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30-35,
*oseph_2000
writes:Ok so I met this girl at the beginning of the school year, and immediately fell for her. she apparently liked me too, so I asked her out. 5 days pass and I think shes avoiding me. that night she tells me shes not ready to get heartbroken again and tthat she wants me to wait if i want. and things are going too fast.But like, im so confused cause shes the one who started to show interest and was hugging me shyly and all that lovely mumbo stuff. and thats what prompted me to ask her out. I HAVE NO IDEA what to say to her tomorrow, she just told me this tonight. is this just and excuse,? or should i wait, cause i REALLY like her.HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): Go with your instincts. If you want to ask her out then go for it, if not then walk away and dont run after her.take carexx
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reader, dont_worry  +, writes (29 October 2007):
 ok you should talk to her again, and get things clear
ask her if this heartbroken thing isnt an excuse to avoid you, if she tolds you is not, and you really like her, then wait. Maybe she really is scared to start something with someone new... so just give her some time.
But if you see, she doesnt want something serious and she is just playing with you, then dont waste your time and look for some other girl
good luck (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): Apparently she has gotten heartbroken before,and she likes you. But she is afraid you may break her heart. I saw the similar situation on agelessonly.com a few days ago. In my opinion, she may need some time to think something over. I think you should give her some time and you should observe her choose if you really love her. Best wishes!
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reader, wenders  +, writes (29 October 2007):
 i would say wait.
be friend with her.
(there is no harm having more friends : )
if you keep asking her.
sooner or later she will be annoyed!
stay friends with her.
find out what she likes and the person she is...etc.
so when she decide go out with you.
you know each other better.
that will always help :)
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (29 October 2007):
 I think you should do what you feel is right. I definitely think you should further talk to her about this or else you're going to stay confused. Maybe things are going to fast but, you guys have to work together to slow it down. Just get to know each other a little better.
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