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26-29,
*olli'
writes:Hello everyone,I have a problem, at school there's this girl who I was nice to and we became friends, but now she's too obssesive, she waits for me after every class, intimidates my other friend, make me feel really down when she always complaines that life is 'poo.' I can't stand her, I really need help, how do I get her to get lost and leave me alone.Please Help.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, NM1218  +, writes (2 February 2010):
Give her time,discuss with her honestly that you need your space,but do not be mean to her.She is a good person,may even not realize she is annoying you.But do not brush her aside and be mean to her,you may need her one day and plus it is just wrong.
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (2 February 2010):
hi you need to talk to her and explain how it makes you feel she will then relise that it upsets you and i am sure thats not her intention she may not even realse what she is doing just explain that you want to stay friends with her but you need your own space
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (2 February 2010):
 Dont ignore her. give her some time and talk with her about this. If she is truly your friend she will understand ... and a good friend will bring it up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): It sounds like she needs someone to talk to and be friends with- don't get rid of her so quickly because you might need her one day. Try to introduce her to other friends so she can make other ones besides you, or encourage her to join art club or whichever area she wishes to pursue. If all else fails and you feel miserable, gently suggest she talk with the school social worker or counselor.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 February 2010):
You have to understand why she's like she is. She's latched onto you because she's so desperately insecure and just wants a friend. So before you push her away, just try talking to her and asking her why she feels that way. She's just terribly insecure.
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