Can she get pregnant if I ejaculate on her vulva?
Q. I've been having sex with my girlfriend just recently. 98% of the time i have wore a condom. but me and my girlfriend prefer to not use them. is there a chance she can get pregnant if i ejaculate on the outside of her virgina. (on her virgina, not ...
A. 6 December 2008: Yes, it is VERY possible. That's why even when you ARE wearing a condom it's important for you to pull away from the vagina before you take the condom off.
Sperm can swim! so if you happen to get cum on the outside they can still swim back up ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for me to eat meat in front of my vegan girlfriend?
Q. I just found out that a girl I recently started dating is a vegan. She doesn't eat dairy (like cheese) and nothing from animals. I mean eat meat almost everyday. Is it ok for me to eat meat in front of her? ...
A. 6 December 2008: While it's great for you to be cautious about that stuff. I don't think you should be asking us. ASK HER! plain and simple. ;]... (read in full...)
Sex - It hurts!!!!
Q. Me and (not real name, I can't call him bf all the time) Tony had sex last night. It was kinda strange... he was on his computer lookin up music for band. The song tony was looking at was really fast and sexy. He stood up and I pulled his tie and ...
A. 24 November 2008: If you've never had sex before... then yes, that's VERY normal. That just means that your hymen broke. So, don't go thinking there's something wrong with you, there's nothing to worry about! The more you have sex with your boyfriend, the more you'll ... (read in full...)
Does giving blowjobs make a girl a whore?
Q. If I like giving bj's does that make me a whore...? I give my bf plenty of them cuz in my opinion I find it fun, my friends say that girls who do it a lot are dirty... and even though I try to ignore it, it always comes back... is it bad for a girl ...
A. 24 November 2008: Girllll, you like what you like and no one can change that. Quite frankly, it's no ones business but yours and your boyfriends. If you like giving head then so be it! There are PLENTY of people who probably enjoy it more than you. Ignore what your ... (read in full...)
Does he like me or he's just playing with my heart?
Q. Hi everyone He sent me a text msg and said:" BaBee .. I miss you alot" and then later hetold me that he was just a wrong message. ( he sent it to his gf) I always keep wondering whether he sent me a wrong mesage or it was his plan. He did ma...
A. 2 November 2008: Your question is one I don't think other people can answer. But from what you said, I think he's just being sketchy. If he IS saying things to you like that when he has a girlfriend and then he's telling you you should find someone better than ... (read in full...)
Ex-boyfriend a bit too friendly? Am I being used or pulled into a FWB?
Q. Ok, so me and my ex-bf have been split for about three months now. He broke up with me for some internet friend and said they were so in love that she was going to move down here next year... then she broke up with him a month after they got ...
A. 2 November 2008: Okay, sorry for sounding harsh but NEWSFLASH: HE'S NOT BEING GENUINE. He's completely manipulating you. It seems like you have some idea of what he's doing... Now, you've just got to stop it. ...I was in the same place as you last year. He br... (read in full...)
Is it irrational to think this way about my therapist?
Q. Over the past 3 years I've gone through a lot of shit. about 2 years ago I met my therapist, he was one of the best people I would ever meet in my (then) so far 15 years. I most definitely thought of him as more than just my therapist... I thought ...
A. 1 November 2008: Thanks so much for that. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him what I think of his girlfriend or not?
Q. Ahhh, the famous love question arises another day... . Well a couple months ago I had posted some questions about a certain guy on here. I think the chaos has reared it's ugly head once again. Well, you see, I've been hanging out with this guy ag...
A. 22 September 2008: Well for one-- I don't have a cat...
and for another--I have no motive too hook up with him in any way,shape or form. and I'm sure he doesn't want to have sex with me either.He is not that kind of person he's never hooked up with anyone before..... (read in full...)
How can I get his attention, that will set me apart from this girl he likes?
Q. well, there's this guy that i've fallen very hard for. we had a "thing" for each other back in october, and it started back up again about 2 months ago, and then he gradually stopped talking to me. i talked to this girl i kind of know one day for ...
A. 8 July 2008: Before it's too late, you might want to tell him straight out how you feel. That's pretty much all you can do. People have this "bright" idea that trying to compete with other girls to get noticed will get them what they want but it's just a waste ... (read in full...)
He says I'm the only one he's had sexual feelings over, but in reality he is not gay. I've fallen in love with him, now what?
Q. Well I'm a 14 year old, gay guy and one of my best friends is 16 and doesnt exactly know his sexuality yet. Me and him have made out a lot and I've given him bj's (sorry 4 the tmi). He's told me that he's straight and that im the only one that he's ...
A. 30 June 2008: Before you go any further and actually DO hurt yourself. You need to figure out where he's at with all this. Maybe he's just exploring and curious... or maybe he's scared. You mentioned that you guys are best friends. Try talking it over with him. ... (read in full...)
Our friends are getting us together, I think we're both a little interested in each other, but I'm not sure how to show her. Help?
Q. im 19 just graduated high school. this girl is 16 and in high school. shes heard about me in high school and my friends are hooking us up to hangout.. think shes a lil intrested as i am.. but im not sure how to show her.. i just got out of a long r...
A. 18 June 2008: Well if you're going to go on a date with her soon or anything, my advice would be to just do some subtle flirting. Girls like it when guys flirt. Just be sweet and cute. If all else fails, just tell her straight out that you're becoming more ... (read in full...)
Should I call him, to see if he's sorted his head out yet, or should I leave it longer than a week?
Q. its been a week since i broke up with my boyfriend, and it was a strange ending, don't really know what went wrong. i haven't heard from him, but i talked to his mother, she said he has stayed in and kept to himself. he hurt me really bad when we ...
A. 18 June 2008: You should most definitely NOT call him, calling him and letting him know just how you feel about the whole break up and how he hurt you is a bad idea. You would be giving him a great amount of power by doing so, and I'm sure you don't want that. If ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him that my friend he fancies is only 14?
Q. I went to a show with a friend and my other friend *D was there, and I also ran into some other friends. He was checking out my friend *C who turns out to only be 14 while *D is 17. I noticed he was checking her out but I didn't really think much ...
A. 5 May 2008: Thanks guys, I also asked a couple of my friends and they all believe it would be a good idea to tell him as well, so I guess I'm gonna be telling him tonight, hopefully it'll all work out and NOT cause drama. ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him?
Q. Hey guys im kinda freaking out cuz i want to have sex with this guy, im 13 and im still a virgin but really love him and he's so sexy lol, so GUYS should i give hima blowjob first? )give me advice to give a nice blowjob lol) and wat do guys like in ...
A. 4 May 2008: You are extremely young to be doing sexual things. You're only 13! Anything you do now you may regret that you hadn't waited longer. You have a lot of time, you don't have to think about sex and blowjobs right now.... (read in full...)
I don't think he went all the way, but he said he did cum. Now I don't know what to do. Help!
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesteday, i don't think he went all the way but he said he did cum. I'm so worried i don't know what to do! I can't tell my parents, and i don't know if i can go doctor's without them? HELP!...
A. 4 May 2008: I'm looking at your age 13-15, and considering that, if you're this anxious over it then you shouldn't be having sex.
If you're afraid you're pregnant you can take a simple store bought test, or you can go to a clinic which is confiden... (read in full...)
How can I make her mine again??? I really want her back.
Q. I'm in a lose-lose situation and desperately need help A couple of months ago my ex-girlfriend broke up with me for another guy. We had been having some troubles, and now that i look back i realize what these problems were...I never truly show...
A. 9 April 2008: I was sort of in the same situation as you, I think my ex began talking to me again after 2 and a half months. It's hard I know. But exactly what you said "If i talk to her, it'll just look like i'm jealous and needy and push her farther away." you ... (read in full...)
He wants to meet with his ex, just for coffee, I do trust him, but deep down it does bother me.
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend of 2 months, a lot lately. Over these 2 months we have learned a lot from each other. I have slowly grown to really like him and i enjoy every minute of his company. He is what i consider my first serious boyfriend. ...
A. 9 April 2008: Well you are right, it's not fair for you to get in between they're friendship. Of course you feel uncomfortable! It's an ex we're talking about! But if he says they're just going to go out for coffee then you shouldn't have much to worry about, ... (read in full...)
Can you be a virgin and have anal sex and get pregnant?
Q. ok here goes I'm a virgin and had anal sex for the first time, now I'm having pregnancy syptoms like stomach pain, back ache, dizzness and nauseousness and I wonder am I pregnant? help me...
A. 31 March 2008: You can't get pregnant from anal sex. Although there could have been a spill in which the seamen leaked down into your vaginal cavity.
The red flag would be your lack of knowledge for sexual activity ect, my suggestion would be: you wait a little... (read in full...)
Do you think she still has feelings for me or am I flying out there to get hurt?
Q. I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years which ended last July. She lived in Europe and I lived in the states. I broke up with her because I was scared of moving to Spain. The strange thing is I had a ring and I was going to propose to ...
A. 31 March 2008: Well, obviously you can't force her to take you back, so when you go visit her don't even bother trying to persuade that sort of thing.
-If you really want her back, just show it by being yourself, the person she fell in love with in the first plac... (read in full...)
I just don't know how to tell her how I really feel without being awkward about it or even worse, making our friendship awkward.
Q. Hey, I'm stuck in a pretty complicated situation right now. I've been very close friends with this girl for over 3 years now, we hook up somewhat frequently and we're just extremely close friends in general. However, we haven't officially dated ...
A. 31 March 2008: This is quite the situation. You must respect her though, if she is seeing someone else, I don't think it would help the situation very much, and you might end up hurting more. Are you sure she is seeing someone else? Perhaps she doesn't want to be ... (read in full...)
He's mad at me for checking his e-mails, but he's the one in the wrong!
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. I just got mad at him because he signed up for a dating site, looking for girls where he is at. I confronted him and he said that he was just curious and wanted to find out the price of it. ...
A. 31 March 2008: Well honestly, he has every right to be mad at you for checking HIS email(keyword 'his'), although you may be his girlfriend what's in his email is none of your business unless he makes it your business by telling you. If you so to day 'caught' him ... (read in full...)
I found his Nirvana hoodie in my laundry the other day with all these notes I never gave to him...
Q. Well, I have a lot of my exs stuff, but I think he wants me to have it all or just doesn't really care either way. Anyway, I found his Nirvana hoodie in my laundry the other day with all these notes I never gave to him, you see, I used to write ...
A. 28 March 2008: Well, the truth is, I don't really care what happens, I just thought it would be fun, at first it was more I WANT HIM TO REACT AND SO SO AND SO... but now it's not so much that. it's more.. hm. this is curious. I think I just might have to feed my ... (read in full...)
What steps do I take now to be with him again later if his current relationship ends?
Q. have you ever rekindled a relationship with an ex boyfriend? He ended the relationship to be with someone else but I still love him and know that my feelings will be the same in the future. what steps i take now to be with him later if his current ...
A. 22 March 2008: although you may feel like you will still have feelings for this man this may change. Please, do not wait for him, you are giving him absolute power by even trying to wait for his current relationship to end. You have to get back into reality and ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend does not know I acted so as to please another man only because this threatened me he would harm him... or us both!
Q. Hi. Well I think I've got a huge question... I think about 3 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. I took it really hard at first and then I just sort went on with things and didn't really care...because we weren't talking to each other... ab...
A. 7 February 2008: Hi guys... so far it's not going well at all. i still feel horrible with this burden, I told him about it, he was listless. I told him what happened and he said "oh, well I have to go study now. thanks" so.. I'm not sure, I still feel heavy with ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex wear my old clothes?
Q. Hello Out there, just a quick question. My ex left me for someone else 7 months ago and I am over her but during the 7 months I noticed she's been wearing my tops that I no longer wanted. I bumped into her at a bar and she wore my vest. I bumped ...
A. 22 January 2008: She may be wearing your clothes because it means something to her... it may be a way for her to keep you close to her because she most likely is still emotionally connected somehow... (read in full...)
I've been with her for 9 months but the last 2 months I wanted to breakup. I cant break up with her, what should I do?
Q. i have been dating this girl for almost 9 months now. for about the past 2 months ive wanted to break up with her. the reason for this is i realized how controlling she was and manipulative. i havent broken up with her yet because shes told me ...
A. 6 November 2007: My best advice is that you just straight out say what's going on. I know it's rather blunt to just be like "yeah.. so blah blah blah" But, if you want to be happy you need to do what's right for you as well. She may be sad for a while, but you guys ... (read in full...)
Surely it's ok to talk to other guys, if I'm not being flirty.
Q. Is it ok to chat with other guys over the internet (like nexopia or myspace) when you have a boyfriend? If you aren't being flirty or anything and they are people you know from school or something? Do you have to tell your boyfriend what you are ...
A. 5 November 2007: Of course it's okay. Sometimes your significant other may get a little insecure, but just reassure them that the other people(namely guys) you're talking to are strictly just friends.... (read in full...)
My mind is blanking out for no reason and I am not remembering what I do!
Q. I need medical advice what to do. I am 14 and in the past few weeks I have had a few episodes where I don't remember what I have just done. For example, I was getting ready for bed, and decided to write a small list, I sat down with a pen and pape...
A. 5 November 2007: I don't think it's a medical problem. You mentioned you haven't gotten sleep. So that may be the problem. Or You're not getting enough protein or something... But I'm sure that what's going on with you is a result of something else. Don't worry too ... (read in full...)
Why cant he just be a calm normal person??
Q. Maybe a few people can help me out there... So my boyfriend and I have been together for um about 2 1/2 years on and off. We're complete opposites in a lot of ways, I was the young dumb party girl and he's more of the quiet-video game and car type...
A. 3 November 2007: Wow, your relationship sounds alot like me and my boyfriend. I'd say you need to take some space from each other. To get your head together and to get his head together.
What I came to realize with the the break is. That is basically didn't s... (read in full...)
Is this just an excuse?
Q. Ok so I met this girl at the beginning of the school year, and immediately fell for her. she apparently liked me too, so I asked her out. 5 days pass and I think shes avoiding me. that night she tells me shes not ready to get heartbroken again and ...
A. 29 October 2007: I think you should do what you feel is right. I definitely think you should further talk to her about this or else you're going to stay confused. Maybe things are going to fast but, you guys have to work together to slow it down. Just get to know ... (read in full...)
I'm 13. Am I ready for sex?
Q. Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl 14 in two weeks an I'm stuck in a situation because I met this boy on msn and he's really nice to me an everything. I've seen him before but the thing is he wants to have sex with me and I am fine with that but I'm still a ...
A. 2 September 2007: Well although the legal age to have sex is 16. In my opinion I don't find there's any certain age you have to be to be ready for sex. It's all on you. You have to be the judge of that with the way you feel and your knowledge. For some people it does ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend assures me this crush for another girl will fade away. Should I give him more space?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We have been dating for 2 years and we are both 17. But there is one problem. He likes another girl. It's been about three weeks since I found out, and I was hesitant to stay in the relationship but there is ...
A. 2 September 2007: I've been in the same situation. I know, it's hard to just sit there and watch it happen. And although it may be going away it feels horrible that it's even there in the first place. I think you're doing great though. Just keep doing what you're ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend or Education? Please help me decide.
Q. I am a 19 year boy. I don't want to have a girlfriend because I think I should finish my education first. What do you think?...
A. 2 September 2007: I'd say if you think that's the way you want to go then, shoot for the stars, although meeting people now can't hurt. You could even meet some girls and mingle and just see what happens.... (read in full...)
Why do i keep thinking about breaking up with him?
Q. I'm almost 16 my boyfriend is 17. We have been together for about 6 months. I really love him and cant imagine not being with him. I have forgotten what life was like before i met him. I'm happy with him, of course we argue but who doesn't. Howeve...
A. 23 August 2007: Well, you might want to look into those thoughts. You can't be having them for no reason right? So just take some time to think about it. Has anything happened to make you feel a certain way? Maybe you need a break. Sometimes people can get a ... (read in full...)
He could not get it in.
Q. ok i usually know this but um well me and my boyfriend tried having sex today see we were fine we had our clothes on but that shouldnt matter we knew where it went he was fingering me and well we just couldnt get it in? this is both our first time ...
A. 18 August 2007: Like that other person said. Although in your mind you may seem ready for something IT MIGHT BE LYING!!! So basically that just means that you need to relax more and that's just your body showing you you're not exactly ready yet. Take it slowww... (read in full...)
Sex with my boyfriend is a bit awkward; where could we go for some proper privacy?
Q. Well, I'm in love with my boyfriend and vice versa.. We've had sex... But it had been rather awkward. I do believe we would both like to continue, but, we both feel nervous about feelings, atmosphere, and I was just wondering.. If you want to be ...
A. 25 July 2007: "The reason it's so hard for someone your age to find a private place to have sex is because our society doesn't condone it. Your parents don't, the law doesn't, the church doesn't, the school system doesn't, so anywhere you go there is the risk of ... (read in full...)
My parents would freak out if they knew about my 'bad-apple' boyfriend and I, yet I don't want to keep it a secret
Q. i really do love this boy even tho i am young! my parents dont like him because he is bad bt they dont no him like i do they just go by what they hear. i am scared to say to them that i have been seeing him for 3 months because they will go of the ...
A. 24 July 2007: Well if you love him, you need to do what you think is best. And you need to tell your parents that.. You are you.. and you primarily, know what's best for you. You should talk to your parents about this.. Tell them how you feel about this boy. Tell ... (read in full...)
What do people think about this age difference?
Q. There is an age gap of about eight years between boyfriend and girlfriend. I am 39 coming on 40 and my girlfriend is 30. What do people think about this age difference? ...
A. 15 July 2007: I know I'm young and all, But I think at that time in your life, age is something that is accepted more between people. in my opinion, I don't think that's a problem at all. You both are at a mature state to be able to handle things.... (read in full...)
I love my guy but when we are away from each other over summer break I feel its ok to have sex with other guys.
Q. ok so been with my man for almost 3yrs and we have gone our seperate ways on holiday for the summer i am completely in love with him and would never wanna lose him but wen ppl go away im a believer in the theory that different rules apply!i met a ...
A. 13 July 2007: It's good that you realized that after you slept with that other guy. It's not good that you think its okay to go and "fool around" and kiss other people while your boyfriend is away... You know what loyalty is right? Self respect? Respect for him? ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me just before summer break and I miss her terribly
Q. Hey all, I was with my ex for about 3 months but have known her since the start of uni (we have now both just graduated). She broke up with me before the summer holidays out of the blue, its been almost 3 weeks since the day she left and I still mi...
A. 13 July 2007: Yes yes, break ups are always hard. Don't beat yourself up for missing her though. It's only been three weeks and it takes more than that to get over someone you had/have feelings for. The best thing to do without getting too sad over it is being ... (read in full...)
How can I feel more confortable talking with my boyfriend about stuff
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and I still feel a little nervous to talk to him about some stuff, what can I do to feel more comfortable with him?...
A. 13 July 2007: You should try to figure out why you're nervous about the things you are having trouble talking to him about. And then a little at a time try talking to him about it. Go for the little things first then bigger until you feel comfortable. But you ... (read in full...)
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