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writes:I was in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am 22 and he’s 23 we have recently found that we have a deep friendship that goes along with are relationship. Spent most of are time together or we did until last Saturday when I got really sick. All I wanted from him were a couple visits and some phone calls asking how I was doing but instead he went to the club and totally ignored me all week until this morning when he calls and tells me how sorry he is. When he was in the hospital I was there every step of the way and loved him harder then ever because I no that’s what he needed. His excuses are he isn’t an emotional guy and that I cant change him to be one. I broke up with him and I keep telling him to leave me alone. But now that Im almost better has back. This showed me that if I were to get pregnant he would do the same thing. His actions were so immature that Im almost embarrassed to say he was the love of my life when he obviously didn’t love me at all.Im hurt, mad lonely and confused? Why couldn’t he just be there when I needed him? Like I’ve been there all these years when he needed me.
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reader, ctds001  +, writes (25 June 2010):
Hey HoneyCongratulations for seeing writing on the wall and breaking up with your boyfriend.It seems he knows how it is to be cared for (due to your example) but he's level of maturity showed when he choose clubbing over being with you whilst you were ill.He can not grow up over night, best to find someone who is already mature.Good luck x
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