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How can you tell if an ex still likes you...?

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Question - (2 December 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

If you haven't seen your ex in a while (due to his moving, which prompted the split) and he comes back for Christmas to see his family and old friends...

1) How can you tell if he still likes you, and

2) How would you try and win him back?

xx

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2007):

starfairy agony auntYou can generally tell from that vibe, or women's intuition. But personally I find the best way is to be upfront. Spend some times one on one. See how he reacts to a little flirting. And tell him straight up, "I still like you, is there a chance we could try again?". Men respond so much better to the options being presented upfront.

If he's hesitant, offer to take it slow. You obviously broke up for a reason and you will need to work on that reason.

Good luck, let us know how it goes!

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A female reader, sweetlaura2008 United Kingdom +, writes (2 December 2007):

sweetlaura2008 agony aunt

Its true if this boys still likes you then he will try and do his best to keep in contact, and if he comes back for christmas then try and talk to him to see how he feels and if he feels the same. Or you will know by the way he treats you if it still is the same before he went away but if your really having a hard time to cope about how you feel then i suggest you give him a call and if you dont have much confidence then write him a letter bceause you and him will be a whole lot better for it.

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A female reader, bqagirl2692 United States +, writes (2 December 2007):

bqagirl2692 agony auntIF he still has feelings for you he will try to look for you and keep in contact. All you have to do is talk to him. Catch up from where you both left off. Im sure there is still chemistry due to the fact that the only reason this break-up occured was because he had to move. Study his behavior towards you and pay attention to the little hints he may try to bring up. Have some alone time with him so that the both of you can feel comfortable to express yourselves with eachother.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (2 December 2007):

kenny agony auntIf he still likes you then maybe he will try to get in contact with you, he may have mentioned you to his friends, like asked how you are doing, or what have you been up to. Why don't you post him a Christmas card wishing him a lovely Christmas. You could leave a massage in the card asking him if he fancies meeting up for a Festive drink, then take it from there.

Good luck x

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