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Help! My girlfriend seems to be having second thoughts!
Q. So me an my girl will have been going together for a year this January. This is my first relationship and her second. We are both 20. Are relationship has also been sexual for this time. We have had many fights in this time but have always ...
A. 9 December 2010: good to hear that you broke it off and was able to remain friends.... (read in full...)
Surprise kiss and now he thinks I don't like him!
Q. Hi I was out with my friends in the snow today and my friend that I really like lets call him ''Luke'' tackled me to the the ground and kissed me full on and i was kind of stunned so i didn't kiss back and he got really upset.Now he thinks that i...
A. 29 November 2010: grab an ice cube and put it down his shirt, you will definitely catch his attention using this approach. Once you have his attention tell him not to be silly that you really like him and that he startle you when he kissed you. ... (read in full...)
I'm so upset, I lost my virginity to him but now he thinks I've cheated and is back with his ex!
Q. Hey, bit of a long story but need help! Well me and my boyfriend were going amazing, i loved him so much! We had split in the summer as work was too busy and he said he wouldn't have had time to see me. But we got back together in the septembe...
A. 29 November 2010: Sounds like he is a scumbag. He obviously used you for sex and had a relationship with you until someone else popped back into his life. All the BS that is coming out of his mouth are excuses, he simply does not want to be with you. As harsh as it ... (read in full...)
She's been moody and now isn't texting me back. Help me please!
Q. need help here guys. there is this girl that i like. we are both in college levels but in different schools. she is pure korean and im half chinese. we always talk a lot everyday text and call. and we've been on a date. watching movies and having ...
A. 29 November 2010: At some point it is better to give them time and she asked you for it so it will good be a good idea to respect her wishes.... (read in full...)
How do I get him back?
Q. My boyfriend of 1 year and I have broken up. We have a make up to break up kind of relationship. We fight and argue a lot which always end up with a breakup and then we get back together in a day or less. We weren't like this all the time and I ...
A. 29 November 2010: The problem with break up to make up relationships is that one day one of the person's involve will get tired of the breaking up to making up game and will eventually call your bluff. ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my ex and I regret it so much!
Q. I had sex with my ex bf 3 days ago and i felt extremely guilty for myself.I don't know what the hell am i doing after i left his house. Here is the story : Me and my ex went for a movie after 4 months of break up. He hug me,kiss me in the cinema...
A. 29 November 2010: He has obviously moved on and he only wants you as a friend better yet a friend with benefit. Now can you give him these benefits without being in a relationship? Its really easy for a guy to have sex without having any emotions and if you allow him ... (read in full...)
Is there anything else we can use for protection that I wont be allergic to?
Q. hi ok ive been thinking about my first time a lot lately, my boyfriend is very patient and said whenever im ready its ok with him.. now one of the reasons i havnt is because im allergic to medicine specially cortizones and steroids, is there ...
A. 29 November 2010: If you don't feel comfortable asking him these question than obviously your not ready for sex. You have to be able to talk to your partner about personal things regarding condoms, ex sexual partners, STD's and if you just can't because you ... (read in full...)
I pressured him into leaving his wife for me and now I havent heard from him in 2 weeks!
Q. i just broken up with my ex bf for 5yrs.then i met a man who made me happy.im at first we met on friendster and said he was single.he lied..he is married. We are madly in love with each other.he told me that he will divorce his wife. I pressured him ...
A. 29 November 2010: He is lying to you because if he wanted a divorce he can still get it even if his wife fights it. He obviously only wanted you when this was an affair but your probably changing the game and he is not liking it so he is keeping his distance. Don't ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex wife is still the center of his and his family's life!
Q. My boyfriend's ex-wife is still in the centre of his and his family's life and I dont like it ... When we met he already had a holiday book with her and the children as they were both single and good friends. I was OK about it as I thought friend...
A. 29 November 2010: Hopefully you can get along with his ex's and try to merge into his family gatherings. Don't feel like an intruder and that your in-laws are choosing sides take that mentality away. Its hard but its best to choose your battles and family gathering ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex wife is still the center of his and his family's life!
Q. My boyfriend's ex-wife is still in the centre of his and his family's life and I dont like it ... When we met he already had a holiday book with her and the children as they were both single and good friends. I was OK about it as I thought friend...
A. 24 November 2010: Well I spend Christmas with both my mom and my dad and my moms new husband and my dad's new wife. I'm grown up but as I was growing up I don't remember spending a holiday with out my parents both being there. I know this is something they did for ... (read in full...)
I've cheated and totally ashamed of myself, do I tell my partner?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 and half years, for the last two years since my best friend passed away I have been terrible depressed and thinking about life so much. I have lived with my boyfriend for quite a number of years, he is a l...
A. 24 November 2010: I think you cheated on a break therefore not cheating well at least in my book. I also feel that your boyfriend needs to know because this was with his so call friend not a random stranger so the chances of your boyfriend finding out are pretty ... (read in full...)
How do I rectify this?
Q. so was plannign on saying this to my guy at the end of the date tonight as we were sitting in the car: "theres something i need to tell you because its been on my mind- last time i think i got a little caught up in the moment with taking my bra an...
A. 24 November 2010: You should tell him you want things slow, and most definitely tell him before you take your bra off because if your getting topless while making out both his heads are going to think its time to party. ... (read in full...)
Is getting out of this relationship the right thing to do?
Q. I met a man .. he is married and have one daughter . he tell me that in the first time i met him .. and he found out that he loves me more and more each day ..his a muslim and he allowed to have two wife ..but for me its not fair .. i plan to get ...
A. 24 November 2010: Maybe you should get out of this relationship because your questioning it,should you stay or should go, listen to your subconscious be with a man that will only want to have one wife, why share your man with someone else. ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my first love and I am so scared that I will lose him! What should I do?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 8 months. from the begginning i really liked him and and we started seeing eachother every weekend. one weekend got really intimate and had sex with him. after a while i saw that he layed back about ...
A. 24 November 2010: Don't you think it would be best it came out of you instead of anyone else. Talk to him bring the skeletons out of the closet and see what happens. Can you really live a life full of lies. This is your decision and if you think your conscious will ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents I'm seeing an older man?
Q. seeing older boyfriend worried how my parents will take it i am 16 and he is 19 almost 20 . i know there is a age gap but i am scared of what my parents will do .. we aren't planning on doing anything .. any way it would be illegal. any ways my que...
A. 24 November 2010: Its not such a big age difference but it is illegal since you are a minor. Honestly to be frank I would not put a red flag up but I'm not your parent so I would advise you to be caution and respect their decision. If they ok with it than go with the ... (read in full...)
Should I just give up and move on now?
Q. so I called my gf several times and she never answered. So I went to investigate turns out she has been on tiny chat the past 5 hrs with some oher guy. Then she finnaly picked up and I asked her about that, she told me they werent flirting,...
A. 24 November 2010: She should value the time with you before you get deploy, and she didn't and hasn't. That should show you that you are not priority in her life. Move on you be better off!... (read in full...)
Surviving being left for someone else, and coming out on the other side a stronger person
Q. Four months ago my long term boyfriend of three years dumped me for another girl. It has been a long, hard and painful journey, but it does get better. I have learned a lot from my experiences and have actually become grateful for this in some ways. ...
A. 24 November 2010: I love the article, and keep up the good work, what doesn't kill us can only make us stronger right?... (read in full...)
I caught my sister masturbating
Q. I walked into my younger sisters room to get her downstairs for lunch nd i saw her in her bed nude masturbaiting with a gel bottle and i dont know if i should tell mum and dad?...
A. 23 November 2010: Why would you want to tell, would you like for your sister to tell on you. Your around the masturbating age, now ask yourself this question is it wrong for you to masturbate, it is right, so why do you think its wrong for your sister to do it. I ... (read in full...)
I'm married but have feelings for another guy
Q. I don't know what to do about this. The more I try to gain control over myself the more I am slipping away. I met Mr.A over a year ago during a time of chronic stress. At that time, I had found him very irritating and annoying. Though, I tried ...
A. 23 November 2010: I think that you should end your marriage first, you don't feel that connection to your husband. You two are not in the same page and therefore it will be wrong to judge you, but you cheating on your husband is reason to judge because instead of ... (read in full...)
How do I break up with her?
Q. Hello Long but please persevere. I am in an unfamiliar situation and I don't know how to solve it. Unfortunately I was in a serious motorbike crash in January, in which both my legs and my left knee were badly broken, my left foot was crushed, I...
A. 23 November 2010: I dated and was in a relationship with this person for 5 years. He was a medical student he was determine to become a doctor and I was there and supported his ambitions I stayed out of his way when he had to really study and gave him my time and ... (read in full...)
He never says he loves me, does this mean he just using me for sex?
Q. I meet a man last year november 2009 .. and from that on we meet each other as a normal girlfriend and boyfriend .. i love him from months pass by i started loving him till now we still together have sex, cooking food together , hangout do some ...
A. 23 November 2010: I think he has strong feelings for you because he is investing all his time with you. I wouldn't worried so much as to him not saying it because this is a very strong and important word and some men as well as women won't say it until they know for ... (read in full...)
Been together a year but he doesn't call me his girlfriend.
Q. Is there any love after a year of knowing each other ?spend time together ? I really confused of my self if something wrong on me why the man i own as my boyfriend .. never claim me as his girlfriend or never say anything about ..our situation is ...
A. 23 November 2010: Why don't you ask him where you stand in his life. If he is not claiming you as his girlfriend but just a friend than you might want to think on this whole situation because you might not want to be his friend with benefit. ... (read in full...)
Can our relationship be successfull even though he lies and cheats?
Q. Do you think its possible for a relationship to be successful when in the first 4 months of the relationship the man has consistently lied and cheated through it? ...
A. 23 November 2010: He is obliviously a liar and a cheat question is are you going to be with a person who you do not trust, a person who has violated and disrespected you time after time and again.
Every time he is not with you are you going to be paranoid... (read in full...)
Help! My girlfriend seems to be having second thoughts!
Q. So me an my girl will have been going together for a year this January. This is my first relationship and her second. We are both 20. Are relationship has also been sexual for this time. We have had many fights in this time but have always ...
A. 23 November 2010: Why don't you make this hard decision. Obviously you two are too different and have different goals and expect different things in life. ... (read in full...)
Why did it feel weird?
Q. Ok so I'm 14, the boy I like is 15, He asked me out and I thought he was messing around like usual, so I asked him to prove it to me that he loved me... He told me to meet him, so I did we stood around for abit and then walked about 10 meters ...
A. 22 November 2010: Why would you allow him to put your hand in his trousers. He is not your boyfriend and just because he said he likes you doesn't mean you should allow this foreplay.
At your age you need to take care of your reputation, you don't want to be know ... (read in full...)
I don't feel pretty.
Q. i am 13 im ugly with brown spots (one above my lip and one on my cheek on the other side) on my face, i have dark brown eyes, and my friends alway call me pretty, even though im sure im not. i hate how there are so pretty people and i aint even half ...
A. 22 November 2010: You need to think highly of yourself and the vibe that you send out is the vibe people read about you. If your positive than you will get positive feedback.
You might have an awesome personality and a strong character that will catch someone ... (read in full...)
My gorgeous, married neighbor is always home alone!
Q. hey i'm a 21 year old guy and i hav a very gorgeus looking married neighbour who lives alone at her home,as her husband is out of station most of the time.though both of us have never talked to each other but the way she looks at me,it seems that ...
A. 22 November 2010: Are you looking for a friendship or an affair?
She is married and its probably best for you to leave her alone.
When a person is in a relationship and there is an affair going on, you can count on someone getting hurt.
You can fall for her ... (read in full...)
Do you think my boyfriend isn't that into me because he wants a threesome
Q. Hi, I recently lost my virginity to my gay boyfriend. It was quite an awkward experience... It lasted for around 3 hours and I didn't get aroused much, because we spent all night drinking coffee and cola and watching movies. So I hope that he ...
A. 22 November 2010: if you were both virgins and the this was the very first time having sex, than I'm a little puzzled on why the topic of a threesome. I think you two just had sex for the hell of it with no emotions or connection. If your going to be having casual ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for me to ask to be exclusive?
Q. I have been dating someone for over 2 months now and things are relatively well. He asked for us to get tested for stds because he wants to go off condoms. Is it ok for me to ask for us to be dating exclusively?? I do not not know if he's dating ...
A. 22 November 2010: This is your life and you sure don't want to catch any STD if he wants to get off the condom than your in your right to ask to be exclusive. Don't gamble with your life be safe.... (read in full...)
What is the perfect penis size?
Q. OK, so I know there are a lot of penis size questions on DC, and most of the aunts are honest and offer reassuring advice on this sensitive topic. And we get that size is not everything, and bigger is not always better and it can hurt, etc. And ...
A. 22 November 2010: I like 7 inches its a comfortable size, I preferred this size because its average its not that big and its not too small. ... (read in full...)
Do women really prefer more 'masculine' men for sex but less 'masculine' men for relationships?
Q. I've read quite a few articles about evolutionary psychology and the theory that women tend to prefer more masculine men for short term sexual relationships, but prefer less masculine men for long term relationships. As I understand it, the theory ...
A. 22 November 2010: All women have different taste in men and just like a man we might look at a person's features first and if we find them attractive we might seek a relationship but it their attitude, their personality, their heart that will win us over. We might ... (read in full...)
Do you think my boyfriend isn't that into me because he wants a threesome
Q. Hi, I recently lost my virginity to my gay boyfriend. It was quite an awkward experience... It lasted for around 3 hours and I didn't get aroused much, because we spent all night drinking coffee and cola and watching movies. So I hope that he ...
A. 22 November 2010: I really think that if your boyfriend was all into you he would have a little more respect for you. You lost your virginity to him and as far as I know people normally do this with the person that they love and therefore I feel that your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
Is she marriage quality?
Q. I have been going out with this girl for 1.5 years now. We are both in our forties. She has had many many relationships in the past. I discovered that she falls in love very quickly (like she did with me) and she started many of her relationships ...
A. 22 November 2010: I think since you are a divorcee you might be a little paranoid about the whole marriage situation. Make sure you think it through before you decide to marry her or not, don't let your insecurities get in the way. ... (read in full...)
Help! My girlfriend seems to be having second thoughts!
Q. So me an my girl will have been going together for a year this January. This is my first relationship and her second. We are both 20. Are relationship has also been sexual for this time. We have had many fights in this time but have always ...
A. 22 November 2010: You two have different goals nothing wrong with that. She might have liked you and developed feelings for you through time but the difference in goal is the set back here. I feel that maybe you two are not compatible may love each other but the ... (read in full...)
How do I face them after our drunken threesome?
Q. I feel so sad guilty and ashamed. Yesterday my hubby and me went out for drinks after work, we were having so much fun that we didn't want to call it a night so we went home and continue drinking and my best friend tagged along we were having a ...
A. 22 November 2010: Thank you all for your advise. I will give you a quick follow up since that day my husband and I talked about it and agreed not talk about it again. I can't really get mad at him because I freely participated I was not force, drunken but not force. ... (read in full...)
She never shuts up about him!
Q. okay, so I have this one friend that I love like a little sister. She comes to me a lot with her issues because I'm two years older than her. So, about 5 months ago she got her first boyfriend. I was naturally happy for her when times were good ...
A. 20 November 2010: every-time she brings up the subject just roll your eyes back breath hard and say aha and listen soon enough she will realize that it annoys you.... (read in full...)
He is my FWB but I have fallen for him do I tell him?
Q. Hi i've been seeing this guy for a few months for sex after our short relationship ended because I'm moving away soon and he dosnt want to get hurt when I leave. At first I wasn't keen on him but the sex was good so it continued and now I have f...
A. 20 November 2010: Sorry to tell you this but I think your friend is not into you and only wants the benefits of sex. The best thing you can do is let him know how you feel and see what his response is and go from there.... (read in full...)
How do I face them after our drunken threesome?
Q. I feel so sad guilty and ashamed. Yesterday my hubby and me went out for drinks after work, we were having so much fun that we didn't want to call it a night so we went home and continue drinking and my best friend tagged along we were having a ...
A. 20 November 2010: I know I was drunk but I did not initiated this threesome, it was my husband.
He had asked me before if I would ever have a threesome and I would always reply back saying NO.
Last night when it happened I didn't feel pressured but I so regret ... (read in full...)
My husband drinks too much and it really scares me!
Q. My husband and I have known each other for about ten years (since we were 18). We started dating at the six year mark of that, got engaged at the seven year mark and got married at the eight year mark. So, all in all, we've been together for four ...
A. 19 November 2010: This is so sad, I feel sorry for your husband, and it must be hard to escape that nightmare. Ask him to get help because he has to want the help in order for him to stop the drinking. I really think that he needs to see a professional to help him ... (read in full...)
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