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Should I call him, to see if he's sorted his head out yet, or should I leave it longer than a week?

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Question - (17 June 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

its been a week since i broke up with my boyfriend, and it was a strange ending, don't really know what went wrong. i haven't heard from him, but i talked to his mother, she said he has stayed in and kept to himself. he hurt me really bad when we broke up, and said some hurtful things, but i think about him 24/7 and still love him so much :(

should i call him, to see if he's sorted his head out yet, or should i leave it longer than a week ?

thanks :)

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A female reader, lah mouw United States +, writes (18 June 2008):

lah mouw agony auntYou should most definitely NOT call him, calling him and letting him know just how you feel about the whole break up and how he hurt you is a bad idea. You would be giving him a great amount of power by doing so, and I'm sure you don't want that. If you keep calling him it'll just push him farther away. Let him go about his business and you yours. If he decides to call then great see if you can work things out, take it slow, but if he doesn't... well that's okay too. You'll be okay I promise. One thing I learned about the heart wrenching feeling of a break up is that it DOESN'T last forever. ;] Try watching some good movies get your mind off of it, each day you'll feel a little more better even if it's just a smidge!

if you need to talk more you can contact me on here. :]

I wish you only the best.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008):

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ok so he text me today, exactly a week after we split, he says he wants to meet for lunch, do you think its a good idea ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008):

I agree with "A female reader, anonymous"... I know it'll be hard, but when he's ready to talk to you again he will. Give him a little longer.

Good Luck. x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008):

I have gone through a similar situation.

Let him be for now, even though that will be hard and you will definitely be tempted to contact him.

Let him sort his head out and when he is ready he will contact you.

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