Does it sound like he wanted to kiss me?
Q. I am the second shyest and awkwardest person on the planet. The most shy and awkward person is the guy I'm into. We are both 19 and college students, and we've become pretty good friends over the last few months. I've been into him for a while; ...
A. 10 May 2012: agneeman, you're not the only one monitoring this question. :-)
This one is so sweet. Too bad she posted anonymously so we can't push her to respond.
Let's hope they are busy enjoying each other. ;-)... (read in full...)
I've never like a guy so much and I'm confused
Q. So i met this guy a little while ago. Our age gap is quite large but I think thats why its working out so well so far. I'm 21 and he's 33. Normally I have trouble with relationships and I get annoyed with the guy really quick (1 or 2 weeks) and it ...
A. 7 May 2012: Your situation (now and before) is a perfect case of the importance of 'everything in moderation'. Your new guy is giving you the amount of time you feel happy with but not too much time.
I'm a believer in the power of desire. Consider it heal... (read in full...)
How to make a girl leave her boyfriend for me?
Q. I met this girl and we talked for the day. We exchanged numbers and we have started to text each other frequently, she also enjoys my company and when i call her, but she has a boyfriend. I am trying my best to think of the best way to go through ...
A. 1 May 2012: Asking her to leave her bf? That sounds pretty lame and desperate to me really. I wouldn't do that.... (read in full...)
How do I go about finding a girlfriend?
Q. How do you get a girlfriend? At 36 I feel I really missed out and I dont see anyone coming in the foreseeable future as I still live with my parents and rarely go out. I cannot afford my own place and everyone I know has a girlfriend before sharing ...
A. 30 April 2012: "You really want a situation where she wants *your* phone number, not the other way around."
Correction to my own ramblings: you want a situation where she wants to give her telephone number to you or that she asks for yours.... (read in full...)
He's a teen and I am 22. Will the age difference not matter so much when we are in our 20s?
Q. I have been friends with this guy for over a year as we go to uni together. I am 22 and he is 18 turning 19 at the end of the year. We have kissed on a few occasions but nothing more and recently we have been getting closer and I have deve...
A. 29 April 2012: When I was 22 I had a date with a barely 16 year old girl.
I was way too old for her, right? Wrong. This girl was surprisingly mature and a critical thinker, while I was a bit slow in growing up, like most men :-).
We would have been a good mat... (read in full...)
I'm engaged. But should I act on my powerful crush I have with my co-worker?
Q. I have been working with this married woman for about two years. I'm engaged. There was an instant attraction. She is this sexy hipster with a really cute face and a hot body. We started texting and the texts became heated. We decided to pull bac...
A. 29 April 2012: How long have you been engaged? If the reasons for getting engaged are still valid and you love your fiance, then you should forget about your crush or you will loose you fiance.
You would probably loose your crush too sooner or later because crus... (read in full...)
I want to do things differently and ask her out with a letter. Any ideas on what to say please?
Q. Can someone please give me a sample of a letter to send the girl I wish to ask to be my girlfriend? I do believe she is ready for the next step, as I know I am. She's 17, I'm 19. We've been talking for almost a year, and we both know we like each ...
A. 28 April 2012: When you ask a girl to be your gf then, assuming she says yes, you guys really want to hug and kiss right after that you see, so a letter would be a bit awkward and unpersonal (yeah sounds contradictory). You seem to be romantic which is very ni... (read in full...)
Have I upset him or is he just bored of me?
Q. I have a male friend who I met while we worked together. After our job was done we would chat constantly and I know he is always online and we flirt with each other. We have been talking this way since January and he usually gets on his phone to ...
A. 27 April 2012: There are many possible reasons why he hasn't contacted you. He could be sick for instance.
Since you guys have phoned before why don't you actually phone him and talk to him instead of testing if he responds.
I'd wait for another couple of days ... (read in full...)
Girl I like seems to like me but she has a boyfriend, am I reading too much into this? Is this only a friendship?
Q. A little background of my situation. I have been working in China for over eight months now and during this period I've not strongly pursued any girls. Most of my friends here are girls and they are simply that believe it or not. There is one g...
A. 27 April 2012: Since you want to stay long term the suggestion below would be a very good one. Ask her if she wants to help you learn Chinese.... (read in full...)
I don't understand her, is she in or not?
Q. There's this girl in college, I used to see her, but she never noticed me until like a year ago, when our eyes met for the first time. After that I only saw her like 7-8 times (and she noticed me everytime) around 6 months ago when I started seeing ...
A. 27 April 2012: I'd like to add another possibility. If someone gets caught in staring at you and then looks away, then he/she is very likely interested in you. I have my doubts she could have staged that.
She might be insecure and possibly in conflict beca... (read in full...)
Is there a reason why I can't reach orgasm when g/f manually stimulates me?
Q. I have an issue that keeps me from having sex currently with my girlfriend. She is very understanding and it is not that big of a deal (I need a minor surgery before I can, and we are content at fooling around until that happens) I have been ab...
A. 23 April 2012: You might want to try the following: first have her sit (or stand if you're standing) behind you. Next you show her how you do it yourself. Have her watch your pace and how you move your foreskin over the head assuming you like indirect ... (read in full...)
I don't want to spend every moment telling b/f that I love him
Q. I just started seeing this guy I met on the internet a few weeks ago. He is 20 and I am 21. I have always dated guys who are older than me because I have always just been attracted to someone who is more mature. But I decided to give this a try ...
A. 22 April 2012: So you guys only Skyped for a week and already told you love each other? Love is something which doesn't come that quickly really.
I'd say you guys have a big crush on each other, which is okay and nice, but it's not love. That takes times to deve... (read in full...)
Did he blow me off? Was I too needy? How do I get to know him better?
Q. Well, here's the story: A week ago or so, I had a small get together at my house. I asked two friends of mine that are sisters to invite a few people that we know to come. Long story short, it started off as just us three girls because several ...
A. 20 April 2012: Let's not jump to conclusions. He possibly had nothing else to say at that moment. Does that mean he's not interested? Not necessarily. It can go either way. Why don't you text him again?
Note that a shy person doesn't necessarily has to be unabl... (read in full...)
We have been dating for over a year but still no sex!
Q. So I'm 24 and have been dating a man that is older than me, he is 40. He is the best guy any girl can have we have a really great connection. We have been dating for a little over a year now but we havent made it "official" we don't believe in ...
A. 20 April 2012: You should confront him with the direct question why he hasn't made any moves yet. It's not normal he hasn't done that yet. The possible reasons are stated below by others.... (read in full...)
Heart Vs. Brain?
Q. Please tell me what should I do. I don’t really know what decision i should take since my heart and brain are battling. I have been dating with this guy for 2years. Then situations got really hard that we constantly fight. I always beg for his ...
A. 20 April 2012: So the main issue is he just hasn't enough time for you?
I guess he will have to *make* more time for you if a restart has any chance.
Do you know how much time you want from him? Discuss this with him. Maybe you guys can compromise but the diff... (read in full...)
How can you feel more relaxed on a first date?
Q. I get really nervous on a first date and there fore lose my appetite. I feel so nervous that I don't eat a lot. Problem is that guys jump to conclusions about this. To complicate things I had a wisdom tooth cut out of my mouth recently. So it hurts ...
A. 20 April 2012: It's perfectly normal to be nervous on a date.
Why don't you be up front and just tell him you're a bit nervous and don't have much appetite? Good chance he might actually find it cute and it may break the ice a bit.
I would appreciate such hon... (read in full...)
Is he becoming more than a friend?
Q. I have had a crush on a PT at the gym for a while now, i know that he is single because he told me. every time he sees me he smiles we talk and he always kisses me on the cheek, could this be a sign that he may like me, i get really nervous ...
A. 20 April 2012: Well, if you're the only one he kisses on the cheek then you're probably special to him. That's a good sign.
I guess it depends on the culture but even if you guys are reasonably close friends I don't consider it 'normal' that he kisses you on the ... (read in full...)
Is this love, lust, or do I just like him a lot?
Q. How can you tell if what you feel is actual love, lust or just strong like? I met this guy in December and we have become friends, i met him when he had a gig in my town. we talk by email every couple days; and i go too his gigs once a month when ...
A. 19 April 2012: Well, I don't really agree with janniepeg.
You have been seeing him for months and only recently have your feelings become really strong. You seem to be seriously in love with him. Your symptoms indicate that. I don't think that's just lust.
You a... (read in full...)
Is he genuinely interested in me? What's your view on his actions?
Q. Sorry in advance if this turns quite long ... I don't like skipping details. The other night at the bar I met this guy, lets call him S. I had no idea who he was at first, but one of my friends who was with me did; so I had no problem with it ...
A. 19 April 2012: A bar is really not a place to meet someone who is genuinely interested in you. You do realize that?
You might want to ask your friend (who knows him) about him but else I would forget about him.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to finger me!
Q. Hi im 16 and my boyfriend really wants to finger me.oh im also a virgin and im not sure what to exoect?like do you bleed when he fingers you?What does he do after hes done?does he just go wash his fingers?or what?...
A. 9 April 2012: Old thread but I really had to respond to this, even it's just for the record...
I couldn't disagree more that fingering has to lead to sex. That's just nonsense.
They guy will surely get aroused and there's an easy solution for that: jack him off ... (read in full...)
How do I go about finding a girlfriend?
Q. How do you get a girlfriend? At 36 I feel I really missed out and I dont see anyone coming in the foreseeable future as I still live with my parents and rarely go out. I cannot afford my own place and everyone I know has a girlfriend before sharing ...
A. 3 April 2012: You say you haven't had an appropriate opportunity to give your phone number and you have plenty to say.
You really want a situation where she wants *your* phone number, not the other way around.
You should listen carefully to a woman and show gen... (read in full...)
How do I go about finding a girlfriend?
Q. How do you get a girlfriend? At 36 I feel I really missed out and I dont see anyone coming in the foreseeable future as I still live with my parents and rarely go out. I cannot afford my own place and everyone I know has a girlfriend before sharing ...
A. 3 April 2012: You say you haven't had an appropriate opportunity to give your phone number and you have plenty to say. You really want a situation where she wants *your* phone number, not the other way around. You should listen carefully to a woman and show g... (read in full...)
How do I control my sexual urges? I've gone from a highly sexual relationship to one where there's no sex yet
Q. I was in a long term relationship where I was having sex about 5 times a week, now I'm no longer in that relationship I'm finding that I'm having problems adjusting to having no sex life, I'm with another guy now but he's a virgin and we haven't ...
A. 2 April 2012: Ask him to finger you or go down on you. That's a good start, educational for him and of course a lot of fun.
He might be able to have you climax.
Also tell him that you want him. Do you really think a young horny guy won't be ready to have som... (read in full...)
He hit me so I broke up with him, problem is I love him so much I cant move on! Help!
Q. Hello.. I been dating with my bf for 6 years. He is 8 years older than me.Make long story short I broke up with him 2 days ago. The reason is we had agurment and he end it up hit me. I was so scared when he hit me. I was angry. I decited to leave ...
A. 2 April 2012: There is never EVER an excuse for a man (or woman) to hit his gf/bf! Period. You did the only right by dumping him.
You really want to stop talking to him at all. It doesn't help you that you're still talking to him to get over him.... (read in full...)
I really do love her but I don't want to waste more time on a relationship with a girl with no goals or plans in life
Q. Hi ive beem dateing my girlfriend for a little over a year now. I love her with all my heart but i dont know if i see us going anywhere in the future. The problem is that shes not trying to get a job or anything and it seems like she has no ...
A. 2 April 2012: you might want to tell us how old your gf is... (read in full...)
Does it sound like he wanted to kiss me?
Q. I am the second shyest and awkwardest person on the planet. The most shy and awkward person is the guy I'm into. We are both 19 and college students, and we've become pretty good friends over the last few months. I've been into him for a while; ...
A. 25 March 2012: You may want to sit down with him, hold his hand, maybe stroke his hair a bit if you dare and tell him that you really like him more than just a friend.
Ask him if your feelings are mutual if he doesn't respond.
Good chance he will confess he reall... (read in full...)
I know I'm too young for a boyfriend, but I still feel really lonely!
Q. Since I don't have a boyfriend and you guys made me realize that I should wait for one because I'm too young. Agreed. But lately I've been feeling so so lonely. I go to a high school where you cannot really approach people. You actually can't ap...
A. 23 March 2012: Redbaglover9, I assume you sit next to people in class?
I'd try to talk to your direct neighbors in class. I wouldn't start out with personal questions or remarks but just something about the class your following together for instance.
You'll no... (read in full...)
I know I'm too young for a boyfriend, but I still feel really lonely!
Q. Since I don't have a boyfriend and you guys made me realize that I should wait for one because I'm too young. Agreed. But lately I've been feeling so so lonely. I go to a high school where you cannot really approach people. You actually can't ap...
A. 20 March 2012: I assume you mean that you're too young to worry about not having a bf. Agreed.
What do you mean by that you can't approach people?... (read in full...)
Is there any way to delubricate? I get wet easily.
Q. my bf and i. had a fool around kiss and touching. im scared that he finds out i get wet easily. if he kiss me i get wet easily. how will is stop getting orgasm and wet easily?? please i need some help!! and a dicharge after i get orgasm...
A. 20 March 2012: Well, why don't you just tell him? He will find out anyway.
There's a good chance it might actually turn him on.
Don't be afraid to communicate. I see no reason why your little issue is a problem for him.... (read in full...)
How far do most 17-year-olds go with each other after 5 months of being in a relationship?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend and I are 17 and have been going out now for about 5 months and this is our first relationship. He says he just wants it to be comfortable for me and he will be happy which is very sweet but i'm just curious. How far do most 17 ...
A. 19 March 2012: Big chance he's ready for more but waits until you are. This is a good thing. This tells you he really cares about you.
You ask yourself the question if you feel ready for it.
Whatever the answer is, tell him anyway. Communication is important.... (read in full...)
Should I sit next to him next time?
Q. Hi everyone I hope all of the agony aunts have been doing well :) So last week, I came across my crush after lunch. He was sitting down all by himself as usual. I wanted to sit next to him and try talking to him a little but I got nervous(natu...
A. 18 March 2012: If he's sometimes staring at you that's a good sign really. He's very likely attracted to you.
You take your chance girl. Sitting next to him and starting a conversation really isn't a big deal.
Remember my motto: it's better to regret somet... (read in full...)
Is this age difference wrong?
Q. I'm a 23 year old guy in love with a 32 year old woman who loves me back, is that considered wrong or bad? ...
A. 20 September 2010: Age difference itself is not an issue. It's the possible consequences that might matter.
The key is the ability to understand each other. If you two are open-minded and understand the possible differences and can talk about it/deal with it, then... (read in full...)
Lacking self confidence and belief due to ginger hair
Q. OK, I have just turned 19, I am male, around 6"1 and finishing my first year at uni. Almost every day, since I was about 13, I am self concious about my appearance due to my ginger hair. Usually when I'm with my friends I just forget about it ...
A. 17 September 2010: As a redhead guy I actually envy current teenagers that you can now find answers about this on the internet. When I was 13 some 20+ years ago there was no internet. I had the same issue and it was a big factor in my lack of confidence. I also ha... (read in full...)
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