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writes:I did an awful thing last night. I got drunk, I'm sorry HAMMERED and decided to text mean things to a boy that I really like. We met last weekend and we've been communicating via text message and were planning on seeing each other soon. My stomach turns when I reread them. They consisted of many F bombs, you sucks, you're lame, I can do betters.... just word vomit. He basically said that he doesn't think it's going to work out. and he's sorry I couldn't relax a little because I was trying to get him to meet me out. I sent him a message in the morning when I realized what I had done and he hasn't responded which is not like him to do. Do I have any chance of working things out with him? I don't want to use the excuse of I was drunk but I seriously don't remember sending the messages at all. I have never blacked out like that and it was Bacardi 151 that did me in. =(
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (12 March 2012):
 I think you blew it too. Being drunk is just not a good enough excuse to go off on a guy thru texting.
Sorry.. and no more drunk texting.. not nicely, naughty or mean, OK?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): If a man, drunken or not sent me angry, hateful texts - I would have nothing to do with his abusive ass.
On clear reason why I chose to not drink AT ALL. A human being can EFF up without the aid of alcohol.
Also if Alcohol is a mood enhancer- you are an abusive, angry drunk. UNATTRACTIVE and HELLA UNSEXY.
Lesson learnt indeed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI royally effed up, I have learned my lesson. That will never happen again. There's a part of me that really wants to contact him but since I deleted his number to give him the option of contacting me or never talking to me again, that isn't a possibility. C'est la vie.
The Bacardi 151 is not something to be played with lightly, it really isn't and I've heard from many other people the same thing of course after this incident =/...
Thanks guys.
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reader, landomando +, writes (12 March 2012):
Lol this is exactly what happened to me this week! My friend gave me some shots and he told me it was like just rum! and i didnt know it was Bacardi 151 It was really strong! like so strong! then after 4 shoots and I was already drinking before he told me what it was.. i was actually really pissed! cause it was a dick thing to do because like 2 shoots of that was already way over my limit. and 4 I was gone.
I texted this girl I wanted to hangout with and we were going to meet. I said some really bad stuff. Mostly sexual and stuff. I apologized the next day and said that wasnt who I am. I have never done that before. I know theres no excuse for what I did but can you forgive me and it wont ever happen again. She told me she understood. and she wasnt too mad... I called her. I didnt do that over texts. I think you should call him. Texting isnt the same :/ but i feel you on this. Bacardi is just crazy/bad news... Hopefully he can understand, i think we all do dum stuff when we are drunk. If he is going to judge your whole personality and who you are over this. its his loss.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2012): I'm sorry but I think you have blown it. You may not remember sending them, but he got them and will remember receiving them. Apologise to him and then leave him alone. He is probably feeling very hurt and angry at the moment, so the best thing you can do is leave him be. It's not a nice way to learn a lesson, but you have learnt a lesson from this. Good Luck
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (12 March 2012):
 I know this isn't what you want to hear but if this guy has any self respect, any standards at all, then you've blown your chance with him. You're best to just apologise and leave him alone. Consider it a lesson learned.
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