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Should I tell him what I think of his girlfriend or not?

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Question - (21 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ah mouw writes:

Ahhh, the famous love question arises another day... .

Well a couple months ago I had posted some questions about a certain guy on here. I think the chaos has reared it's ugly head once again. Well, you see, I've been hanging out with this guy again, he's been calling me a bit and what not. He suggested we hang out more, so he decided to surprise me and come over on Friday and we hung out again on Saturday. I knew that I was still into him at least a little bit, but when we hung out this weekend it just hit me. I still really like this guy. We were talking about his girlfriend (ughhh) and he asked me what I thought of her. I told him I wasn't going to say and he responded with a "but, you can tell me anything...and maybe if you told me I would look into it..."

I was still reluctant so I just changed the subject. I really want to tell him what I think of her if it'll make that much of an impact... I really want to tell him how nervous I get around him, and how i hate that he makes me smile so much. I'm really scared. My friend told me i should tell him because I have nothing to lose. But it's just scary. I don't know how I would tell him...

Well gee.. I hope that made at least a little bit of sense, hope you can help?:]

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A female reader, lah mouw United States +, writes (22 September 2008):

lah mouw is verified as being by the original poster of the question

lah mouw agony auntWell for one-- I don't have a cat...

and for another--I have no motive too hook up with him in any way,shape or form. and I'm sure he doesn't want to have sex with me either.He is not that kind of person he's never hooked up with anyone before...believe me. I'm not exactly sure where you got that idea from.

I suppose I wasn't wording my question right. I'm sorry...

But thanks anyway.

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