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My ex-girlfriend seems to be trying to make me jealous!
Q. Pardon my ignorance, but when a girl breaks up with her boyfriend of a year, and gets another one three weeks later...isn't she supposed to be happy with her new bf and moved on... ...but, My ex keeps asking people how I am and saying "Make sur...
A. 16 March 2011: She is trying to make you jealous, and she keeps on approaching you because she wants to get a reaction from you. Don't play her games, She broke up with you and expected you to go crawling back and begging her to take you back and since it didn't ... (read in full...)
My aunt hates me now and I don't know why
Q. what do I do I am so upset? My aunt and me live kinda far but we have always been kinda close even because she is not just my aunt she is my godmother and so it means a little more to us usually. Well I went to send a request on facebook for her to ...
A. 10 March 2011: I really don't want any of my nieces or nephews to be my friends on facebook, I only befriend people that I know and that are over age, because at times I may have no control on what people write and what info they are putting on my wall and I may ... (read in full...)
Cheating lying boyfriend..how to handle this planned trip?
Q. So, I found out my boyfriend of 6yrs who has cheated before had cheated with a girl over a year ago tells me that it happened a while ago and it was during the time we were having problems..and that he is so sorry! I have finally come to my senses ...
A. 9 March 2011: They were missed calls so obviously he didn't answered them. He could be telling you the truth. Why don't you find out whats going on before you make a decision. You have to be sure of his cheating and not just assume he's cheating. You have a ... (read in full...)
Its been 2 years since it happened, but my husband talks like my affair happened just yesterday
Q. I was transfered 2 work from a different twon for 6months leaving my husband i got involved with a man whom we even had sex, my husband got 2 find out everthng.its being 2yearz bt he talks lyk it jst happend,i hav no say n the house now its 2much ...
A. 9 March 2011: With the cheating you have destroyed his trust and he has not forgiven you for your betrayel. For many an infidelity is a deal breaker and he no longers see you as the wife he married but as the women who cheated. Talk to him, love him and gain his ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for another man, but what do I tell my husband?
Q. I have been married for ten years now, i always thougt i had found my soulmate. now im not so sure i have been spending alot of time talking with another man whom i have great feelings for and i know he feels the same way, he wants me to leave and ...
A. 9 March 2011: All relationships seem fresh in the begining but in time they all turn out the same. If you are no longer in love with your husband and think you have found love than leave your husband. Go to a new country with a man you have only seen his good ... (read in full...)
Ladies, if you’re with a well endowed man, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect?
Q. Ladies...if you are with a man who is well endowed, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect? If it is his size, what specifically about his penis is the most enticing? Seeing it and looking ...
A. 9 March 2011: I think if the play pistol is well endowed it gives pleasure to the eyes. I wouldn't choose my man by his penis size though, and I wouldn't want one dangled in my face. I guess more women choose their man while they are still dressed, so in reality, ... (read in full...)
Ladies can you tell me what is going on here?
Q. I've known this woman for over a year now, we go to church together at a smaller church. I had left for a bit, and returned, and decided to ask her to coffee. Finally after a week or so we met up, and it was great, and we talked for about 3 hours. ...
A. 8 March 2011: If she feels you came out strong than you did, because only she knows her feelings. She was blunt with you and told you the situation and this gives you the key on how to behave with her in the future. Sorry but I can't answer your question on what ... (read in full...)
Wife has banned her husband from talking to me!
Q. There is this married man who has a huge crush on me. Everybody knows it. He used to see me everyday and we would talk within our group of friends and sometimes on our own. I have been told by other friends that his wife did not like that he had a ...
A. 8 March 2011: The point here is that his wife told him to stay away and he listened. No one knows what is going through this married man mind and the only fact we know is that he listened to his wife and is avoiding this women. The wife was right to remove the ... (read in full...)
Can you collect unemployment if you move to another state?
Q. Does anyone know if you can collect unemployment if you need to relocate to another state. ??? I've bee at my job for 7yrs now in NJ and need to move to NC. Can I coLlect ??...
A. 7 March 2011: No you can't because you voluntarily quit your job. In some cases you can collect but relocation is not cover under unemployment benefits.
http://www.nd.gov/humanservices/policymanuals/tanf-508/400_17_55_15.htm... (read in full...)
I gave him my virginity, now I feel like I'm losing him
Q. we have known each other for three years and kept relationship for four months. Everything is perfect, but when he asked if I had ever someone else in mouth, I said yes, and it was 8 years ago with ex bf. He shows upset though he tried to control. ...
A. 7 March 2011: Your boyfriend knows your going through something and instead of calling it off he just wants to give you time. If Im reading this correctly he does have feelings for you but you feel guilty that you gave him your virgintity. Giving a person our ... (read in full...)
They all warned me about my wife - but I'll feel guilty if I leave her
Q. First of all, let me start this by writing that I appreciate everyone's time you spent reading this and sharing my experiences. I will not bore everyone into every detail of my marriage; it won't encompass everything, and everything has two ...
A. 7 March 2011: You either have a life with a controling wife that puts you down and demands to much out of you. You tried giving it a try and talk to her and grows some balls and take control of your life and make your decisions. Or you leave her find your own pa... (read in full...)
Unhappily married....what do I do now?
Q. I got married at Christmas past. For about six months before the wedding I thought that it didn't feel right but put it down to pre-wedding nerves. Since we have been married (only 2 1/2 months) I have become desperately unhappy. I don't want to ...
A. 4 March 2011: You probably jumped into this marriage to quickly. You weren't really ready to live a married life. I suggest you talk to your wife and tell her your concerns and maybe together you two can seek professional help. There is always a light at the end ... (read in full...)
What nicknames do girls give to their vaginas?
Q. hiya. im 17 F. i know its a bit silly but my girl friends and i were talking about what nicknames we call our vaginas and we wanted to know more names. we came up with pussy, fluffy and gina. can you help? ...
A. 4 March 2011: "The Butterfly"... (read in full...)
Wife has banned her husband from talking to me!
Q. There is this married man who has a huge crush on me. Everybody knows it. He used to see me everyday and we would talk within our group of friends and sometimes on our own. I have been told by other friends that his wife did not like that he had a ...
A. 4 March 2011: The wife has the right to fight and protect her marriage. I don't find her a bit insecure because she handle the situation and took a stand, she didn't allow herself to be taken as a joke by either her husband or you. I give her credit because she ... (read in full...)
I cheated, how can I get him to want me again?
Q. My question is based on me cheating on my husband. Well didn't have sex but went and stayed with another man and he believes I didn't sleep with guy but says I wanted comfort from another man. Is there anyway to make him want me again? It's been ...
A. 3 March 2011: Why don't you try talking to him. Let him know that you love him and have learned from this experience. Tell him that you want to make him happy and have your family back. In reality, you cheated and left and you agreed to move back and have ca... (read in full...)
My ex accuses me of being slutty but I'm not!
Q. My partner and I were together for six years. We have two kids together. We are splitting up but can't afford to move out right now so we are currently living in the same house. He is the one who broke up with me but whenever I leave the house (I ...
A. 23 February 2011: He broke up with you, and as long as you are respecting your kids home by not bringing random strangers home it shouldn't matter to you what he thinks. I have to agree its the male ego and because your not crying your self to sleep he is now trying ... (read in full...)
My friend and my boyfriend are messaging each other, should I break up with him or ignore it?
Q. My BF and I are totally in love he even asked me to marry him. I told him I would in a few years and we have planned everything out..............Now his parents are a little iffy about him and me dating. Not only b/c of that but b/c he is two years ...
A. 23 February 2011: I think you should ditch the friend and breakup with the boyfriend!
Your friend is not a friend and I'm sure you know this by now. A real friend will not to hook up with your boyfriend. If you keep this friend and you marry this guy you might ap... (read in full...)
She tells me she loves me, but she hasn't stopped hanging out with this other man! Should I move on?
Q. Dear Cupid, After three years of being with my girlfriend, things have somewhat fallen apart. Throughout our relationship we have faced challenges, most of them from her children going through that 'rebellious' stage and causing us both a lot of...
A. 23 February 2011: You have been there when she has needed you and gave her support, love, and time. You have been patience in the relationship but for a relationship to work both hearts have to be in it in order for the relationship to work. Its not fair when one ... (read in full...)
Is his heart open for me or is his ex still in it?
Q. New relationship - 2 1/2 mos. - background he was in a 17 yr relationship, she broke up with him due to different interest/finding herself. Its been 2 yrs and he still has photos of her on his phone and computer. Seems to me that would remind him ...
A. 23 February 2011: 17 years is such a long time and she broke up with him, I don't want to burst your bubble but be careful because it seems like you are the rebound girl. Many time a person is just in-love with being in a relationship that they do not give themself ... (read in full...)
He's 23, I'm 40, we had a fleeting relationship, but now he's suddenly decided he wants space and has taken off!
Q. Ok in october 2010 I moved into a new neighborhood, directly across the street was a gorgeous younger man. I have been living with someone for 2 1/2 yrs in a "relationship" but he treated me crappy but was helping me pay for college, so I exsist...
A. 23 February 2011: There is nothing you can do now, he has left and told you he wanted space. If you invade his space he might resent you for it. Keep it as a nice memory and with time you will heal.... (read in full...)
Pregant and scared of my dad's reaction...
Q. i am 10 weeks pregnant and it has just started to sink in after finding out a few weeks ago. My partner in over joyed and i told my mum the other day who is also pleased at becoming a grandmother. However she did say that my dad will be sad and ...
A. 23 February 2011: He doesn't know and I bet you he is going to be thrill with the idea of becoming a grand daddy. If he reacts differently than give it time and you will see with the birth of the baby and him carry him him/her in his arms his heart is going to melt ... (read in full...)
Am I over thinking this or is he not that serious about us and doesn't see any real future?
Q. I am in my mid thirties. I am seeing a guy with the past year. He is very reluctant to meet my family(my sister lives up the road) I did meet his family at xmas after alot of fighting on my behalf. On one occassion he was dropping me off at my ...
A. 23 February 2011: You met his family so I think he is taking you seriously. Many men get a little nervous and chicken out when they have to meet the family. Many times its not because they don't want to meet them but because they are worried about if her family is ... (read in full...)
I keep cheating on my partner with my ex! I know I am hurting others and myself, so how do I stop this?
Q. My ex and I had a baby, she is 2 now. We really never got along, but when we did it was great. About when my daughter was one there were more problems between us- just trying to get situated with all the changes. I ended up sleeping with a guy from ...
A. 22 February 2011: You can't make up your mind on what you want so the best thing for you to do is to be single. I truly believe that if a person is really really inlove with thier partner, girlfriend/boyfriend, husband/wife the person will not cheat. I a perso... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend back?
Q. hi im 34 and met this girl last summer...well she grew up in my hometown so i guess i always knew of her just didnt talk before and last summer she got one of my friends to ask me out so i gave it a try and we dated for 5 and a half ...
A. 16 February 2011: She said you might lose her as a friend. In reality thats all you are to her a friend. I say move on because it will be painful keeping her close.... (read in full...)
Married, cheated with ex, got caught, still married and still miss my ex!!!! Help!!!
Q. I cheated on my husband with my first love, who has a girlfriend. We didn't have a long affair, we mostly emailed, texted and we were able to meet a few times. We had sex and it was incredible. Back in high school when we dated he left me because ...
A. 3 February 2011: I know you don't want to hear this but I think that if its your ex that you love you can't be unfair to your husband and keep him in a loveless marriage.
Maybe the relationship with your ex is going no where, but also your marriage, because ... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend back?
Q. hi im 34 and met this girl last summer...well she grew up in my hometown so i guess i always knew of her just didnt talk before and last summer she got one of my friends to ask me out so i gave it a try and we dated for 5 and a half ...
A. 3 February 2011: Sorry to hear that but if all week all you do is sit and wait fot the weekend to come so you can go and get drunk and hang out with her than I feel your wasting a lot of good time. You are shutting your eyes to the possiblity of finding happiness. ... (read in full...)
Is he afraid of his feelings and the direction we were headed in or was I being toyed with?
Q. I've been dating this guy for three months and changes his mind on what he wants every two weeks it seems like. When we started seeing eachother, he was excited yet hesitant to meet my daughter. He met Jess and told me he was unsure of the situation ...
A. 2 February 2011: You have a daughter and he knew this was going to be something that bothered him and the smart thing for him to do was part ways. Their are many man that can accept a women with a family but there are others who can't and its a good thing the ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for my girlfriend to be kissing her female friends?
Q. hey guys i have soemthing to ask you all is it okay when the girls kinda kiss each other, not with tongue though, but just kissing, my girlfriend is doin this with her friends and its really pissing me off :S i always tell her to stop doin it but...
A. 2 February 2011: I would honestly say if its a peck there is nothing wrong with it, but if it bothers you and you told her that it makes you feel uncomfortable and you would like for her to stop and she continues to do it than obviously she is not taking your ... (read in full...)
Spark for another man, not my husband!
Q. I have been married for 14 years but I have lost all sexual attraction for my husband. We get along for the most part and he treats me well although we do fight quite a bit. We have financial problems and three young children. We do not spend any ...
A. 2 February 2011: That spark you feel for this other man is just that a spark. Your husband has your heart and even thought you are going through this rocky road at the end of the day its your husband and your family that you love. If you didn't love him you would ... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend back?
Q. hi im 34 and met this girl last summer...well she grew up in my hometown so i guess i always knew of her just didnt talk before and last summer she got one of my friends to ask me out so i gave it a try and we dated for 5 and a half ...
A. 2 February 2011: That is all you can do give her time and space. In the mean time try to meet new people, mingle with other people don't just sit and wait.... (read in full...)
She knows how I feel but keeps her distance from me!
Q. I'm a female and really can't get dis woman out my mind. She know how I feel yet she keep her distance from me. I want 2 spend my life with her it just we don't click da same. how can I show her i can be in da same class style and statue as her. ...
A. 2 February 2011: So you two are not in a relationship right? Have you tried asking her out, taking her out to dinner, showering her with attention. If you do all this and she keeps her ditance than the answer is that she is not interested. If she shows no interest ... (read in full...)
What I don't understand is why would she have sabotaged this relationship?
Q. My girlfriend and I broke up last week. We had been dating for a year. The first 6 months were great and we never fought. The last 6 months have been turbulent with episodes of fights and making up almost on a monthly basis. The periods between ...
A. 2 February 2011: You can never be wrong on how you feel. You feel neglected because she is a girlfriend and a mother and when she is not spending time with the kids she is choosing to spend time with the girls instead of you. In a relationship it has to be 50/50 in ... (read in full...)
She broke up saying the relationship had become a burden
Q. I got to know my ex-gf in Q4 2009, we share some same interests and hobbies, and it wasn't long before we got together. The relationship lasted for 9 months, and it was her first relationship. It was a wonderful one, and I thought we made ...
A. 2 February 2011: Give her time and space that is all you can do. Right now it is so recent so your not thinking straight, your thinking with your heart. You feel like you can't be without her but give it time and you too will be able to call it quits. It will hurt ... (read in full...)
She finally confessed her infidelity. What do I do?
Q. This is a very confused guy who loves her girlfriends of 6 years to bits. However,my Girlfriend finally confessed to me the guy entered her but stopped when she shouted because it hurt. (From the description, I know personally how difficul...
A. 2 February 2011: I personaly don't believe in the once a cheater always a cheater because I truly believe that a person can change. What causes a person to change in a situation like yours regrets, and shame, the feeling that you might lose the person you love. I ... (read in full...)
Is my b/f right that my ex is obsessed with me?
Q. I was dating this guy for 2 years and we have a son together but we broke up about 3 months ago. Since then he hasnt dated anyone else and says he loves me and still wants to be with me. However, im with someone else who knows about the situation ...
A. 2 February 2011: If you still have feelings for your ex than you need to try to fix this relationship or at least try. You cannot start a new relationship because this guy is obviously the rebound guy and you can't play with people's emotions like that. I think you ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend seeing another girl?
Q. My boyfriend and I had spoke about this before and we decided to try it. We were both down for it happening. Well we had sex with another couple. They are friends of ours. And when we did it we had fun. We were of course a little on the drunk ...
A. 2 February 2011: I'm with Caring Guy on this one, you might have seen your boyfriend enjoy himself to much with this other girl and now this is all you think off. This are the things that might be running through your head...
Is he thinking on her?
Was she m... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 1 February 2011: Sometime the threesome are more than a person can handle. Be prepare if the girlfriends decides to go back to her ex since he was great in the bedroom, or that they decide to go behind your back for seconds. Many things can follow a night of fun so ... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend back?
Q. hi im 34 and met this girl last summer...well she grew up in my hometown so i guess i always knew of her just didnt talk before and last summer she got one of my friends to ask me out so i gave it a try and we dated for 5 and a half ...
A. 1 February 2011: Respect her decision of being just friend. If this is to hard for you to handle maybe as hard as its sounds you should let it be and give her her space and freedom. You can't force her into being with you.... (read in full...)
I cant accept his religion, but I cant be without him either!
Q. hey..im really confused and stressed out lately. i m in this relationship for 5 yrs. well i love him so much.. and he does too. but there is a religion difference between us..i mean its okay with me of being different, but he want me to convert to ...
A. 31 January 2011: You can't force yourself to believe in what you don't believe simple as that. Religion is very important to alot of people and it can be the foundation of a marriage and family but if you have different belief than your not being true to yourself ... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend back?
Q. hi im 34 and met this girl last summer...well she grew up in my hometown so i guess i always knew of her just didnt talk before and last summer she got one of my friends to ask me out so i gave it a try and we dated for 5 and a half ...
A. 31 January 2011: She just got out of a marriage and maybe does not want to jump in the boat so soon. She might want to enjoy her freedom and maybe she felt a little pressure from you. You probably came to strong so fast. Talk to her give her space and time, but also ... (read in full...)
I hate condoms and she won't go on the pill!
Q. I am in a bit of a predicament with my new girlfriend. We're both 22 and have been going out for 2 months. Last week we talked about having sex with each other for the first time, it's not that one of us doesn't feel ready it's just an issue with ...
A. 31 January 2011: I would feel very uncomfortable for my partner to want to have sex with me without a condom. This would just show how careless he has been in the past. The realationship has to grow and I have to trust him and he has to trust me and know that we are ... (read in full...)
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