A
female
age
30-35,
*han14
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and I still feel a little nervous to talk to him about some stuff, what can I do to feel more comfortable with him? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Shan14 +, writes (13 July 2007):
Shan14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank u so much for ur answers!!!!!!!!
A
male
reader, Hank +, writes (13 July 2007):
me and my ex talked all the time if he really cares about you he'll listen and talk to you back give sugestions if u want them and try to help if possible at least i always did hank
...............................
A
female
reader, lah mouw +, writes (13 July 2007):
 You should try to figure out why you're nervous about the things you are having trouble talking to him about. And then a little at a time try talking to him about it. Go for the little things first then bigger until you feel comfortable. But you have to have your boundries, we all need a little privacy.
...............................
A
female
reader, LISAG +, writes (13 July 2007):
 What sort of stuff are you nervous about talking about ? You must know him pretty well by now ? I'd say just be yourself and say what you think.
That's what being confident is all about - being able to say what you think and not worry about peoples reactions/judgements. Often, when you speak your mind people around you respond much better than you'd imagine and they often open up and tell you whats on their mind also. Some people though do need to be approached sensitively... depends on the person.
If you feel awkward saying something thats on your mind, be brave and just say it. Whats the worse that could happen ? You could just talk about it and amazingly, usually its not the end of the world. he he he lol !
Im generally an outspoken person, sometimes people don't like it, sometimes I make people feel awkward, often people respond really well and are sort of relieved that someone else said what they were thinking but never dared say !
If you feel comfortable in yourself most people will be comfortable in your company.
Its scary to bring up some topics/stuff, but once you get it out the way things will usually improve and communication will be easier, trust and respect will grow and it brings people closer when you
re brave to talk about what you feel. People respect that even if they dont agree !
Im dying to know what "some stuff" is ?
My above rambling is because Im just guessing whats going on, you dont really say what you mean.
Email me personally if you like.
Kind regards
Lisa
...............................
|
