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Best gift to give your ex gf on their birthday? I want to win her back.

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Question - (2 December 2007) 10 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, *angly writes:

what is the best gift to buy my ex girlfriend, her bday is in a month and we broke up last week. Im not speaking to her but i want her back. And i would like to give her a gift that would make her smile and happy

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008):

1/Something out of your own personality, write or draw or build. But if shes tired of the bare sight of you, this might make her mad.

2/Take something you two did toghether and take it to a higher level that suits her. If you liked to eat out, climb hills, dance , make it the way she wants it and dont expect anything in return, this you dont have to say to her...

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2007):

starfairy agony auntDoesn't sound like she is too iknterested then, if you have put all this effort i and she still can't even be bothered to thank you.

Some girls like a guy who ignores them. Gives them a challenge. Try that.

But personally doesn't sound like she deserves you.

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A male reader, Dangly United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2007):

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i already sent her dozen pink roses, and wrote her a 7 page letter with a poem aswell. i sent her a picture of us with it aswell, which she said was her favourite picture. She still isnt talking to me and i cant talk to her because she blocked all contact. Iv been talking to my mates and they said just give her time, once she realises how much of a gd boyfriend you were compared to others she will come back. Its so annoying because i had so much romantic stuff planned for her birthday.

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A female reader, michel Slovenia +, writes (3 December 2007):

Win her back!!!mmm , try with flowers and a nice msg that will express ur feelings ,My sugestion only

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2007):

starfairy agony auntFrom a girls point of view, any gift that has shown thought an consideration has gone into it means the world to me.

If you wanted to go for simple, buy a plain photo frame and decorate it, maybe with lyrics of 'your song', or felt hearts. Put a photo in of you 2, maybe from a particularly special day or event.

If you had a little more time on your hands, make a scrapbook of the 2 of you. Your own story. Start from when you met, print off pictures of the 2 of you, add any saved mementoes, a menu from your favourite takeaway, pictures of things you enjoy together etc.

Failing that, a bunch of roses and a pretty piece of jewellery, something she will wear and think of you (especially if you have it engraved).

Good luck, let me know what you decide on!

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States + , writes (3 December 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntDo you have any nice pictures of the two of you? get a really nice frame and frame it... put a personal note on the back of the frame. then she'll be reminded of the good memories you have with each other.


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A female reader, maggie1987 United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2007):

maggie1987 agony auntthats the one thing you dont do to win someone back. you cant buy love . if its meant to be and she feels the same then you should tell her how you feel and see what she replies to you. hopefully that should be enough for her

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A female reader, sweetlaura2008 United Kingdom +, writes (2 December 2007):

sweetlaura2008 agony auntIf you really like this girl then i suggest maybe sending her in a romatic box with a ballon a message or letter how you feel and maybe a photograph of some of the memories you had while you were together. Because from experience memories and feelings are always treasured in the heart and soul of everyone and she would appreciate this and by that it would show that you have put a lot of thought in and that you still care for her even when you did break up and it would be something unique which you have shared together at that moment where you fell in love.

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A female reader, bqagirl2692 United States +, writes (2 December 2007):

bqagirl2692 agony auntIf you want to win her back then a simple poem or love letter that comes straight from your means a lot more than something you can buy from the stores. If she reads something that comes straight from your heart then it would bring a smile on her face knowing how you really feel and how much you are dedicated to win her back more than if you buy her something which would be just another material she has seen before. Express how you feel. Dont hold back. A love letter a peom lasts longer in our hearts than what money can buy. Good luck!

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (2 December 2007):

kenny agony auntIf you want to win her back, then flowers with a romantic message would be nice. If you call interfora, or most florist's for that matter will deliver them to her door, or place of work/college with the message of your choice.

Or maybe her favorite perfume, or some chocolates in the shape of hearts.

What ever you choose im sure she is bound to love. I hope it all works out for you and that you win her back.

All the best

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