She says she wants something to remember me by?
Q. My Girlfriend is moving to australia , we both dont want her to move , what can i do - if anything , to make her going away a bit easier because , at the moment we have decided on a make the most of it as long as we can but she said she wants ...
A. 9 July 2010: Hey Chin up. There are lots of fish in the sea. Just go fishing :o)... (read in full...)
Embarrassing dilemma about undressing in front of him!
Q. ok im 49 a young 49 and have a 40 yr old boyfriend.........my problem is im too embarrassed to undress in front of him!...........im on the tubby side and after 4 kids got a belly....(which i hate!) i was married to a drunk who yr after yr after yr ...
A. 1 July 2010: Hey Hun,
I read in a book at men are much less critical them women.
So you might see a flabby baby belly, he may be a beautiful soft belly.
It's all lovely to him, so take your time and just lap up the positive reactions you get from h... (read in full...)
She says she wants something to remember me by?
Q. My Girlfriend is moving to australia , we both dont want her to move , what can i do - if anything , to make her going away a bit easier because , at the moment we have decided on a make the most of it as long as we can but she said she wants ...
A. 1 July 2010: How about a necklace with a heart pendant?
Girls like things like this, it's seen as very romantic. You can get one on a limited budget too.
Let us know what you decide
Good Luck x... (read in full...)
We are having sex more frequently in our FWB. Does that mean we are getting more serious?
Q. Hello everyone, im a bit confused really at the moment, ive been sleeping with this guy since early march as in fb sort of thing, sometimes i see him sometimes i dont, but do txt eachother everyday Anyway recently ive kinda been seeing him a bit...
A. 30 June 2010: From how my friends have been with their FWB's it generally is not the sex that shows if the relationship may go to another level but usually if the guy start getting worried you are seeing someone else. Or start introducing you as he's girlfriends ... (read in full...)
My husband spoiled his ex'es, and now I have to help pay the debts! Should I ask his mom for financial help?
Q. My husband and I are in dire financial straits. My husband has a big fault; he is too generous. It will most definitely help him get into heaven but it's not helping much here......right now. He was took to the cleaners by an ex wife and then a ...
A. 30 June 2010: From what he's Mum said she is waiting for her Children to request the money. If she wanted you to have the money she would have offered you it, to help pay off the collectors bill etc.
I can't help feeling that you may not get a good reaction... (read in full...)
Wifey or Home wrecker?
Q. I've been with my girl for 2 and a half years,but for 2 of those years she's been my side chick. To make a long story short, I caught feelings for her, left my girlfriend, and now we're official, but come to find she`s been a side chick before. ...
A. 29 June 2010: Look at the kettle calling the pot black! Your as bad as each other but if she was single when she was your side chick, you were the one not being honest in your relationship. Are things not so exciting now with just one woman, is that why... (read in full...)
She said I smother her!!!
Q. Hey everyone, I'm really really confused right now, and kind of sad. I havent cried in over 2 years but I really feel broken right now. I'm kind of friends with my ex-girlfriend right now. She has a lot going on in her life (eating disorders, e...
A. 29 June 2010: Hi honey,
She is not coping with life and is lashing out on her nearest and dearest.
For now any new problems be it her's or yours are too much for her.
Give her some space, she just needs to see there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Re... (read in full...)
How do I get past him having a child from a previous relationship?
Q. Any got any tip on how to get past my parnter having a child from a previous relationship?...
A. 28 June 2010: Honey
It is not a sin to not want a man without children.
If this upsets you too much then finish and find someone 100% with No kids.
Sometimes it's better for all involved. Think careful about what you really want for the future!
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Is he emotionally abusing me?
Q. Hi, Im 21 and dating a 29 year old guy and i love him dearly but then i have secrifised a lot for him. he said he dont like my cousin and i must cut them out of my life and thats what i did, he told me that i musnt have any friends cuz friends are ...
A. 28 June 2010: Hey Honey
Everything fun he has taken away from you.
Why, because he wants you to feel weak and at he's Mercy.
It's Time to contact your cousins and finish with this waste of space.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
First baby on the way, and I'm feeling self-conscious and my friends have deserted me!
Q. im 18 years old and have my first baby on the way (5 months pregnant)im happy about it as i have a loving boyfriend, family to support me. before i fell pregnant i was a size 10-12, i started to like the way i looked. now i have put a bit of weight ...
A. 28 June 2010: Honey,
For every bit of weight you put on be happy as you are helping your baby to grow. This is not the time to be worrying about your size, you have to put your baby 1st.
The next time someone calls you fat tell them you'd like to see them at ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend's woman
Q. So I feel like the most terrible human being because of this, i've only told one person of this but I need the advice of someone who has delt with it....I'm completely and totally in love with my best friends wife, she's absolutely the perfect ...
A. 28 June 2010: Your friendship with this lady and her husband is worth more then getting your feelings off your chest.
She is married to your friend and vowed to stay with him. You will find your own woman one day.
Good luck x
... (read in full...)
Lost my group of friends when I fell for one of them
Q. I used to have 8 male friends who were very close but all of a sudden I fell for one. I am currently still dating him but have found some interesting news. Recently I have found out that all of my guy friends have had crushes on me from and it makes ...
A. 28 June 2010: This is not a normal situation, but now your here you have to dig yourself out.
These guys may be the people you have hung out with recently but you now have to find new friends.
Maybe family members close to your age like cousins, sister ... (read in full...)
My friend has gone into overkill in expressing her feelings and its really starting to affect our friendship!
Q. ok so i'll try to make this short. I was hanging ou with 2 of my friends and we had a great time (non sexual) and fell asleep together. we're all bi and the friend that i have feelings for also likes me, but we decided to stay friends. That issue's ...
A. 28 June 2010: Hey hun,
You need to be firm with your friend and tell her, her behaviour is unacceptable and bordering on harrasment!
You can not be in a relationship with someone who is suffocating you like this!
Keep all communication to a minimum, otherw... (read in full...)
I can't count on him for too long...
Q. Confused and frustrated, I don't know what to do, my boyfriend and I have been having a LDR for a year and a 1/2 now. Been together 10 years. He just relocated a few months ago, to another new area and job. We have lived together in the past and I ...
A. 28 June 2010: Hey Honey,
I think you are asking should you relocate for this gentleman?
Well you gave it a try and it didn't work out financially.Couldn't he have helped more 1st time round?
You need to sit down and decide does this man do everything he... (read in full...)
Bearing the pain and married him very young.
Q. I am only 19 years old. I got married 2 years ago at young age.to love him a lot. I've known him for 6 years and my family dislikes him. After living with him for 1 year I left him and went back to my parents because I felt that I was supporting ...
A. 26 June 2010: The writing is on the wall, you are married to a selfish, lying, cheating user.
You have done your best, now lift up your head up high and walk out and don't look back.
You were born to live a happy life not this hurtful, stressful, soul ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to live a life of instant gratification since he learned his mum was gay
Q. I am 21. I dated my boyfriend for 7 years and it was never an on/off type of thing. We talked all the time about marriage, kids, and the life we would have when we were older, but we didnt want to rush anything because what we had was good and we ...
A. 26 June 2010: Caring guy is right, life is too short to wait for someone.
Get on with your own life, go out enjoy yourself.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
How to start fresh with the same person...and a baby due any day
Q. Im still having the same problem,,, im really trying to rekindle my relationship. I know many of you may tell me to give up because his feelings for me have changed etc etc, but thats not what i want to hear. I want optimistic advice, both my ex ...
A. 26 June 2010: Okay I'm not sure how easy this is to understand but I tried it once and it worked.
Before seeing your Ex visualise having a GREAT time with him, laughing Joking and being very happy. Visualise the conversation flowing and feeling very interest... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's behaviour is outrageous
Q. This is the third time me and my girlfriend have been together. Each time the relationship started i approached her and we talked things out and everything always starts off great. The first time I broke up with her she didn't like my friends ...
A. 26 June 2010: Hey Honey,
You need to write the book 1st and then get the movie rights.
But honestly NO ONE will believe the story is real and not fiction!
This girl is off the rictor scale for being out of order and definately insane.
I would have dumped h... (read in full...)
Help please: Girlfriend Broke up with me!
Q. i have been in a relation ship for nearly 4 years,to the women of my dreams in everway.at first my partner kept finishing with me because of bad past relationships, she did not want to upset her daughters and only wanted to be there for them, ...
A. 26 June 2010: Hi,
Yes your girlfriends life is very hectic right now. Her house is jammed packed, she is a new Granny and has a mum in hospital. I am not sure how she has kept going.
At this point she is unable to concentrate on you. Not because she is not i... (read in full...)
Why couldn’t he be there when I needed him?
Q. I was in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am 22 and he’s 23 we have recently found that we have a deep friendship that goes along with are relationship. Spent most of are time together or we did until last Saturday when I got ...
A. 25 June 2010: Hey Honey Congratulations for seeing writing on the wall and breaking up with your boyfriend. It seems he knows how it is to be cared for (due to your example) but he's level of maturity showed when he choose clubbing over being with you whil... (read in full...)
I'm out of control and sleeping around because I can't handle being rejected by my bestfriend and boyfriend..
Q. Ok, me and my boyfriend of 14 months are very shakey at the moment. We're constantly arguing and hardly talking! Secondly my best friend is no longer talking to me because she got involved with a drug dealer and i told her dad for her own safety! ...
A. 25 June 2010: Hey Honey You need to stop the drinking, put Do Not answer for all the men names you have put in your phone that you have been flirting with. Contact your friend and let her know however she feels about you, you will always be here for her. ... (read in full...)
Did he just use me as a rebound after my best friend broke up with him?
Q. I am inlove with a guy for more than 3 yrs. now. We've never been together but we exchange I love you's, hug and kiss each other. We're bestfriends and I think that both of us were scared to tell each other that we want to be more than friends. 2 ...
A. 25 June 2010: Hey Honey You have to move on like this "friend" has. He did not give you the title of girlfriend because he was respecting your relationship with your bestfriend, and he has found another girl for that matter also. You have to admit he couldn'... (read in full...)
How can I tell him that I supported him by working as a prostitute?
Q. Our parents were physically,emotionally and verbally abusive to me and my younger brother, so when I was 18 I moved out and took him with me. In order to support me and him I worked as a prostitute but I told him I worked the night shift in a food ...
A. 25 June 2010: Hey Honey,
I must congratulate you on raising your brother so well, he is a credit to you.
Please think very carefully about off loading your guilt by telling your brother, how you supported him.
He really looks up to you and he may see yo... (read in full...)
Is my ex a sociopath?
Q. to begin with, please ignore my age, i messed it up when i signup online. i am really 21. i dated a guy for 2 years and im 6 months pregnant by him. he left me when i told him. 1. he never regrets anything or feels guilty about the bad stuff...
A. 24 June 2010: Hey Honey,
Now you know he is, what are you going to do to protect your innocent baby from him?
What if he comes begging you back, would you take him back if he has the right excuses/ lies.
Start thinking what is best for you and your baby an... (read in full...)
What would you do about the sister's visit?
Q. Hi guys I have had a really tough time being with my man, although things between us a mirculously fine now. We have come through the storm! When you read this you may think I am a martyr or perhaps a fool, but now things really are OK. My man le...
A. 24 June 2010: Hi,
Whenever someone really upsets me I kill them with kindness. DO NOT let her see you unhappy, concerned or in need of acceptance.
Put your armer on and let all her comments bounce off you. DO NOT retain anything she says!
If she irriates... (read in full...)
Troubled by a previous termination, and my boyfriend not confident to say "I love you"..
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for fifteen months now. I accidentally fell pregnant the first time we had sex from a failed morning after pill and had an early termination as my mother had just died and I didn't think I would cope (I have four ...
A. 24 June 2010: Hey Honey Many men are happy to say "I love you" but their actions are not of Love. Does your boyfriend act and treat you right? If this relationship has all the ingredients to keep you happy then just be patient. If not, why waste ti... (read in full...)
Anyone been married to a serial cheater, what did you do??
Q. How many times can one person forgive another for cheating? I have been with my husband for 5 years now and in that time he has cheated on me 4 times that I know of. Twice before we were married and now twice after. I have raised his daughter as ...
A. 23 June 2010: Hi Honey,
I married a serial cheater and took on he's daughter at 18 months. I now have a 5 month old baby from my husband.
My problem is I know he was unfaithful, by seeing emails declaring he's love to people. Being out all night and morning ... (read in full...)
My hubby has a crush on my besty! Help!!!!!
Q. Okay so my situation is really weird. I met this guy who is now my husband on May 26th 2009. That same year in August I lost my virginity to him. a month later I found out I was pregnant. So we got married that same year in november. Everything was ...
A. 22 June 2010: Thank your lucky star that you have a true best friend, who values you and your friendship. This would have been extremely hard for her to tell you.
As for your husband you NEED to put him on an Extreme warning, explain he is not to flirt with ANY... (read in full...)
I think my parents know that I had sex with my bf....what shd I do?
Q. Here is the thing, I've been happy with my boyfriend for now almost 8 months. He is the most wonderful guy and has never pushed me into something i didn't think i could do. I made the decision to do many things with him that were harmless but very...
A. 21 June 2010: Hey Honey
Congratulations on not losing your virginity to any old person but someone you have spend time getting to know and treats you right.
As for Mum and Dad quizzing you on your relationship I would aviod it.
But please be careful an... (read in full...)
Should I just wait for him to figure things out?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend together for a year now, we have been absolutely happy and perfect for each other, sharing the same opinions, respect and love up until now. About a week ago he suddenly stopped saying "I love you "and got very conclude...
A. 21 June 2010: Hey Honey,
You need to stop allowing this gentleman from blowing hot and cold on you. This maybe the 1st time but if you pander to this it may become a reaccuring issues.
Tell him he has only this 1 time to consider if he wants to be single, as... (read in full...)
My cousin accidently groped me, now I can't stop thinking about him!
Q. Hello! Well, recently I've gone on holiday with my cousins and we had I great time! We were on a waterslide and I was racing with my older(18 y/o) boy cousin, to see who could finish first. At the end there is a big plunge into the water and my ...
A. 21 June 2010: Hey Honey,
My advice would be feel flattered by your cousins attention but leave it there.
Remember your cousin will be part of your life forever, so anything that could happen would be in your face in years to come.
Would you feel comfor... (read in full...)
I'm desperate for sex after an LTR without it!
Q. I split with my partner earlier this year after nine years because of total sexual incompatibility which just became such a big deal. My partner no longer wanted sex - it was never a terribly frequent occurence and oral sex (either way) had always ...
A. 21 June 2010: I think there is nothing wrong with wanting intimacy and you are free and single.
If I was you I would sign up for Dating sites, get to know people who are interested in a sexual relationship and are single.
I think in no time you will find so... (read in full...)
I recently found out he cheated on me, should I give our relationship another chance?
Q. Hi, I have recently found out that my now fiancee of 5 years cheated on me 2 years ago in a one night stand. We went through a really awful rough patch for most of 2008 and this is when he cheated on me. We decided to have time apart when ...
A. 21 June 2010: Hi Honey
The most distressing part of your post is that you had a rough time for a year!
The cheating is a big sign of Respect missing from your relationship.
I would definaly delay the wedding and see if your man is truly sorry. If he's beh... (read in full...)
Am I a slut? Am I easy? Or are these two guys just been annoying?
Q. well, lately i have had a big boy crisis. 2 weeks ago today this guy who i knew, had asked me out again and i was going to meet up with him that day, when we met up he kissed me but then when i got home he rang me up and dumped me again. i didnt eat ...
A. 21 June 2010: Hey Honey,
You are not a Slut but be careful of the vibe you give out to people.
It is fine to have guy friends but just don't use them for flirting to get an ego boost.
As for the older guy, he does not love you, he just says this to make yo... (read in full...)
His ex refuses to leave us alone!
Q. Hi everyone, I need some advice on my current relationship and what is the norm in regards to when enough is enough when your constantly arguing over his ex partner. I met this guy 1 year ago in June, he had been living seperated from his wife for...
A. 21 June 2010: Is this the best you can hope for yourself?
Your partner is in a crap situation and you can not make him change how he refuses to reacts to he's Ex.
He is not willing to follow through on the restraining order, so this is how he intends to sp... (read in full...)
Can he have feelings for you even though he makes fun of you with his friends?
Q. Do you think a guy can have feelings for you even though he makes fun of you with his friends? Guys will be guys, they love picking on girls to get a reaction outa them (esp. with his boys) but when this guy is with me alone, he is THE SWEETEST AND ...
A. 21 June 2010: Hey Honey,
Picking on girls you fancy is school children's behaviour.Only you know if he is playing, when teasing you or not.
If he is someone you want to be in a relationship with, only agree if the making fun out of you is a thing of the past.... (read in full...)
Should I take my ex back?
Q. sooo... i split up with my ex boyfriend at october time 09, we split up because he wouldnt meet me, we never saw eye to eye (literally) and i had enough of getting strung along so i ended it, i deseverd better since i put myself out there, made ...
A. 21 June 2010: He did not take care of your feeling when you were together, why get back together to opewn yourself up to some more neglect.
It doesn't take rocket science to make a call or text to see how someone else is doing. The excuses are lame.
Keep th... (read in full...)
What should I do? I have a crush on my boyfriend's friend!
Q. i need help, me and my bf have been going out for somtime now and i kinda like his friend, his friend knows that i liked him because i told him one day, i want to go out with him but i want to stay with my bf to help what should i do??...
A. 21 June 2010: Hey Honey,
You need to put youself in your boyfriends shoes. How would you like it if he was Talking to one of your friends about starting a relationship with them.
You would feel very unhappy and angry towards your boyfriend and your friend.... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend is cheating
Q. i think my girlfriend is cheating and does not really care bout me bcuz she changed from wen we first met. she doesnt call me really. she goes days sometimes she ignores my call. sometimes when were out ad people ask if we are together she says 'no ...
A. 21 June 2010: If you are not No 1 then that's the main reason for ending this relationship.
The lying is very disrespectful also.
Finish with her and find someone on your maturity level who is as committed as you are.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Help! Is this at all normal?
Q. Is it normal for men to get angry when we females refuse to have sex with them?...
A. 21 June 2010: Honey, anyone who is getting angry about wanting to get intimate with you, is not Good news.
However telling someone you are going to get intimate or deliberately leading someone on, then changing your mind may lead to confusion.
Why do you as... (read in full...)
I love him but he neglects me, we have a daughter and I want her to have a mum and a dad, but this relationship is making me miserable!
Q. how do i tell him it's over? we've been together for 3 years his daughter was born one month when we started dating and he told me he didn't know he was having a kid with his ex...that she lied to him about the abortion.. we have a 3 month old ...
A. 19 June 2010: Hey Honey,
If you are miserable then it is and has already affected your daughter.
You need to bring her up in a happy envirnoment and show how to build a good relationship with RESPECT.
Leave this jack-ass and move on.... (read in full...)
How can I pick myself up and move on after this "friends with benefits" mess?
Q. I have been with this guy for almost two years and has had a miscarriage this year for him. The relationship is only a friends with benefits type situation until I got pregnant and had to have surgery cause I was pregnant in my tube so my baby died. ...
A. 19 June 2010: Hey honey
You have been through a really hard time. Now in order to move on
1) you need to cut all contact with this guy.
2) Change your number
3) Hang out at places he DOESN'T go to
4) Then start remembering what a GREAT GIRLFRIEND ... (read in full...)
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