple months ago. Its really not a big deal. It happens to us all young, old.. ... (read in full...)
Should the girl lead the way, when the boy is unable to achieve an erection??
Q. ive been seeing a really great guy and the other night we decided we were ready to take it to the next level and have sex. we didnt have very long before i had to go so we went into his room and started messing around, to be honest i realised then ...
A. 8 March 2012: That seems a little unusual. 3 things I can think of why it happened. 1 is if he masturbated previously sometimes it is harder to get an erection. Another reason why could be because his testosterone levels are down. Could be his diet or if he works ... (read in full...)
My mum's boyfriend tried to kiss me and feel me up!
Q. My mum's bf who she been with for years tried to kiss me and feel me up. He said it was q mistake and never meant it and said to forget about it. I dont know what to if I tell her it will break her heart and I dont want her to hate me but I dont ...
A. 7 March 2012: Very tough situation. im not sure if this is the right thing to do but, i can understand not wanting to hurt your mom.. In my opinion, U said he tried to touch you and tried to kiss you.. If he did I would tell your mom. If he didnt touch you, if he ... (read in full...)
I'm embarrassed to have sex because of my size
Q. me and my partner have been together for nearly 10 yrs things were great before now we have two children together i have put on a litl weight imsize 18 hate my body , we do have sex still mainly just basic stuff and never naked!he always wants to ...
A. 7 March 2012: Diet is a major part. Stop drinking soda, if u drink coffee drink it straight instead of adding the extra sugar and cream and fat. Eat fresh foods. Cook instead of go out.. walk the dog, go for walks. Go top the gym. drink water when your hungry or ... (read in full...)
I want him back but he has somebody new
Q. I really miss my ex we were together for almost a year and have been broken up for a little over a month he is seeing someone what do i do just wait for an opportunity he isn't speaking to me at all right now. The break up was his idea. And i want ...
A. 7 March 2012: This pretty much exactly what i am going through. My ex broke up with me after dating for a year. She is now currently dating another guy after we were broken up for a month. I thought that was messed up. I havnt talked to her at all. I was the one ... (read in full...)
He wants me to meet his guy friends. How do I feel comfortable and not too shy and cope with this?.
Q. Hello fellow aunts and uncles. I've been with my wonderful boyfriend for 6 months and everything is wonderful, all though we've had some issues regarding friends and "us" time. He likes to see his college friends on Saturdays and Thursdays which I'...
A. 6 March 2012: I know how guys can be with there friends. There really comfortable around each other and yes they can be very outspoken at times. My advice is to not take offence to any jokes or stuff you talk about. Smile at stupid stuff they may say or talk ... (read in full...)
After 1.5 year of planning trip now g/f says she wants us to go separately and she's going with a male friend
Q. My girlfriend and I have been planning on hiking the appalachian trail together for the past year and a half. The departure time is getting close, so 2 weeks ago she tells me that she wants to hike the trail separately now. That consists of me going ...
A. 6 March 2012: Dam... shes dumping you to go hike with this guy.. then after she wants to get back together with you??what? Is that right? wow that is so messed up, especially since you have been planning this for such a long time and have probably been together ... (read in full...)
His ex girlfriend is his roomie!
Q. Well, my bf and I have only dated for a week. I have a really good feeling about him and I. But I have a problem. Let me start with some background information about him: He and I met last year, we've been pretty good friends since. We secretly...
A. 5 March 2012: responding
So you know your boyfriend and dont think hes going to cheat?? but know its bound to happen?????????????????what?? First you may "know your boyfriend"but you dont know guys w**ners have minds of there own. and when someone whos been prev... (read in full...)
Went out for a drink with a male friend but didnt tell my husband the friend was a man, should I tell my husband the truth?
Q. Hi, I am in a slight dilemma over something that happened recently. I am a happily married woman with a stepson, and I have many male friends at work. They are just that, friends, and I would never think of doing anything with them that could harm ...
A. 5 March 2012: I dont think you should tell him now. If you do hes going to be suspicious of you for telling him. You are a grown adult having a drink with a co worker. My parents do that all the time with opposite sex friends at work. its really not a big deal. ... (read in full...)
His ex girlfriend is his roomie!
Q. Well, my bf and I have only dated for a week. I have a really good feeling about him and I. But I have a problem. Let me start with some background information about him: He and I met last year, we've been pretty good friends since. We secretly...
A. 5 March 2012: Wow. From a guys point of view, your BF has his ex living with him, and there relationship was just sex. There so comfortable they walk around basically in there underwear, sooo there still having sex... First off how can you even let that ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is on vacation and I'm feeling anxious. I don't like feeing this way!
Q. My boyfriend has been on vacation for the past few days and will be gone for a week more, and I've felt nothing but anxious the whole time. I can't understand why. I haven't heard from him very much but I can understand that, considering he IS on ...
A. 5 March 2012: My ex had the same problem. So when i left I got her a big teddy bear and she took all my sweaters cause it reminded her of me. I still havnt gotten those back! lol.. But anyways maybe it would be easier to have something that reminds you of him ... (read in full...)
How do I manage dating two girls without messing anyone around?
Q. I have the problem that in my last two relationships I had got used and now I'm trying to look again but may have bitten off more than I can chew, because I have two girls that I really like I'm not in a relationship with either, and the one girl ...
A. 5 March 2012: What do u mean dont mess any one around?????!!! You are getting involved with 2 girls and having sex with both of them... You are messing around... It doenst even seem like you want to settle down in a relationship if u did you would have focused on ... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about being a guy with feminine features
Q. I'm a bit insecure about being a guy with feminine features, and I'm hoping for some advice. I'm 23 years old and outside of one time in which a girl I'd consider really attractive initiated a make-out session with me in a club, I have pretty much...
A. 5 March 2012: Do you have long hair? If so maybe cut it. How do you dress when you go out? Maybe go shopping for some new clothes... And what do you mean changing your features? Like plastic surgery?? Dam that is weird you get mistaken for a girl that many times. ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my friend's dad.
Q. Dear Cupid, Okay so this is kinda tricky.. i'm good friends with this girl, not like my bestie or anything but we still hang out often enough. Started getting to know her through college, been hanging around with her for about a year, we're both...
A. 5 March 2012: How would you feel if your friend was having sex with you Dad........... Its weird enough you two are so far apart in age. its even weirder that its your friends dad. Awwwwww its so grouse its like half of your friend is in you........... ... (read in full...)
B/f treats me like I'm his property, not his girlfriend
Q. Dear cupid, I have been seeing my bf for about a year and a half now and things have been changing. In school he always downgrades me infront of hits mates like grabs my butt.. I find it very uncomfy. In school he always acts like I am his property...
A. 4 March 2012: I think joeyb67p nailed it. during my past relationship i was exactly like your bf. Nice then became controlling like him. It was because i was afraid of losing her so i was holding on too tight. I became jealous and controlling because i carred ... (read in full...)
He uses the same pet names for me as he did with them
Q. Need some help to see sense about finding lots of old messages from my bf to ex-gfs/hook ups of his. Basically, he gave me his old mobile phone to use. I was loading up all my info, and loads of his old messages (from a few months before we met) ...
A. 4 March 2012: 17 months is a long time dating! Honestly i can understand your frustration but his past shouldnt bother you. I know that is hard because i can relate. But it really doesnt matter. You cant change the past. The fact that he calls you the same names ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to use dirty talk in the bedroom and I have no idea how to do it.
Q. I'm quite embarrassed about asking this, but i have no one else to ask... i'v been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we started having sex, but he never manages to finish 'if you know what i mean' and he told me he'll only ...
A. 5 October 2011: Thats really weird not gona lie. he wont finish??? its not that hard to talk a little dirty but he seems like he may want something really dirty.. Guys like it if you tell them there peeppee is BIG!!! so say that alot and be like f me hard, your ... (read in full...)
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