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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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If I want optimal results, should I be clean shave, have some stubble, or full beard?
Q. I know looks are only part of what women want, and other factors for attraction come into play, like how active I am, how I take care of myself, etc. But, my question here is, what should I do, facial hair wise, to get some more potential suitor...
A. 3 July 2013: some will some won't OP
again do not groom just to meet women...groom yourself the way it makes you happy.... (read in full...)
Am I dating someone too young for me?
Q. I'm a 26 year old mature student and I recently began seeing another student who is 18 about to turn 19, it took me a while to go on a date with this guy cause of the age difference but we get on really well, however I am still really worried about ...
A. 28 May 2013: Let me put this in perspective for you…
When I was 26 my husband was turning 13.
If you are happy and enjoy the guy you are dating, and he is happy and you are both over 18 I don’t see a problem. The issue may come later on down the roa... (read in full...)
How can I get this man to commit to me?
Q. Hi all. I'm 21 and my boyfried is 39. Yes, I realize the age difference but that's never mattered to me and my parents don't seem to mind much. We've been together since I was 18 and for being my age, that's a long time. Yes, we've both had a few ...
A. 28 May 2013: If you are now 21 and have been with him for 3 years that means you were 18 when you started with a man who was 36. To me that speaks VOLUMES about his not wanting anything serious or permanent or committed..
His child has nothing to do with ... (read in full...)
Should I just break up with him, move on, and wait for someone who will appreciate me and love me?
Q. Hello agony aunts. I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years 3 days ago. My best friend was leaving the place we shared and i was pretty upset.i cried the whole day.when my bf got to know this he went bonkers. He told me i didn't cry for him when...
A. 24 May 2013: he stops talking to you for 2-3 MONTHS?
seriously? MONTHS? not hours, not days not weeks MONTHS?
and he's whining about you being upset about losing a good friend to a very long distance.
since he's not speaking to you now, use thi... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to bring a friend or let the girls bring a friend?
Q. Going to be going to an amusement park with a girl I'm 90% interested in. It's going to be me, her, one of her best friends (a mutual friend), and a fourth person (whom the girl in question told me to pick from my friends). We're all from diffe...
A. 24 May 2013: if you want to make time with this new girl it's better for her friend to bring someone that will keep her entertained as well.
... (read in full...)
I think I did the right thing in breaking up a LDR but I still feel sad!
Q. Hi there, I broke up with my long distance boyfriend about a week ago. He lives in Boston and I'm in California. We were together almost 4 years and were incredibly in love. He was my first serious boyfriend. We saw each other about 3 times a ...
A. 24 May 2013: you are young and in a LDR that is difficult since you are on opposite ends of the country.
I could not have a boyfriend I only saw three times a year. I'd be insane.
I assume you have broken up and gone no contact... and that's hard... b... (read in full...)
How do I know if he has another girl?
Q. I'm 22. my guy is is 27 and we've been dating almost 4years. We both see each other we pay each other visit ,call each other on phone and joke but now his attitude towards me change suddenly, i don't seems to get him any longer if i pay him visi...
A. 24 May 2013: you are dating almost four years and he moved and did not tell you... he does not call you, he hides his phone...
I assume that pay him a visit means... come over and have sex....
if you don't call him, text him or facebook him, how lo... (read in full...)
How can I tactfully reject him?
Q. Hello, First off thank you in advance for taking the time to read and offer advice :) I have a FRIEND that insists on hanging out with me and stuff. He invited me to a wedding in Washington state, he calls me "sexy", "Pretty lady" and things...
A. 24 May 2013: Agree with everyone else... do not play games. it's childish and immature.
Be an adult and go out for coffee or something casual where you can sit face to face and talk... and then tell him where he stands with you and how you feel about hi... (read in full...)
Are there some women that just do not like receiving oral sex?
Q. Hi there, I have a question about oral sex on a woman friend (or lack of). Several months ago when we first became intimate, she performed oral on me (with condom)and i politely asked if i could return the favour. The answer to my question was 'No, ...
A. 24 May 2013: I don't think Anon means to FORCE it, just that it's a natural thing for most folks to just segue into it... and stopping halfway... to ask permission seems a bit awkward to me as well.... (read in full...)
Am I facing a big problem here? Could my boyfriend be interested in this girl who talks really inappropriate sexual stuff with him?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm sorry but this is going to be a long post. I am really upset here and I need some advice. A girl my boyfriend knows (they're not really friends, but know each other) is always trying to talk to my boyfriend about stuff that I fee...
A. 24 May 2013: you have every right to tell him how you feel and why.
the issue is not what others say or do but rather what your bf says and does.
truth is that he enjoys her messages. if he didn't he would not respond. by not responding he sends the ... (read in full...)
Is it fair on us to be considering a LDR with her, in view of our past together?
Q. Dear Cupid I m in a tricky situation. my ex and I broke up last November after about 3 years . The relationship wasn't perfect but good. She had trust issues and at times she used to be really angry over the smallest things. We had loads of fig...
A. 24 May 2013: I would not have a committed relationship with a history of turbulence and potential cheating and a physical break of 4.5 years.
if the only thing that is passionate is fighting and sex, then what's the point of being in a relationship... (read in full...)
Are there some women that just do not like receiving oral sex?
Q. Hi there, I have a question about oral sex on a woman friend (or lack of). Several months ago when we first became intimate, she performed oral on me (with condom)and i politely asked if i could return the favour. The answer to my question was 'No, ...
A. 24 May 2013: Some women don't like it.
some women feel they smell or taste funny
I had a husband once who did not like blow jobs.... I taught him to like them.. he just had never had a good one
my ex husband loves to give oral his current wife did no... (read in full...)
What advice can I give my friend whose long distance boyfriend seems aloof?
Q. Hi there, It's been a long time since I was here. You all were great help. So now I'm back with a question for my friend. My friends have been in a relationship for 5 years. Mostly they are in Long Distance Relationship, since the boy went to st...
A. 24 May 2013: just because you talk about getting married or settling down does NOT make it love.
in your 20s a 5 year LDR is a time waster.
by now it should be known where you are going to live and they should be making plans to END the distance if t... (read in full...)
Every few days we have anal sex but I hate it and scares me to think of having it all my life!
Q. Hello! Straight to the facts: I have a rather big problem in my nearly perfect relationship. For introduction, I must inform you that I am (23) in relationship for nearly 7 month, 2 month ago we have moved together, he is so much caring and lovin...
A. 24 May 2013: OP I'm going to cut to the point
YOU don't want it
HE wants it and clearly is selfish and inconsiderate of you and your feelings. HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU ENOUGH.
so here are your options as I see it.
say no and lose him
or
s... (read in full...)
My fiance says that if I gain weight, he won't make love to me in the same way! How should I respond?
Q. My fiance has told me he hates fat women. He thinks they are disgusting and have no self control. His mother is heavy and he points to her for his reasoning. He told me, while making love to me, that if I ever gain weight, that he will not make...
A. 24 May 2013: When he said that "he will not make love to me in the manner he has"
my response would have been "of course not, you need different positions when you are fat than you do when you are thin"
I think what he means is he will not find you ... (read in full...)
Does sleeping in separate beds always lead to the end of a relationship?
Q. does sleeping in separate beds always lead to the end of a relationship? i ask because my fiance and i live together and i find it hard to sleep next to him due to his snoring. i've had important professional exams today, so for the last week, he's ...
A. 24 May 2013: I don't think it spells the end. My husband however does. He demands that we sleep in the same bed if we are under the same roof.
I have offered to go to the guest room as i am a restless sleeper and he says no.
He snores too but i... (read in full...)
My wife got pregnant by her lover and had a secret abortion!
Q. This is difficult but I will just say it. My wife had an affair with a person I considered my friend and got pregnant. She made arrangements with her lover (also married) and had a secret abortion one year ago. We have been married for 6 years and ...
A. 24 May 2013: Dear OP,
ONLY you can decide if you will forgive her. You will never forget this betrayal and to be honest your trust level with your wife will never return to what it was in the past.
My parent's marriage survived an affair but not with ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend may be hiding her past from me. How can I know whether she's a virgin?
Q. Hey friends.. I have a girlfriend and i love her much. we are in relationship from past 2 months. we met and became friends in her hometown. actually i guess that she is hiding her past from me and i dont feel good..so here her past goes.. ...
A. 23 May 2013: HUMAN bodies are not symmetrical. ALL women have one boob that is bigger than the other... in some it's noticeable in most it's not. In a few women it's so severe that surgery will be required. Perhaps she believes that the hit she received is ... (read in full...)
Is he using me? He gives me no physical contact but wants me to buy things for him!
Q. So, I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple weeks now. So far I have bought dinners, lunch, he told me he needed sunglasses, and then that he needed rent. He doesnt have a car and have been running him up and down the road. I dont particularly ...
A. 23 May 2013: Best way to know if he is using you (and he is) is to stop giving him money and stop running him all over the place in your car.
Do not pay for his meals. DO not OFFER to take him places.
and DO NOT think that getting physical will change it. ... (read in full...)
How do I teach my partner to apologise and show him it isnt a sign of weakness?
Q. My partner doesn't know how to sincerely apologise. He can do something wrong but he will never say sorry, let alone mean it. He will most likely get angry with me and find something to blame me for and turn it all around. My question is, how...
A. 23 May 2013: I sometimes wait to say things. In this case I’m glad I did. Your follow ups give much more information.
My husband RARELY says what he should (I love you or I’m sorry). I KNOW that he is sorry. He was raised in a totally dysfunctional home and ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to convince her age is just a number? I'm 18 and she is in her forties but we have the most amazing connection....
Q. Hello everyone, Thank you in advance for reading this, and for your advice is any comes to mind :) I’ll try to keep this short and to the point. I’m 18, and gay (girl). I met the most amazing woman two weeks ago, at a concert. I assumed she...
A. 22 May 2013: well it's not that she hates you trust me.
you are battling two problems here.
1. she's old enough to be your mother and the age difference at 18 and 38 is huge. at 38 and 58 not so bad... but even I would not have dated my husband wh... (read in full...)
My Wedding. Does any one have any solutions? I'm just terrified of everything and everything revolving around me
Q. Hi! So I dont really know what to do for this, but I'm afraid of my wedding. I'm not afraid of commitment or anything and Im not afraid to go to other peoples weddings- just afraid of my own. I start looking at venues or dresses and just panic. ...
A. 22 May 2013: if it bothers you that much then don't have a wedding.
go to the court house and get married there.
you can always renew your vows and have a big party when you are no longer so uncomfortable with the concept.
there is no rule that... (read in full...)
So girls, would you rather have a chat and a long cuddle etc from a guy you are attracted to, or better that he not approach you at all, if he can't give you more time?
Q. Question for girls, I have quite long periods when I don't have time to date girls, due to time restraints of work and being on call there. My job requires me at times to be in the busy nightlife area. I often get signals from girls trying to get me ...
A. 21 May 2013: he's my husband already. I LOATHE that he's younger than I am to be honest.
Trust me it's not about jealousy when I see a younger woman on an older man's arm or vice versa.
The REASON you should not take ADVANTAGE of younger women is tha... (read in full...)
So girls, would you rather have a chat and a long cuddle etc from a guy you are attracted to, or better that he not approach you at all, if he can't give you more time?
Q. Question for girls, I have quite long periods when I don't have time to date girls, due to time restraints of work and being on call there. My job requires me at times to be in the busy nightlife area. I often get signals from girls trying to get me ...
A. 21 May 2013: At your given age OP a woman of 50 is more who I would like to see you with than a girl of 19
and as you said "I would think many young ones would prefer a cuddle to nothing."
and that to me is the key... they settle for crumbs instead o... (read in full...)
Would you date someone with so many tattoos? Or would you fear it would ruin your reputation?
Q. Today while on lunch break a friend said to me, very openly and out loud, "did you see all the tattoos on that guy's face? He must have been to prison!" I quietly nodded then thought of something... I was very attracted to another friend who had m...
A. 21 May 2013: I’m inked. I’m 53 and it’s very much against the religion I was raised with.
I have one small tatt on my wrist but my others are covered by business clothing and when folks who don’t know me well find out I’m inked they are surprised.
I work ... (read in full...)
I really love him but feel like running away. I can't cope with the fact that he had a daughter from a one night stand
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together since June 2012. He had a one night stand with a friend before we ever got together. Turns out she got pregnant. When she found out he he had denied being the father because she had slept with other guys too. ...
A. 21 May 2013: Parents are a package deal. You must accept his daughter or you must leave him.
What is it that bothers you so much about this situation?
... (read in full...)
Why do I want my ex back? Why can't I accept that its over?
Q. I am 18 years of age and my ex boyfriend is 22. We have been together 2years today. We have been split up for 3 weeks tomorrow. My ex split up with me because he said he needed a break because we had been living together for a few weeks because I ...
A. 21 May 2013: you want him back because even when it's bad, for some the idea of being alone or meeting someone new is harder than staying with the known same old thing.
It's EASIER to stay in a bad relationship than it is to branch out and allow yourself to ... (read in full...)
Guys: what's your opinion on strap-ons?
Q. During an alcohol-fueled conversation with a (straight) male friend about a month ago, he let it slip that his ex-girlfriend had sex with him using a strap-on...and he loved it. My boyfriend has requested that I come up with some new things to do in ...
A. 21 May 2013: I've had several men love being done with a strap on.
usually we used doggy style (with me in back)
LOTS of good lube (anal-eze is specifically for anal intercourse)
Personally if I could find a strap on that would stimulate my clit... (read in full...)
So girls, would you rather have a chat and a long cuddle etc from a guy you are attracted to, or better that he not approach you at all, if he can't give you more time?
Q. Question for girls, I have quite long periods when I don't have time to date girls, due to time restraints of work and being on call there. My job requires me at times to be in the busy nightlife area. I often get signals from girls trying to get me ...
A. 21 May 2013: I will gladly chat with folks any time, but to be honest I would not want a hug from a stranger.
But then I think that's a function of my age... I've seen young girls around 19 or so, who are desperate for physical contact take any hug... (read in full...)
Are relationships at 19 inevitably pointless?
Q. I'm 19 and currently at university, and I'm quite focused on stuff like my career, my studies, developing a good personality and making long-lasting friendships as that seems to be stuff that will last me for life and actually matter. Because I...
A. 21 May 2013: Old lady here…
First of all you will find it harder to “find a partner for life” if you don’t date. DATING is about finding someone not “hooking up” or sex.
My mother met my father at age 16. She married him at age 19; she died 48 years lat... (read in full...)
What city should I file for divorce in?
Q. I am thinking very seriously about divorcing my spouse. I was wondering if I plan on moving after I give him the papers do I find a lawyer in the city I live in now or then city I plan to move to? It will be in the same state. ...
A. 21 May 2013: I would think it would be easier to do in the city you are in now.
best thing to do is find an attorney. Most of them will give you free phone consults.
If you plan on moving AFTER you serve him with papers (that's actually nea... (read in full...)
Does this sound like normal puberty?
Q. Im 13. Ive had discharge for two years nonstop with no period. My breasts hurt i get headaches, ive noticed lots of blackheads and clogged pores, and i am constantly grumpy and hateful. What does this mean? help, i think puberty hates me...
A. 21 May 2013: When my stepdaughter was about your age, she was cranky, she was breaking out, she was grumpy and miserable.
IF you looked at her the wrong way she burst into tears....
I asked her one day "what's wrong?" (I knew but I wanted to see what s... (read in full...)
Is it right for an ex to buy you jewelry?
Q. Back once again about the obsessive ex. He texted me and said he has to see me tomorrow night (mothers day) because its important but says he won't be up until 9 at night my son is in bed by then. So I asked him why and he said he had to drop ...
A. 20 May 2013: yes you can get supervised visitation and child support.
contact an attorney in your area for further advice.... (read in full...)
When to reveal a disability during online dating?
Q. I have a disability, cerebral palsy. Unlike some other people with cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair, I run my own business. I have been exchanging messages with a girl on Match.com now for three weeks (only small messages.) So: 1) When s...
A. 20 May 2013: I'm so sorry OP but it sounds like she HOPED she would be able to find someone to distract her from her divorce and now she realizes it's not fair to you.
I would not get my hopes up with her any more.... (read in full...)
Am I naive to hope he'll change his mind about marriage and kids?
Q. Hi. I've been with my lovely boyfriend for five years. We want the same thing for our futures but he wants them much later than me. Instead of breaking up about it, we've decided to just take it day by day. I can't imagine being with anyone else. ...
A. 17 May 2013: He may change his mind he may not. IF he was 30 I'd say NO he won't change his mind but at 24, yep he may. I would say promise to stay as long as you can bear it. B
24 is pretty young now-a-days for marriage and kids. Even 30+years ago... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's mom had a health scare and now she drops everything for mom!
Q. My GF needs some help and I'm not sure what I can do. I've been with her 4 years and everything has been good. We're compatible, we resolve disagreements quick, etc. I'm not going to bore you with a list of how great things usually are... ...
A. 17 May 2013: The first thing that jumps out at me is your comment “it turned out to be completely benign and nothing is wrong.” That sir is your FIRST mistake. SOMETHING is VERY WRONG. It’s just not what you think.
The bond between mother and chil... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend has no time for me but always has time for his games and his friends
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together in a long distance relationship for a year. My boyfriend is a gamer, he spends most of his time with his friends playing video games all day long. I always feel ignored, i always feel like he'd rather spend ...
A. 17 May 2013: "we have nothing in common"
"I don't know what do do"
if you have nothing in common, if he does not call you, if you do not take his calls, why not break up and get a fresh start?
My husband is a MMO gamer and was when we met a... (read in full...)
How can I break up with my b/f? He always brings it up that he'll kill himself if I break up!
Q. hy!! 7months ago i asked for help to break up with my boyfriend. well every1 asked me to tell him the truth and breakup with him nicely. . here i go I'm still stuck him. . i tld him that i dnt love him nd i even cheated on him with ex bf. and he ...
A. 17 May 2013: IF he threatens to harm himself to keep you he's emotionally blackmailing you to stay and that's no good.
What you do is you tell the current boyfriend "WE aren't good anymore and I want us to not be a couple. I am NOT responsible for you and ... (read in full...)
If I want optimal results, should I be clean shave, have some stubble, or full beard?
Q. I know looks are only part of what women want, and other factors for attraction come into play, like how active I am, how I take care of myself, etc. But, my question here is, what should I do, facial hair wise, to get some more potential suitor...
A. 17 May 2013: I personally HATE the stubble look. IT’s so NON-committed. IF you WANT a beard and can grow a decent one (because nothing is as unattractive as a man trying to have a beard when he can’t really support it based on hair follicles) then do it for ... (read in full...)
Does my child's father have any rights? Hasn't paid support and his name isn't on the birth certificate
Q. Hi i have a son who is nearly 5 his dad has never seen him he told me to have a abortion or he was going to get someone to make me miscarry i had my son and brought him up alone but his dad has tried to get in contact with me he has nit paid a penny ...
A. 17 May 2013: IF he can prove he is the father he will have legal rights AND responsibilities.
Personally you should not have to go this alone. His parents may want to embrace this grandchild anyway.
I would contact a lawyer and find out how to get a pat... (read in full...)
Sex for the first time. Birth control options?
Q. I'm 22 years old and a virgin. I have been single for two years. During my previous relationships, I wasn't ready or interested in sex, but now I am. I've been dating a guy for a couple months. The relationship is still new, but I want to be ...
A. 17 May 2013: You must at your age be seeing a gynecologist for regular well woman visits.
IF you are not, find a gynecologist(or a local planned parenthood clinic) and when you go for your well woman visit, they will ask if you are sexually active. You ca... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't understand his ex-wife and her daughter are manipulating him
Q. hi,im 34 myparthners 52. we have 3 kids together. i love him but for some strange reason he thinks I don't love him but I love his money or etc. hes terribly wrong! he lived with his ex for 20 years.they have no kids together.we would have a har...
A. 17 May 2013: If you don't care about the money, then tell him to send them a weekly check via the bank, with the amount you can afford to spare the more the better. Then he's giving them what they want and they will leave him alone.
Problem solved. IF it's... (read in full...)
Is it right for an ex to buy you jewelry?
Q. Back once again about the obsessive ex. He texted me and said he has to see me tomorrow night (mothers day) because its important but says he won't be up until 9 at night my son is in bed by then. So I asked him why and he said he had to drop ...
A. 14 May 2013: Dear Connorsmommyy,
You need to NOT be speaking to your ex about anything that is not related to your child. Telling him that you did not LIKE the earrings is NOT telling him his behavior is unacceptable and inappropriate.
Arguing w... (read in full...)
Is it right for an ex to buy you jewelry?
Q. Back once again about the obsessive ex. He texted me and said he has to see me tomorrow night (mothers day) because its important but says he won't be up until 9 at night my son is in bed by then. So I asked him why and he said he had to drop ...
A. 13 May 2013: he got your diamond earrings? RETURN THEM.... in fact, have your FATHER return them to him... totally inappropriate.
... (read in full...)
Is it right for an ex to buy you jewelry?
Q. Back once again about the obsessive ex. He texted me and said he has to see me tomorrow night (mothers day) because its important but says he won't be up until 9 at night my son is in bed by then. So I asked him why and he said he had to drop ...
A. 13 May 2013: Let him take you to court for custody. What a childish blackmailing thing to say. He can’t afford Support but he can afford to sue for custody. I call BS he’s trying to scare you.
I would go to a lawyer and get court ordered child support ... (read in full...)
When to reveal a disability during online dating?
Q. I have a disability, cerebral palsy. Unlike some other people with cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair, I run my own business. I have been exchanging messages with a girl on Match.com now for three weeks (only small messages.) So: 1) When s...
A. 13 May 2013: YOu need to WAIT till she is no longer living with her estranged husband. At this point she is legally married and living with her spouse. Something she should have told you from the get go.... (read in full...)
When to reveal a disability during online dating?
Q. I have a disability, cerebral palsy. Unlike some other people with cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair, I run my own business. I have been exchanging messages with a girl on Match.com now for three weeks (only small messages.) So: 1) When s...
A. 7 May 2013: why wait till half term? why not ask about this weekend?... (read in full...)
When to reveal a disability during online dating?
Q. I have a disability, cerebral palsy. Unlike some other people with cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair, I run my own business. I have been exchanging messages with a girl on Match.com now for three weeks (only small messages.) So: 1) When s...
A. 2 May 2013: Yes to me it would be important to know you did not drive. but you can explain it quite naturally by saying when you make the plans, I don't drive so can we meet at such and such a place which is near the train station...
My girlfriend is marri... (read in full...)
When to reveal a disability during online dating?
Q. I have a disability, cerebral palsy. Unlike some other people with cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair, I run my own business. I have been exchanging messages with a girl on Match.com now for three weeks (only small messages.) So: 1) When s...
A. 1 May 2013: Sure... you can ask... but I would not ask her to pick you up...
offer to meet her but tell her you need it to be close to public transportation (if you do, I know if i did not drive walking would be difficult for me so I would need to be c... (read in full...)
When to reveal a disability during online dating?
Q. I have a disability, cerebral palsy. Unlike some other people with cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair, I run my own business. I have been exchanging messages with a girl on Match.com now for three weeks (only small messages.) So: 1) When s...
A. 1 May 2013: GOOD LUCK and keep us posted!... (read in full...)
When to reveal a disability during online dating?
Q. I have a disability, cerebral palsy. Unlike some other people with cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair, I run my own business. I have been exchanging messages with a girl on Match.com now for three weeks (only small messages.) So: 1) When s...
A. 1 May 2013: STOP OVER THINKING THIS OP!
you told her in a most lovely way
she responded in KIND
IT sounds like it's going WELL
how far apart are you guys? what's the transportation issue?
why can't you just ask her for dinner or a drink next... (read in full...)
When to reveal a disability during online dating?
Q. I have a disability, cerebral palsy. Unlike some other people with cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair, I run my own business. I have been exchanging messages with a girl on Match.com now for three weeks (only small messages.) So: 1) When s...
A. 26 April 2013: I think you should ask her for coffee soon Very soon. not sure how far Kent is from Crawly but if it's doable meet up
Do you require assistive devices to walk? CP can manifest itself in many ways and I think that the level of your "impair... (read in full...)
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