We have been on and off for a year, ...should I go back to him again?
Q. im thinking about going back with my ex bf, but he seems different then before...he's jealous. i have a best guy friend, and when ever i say hi to him my ex gets quiet and he asks if do i like my friend, or just makes the face. we have ben on and o...
A. 3 February 2010: yes jealousy is a sign of love and if he was teary eyed then i think he must love you so i think you should go to him again i dont know why he is getting in fights he could be because he is angry with himself and hurt at losing you ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to have an orgasm.
Q. How can i cum or orgasm when i masterbate without sticking my finger / anything else in my vagina ?...
A. 3 February 2010: well you can pleasure yourself by playing with your nipples or pussy and playing around your hole even in the hole but the best way is to get a man involved who can do things with you and you do things to him and also sex too ... (read in full...)
I want to marry her but don't have the nerves to ask!
Q. I love my girlfriend more than anything else and I want spend the rest of my life with her, but I'm don't have the guts to ask her to marry me even though I'm fairly sure she would say yes. She makes me smile when no one else can she is always t...
A. 3 February 2010: hi you are probably worried that she will say no but you should ask her otherwise you will never now she may need time which means she is not ready thats all good luck ... (read in full...)
Does he deserve another chance after everything I've put up with from him???
Q. Hello again! Well I took everyone's advice. I got closure on my ex-boyfriend, and have put my whole heart into working it out with my baby's dad. I thought things were going well, we weren't fighting, we went shopping for baby stuff, and talked ...
A. 2 February 2010: no i dont think he deserves a second chance if he really loved you he would not be sleeping with somewhone else and why does he not want you to meet his son if he is serious about you and he calls you names there is no respect from him at all you ... (read in full...)
My parents would not approce of the age difference, ..and her parents wont let boys over until she is 18.
Q. I have a slight problem, i started talking to a girl through friends and she is one of the few girls that i have enough common interest with that i can really have a good conversation with and have fun with. Everything seemed awesome till i asked ...
A. 2 February 2010: hi i can understand you not wanting to have sex straight away you need to get to know her more first her mum should trust her and realise that not all girls are stupid that is not a huge age gap a small gap yes i think your parents need to realise ... (read in full...)
Should I reject her again or try to hang out at least once?
Q. A month and a half ago, I ran into my best friend from grade school. We had also been friends in high school. She is the only person I spent significant time with for most of my grade school years, and that bond kind of spread to high school (we ...
A. 2 February 2010: hi i think you should explain to her that you are not in a good place to be seeing her now but in the future you will call her if she is a good person she will respect you for being honest and telling her that you dont want to use her shows that you ... (read in full...)
Friend to a boyfriend. Am I being used?
Q. I am currently dating a guy who i have known since high school and that i was friends with for a while. Hes older than me hes 24 im 19 and i know even though i am young that i am a very mature for my age. he asked me for my number while i was at w...
A. 2 February 2010: well if he wants sex everyday and you dont then you should tell him you dont want it everyday though why you would not i dont know cause i would but i dont think he is using you at all ... (read in full...)
Should I go for it and risk his feelings or should I just stay back?
Q. I have liked this guy since I first moved to my new School and we are both in the same year and even both take geography. I really want to try and ask him out but I'm not sure if he is gay. Now I maybe being a bit stereotypical but he seems ver...
A. 2 February 2010: hi you should ask him out as he may not be gay he would get upset if he is getting asked and he is not dont judge a book by its cover and if he is gay then you may have a good friend ... (read in full...)
My friend is being too obsessive
Q. Hello everyone, I have a problem, at school there's this girl who I was nice to and we became friends, but now she's too obssesive, she waits for me after every class, intimidates my other friend, make me feel really down when she always complaine...
A. 2 February 2010: hi you need to talk to her and explain how it makes you feel she will then relise that it upsets you and i am sure thats not her intention she may not even realse what she is doing just explain that you want to stay friends with her but you need ... (read in full...)
Where can I meet girls?
Q. I'm a 17 Year Old boy..who Looks very Handsome..and I haven't had a GF in 6 1/2 Years..I Usually come off as Too cocky and girls get offended..well My question Is where can I Meet Girls My age Besides the obvious Malls..movies..And Party's...and ...
A. 2 February 2010: hi well you can meet people any place any time usual when your not expecting it if your at work then that is a place a lot of people meet or college university or the park just be patient you will meet the right girl when the time is right for ... (read in full...)
Confused and reluctant to let go in California
Q. I am a 31 year old single mother and I was dating my first love after him finding me after 13 years for 2 1/2 years. I recently listened to my woman's intution and looked through is cell phone. Of course I found evidence he was texting and speaking ...
A. 2 February 2010: i think you should forget him he feels sad now he has lost you and wants you back but your better of finding a guy you can trust and for the sake of your children being happy too ... (read in full...)
I've been dating two guys, I feel as though I will have to pick one to get serious with
Q. You know those moments when a problem you've been thinking about suddenly becomes clear to you? Well I've just had one of those. There are these 2 guys I've been seeing and they are both coincidentally overseas at the moment and due back at the same ...
A. 2 February 2010: hi i first think you should see what both guys say as you could be wrong but i think the first guy is the best guy if you have to choose you should choose as its not fair to string them both along like this ... (read in full...)
Am I just not being assertive enough? G/f walks all over me!
Q. Hi, Im not a very assertive guy, and i feel that i have let my gf walk over me a bit too much recently, i have let most of my past flames controll me and walk all over me, i do not like to upset people and often go out of my way just to make peo...
A. 2 February 2010: hi i think she is not showing you any respect at all and you should find somewhone better why is she seeing her ex if she is not interested in him ... (read in full...)
Can friendship turn to a romantic relationship?
Q. Is it possible to be with someone romantically that i have been just friends with for years and have it actually work out?...
A. 2 February 2010: yes it is very possible i think the longer you have known the person the more likley it is that the relationship will work out talk to the person and find out if they feel the same as you do good luck ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose her, ... but she wants time apart.
Q. My girl of two mounth's told firs we need som time apart to miss eac other a day later i got i need space. we were moving a little fast i know. more n to the story i stayed a monday with her tuesday i asked her to stay with me she said sh would end ...
A. 1 February 2010: sounds like she does not know what she wants just ask do you want to be with me or not ... (read in full...)
Is a throbbing sensation down below normal when seeing a hot guy?
Q. when I see a good looking guy I get a funny feeling in my bits, like a throbbing sensation and I notice it also gets very wet down below which I hear is normal but is the throbbing sensation normal? I can't control it at all and it happens several ...
A. 1 February 2010: why is it up to your parents when you date people that should be up to you not them yes its normal enjoy it ... (read in full...)
Ideas for a valentine's gift???
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 month and with valentines day quickly approaching I haven't got a clue what to get him . please help...
A. 1 February 2010: hi you could get him a nice card ... (read in full...)
Is marriage REALLY that important?
Q. My fiancee and I have been together for over 16 years now (since we were 11 and 12) and engaged for eleven years. We have two children (2 and 4 with another on the way). Up until quite recently, I had no intention of ever setting a wedding date. ...
A. 1 February 2010: hi i think if you do not want to get married you need to tell her if you are happy as you are then no i do not think marriage is important and a sheet of paper does not mean you love her more than if you dont get married to me having kids is more ... (read in full...)
My mum is never going to approve of him.
Q. So I Went Out With my boyfriend for 6 months and my moms friends heard that he was a gangster.. but hes not. so she told me to break up with him. but instead I just told her I did. but I didnt so i went behind her back.. she found out and everything ...
A. 1 February 2010: dont worry about your mum your old enough to pick your own guy your mum should have asked you if he was a gangster dont let her rule your life for you its your live and your choices ... (read in full...)
Please help me to try and not feel so insecure about Mr.Busy
Q. I met this really nice guy at work, he was a customer, and I new his order and would always have it ready when he came in. He is really attractive, nice smile, he is also funny and charming. Now he never came back to where I work for about three ...
A. 1 February 2010: hi you are a bit obssesive and this will drive him away its probably your insecurity but wait for him to contact you he will if he is really interested if not then he is not worth you worrying and you find a decent guy stop contacting him and see ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my girlfriend buying prescription drugs on the street?
Q. So my gf works at a strip club (topless) i trust her and know that she loves me but i get that little feeling here and there which,because of what she does for a living,i think is normal... but she said that i don't love her and that i'm going to ...
A. 1 February 2010: hi you need to tell her that you care about her and that the drugs bought on the streets could get her addicted and also she has no idea what is in them if she hates her job why does she do it she needs reasurrance that you love her ... (read in full...)
How can I get to know him and become his friend?
Q. hi guys im 15 and well im really shy around anybody... i grew up with only one friend because i went to this private school that only had 19 students from kindergarten to grade 12 and this year i just moved into a new town and my new school has 900 ...
A. 1 February 2010: hi just ask him about himself to get to know more about him and see if he asks anything about you if he does then he likes you see what you have in common, then tell him how you feel about him and see what he says in response as if he is interested ... (read in full...)
Why is he so distant and cold towards me?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months, but in the past while he's become very distant with me and I don't know why. He used to give me a lot of affection, now I'm lucky if I even get one hug a day (we haven't had sex yet. This doesn't bother m...
A. 1 February 2010: hi difficult one but i think he is suffering from depression just support him and remember its not his fault maybe he needs time before he can face the problem if not then i guess you have to leave him as you have to think of yourself as well and ... (read in full...)
My love for her is tearing me apart! What do I do?!
Q. What do I do? I split up with my fiance in July after she told me she was seeing another guy. The reason she started seeing this other guy is because I'd become really down as I'd just been told my Dad was terminally ill with cancer. (Just for the ...
A. 1 February 2010: hi just need to give her reassurance that its forgiven and you still love her and want to be with her and you both should focus on the future not the past future is whats important she obviously made a mistake as she still loves you ... (read in full...)
His secret admirer...
Q. hi guys, ok ive been in love with this guy in my year at school since last year but i was hoping that this year to give him a valentines card but the thing is im not ready to tell him i like him yet so i was just gunna put from ur secret admirer, ...
A. 1 February 2010: hi if any of your friends are friends with a friend of his you could ask which one is his or if you are friends with his friends ask them you could slip it into his rucksack if you walk behind him or if you are in same lesson as him hide it in his ... (read in full...)
Baby blues at 16!!!
Q. I'm 16 and I really really want a baby, have done for like 2 years. My boyfriend's almost 19, we're engaged and hoping to move in together when I've finished my A levels. I don't have a job at the moment but I'd like to get one part time. He's got 2 ...
A. 1 February 2010: hi i think if its possible you could get a part time job now and start saving up to move in together and talk to him about the baby see if he is keen too he may not be ready yet if its what you both want then get the a levels finished and start a ... (read in full...)
Have any of you ever come across a guy so painfully shy that wont do anything even though he likes you?
Q. Have any of you ever come across a guy so painfully shy that wont do anything even though he likes you? or have any of you known this to happen to anyone you know? How did you resolve the issue and build his confidence up? What can you do when you ...
A. 1 February 2010: hi maybe what you need to do is show him you feel with a gift or maybe physically like kiss him see how he reacts if he likes you he will respond and tell you how he feels maybe he needs time to build up the courage and you just should be patient ... (read in full...)
Why can filing for divorce be so hard?
Q. Why is it so hard to file for divorce when you know you don't love that person, but still care for them? Yet you both need to move on in life. It's such an ugly thing, the paperwork, serving the summons. It sickens me to even think about, yet living ...
A. 1 February 2010: hi i think you should do a seperation first this will give you time to get used to being apart in time you will be ready for a divorce ... (read in full...)
I let her have the brunt of my feelings and I shouldn't have done it. How can I make amends?
Q. I had a really bad night last night because of some family problems and our car broke down out in the cold afterward. When i finally got home it was too late to study when for the test for collage i have coming up and i basically went to bed with a ...
A. 1 February 2010: hi just explain that you were under a lot of stress you did not mean what you said and apologize again say you feel bad about it and you dont want to lose contact with the person ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so down on myself all the time?
Q. hia, i know its probably just my age and so on (im 15) but i feel like im nothing - like i'll never find a boyfriend. its lke i go out places and lads looka t me and smile, but it never goes further than that. i dont see how i am ever going to fi...
A. 1 February 2010: the right guy will come along perhaps wait for a guy to chat to you first instead of approaching them first that way you know if they are interested and it makes you look like you are not interested in them makes them curious and more interested ... (read in full...)
Guys, what makes you think a girl is easy?
Q. all guys that comes my way. thinks am cute and sexy. and they all just seem to want sex.. i dont dress sl.utty..or give it up easy.. but i do however, flirt with guys alot..(thats cos they always start flirting with me first) and when they r...
A. 31 January 2010: hi i think you just have not met the right guy yet not all guys just want sex ... (read in full...)
He's much older than me..will this be a problem?
Q. I am carrying this kind of problem everyday. I am confused and i don't know what is best and right to do. I currently having a relationship with a guy who is older than me and separated from him wife. I am 23 years old and he is 50 years of age....
A. 31 January 2010: hi i think you should stay with him age difference is not a reason to not be with somewhone i would not tell your family untill he asks you to move in with him untill it get serious i mean you dont know if your family will reject him or not untill ... (read in full...)
Is my guilt ruining our relationship?
Q. Hello all, Im a 27 yr old female. I have been feeling very insecure. I have been in a relationship with my bf for 4yrs. I cheated on him he has pretty much forgiven me. For some reason I have been overly clingy. I keep thinking he is cheating! I ...
A. 31 January 2010: i think you are feeling guilty for what you did and now you are worried he will cheat on you but you need to stop being clingy that will drive him away and trust him and most of all forgive yourself for the mistake you made ... (read in full...)
Does he want more than friends with benefits?
Q. Ok this is a bit of a story but i'll try and keep it brief as poss! Basically, over the weekend I had my 18th birthday party, and obviously there was quite a bit of drinking involved. One of the people there was this guy G, who I have had a friend...
A. 31 January 2010: no i dont think it would be weird if you took things furthur him being affectionate towards you at school shows he likes you and it was not just because he was drinking that he was interested in you talk to him if you want a relationship ask how he ... (read in full...)
"Fake" friend hitting on girlfriend - what should I do so she doesn't speak to him?
Q. im an 18 year old male. i have a girlfriend and my friend is so messed up and says stuff to her behind my back. he asks her to send him sexual pictures. he asks her for kisses to cheer him up. and to bite her ass and stuff. the thing is i promised ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi she should understand your feelings and you should be most important person you cant force her too stop speaking to him but i dont think she is the girl for you if she cant understand your point of view and does not see anything wrong with what ... (read in full...)
Once I was accused of rape and it proved to be a lie! I am afraid it can happen again.
Q. I just need some reassurance because i am worrying really. When i was 11 in school, we went on a week long residential trip to wales, half way through the week, a person i thought was a friend, she was also 11 accused me of raping her. it got found ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi your not being stupid its understandable that you will feel worried but not everyone would do that she was probably after the attention dont worry about it ... (read in full...)
How can a friend be so close and never want to talk to you?
Q. My friend only talks to me when he doesn't kno its me? I just started AIM and added him. He kept asking who it was and I didnt want to tll him knowing if I did he would never chat with me. I wanted so much to talk to him but he never understands me. ...
A. 31 January 2010: you should talk to him as he cant understand if you dont give him the chance too ... (read in full...)
Should we wait longer to have sex?
Q. hey im 15 and im thinking about having sex with my girlfreind but my penis is 5.5" erect with the girth of 4" is it too small and should i wait longer + will a condom fit ?...
A. 31 January 2010: i dont think your penis is to small condoms come in different sizes so yes one will fit and enjoy it ... (read in full...)
How can I achieve orgasm, while he's on top?
Q. Ok here's one for you, How can i achive a orgasm when he's on top? I can only have one when i'm on top of him! he doesn't know, and i'm afraid to tell him, because i've been faking for awhile. But iv'e really never been able to orgasm any other way, ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi maybe get him to pleasure with his hands or mouth when he is having sex with you like with your breasts kissing you too ... (read in full...)
Lack of experience...any tips to share?
Q. Im a 20 year old guy who has never had sex/date/or gf. i consider myself pretty decent-looking and have confidence. i talked to a couple of girls from high school that were just friends but the biggest problem i have is my lack of experience in ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi if you meet a nice girl then she will not mind that you no experience infact she will be pleased that you have not had loads of girls and she will teach you everything you need to know and take the lead with sex you just got to find the right ... (read in full...)
Is she afraid, I'll move away when I'm done college? advice?
Q. I am totally lost with this at the moment. I'm 22 and talking to a girl that is 18. She is a senior in high school and I am in college. We have been on quite a few dates and things are going really well between us. She just got out of a bad ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi i would say that the beginning she wanted to take things slow but she likes you so things have changed a bit if you want things slower then you should tell her that but she is not jumping on you and wanting sex so she is not wanting things to ... (read in full...)
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