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30-35,
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writes:So I Went Out With my boyfriend for 6 months and my moms friends heard that he was a gangster.. but hes not. so she told me to break up with him. but instead I just told her I did. but I didnt so i went behind her back.. she found out and everything go wrose.. and she thought I was picking him over my family so i really did break up with him and then I tried getting over him and i coudnt so i tried being friends with benifits with him and its not working because my mom told me that shes never going to approve of him..So what i need help on now..Is I love him alot he makes me happy. but since my mom is never going to approve.. I guess its never going to work..what do I tell my ex?..becuase we have been just friends with benfits.Should i tell him its never going to work and let him go? becuase its hard and we've both tried getting over eachother and i doesnt work.but my moms never going to like him.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (1 February 2010):
 You are at the stage in your life when you have to choose between letting him go or standing up to your mom. Your mom may not like him at first but she will be happy in end as long as your happy. Bring him home one day and prove to her that he is a great guy for you. If he is the one then she will have to get used to him being put first. Everyone has to go out and start their lives so don't be afraid to take that step.
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reader, girl from bristol  +, writes (1 February 2010):
dont worry about your mum your old enough to pick your own guy your mum should have asked you if he was a gangster dont let her rule your life for you its your live and your choices
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