Is she afraid, I'll move away when I'm done college? advice?
Q. I am totally lost with this at the moment. I'm 22 and talking to a girl that is 18. She is a senior in high school and I am in college. We have been on quite a few dates and things are going really well between us. She just got out of a bad ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi i would say that the beginning she wanted to take things slow but she likes you so things have changed a bit if you want things slower then you should tell her that but she is not jumping on you and wanting sex so she is not wanting things to ... (read in full...)
Is not seeing each other while he's away...ruin what we have?
Q. I'm 15 and have been talking to a 18 year old boy for about 3 years now. He went to my school. There is nothing wrong, we text almost every day and speak on msn when we can. I sometimes worry about texting first incase i seem desperate or silly but ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi i dont think he living away from you should stop you having a relationship i would keep in contact with him and when you leave school get a job and move to where he lives so that you can spend time together you may even be ready to move in ... (read in full...)
Would I be wise to take another chance with him?
Q. hello, i split with my boyfriend of three years, almost three months ago. The desicion was his, i tried all ways for us to stay together but at the time he was having none of it. we stopped seeing each other all together, as he lives a 1hr and ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi i dont think you would be wise to take another chance as he will cheat again and you cant trust him, he probably never intended to sleep with you but you both got tipsy and it happened... (read in full...)
I am always nice to girls, but they don't seem attracted to me.
Q. No girls seem that attracted to me, i am always nice to them, being a gentleman what else can i do, ...
A. 31 January 2010: just be patient you have not found the right girl yet... (read in full...)
Pregnant at seventeen and need advice on how to get my boyfriend to treat me better!
Q. hi my name is chantelle and i'm 17 years old and pregnant. i need help and advice because i cant go through this alone, and my boyfriend is making things worse. my question is, what kind of talk can i have with my boyfriend to make him smarten up ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi perhaps he is not ready to be a dad if he is immature he should be supporting you he wont change maybe when he is older but you cant wait forever forget him and enjoy being a mum congratulations on the baby ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is depressed and I'm afraid he'll dump me again
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year, and he broke up with me for about a month, 6 months ago, claiming he didn't love me any more. He then wanted me back, claiming he's severely depressed, which I've seen evidence of, and which he's ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi i think you go your thoughts down great depression can make you tired emotionally and physical as you dont sleep very well i had depression myself i dont know why he wanted you there only three time a week it would not be his housemate though ... (read in full...)
Trouble with the contraceptive implant! help!
Q. i have the contraceptive implant. i must of had it in for atleast 2 1/2 months now and ive been bleeding constantly, however its not normal menstrual blood its different. me and my boyfriend do not use condoms btw. i dont know whether im pregnant. i ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi i dont think you are pregnant but you should visit your hospital quickly you cant go on bleeding you will probably need it taken out and a new one fitted ... (read in full...)
Bf's ex started calling, should I be worried?
Q. Hello everyone, I am in need of some advice on if I should say something to my bf or not. Ok so we have been having problems lately. Mostly trust issues that I have, for good reason. Anyhow it was just this past month or so that things go...
A. 31 January 2010: hi i think you have nothing too worry about if he wanted her if he would have lied that it was her he was talking to on the phone he said it does not matter so he is not interested just trust him otherwise he will go elsewhere if he is getting ... (read in full...)
Is he abusive/dangerous?
Q. I have a (long) question about my ex. My best friend says he emotionally and almost physically abused me and needs help or he may go on to physically as well as emotionally abuse other girls. But my friend is really overprotective of me and has had ...
A. 31 January 2010: i think he liked pushing our buttons to get you mad but i dont think he is abusive or anything like that he put his hand places cause he fancied you thats all thats not physical abuse if he forced you in any way then that is different is he just ... (read in full...)
When do I start my next birth control pack?
Q. ok, so my period started two days early. it's monday and it was supposed to start wednesday and end on sunday according to both my birth control and my last periods. i chose the method of taking my birth control starting sundays, so even though my ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi i would say start the next pack when your peroid ends and stop again three weeks after the day so that would be friday your peroid should then come same day every month and you will start your pill same day every time too ... (read in full...)
Should I start a relationship with him when he lives so far away?
Q. Hi, well i dont really no what to do with my relationship, here is the story: i go to turkey two times a year because my grandad lives there. and i met this turkish boy about 3years ago and everytime i go, i see him. and we are really close. but ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi i think you are very lucky too have met a nice guy like him and some long distance relationships do work you should keep talking to him and tell him how you feel and see what he says you could help him learn more english . hopefully he will want ... (read in full...)
Was I just a rebound? Did he really love me?
Q. Ok so my ex and I were together for almost 2 years. We had our ups and downs but I can truly say he was my first love. Being my first what I considered "real" relationship, the first year I think my expectations were high and when we had the ...
A. 31 January 2010: hi it must be extremly hard for you to see them together i dont think he could love you very much if he went back to her so soon after you split up if he loved you he would have been trying too get you back, it sounds like you had a problem with ... (read in full...)
Opinions appreciated. What are my chances???
Q. hi there , i have known my turkish husband since april 2007 , our relationship blossomed and i have been to turkey several times to see him as he has not got visa as he didnt really want to come to england until about a year ago . i know everybody ...
A. 30 January 2010: i think the family writing refrences is good evidence and that he is a good citizen in turkey and that he is a good man i think the main thing that will go in your favour is that he is married too a english lady who is living in england they will ... (read in full...)
How do you tell if a shy guy is interested?!
Q. How do you tell if a shy guy is interested?! About a week ago a couple of my friends showed me this guy on Facebook, we'll call him Jake, and said that they thought we'd be cute together. Last night, Jake and I ended up at a surprise party f...
A. 30 January 2010: hi i think he is interested i think you should talk more with him at the party and tell him you like him and i think he will tell you he likes you too, just take things slowly give him your number and you will get to know him in time, just be ... (read in full...)
I've lost the urge, and want to get it back again
Q. Me and my boyfriend of three months just started "doing things" like I gave him a hand job and he fingered me we did that alot and all of a sudden I lost all interest in doing that and I want to be in the mood again. Anybody have advice on why and ...
A. 30 January 2010: hi there are lots of ways to get in the mood again wearing sexy clothes, for the fingering ask him too apply some gel around the hole the feeling of his hand there will get you excited ask him too use his toungue on that area too for the hand job ... (read in full...)
I won't be able to see or talk her for two plus weeks and don't know what to do! Please help!
Q. So about a week ago me and my girlfriend skipped a day of school so we could spend the day together alone (I know this isn't a good idea but it's really hard for us to spend extended amounts of time together alone not in a sexual way but just to ...
A. 30 January 2010: hi i dont think you deserve to be stopped from seeing her and her mum should not have read the text she sent you where is the privacy and trust i think you just have to wait until she can get in touch with you again and do not skip anymore school so ... (read in full...)
Any insight into his abusive behavior?
Q. Hi Guys! My long time partner and I have been estranged for about a year but still have feelings for each other and have been friends on/off for the last few months. Last week though he really annoyed me and upset me by sending me a nasty ...
A. 24 January 2010: hi i think he does not know how lucky he is and you are better of without him and without the stress ... (read in full...)
Is it because of what I look like???
Q. i need some help. i havent had a bf for about 3 years and i havent kissed any1 for 5 and i think its because of my weight. See last year i liked this boy and i never knew he liked me but he knew i liked him cuz he told my friend and he nv asked me ...
A. 24 January 2010: no i dont think its cause of your weight you just have not found the right guy yet ... (read in full...)
Friends, then nothing. Why is he being like this!?
Q. I really fancy this guy have done for a year and he knew so it was embarrassing and i couldn't talk to him anymore so we just ignored each other and then someone i know asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said do you not know about me and him ...
A. 24 January 2010: hi he is not interested so i would forget about him one day you will find the one... (read in full...)
Why is he saying such mean things about me to my friend?
Q. Hi, I'm a 16 yr old girl, I just broke-up with my bf about 2 weeks ago and to be honest i don't miss him at all as i wasn't feeling in love with him. Recently a guy I know (who likes my friend a lot) started telling her really bad things about me...
A. 24 January 2010: hi he is a nasty idiot i would have nothing to do with him... (read in full...)
I'm not really sure what to do with my text buddy?
Q. In july i started texin this lad, it was all going well we would speak 24/7 either texin or on the phone and we were at each others house every weekend, it was just like being in a relationship but then in November i decided to tell me he didn't ...
A. 24 January 2010: hi just keep him as a text buddy or you could just be friends and meet up but thats it if he does not want a relationship then thats all u can do good luck ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I don't support him, I can't argue or I'll lose him!
Q. OK, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. I really love him and we have a good sex life. But hes so immature at times. and the problem I face now is nearly losing him. Today he had an argument with my best friend, my best fr...
A. 24 January 2010: hi what a idiot if it was his argument then you dont have to defend him if he is handling it fine himself, its not fair to make you choose to defend your friend or him he does not deserve u he should be apologizing to u not the other way i would ... (read in full...)
I am a freshman and he is a senior. and I think I'm falling for him!
Q. okay, so i am a freshman and he is a senior. and i think im falling for him... he is great and is always by me; hugging me, touching me. but he has a gf... what shuld i do?? i think im falling hard...
A. 24 January 2010: stay away from him you dont want to split them up and he might not feel the same about you and then he wont thank you for it... (read in full...)
I just need some advice on how to get out of this funk...
Q. Hi, I recently have had a bad break up and my ex is now dating a girl and seems to be doing so well (but other sources tell me he is not). I recently found out he is saying all the stuff to her that he said to me and it's really made me feel ...
A. 24 January 2010: hi the guy is not worth feeling sad over one day you will meet a great guy i am out of work myself at the moment and it does get you fed up when u are not in work but you have to use the things you want to do as reasons to get a job gets you ... (read in full...)
How can I be less clingy and trust him more?
Q. hey there my bf and i have been doing great my last problem was when i cheated on him by giving my ex a hicky when i was drinking at a party and i didnt know if i should tell him but i did and he gave me a second chance...so everything has been goi...
A. 24 January 2010: hi because you cheated on him you now think he will do the same but if he loves you he wont, just reassure yourself with the knowledge that he loves you if he did not want to be with you he would not be and if he wanted to hurt you back he would ... (read in full...)
How to make this work?
Q. I've Known my Girlfriend for 2 years before we hooked up as being good friends. The reason we didn't hook up before in the past, is that she was already in a relationship. what makes it interesting is that it was with another Girl. Anyway to make a ...
A. 24 January 2010: hi she wants to be with you good sign she just is not sure whether she likes guys i would go and see her and ask her i think she must like guys otherwise she would not want to be with you maybe she just needed time to get used to being with a guy ... (read in full...)
He is taking his friends advise not to get back with me
Q. He goes with me at school. We hang out together and my friend told me he talked with her and told her that he STILL loves me after i broke up with him twice and the truth is i still love him to. She told him to talk to me but he still has'nt ...
A. 24 January 2010: well if he is listening to his friends advice then he is a idiot because it should not matter what anybody else thinks it could be he is scared you will reject him try talking to him and ask if he still loves you and if he wants to get back together ... (read in full...)
Has his cheating played with my head?
Q. My husband cheated on me 3 times first his cousin,that i found out about after a while,then landords daughter,the third time we had gone out parting me my cousin(not the same cousin from the first incident)and him got so drunk we shared the same ...
A. 24 January 2010: hi he has cheated on you so yes that will play on your mind and i cant believe he actually try to undress a girl in front of you how can you trust him again i would not be able too you deserve a man who is loyal and you can trust ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned with her past intimacy with a certain friend?
Q. Im a young girl who's been in a relationship with another girl for about 6 weeks now. I recently met her "Best Friend" who she hadn't seen in months. I learned that her and her best friend were messing around quite a bit a few months before we...
A. 24 January 2010: i dont think you have anything to worry about the girl clearly likes you ... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt either one of them... help!
Q. okay prepare yourself, it's a long story... well, last summer I got my friend's older sister's boyfriend's messenger address, I got to know him really well and ended up going out with this guy myself, but this guy is 2 years older than me wh...
A. 24 January 2010: hi i think you should just ask the first guy to be your boyfriend again i am pleased you have found a nice guy ... (read in full...)
I was seeing a girl but ended it with anger, now I'm talking to her again, how can I get her back?
Q. I still like the girl that i went out with last summer, but we got in a fight, and NOW its all good, i still like her very much but i don't know how i can approach her about going out again. I need urgent help. I was seeing this girl last summer...
A. 24 January 2010: hi i think you should just be friends with her for now she needs time to get over the last relationship she was in so give her time and then she will speak to you and want to be with you when she is ready she obviously is interested as she has given ... (read in full...)
Best way to shave my bits and pieces?
Q. Hope its ok to ask this on here. Simple question for the guys- what is the best way to shave my c*ck and balls? I use an electric shaver for my face but this is far too scary to use down there! Do I use a razor/shaving gel? I want to lea...
A. 12 January 2010: hi i would use a shaver and cream ... (read in full...)
I want to be one of the boys, but I am relly one of the girls!
Q. ok guys heres the thing, lots of my friends are boys i mean like its sort of a 60%, 40% split between boys and girls and the boys are the majority, but after a while i tend to run out of things to talk about them with i try talking bout football but ...
A. 12 January 2010: you are doing a good job they clearly like you or they would not stick up for you... (read in full...)
How do I break up and return his necklace?
Q. I want to brake up with my boyfriend how do I give him his necklace back??...
A. 12 January 2010: hi i would give it back to him as you walk away after telling him... (read in full...)
His g/f hates me and I don't know why
Q. So... This guy I like has a girlfriend. And well you could just say that she basically hates me. I don't even know why. She doesn't know that I like him, but everytime I see her in school she glares at me and everything like that. Im a year older ...
A. 12 January 2010: maybe she does know you like him you may be giving signals that she has picked up on i would just ignore her and not worry what she thinks of you ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be his "rebound" girl
Q. am i gonna be a rebound...? ok this guy and his gf broke ul like last year. or maybe two years ago cause he cheated on her with his ex. i use to be attracted to him wen we were younger but the feelings faded. then summer 2008 me and him were ...
A. 12 January 2010: hi i would be more worried that he cheated on his ex he will cheat on you too ... (read in full...)
Help!!! How can I find out if my ex still loves me...?
Q. HI everyone, My boyfriend and I broke up on Christmas day( i was super super sad since it happened on my fav day). After that, I tried to call him and showed him he's very important to that I couldn't live without him ....I knew I was stupid when ...
A. 6 January 2010: i would say that he is not worth worrying about if he is calling you stalker and if he is not worried about you finding another guy then he does not have feelings for you anymore... (read in full...)
Advice sought... Why is my period late???
Q. 20 years old, my bf and I have just starting having sex together for the first time recently. We used a condom and he didnt cum inside of me. My period is late, by about 3 days. So I am scared that I could be pregnant. For the past 3 days I ha...
A. 6 January 2010: hi i would see your doctor unless the condom split then you cant be pregnant but their could be a medical reason for not having a period also you dont always have a peroid eevery month so it could just be that ... (read in full...)
Should I text him first on Thursday???
Q. Hey me and my ex boyfriend have been over for about a month. We were realy good friends before we dated so when it was over we both wanted to be friends still. He broke up with me before but we got back together 2 weeks later. Now its over again. ...
A. 6 January 2010: yes i think you should text him he still has feelings for you... (read in full...)
I can never be bothered to make the first move
Q. i've completely lost my sex drive and i dont know why. i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, lived together for 1 year and for the past 4 months i have no sex drive whatsoever. Dont get me wrong, once we start having sex i really enjoy it ...
A. 5 January 2010: hi could be a number of reasons why you have this problem stress etc but if you worry about it that will make it harder maybe have some foreplay before sex which will get you in the mood or watch some videos etc with or without him then maybe act ... (read in full...)
I don't want to misinterpret his niceness, but does he like me?
Q. I need some help! I've been talking to this guy and i'm not sure if he likes me or not. I just want to be careful and not make an idiot out myself and misinterpret his actions. So far he's IMed me and talked to me and asked me about what im ...
A. 5 January 2010: hi i would say that yes he likes you and you should tell him how you feel and if your wrong then you can still be friends ... (read in full...)
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