How can I pick myself up and move on after this "friends with benefits" mess?
Q. I have been with this guy for almost two years and has had a miscarriage this year for him. The relationship is only a friends with benefits type situation until I got pregnant and had to have surgery cause I was pregnant in my tube so my baby died. ...
A. 19 June 2010: Hey honey
You have been through a really hard time. Now in order to move on
1) you need to cut all contact with this guy.
2) Change your number
3) Hang out at places he DOESN'T go to
4) Then start remembering what a GREAT GIRLFRIEND ... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex with me... to practice!!!!
Q. Hello, I'm a 17 year old straight girl, and recently one of my male friends, who is gay, was telling me about how it's common for gay guys to have sex with their female friends sort of as 'practice'... He didn't directly ask me but I'm inferrin...
A. 17 June 2010: Hey honey,
Just tell him in general conversation that you are waiting to lose your virginity to the man of your dreams and that you expect to be in a serious relationship before having sex.
Friendship and sex can have devastating results. Tel... (read in full...)
I love a girl who is a lot younger than me
Q. Hello all. I don't really know how to start but a while ago I fell in love with a girl. But: she is a whole lot younger than I (12 or something) and I'm 16. And then I'm really shy so I haven't really talked to her. (At all, actually.) And I just ...
A. 17 June 2010: Honey,
This girl is a child and you need a teenage girlfriend for yourself.
She is not corresponding with you because like most 12 years olds finding a 16 year old boyfriend is not on her mind.
Please try your hardest to forget about this ch... (read in full...)
Is he too much of a flirt for me?
Q. me and my bf have been together for 1 year and some months and he has a flirting problem. I broke up with him because of this. Am i being stupid or did i have a legit reason for breaking up with him? his flirting is online (well atleast that i know ...
A. 17 June 2010: Congratulations on making a very good decision.
He did not respect you to be flirting and certainly not by giving out he's number.
There are many more fish in the sea, why keep on nagging one to change, when you can find someone with you... (read in full...)
Will I be able to continue living on my own...?
Q. I know this isn't exactly a relationship question, but I'm wondering if anyone has any advice? I'm 19 and just moved into my flat. Previously I lived with my parents but moved out due to problems I was having at home, then with my ex-boyfriend but ...
A. 17 June 2010: Hi honey,
you should qualify for housing benefit. Go to your local council and ask for the housing benefit and council tax benefit form. If you are on a low income they will help with your rent.
Try and do as much research as posssible to... (read in full...)
Help! How can I help my friend???
Q. Hey guys i am 13 and ive been irresponsible by having a child a year ago and my best friend stuck by me and so did the father but now she's pregnant, i mean she loves being around my baby girl, Freya, but she thinks shes ready to have her own but i ...
A. 17 June 2010: Hi Honey
It's time to inform an adult. Her and her partner also need to sit down and decide what they want to do about this unplanned pregnancy.
Maybe she could talk to your mum and your mum could call a meeting at your house for her parents to a... (read in full...)
Why do guys get so strange when they are with their friends?
Q. im so freaking depressed right now, i dont know what to do, the one i love just joked me around on the phone when i called him, just because he was with friends, he is never like that when its just me and him, and i really dont know what to do, i ...
A. 17 June 2010: Honey,
Guys can sometimes really misjudge what we think is funny. If your boyfriend is your age it does not surprise me he acts differently around he's friends.
Guys like to impress their friends with their wit and stupidity, so please do not... (read in full...)
Why am I so crushed now we're apart, when I know he never treated me properly when we were together?
Q. I dumped my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago because he lied a lot and there was a lot I didn't know but would find out. I didn't hear from him for about a week, I saw him one day when I drove by obviously he saw me too because he texted me telling me ...
A. 17 June 2010: Hey honey,
Yes it is cpmpletely normal to feel crushed when someone has not treated you right, even though you have done everything in your power to keep them happy.
Please concentrate on your positive points, because a real man is just waiting... (read in full...)
He hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend and is 14 years older than me, but he treats me like one - whats going on?
Q. So, this man I'll call Mateo and I have been seeing each other for four months and I'm extremely confused. He has all these pet names for me, he's always offering his help when something comes up, we can't seem to stop kissing or snuggling closer to ...
A. 17 June 2010: The question is do you think a relationship can work?
Do you feel embrassed by the large age gap?
Is this just something nice to be doing for now?
Is he someone who you can't live without or someone you just like passing time with?
As... (read in full...)
If he loves me, why is the ex still hanging around?
Q. Hi guys...I really need some advice! Its quite a tricky situation and none of my friends or family know what to do. Recently I started seeing a 25yr old guy i met in a bar, I have to be honest and say i wasn't attracted to him at first, but as th...
A. 17 June 2010: Sorry honey this situation doesn't look good.
Now here is the test, break off the relationship until he NO LONGER living with he's girlfriend/ Ex and can and will answer your calls at anytime (with exception to work).
If he can do this you can ... (read in full...)
Why do parents get so crazy about sexual stuff with us teens?
Q. Why do parents get so crazy about sexual stuff with us teens? If we are protected then let us learn and realize the real world of a relationship. I think if the parent lets the kids do stuff it gives the kid responsibilty and helps them realize what ...
A. 17 June 2010: They get crazy about sex because they invest a huge amount of love, emotions, finances and time to raise you. And one horny moment can ruin all your dreams for the future.
Good luck and prove your parents wrong like I did :o)
Make them proud!... (read in full...)
How do I let go after 4 years?
Q. I have been in a relationship with this man a little over years now. In the beginning he told me all he wanted was a friends with benefits kind of relationship. well, i just had a baby so i was in no rush at all to jump into a relationship. so i ...
A. 17 June 2010: Hey Honey
This negative sitation is not only affecting you but your children. QUIT this relationship not only for yourself but for your innocent children.
You are their role model and the relationships you choose to be in are also role models... (read in full...)
My mom doesn't think my boyfriend is good for me, because he is black! How can I convince her skin color doesn't matter?
Q. My family wont respected me and my boyfriend because my boyfriend is black. We been together for awhile and my mom finally met him and she still doesn't like that im with him. Im not black and i didn't exspect to be with a black guy. But i love this ...
A. 17 June 2010: To be honest most parents have reservations when meeting their daughter boyfriends.
Actions speak louder then words, make sure he is doing everything right by you and you for him. In time your Mum will see him for how happy he makes you.
... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to give up on my ex or not?
Q. I don't understand what is going through my ex's head! He broke up with me over 2 months ago, claiming he needed space and wasn't ready for a serious relationship... for a period of about 5/6 weeks after this he did not initiate ANY contact with...
A. 17 June 2010: Honey
Personally I think he is keeping you on a string.
At the moment he's not requesting a date or anything, are you sure he is really looking to get back with you?
How will you feel in 2 weeks time if he tells you he has a new girlfriend... (read in full...)
How can I cut ties with the man I share a child with?
Q. I have a huge problem. Well, it's huge to me. Me and my son's father aren't together anymore. I found this site on my search to find out why women keep going back to the same man. Insecurity, doubt, fear... whatever. Endless...I cut all ties with ...
A. 17 June 2010: Hi honey
You can try what I have done.
My dad arranges the Day and Time my Ex will see my 4 month old baby. I then arrive 30 mins before the time with the baby and leave her with my dad. My Ex collects her and then returns her at the agreed time.... (read in full...)
Am I being naive or am I just plain dumb in love?
Q. I've been together and living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. The first 6 months were like that out of a fairy tale novel; surprise trips, PDA, affection, respect and a complete gentleman willing to do anything to make me smile/laugh. After ...
A. 16 June 2010: Right now being misertable and unloved do you really feel in love?
Or are you in love with how he used to treat you?
You are not married get out and find true happiness, life is too short. You need someone who can fulfil your needs for the lo... (read in full...)
What should I do about this?
Q. Hi everyone, I've been battling with this for a while now and after reading a lot of replies to similar questions here, I decided that this is the best place for me to get advice. My boyfriend and I are both young (we're both 20) and we met...
A. 16 June 2010: How can this seem petty, when you met and courted in exactly the same way he is now choosing to talk to this other woman?
You know internet conversations are real otherwise you would not be with your boyfriend now.
Maybe he tells you he get... (read in full...)
Do other girls rub there smell on the lips for there b/f?
Q. I been dating my g/f for 5 months and we been intimate. She said she is bi and I knew that when we met. She had a long time g/f then but just broke up. On Satuday my friend text me and said he saw my g/f with her ex going in her house. I met my ...
A. 16 June 2010: Sorry I agree she is cheating.... (read in full...)
Does he only want to be friends with benefits again?
Q. Ok so i got a text from my ex bf and he wants to get together again to hang out...We are friends at this point. anyway the last time we hung out it was like friends with benefits... what-ever its great sex! So the last contact we had was that i told ...
A. 16 June 2010: At this point he is getting no strings attached sex. If you have feeling for him this is not the way forward.
Why milk the cow, if you can get the milk for free.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to give up on my ex or not?
Q. I don't understand what is going through my ex's head! He broke up with me over 2 months ago, claiming he needed space and wasn't ready for a serious relationship... for a period of about 5/6 weeks after this he did not initiate ANY contact with...
A. 16 June 2010: Hey Honey,
It's very hard to get over a break up and your post says you were trying to get on with your life. But now he has contacted you, your feelings are mixed up.
1) He did not contact you for 5/6 weeks. If he wanted to reconcile pr... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my wife and child or do I stay with her???
Q. I'm 23 year old and i managed to get my self married and its been 4 years. i have a little two year old girl, my wife was divorced when i met her and has 4 children of her own. she is also mania-co depressive so its very hard emotionally. i know i ...
A. 16 June 2010: Hey Honey
I think you need to deal with your marriage and as hard as it maybe stop the emotional affair with your sister in law.
1) Your sister in law is 15 and will grow out of this infatuation with you.
2) Once your in laws find out ab... (read in full...)
He's cheating with his ex...
Q. hey ... i broke with my boyfriend due to me finding information from is ex stating that hes cheating with her .. i love him and me and him are always together but he is very funny with his phone and very quite and secretive ,, he left out of the ...
A. 16 June 2010: Hey Honey,
This situation is heart Breaking for you But I think you did the right thing by breaking up.
If he was really planning a committed future with you, he would have contacted you by now.
Sometimes we do the right thing and then quest... (read in full...)
My girlfriend flat-out lied to me!
Q. I have been with my girlfriwend for almost a year and I love her like no other. We are both divorced with children and I now live with her( I moved in to her house a month ago). We have had our moments and fights about stuff like her most recent ...
A. 16 June 2010: Hi, I honestly think you are making a harmless message into a huge thing.
As you said YOUR girlfriend has no issue saying she wants to be with you. The facebook message is just someome being cheeky.
Try to deal with your insecurity ASAP ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend flat-out lied to me!
Q. I have been with my girlfriwend for almost a year and I love her like no other. We are both divorced with children and I now live with her( I moved in to her house a month ago). We have had our moments and fights about stuff like her most recent ...
A. 16 June 2010: Hi, I honestly think you are making a harmless message into a huge thing.
As you said YOUR girlfriend has no issue saying she wants to be with you. The facebook message is just someome being cheeky.
Try to deal with your insecurity ASAP ... (read in full...)
I hate that I lied to my mom, might be pregnant and can't enjoy sex!
Q. I'm a 15 year old girl and me and my boyfriend have been dating for eight months. It started out rough with me and my boyfriend because my parents weren't a big fan of his because of thingsthey heard and family history but I finally got m parents to ...
A. 15 June 2010: Firstly you need to do a pregnancy test to put your mind at rest. If you are adult enough to have a sexual relationship then you and your boyfriend must protect yourself. Having a child at a very young age is life changing and not the easy to deal ... (read in full...)
Looking for sex tips to impress new boyfriend!
Q. Hi cupids ;) well tonight I'm going to have sex with my new boyfriend and I realy want to impress him, problem is he is alot more experienced than I am?! Can I have some tips?? Much apreciated we use protection etc so pregnancy and sti's aren't a...
A. 15 June 2010: The biggest turn on is being interested and loving.
My boyfriend has quiet a lot of experience but me being spontaneous has meant we have enjoyed mind blowing experiences together. Not being scared to make love out doors is a definate turn on.... (read in full...)
He's cheated on me and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hi all I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years we moved in together after 3 months and everything was going well. He was posted to Afghanistan as he is in the forces so for the next 12 months I was on my own with no family or friends around to help ...
A. 15 June 2010: Honey you love him but he's actions are not of someone who is in love and respects you.
He has a lot of issues, propably because of he's job etc. But you do not have to be the one to suffer.
He doesn't act like someone in a committed relati... (read in full...)
He's cheated on me and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hi all I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years we moved in together after 3 months and everything was going well. He was posted to Afghanistan as he is in the forces so for the next 12 months I was on my own with no family or friends around to help ...
A. 15 June 2010: Honey you love him but he's actions are not of someone who is in love and respects you.
He has a lot of issues, propably because of he's job etc. But you do not have to be the one to suffer.
He doesn't act like someone in a committed relati... (read in full...)
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