I fallen for a musician who played in our town, now I'm thinking of moving near him, how do I tell him I'm interested in a relationship?
Q. O.k., basically I met the guy of my dreams and he lives a long way away from me. I am almost 23 and he is 26. We met the first time in person when he and his band were on tour and played a show where I lived about 7 months ago. We keep in touch ...
A. 17 January 2008: I just wanted to add some more info on this situation because it is so funny to me...I decided not to go visit. I thought well, if I do end up moving closer, maybe we can see what happens then. WELL was I wrong! Only a MONTH after this, I happened ... (read in full...)
Fallen for my best guy friend but I'm not his type! How do I cope?
Q. Hi I have a horrible feeling i've fallen for my bestfriend every1 automatically thinks we're a couple anyhow, and he is amazing but i know his ex's and i know what he likes in girls and while he's not shallow he's not into girls like me, just ...
A. 27 November 2007: Don't assume that just because you're not like his ex girlfriends that he wouldn't like you! There is probably a reason why they are his EX girlfriends! You should try maybe getting someone else to bring it up and ask him to find out what he thin... (read in full...)
Sex is getting boring--how do I tell her that?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 9 months now, we have sex on a semi regular basis, but im getting bored of the same old positions, ive asked her if we could try different stuff (non freaky things) but she doesnt seem intrested.. i ...
A. 27 November 2007: Well I don't know about her, but when I was at your age I didn't really know much about sex or what to do in bed, so maybe you should try nicely to guide her and tell her exactly what you mean. If she is not very experienced she may not know much ... (read in full...)
I like my cousin's bf! What do I do?
Q. i have a big problem, me and my cusin were like best friends, shes beein going on about a boy she meet at work she told me soo much about him and i was happy for her, but the other day i meet him by the end of the night my cuzin asked me if i ...
A. 27 November 2007: You should realize that he is off limits to you and be happy for your cousin that she found a great guy! If you two are good friends and she really likes this guy, you will eventually have to be around him, so you need to get your mind off of him ... (read in full...)
I was going out with a control freak, but then again was it my fault he was like this?
Q. I knew things between my ex and I were changing the weekend he went away on vacation snowmobiling for 5 days with his friends. I didn't live with him at the time, and the night before his trip he yelled at me because I didn't have the oufit he was ...
A. 27 November 2007: Please don't let this guy make you feel like you did anything wrong! I used to be in an emotionally abusive and controlling relationship and at the time I didn't even realize it because I was so convinced that he was trying to "help" me and that ... (read in full...)
I fallen for a musician who played in our town, now I'm thinking of moving near him, how do I tell him I'm interested in a relationship?
Q. O.k., basically I met the guy of my dreams and he lives a long way away from me. I am almost 23 and he is 26. We met the first time in person when he and his band were on tour and played a show where I lived about 7 months ago. We keep in touch ...
A. 27 November 2007: Thanks for all your positive advice!
I think it has really helped me to realize that I need to just slow down and just relax and let things happen naturally!... (read in full...)
How can I end this without hurting his feelings?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 weeks and a couple days, but my feelings for him have faded. At first I liked him alot, we had alot of stuff in common and we talked about us in the future, but just recently I realized that I don't ...
A. 26 November 2007: All you can do is be honest and tell him that you don't think you are really into the relationship. Tell him you are sorry if you confused him or lead him on, but it's not what you want.
If he doesn't understand, there's not much you can do about... (read in full...)
We had sex and now he wants it all the time! Advice?
Q. hello i am very young and last night lost my virginity i am nervous but i don't no why i loved it but now my boyfriend wants to do it everytime we meat what should i do xxxx baffled beutyxx...
A. 26 November 2007: At your age, you are awfully young to be sexually active! Are you sure you feel comfortable about this? Just don't do anything you don't want to do, don't let your boyfriend decide for you and PLEASE protect yourself! Don't do it without a condom! ... (read in full...)
I fallen for a musician who played in our town, now I'm thinking of moving near him, how do I tell him I'm interested in a relationship?
Q. O.k., basically I met the guy of my dreams and he lives a long way away from me. I am almost 23 and he is 26. We met the first time in person when he and his band were on tour and played a show where I lived about 7 months ago. We keep in touch ...
A. 26 November 2007: Thanks for the comment!
I guess I should be more clear, I don't necessarily want a "serious" relationship or expect anything, I guess I am getting ahead of myself. I'm sure he knows that I am interested in him seeing as we have spent time together... (read in full...)
I love her with all my heart...i just wish id met her later in life.
Q. Okay, here's the situation, folks. I'm in a committed relationship with a woman I love. We're both in our late 20's, we've dated for nearly a year and we've just moved in together. My girlfriend really is my best friend and she's the closest thing ...
A. 26 November 2007: I can understand how you feel that you have "missed out" on all these experiences, but the thing is you are in a committed relationship now. You can't simply go off and do those things and expect her to wait around. You have to decide if you will... (read in full...)
I love her with all my heart...i just wish id met her later in life.
Q. Okay, here's the situation, folks. I'm in a committed relationship with a woman I love. We're both in our late 20's, we've dated for nearly a year and we've just moved in together. My girlfriend really is my best friend and she's the closest thing ...
A. 26 November 2007: I can understand how you feel that you have "missed out" on all these experiences, but the thing is you are in a committed relationship now. You can't simply go off and do those things and expect her to wait around. You have to decide if you will... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my best years by not having sex?
Q. I'm in my teens. Now is the best time to be having Sex, and I'm not! I was not so long ago, and I think I took Sex for granted because I was enjoying my girlfriends company so much. Am I wasting my best years?? Do many guys suffer this when it com...
A. 26 November 2007: In my opinion, sex is better when it's with the right person and the more you have sex with that person, the better it gets because you learn what each other like.... (read in full...)
How to get over these feelings?
Q. Is it possible to get over someone that is so...perfect for you, yet everything is so against you, there's not a chance of being together? The person I am talking about is my best friend. I was definitely interested in him before we became close ...
A. 26 November 2007: I think you shouldn't worry about saying anything to him about it. Let him go and keep in touch, but it would be better to try things with your boyfriend now and if the other guy is such a good friend you guys will probably keep in touch for awhile ... (read in full...)
He asks me if he decides to go out with some other girl "should I hide it or should I tell you right upfront?" Why is he doing this? Just to have a reaction?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for the past 10 months. He can be very sweet and I think I love him well. The problem is that he keeps saying that he doesn't belong to anyone and more sometimes he tells me about the girls he "used to have a crush on"...
A. 26 November 2007: I hate to say it, but this could be a sign that he has cheated on you. I was in a relationship of over a year when my boyfriend suddenly asked me if I ever think about seeing other guys. After about 10 seconds I said, "Why? Who are you thinking... (read in full...)
What can I get him for Christmas to show him how I feel??
Q. Ok here we go.....don't laugh lol.......im 13 and there is this guy......i love him soooo much and i think he likes me to.......i want to get him something special for christmas in hopes that he will ask me out on a date or something.......i really ...
A. 26 November 2007: Think about something that he is really interested in and get him a gift that shows that you pay attention and put thought into the gift. Example, if he likes a certain music group, get him one of their cd's, or if he likes sports, get him a hat of ... (read in full...)
Divorced and with a high sex drive. Should I have sex with the mate I'm dating to satisfy my needs or wait for someone I really love to do it?
Q. Im 39 just divorced my husband. We've been married for 14 years. I've no regret to divorce him. The problem is I have very high sex drive. I have no sex life for 9 months now and find it hard to bear. I am dating a man at the moment but I dont ...
A. 26 November 2007: Go ahead, but don't lead him on! Pay close attention to how he feels and be honest.
If you are still interested in meeting other men, don't commit to any one person. ... (read in full...)
New to the city. (Birmingham) How do I meet people?
Q. hi everyone, im back for another question.haha. well i was so impressed with the answer for the last one. :) as some of you may know im new to the area (birmingham) but i find it very hard to meet new people and make friends. i know i need to j...
A. 26 November 2007: I am actually in a similar situation. I just moved to a big city and the only people I know here are my family, but no one my age really.
I go out on my own all the time! Every time I have been out on my own I have met all sorts of people! ... (read in full...)
How can I show her that I understand and love her?
Q. hi everyone, This is the sum up of the story and plese ask for help. My gf and I have been 2 months together and now i'm working in other conuntry which is very close to hers.. She is student and as far aas i know she is bit in a hurry to finish ...
A. 26 November 2007: It sounds like she is more unhappy with herself and her current situation and people tend to take out their feelings on those who are closest to them which is why she is acting this way to you.
She may just need time to sort things out for hers... (read in full...)
How does an age gap affect a relationship??
Q. How does an age gap affect a relationship? Explain whats good and bad when you have a 20years gap boyfriend?...
A. 26 November 2007: I think it depends on the ages you are at. If you are a young adult 18-25 dating someone say, 20 years older there are probably more very important differences in lifestyle, maturity, and what you are each wanting in a relationship that could cause ... (read in full...)
During a break in our relationship, my boyfriend got a girl pregnant. How do I deal with this?
Q. i just learnt that the man i am in love with, who has separated from me for 3 months during which we were still fostering a relationship, has made another girl pregnant during which time he would have been going out with me. i know this is not a ne...
A. 26 November 2007: I think you need to move on and take yourself out of this situation! Even if he wants to be with you now, he has proven himself untrustworthy and he is willing to leave this girl who he impregnated in the dust. He doesn't seem like a very stable or ... (read in full...)
I'm a married man but became utterly obsessed with a young co-worker. We've been friends for a while but I just can't stop thinking that I'm destined to be with her
Q. Hi, I am a married male with children, and I love my wife very much. I hired this girl (who has a boyfriend) who was almost 20 years younger than me for a 1 year term. She is extremely sociable, and has a good relationship with almost everyone she ...
A. 26 November 2007: It sounds to me that you have painted an extremely romantic picture in your head of what it would be like to be with this girl which is what you are obsessed with. You must realize that this is a fantasy and treat it that way, not as a real ... (read in full...)
How did she get over me so quickly??
Q. My ex and I broke up three weeks ago. She started university in Sept and became more and more distant. I got insecure which pushed her away. She said when we split that she didn't want to lose me completely and that she still loved me. We still ...
A. 26 November 2007: I think you need to let her be off and do her own thing. I'm sure she still cares about you very much and thinks of you still, but at this age in life I have found that it is so hard to keep a relationship especially with school and work and we are ... (read in full...)
What do I do? She's pregnant but I don't know if I want this baby.
Q. Im with this great girl who is 3-4 weeks pregnant just found out yesterday she is happy but im not sure if i want this baby at this time. i was married before for 3yrs and we are separated. Lately we have been talking and she is willing to make thi...
A. 26 November 2007: Well, if you feel like you don't want to have a child right now I guess you can talk to the woman who is pregnant about it, but I think you need to ask yourself if you feel this way because you want your marriage to work out later. You can't run ... (read in full...)
He's trying it on with me but he's got a 7 months pregnant girlfriend!
Q. I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i got an email f...
A. 26 November 2007: I have been in a very similar situation once and I think you should leave this guy alone. If this is his first child, he is probably very confused and stressed out. Maybe you help him escape that for a minute, but it is very unlikely that he will ... (read in full...)
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