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*llecanhelpyou
writes:Hello! Well, recently I've gone on holiday with my cousins and we had I great time! We were on a waterslide and I was racing with my older(18 y/o) boy cousin, to see who could finish first. At the end there is a big plunge into the water and my cousin grabbed my swimming costume to overtake me. When he did he ended up feeling everything. It was arkward but since then I can't stop thinking about him in that way. I dint need advice on the laws if dating family because I'm not going that far. I don't need any religious help either because I'm not religious. I just won't to know why I'm thinking this and if it's just a crush I'll soon be done with. My cousin is very fit and sometimes a catch him looking at me. He acts like he likes me and I don't know what to do! Help!P.s. Thanks for taking time to read this and reply :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): First to begin with, you are not related to him blood or other wise, his father is only your aunt's boyfriend, so naturally the mind will not thing ill of this attraction, but if your family is very close and your aunt's boyfriend has been part of this for a while, then to other family members, his son will seam to be as a cousin to you and that will not look to good. I think you feel this way about him because ma by you guys have fun together, i am thinking he makes you laugh, and he doesn't ill-trite you. I believe you had this crush on him from about the time you guys meet but only after the water incident did your body start acting on that crush, it might be bold of me to ask but do you have a boyfriend and if not then that might be why you have this crush.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): Hopefully with time you'll be fine!! It's good your not going to take it any further.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): Leave him alone don't hit on him, and even if he's not blood related he is still your cousin so treat him like one.
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reader, Ellecanhelpyou +, writes (21 June 2010):
Ellecanhelpyou is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso he is my aunty's boyfriend's son so technically were not related, his dad is just going out with my aunty :S
and thanks for the feedback :)
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reader, boydjohn026  +, writes (21 June 2010):
If it were me, I would enjoy my time with him.
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reader, ctds001 +, writes (21 June 2010):
Hey Honey,
My advice would be feel flattered by your cousins attention but leave it there.
Remember your cousin will be part of your life forever, so anything that could happen would be in your face in years to come.
Would you feel comfortable going to your future partners families events and a cousin your partner fooled around with when younger being in your face?
I would say NO. This is why messing with family members is a No No.
Good luck x
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