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I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 19 March 2010: Whatever Mr... your advice is no help at all, as I said before the poster has moved past all of this, and wasn't looking for your defence.
Now do you have any advice or suggestions that will actually help, or are you just here to look down upo... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 18 March 2010: Lonely Two, this is a long conversation that we aunts have had with Jason. He accepts that we were offended by his words about his wife, and we felt the need to defend her. He has apologised, and we have all moved on.
Please read the conversa... (read in full...)
He invites his ex round to OUR house to visit and I don't know how to handle it any more...
Q. I have met a wonderful man online in a chat room in October of 2009. We met face to face and hit it of so well we have moved in together and not been apart since. Sounds like a happily ever after story well not quite. His ex girlfriend left him...
A. 14 March 2010: Another late idea, can you print off this post, blow it up to poster size and leave it on the floor so she can see his declarations of love the next time she pops in to take up space in your life.... (read in full...)
He invites his ex round to OUR house to visit and I don't know how to handle it any more...
Q. I have met a wonderful man online in a chat room in October of 2009. We met face to face and hit it of so well we have moved in together and not been apart since. Sounds like a happily ever after story well not quite. His ex girlfriend left him...
A. 14 March 2010: Ah... I understand.. like I said before, I wish I had wrote before the guy joined in.
Dear agony man, is she allowed to damage this unkind lady, like maybe spill the tea on her lap, or trip her up as she enters the door. :)
Aaaahahaha!!!... (read in full...)
We met while clubbing, but he won't let me club anymore!
Q. My boyfriend has told me that he doesn't want a girlfriend who wants to go clubbing and drink. We have been together for 2 years, we met at a club and for the first 6 months always went clubbing together and we went to every music festival ...
A. 12 March 2010: Hip hop dancing as a contact sport.. hahahahaha... this is a new idea to me.... (read in full...)
We met while clubbing, but he won't let me club anymore!
Q. My boyfriend has told me that he doesn't want a girlfriend who wants to go clubbing and drink. We have been together for 2 years, we met at a club and for the first 6 months always went clubbing together and we went to every music festival ...
A. 12 March 2010: mmmmm... my culture is different.. clubbing, parties, music are all important. People expect to be able to go out and have fun, either together as a couple or in a group of friends. The idea that going out to dance is only an excuse to pick up a ... (read in full...)
His no sex attitude is tearing me apart...
Q. I'm living with my boyfreind and I'm not happy. I love him and I'm trying to deal with the no sex thing he thinks a relationship is better as a companion. Don't get me wrong, we do it every day, like 3 months and I'm not happy with that at all. I ...
A. 11 March 2010: Confused, you say you have sex everyday for 3 months, and then what happens? What is this no sex thing?... (read in full...)
I want to leave my marriage to pursue another as I am NOT happy...
Q. My husband was unfaithful to me when I was pregnant nearly 8 years ago and right up until I found out when my child was a toddler. We worked through things, have amazing sex now, he genuinely cannot get enough of me, I am early 40's but I have ...
A. 10 March 2010: You can never forgive or respect your husband, even though the sex is good and he dose everything he can to make it up to you. You are now flirting with some poor innocent guy who isn't chasing you, probably would never have sex with a married ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mother and risk my whole family finding out what happened?
Q. Hi there Aunts and Uncles. This is is something that has been playing on my mind for a long time. I'm remaining anonymous due to the topic. I was molested by my cousin as a child. The earliest incident I remember was when I was 4. My cousin was 25...
A. 10 March 2010: You may have forgiven, but you'll never be able to rest and feel peaceful if you don't speak up. Molesting you, that's bad enough, molesting others who are then called liars and disbelieved. The guilt of not speaking will ruin your life, and you ... (read in full...)
He invites his ex round to OUR house to visit and I don't know how to handle it any more...
Q. I have met a wonderful man online in a chat room in October of 2009. We met face to face and hit it of so well we have moved in together and not been apart since. Sounds like a happily ever after story well not quite. His ex girlfriend left him...
A. 10 March 2010: Had a better idea.. marriage counselling may suit you both and help. Marriage counselling is not just for married people, it also helps couples in relationships. It will give you both the space to say how you feel, and show you techniques to come ... (read in full...)
We met while clubbing, but he won't let me club anymore!
Q. My boyfriend has told me that he doesn't want a girlfriend who wants to go clubbing and drink. We have been together for 2 years, we met at a club and for the first 6 months always went clubbing together and we went to every music festival ...
A. 10 March 2010: "hip hop dancing is for sluts" ..... wow, he is a judgemental kind of guy.
Your only 20, much too young to settle down at home with hot chocolate and the TV. You will feel locked up and claustrophobic living like this, you will loose all your fri... (read in full...)
He invites his ex round to OUR house to visit and I don't know how to handle it any more...
Q. I have met a wonderful man online in a chat room in October of 2009. We met face to face and hit it of so well we have moved in together and not been apart since. Sounds like a happily ever after story well not quite. His ex girlfriend left him...
A. 10 March 2010: Ah, the man joins in... Thank you sir for your comments, you are exactly as I pictured you. I am one of the aunts who is reluctant to say just leave, because I believe in working things out and compromising when you can. Adult love is strong ... (read in full...)
He invites his ex round to OUR house to visit and I don't know how to handle it any more...
Q. I have met a wonderful man online in a chat room in October of 2009. We met face to face and hit it of so well we have moved in together and not been apart since. Sounds like a happily ever after story well not quite. His ex girlfriend left him...
A. 9 March 2010: "So I come up with a compromise I asked him if he wanted me to accept her presence then it would be hard but I love him and am willing to as long as he makes it clear that if I am here he doesn't answer her calls, if I not here she must not be asked ... (read in full...)
How often do men like to have sex in one night???
Q. How often do men like to have sex in one night? Would most guys be pleased if a girl liked to have sex a few times? Me and my new bf had sex 5 times our first night together - he said i was incredible. i thought it was great too but i heard that ...
A. 9 March 2010: Five times in one night... hahahahaha... make sure you both take vitamins.. ... (read in full...)
How often do men like to have sex in one night???
Q. How often do men like to have sex in one night? Would most guys be pleased if a girl liked to have sex a few times? Me and my new bf had sex 5 times our first night together - he said i was incredible. i thought it was great too but i heard that ...
A. 9 March 2010: Babes, thanks for the followup. Please be proud of your sexuality, it dose no good to pretend your unhappy when a guy touches you. Many girls do this and they and their partner ends up unhappy.
A man who judges you badly for liking sex is no ma... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 9 March 2010: "That if you really care for someone you put their happiness before yours and do everything you can to make them happy"
Women often use this line... if you loved me, then my happiness is all that matters.
But in a partnership, what about the m... (read in full...)
I have been in love with my teacher for over two years... when do I say enough is enough???
Q. I am sorry that there is loads of topics like this, but seriously this is the only place i can post this where you won't get laughed at!!!. I am in sixth form and 19 years old, and for the last 2 years.. (since about jan 08) I have had feeling...
A. 9 March 2010: Dear anonymous, you are right that it is not illegal, but it is classed as gross misbehaviour within the education field. If a teacher dates a pupil who is currently at their school, they will loose their job, they will be unable to get a decent ... (read in full...)
He broke his promise to me...
Q. Okay, some of this is going to sound bad. If you're going to judge the situation, please just dont. We ask for help, not judgement and criticism. I've been with my bf for about 6 months. He smokes weed, and used to do bars (xanex) I noticed that h...
A. 9 March 2010: *psychological (not physiological) Brain likes it, but that's due to habit mostly.... (read in full...)
He broke his promise to me...
Q. Okay, some of this is going to sound bad. If you're going to judge the situation, please just dont. We ask for help, not judgement and criticism. I've been with my bf for about 6 months. He smokes weed, and used to do bars (xanex) I noticed that h...
A. 9 March 2010: mmm... anti-drugs people may not be able to give you the clear advice you want.
Which drug makes him aggressive, as far as I know, weed usually makes people laid back and slow. I hear that this Xanex thing is far more addictive, but that's a... (read in full...)
Boyfriend watches porn but not in mood for me?
Q. ok, I have read some of the same posts but would like to also share my dilemma and could use advice and support. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, lived together for 4.5 months. 3 months ago,I rolled over in bed and caught him view...
A. 7 March 2010: Mrsjo, several of us aunts who have answered either watch porn or don't mind when our partner's do. That's the thing about your question, pro-porn or anti-porn we all feel that he is behaving unfairly and is being disrespectful to you.
Becau... (read in full...)
How do I go about having sex with my cousin?
Q. ok so im 14 almost 15 and so is my cousin only she turns 15 a few months before me. ever since we were about 6 weve played sexual games like "show me urs ill show u mine" and doctor and we also watch porn together almost everytime we see each other. ...
A. 7 March 2010: The genetic risks for abnormality in children from first cousins comes out at about 4.6%, meaning that in 96% of cases they will have a healthy child.
"In children of unrelated couples, the risk of congenital and genetic including recessiv... (read in full...)
How do I go about having sex with my cousin?
Q. ok so im 14 almost 15 and so is my cousin only she turns 15 a few months before me. ever since we were about 6 weve played sexual games like "show me urs ill show u mine" and doctor and we also watch porn together almost everytime we see each other. ...
A. 7 March 2010: In cultures like India, first cousins do marry and stay happily married. America is one of the few countries in the world that has forbidden this. Freeofguilt, I suggest you do the research, and find out why Europe, India and most of the world ... (read in full...)
How do I go about having sex with my cousin?
Q. ok so im 14 almost 15 and so is my cousin only she turns 15 a few months before me. ever since we were about 6 weve played sexual games like "show me urs ill show u mine" and doctor and we also watch porn together almost everytime we see each other. ...
A. 6 March 2010: If you are from Britian you are able to marry your cousin... In America it may be illegal, but in Britian relationships with your cousin, first, second or whatever are not wrong.
The queen of our country is married to her cousin, our royalty ... (read in full...)
He used to be so passionate! Why is he resisting me now?
Q. I was wondering if you could help. I have been seeing my other half for 5 months, but it is recently i have noticed he dosent kiss me the same anymore. Its like he always pulls away first and does not use tongues anymore and there is no passion. I ...
A. 6 March 2010: Don't worry about Q, he's allergic to me and my questions..
Those were random questions I asked, but thank you very much for taking the time to consider them. We've covered most things that could be bothering him, and you say it's none of these... (read in full...)
My child overheard bad language and keeps repeating it
Q. help! my bf and i had a fight, we took it to room, 3 yr old overheard him say why u acting like a bitch? now she calls me bitch. how do i discipline her? she talks back to me, and it becomes a shouting match. i dont know what to do, cant hit her, ...
A. 6 March 2010: mmmm... when my baby cousin (age 3) found her new favourite swear word would cause a reaction and make all adults go silent and stare at her, she thought it was fun and started to use it a lot.
But me and my family are a team, no point in rewardin... (read in full...)
Is non intercourse swinging a norm?
Q. My girl friend age 33 says lots of people our age 33-40 engage in same room sexual fun where friends get together and party and swap with each other for foreplay and fun with toys but not sexual intercourse. Is this happening as she says ...everyone ...
A. 6 March 2010: Ah... I'm sheltered...... where do I get an IPOD and do I need to bring a date.... ... (read in full...)
He used to be so passionate! Why is he resisting me now?
Q. I was wondering if you could help. I have been seeing my other half for 5 months, but it is recently i have noticed he dosent kiss me the same anymore. Its like he always pulls away first and does not use tongues anymore and there is no passion. I ...
A. 6 March 2010: Dolly, there isn't enough information here to even make a guess.. did you have a fight, is he under stress, is he sick, is it football season, has any of you had a sexual disease, has he got children, dose he argue with his mother, dose he have ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend watches porn but not in mood for me?
Q. ok, I have read some of the same posts but would like to also share my dilemma and could use advice and support. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, lived together for 4.5 months. 3 months ago,I rolled over in bed and caught him view...
A. 6 March 2010: Sorry babes, but if he said this...
"He did blame also that he doesn't feel the same sexual chemistry as he did with his exes and that they did it like rabbits."
Then there is no relationship to save....... (read in full...)
Is non intercourse swinging a norm?
Q. My girl friend age 33 says lots of people our age 33-40 engage in same room sexual fun where friends get together and party and swap with each other for foreplay and fun with toys but not sexual intercourse. Is this happening as she says ...everyone ...
A. 6 March 2010: I'm as sheltered as you.... Don't consider this normal, this is adventurous sexual practice for people who are exhibitionists and don't believe in faithfulness... Your girlfriend is a swinger, that's what her and her friends like to do.. most people ... (read in full...)
I'm scared that I'll lose him completely before we work this out
Q. i split up with my partner when i was 7 months pregnant. a few months later he met someone else, we always got on really well. after nearly 2 years he split up with her and i wanted him back. he stayed up over christmas an we ended up sleeping ...
A. 6 March 2010: Sorry babes, he's been very truthfull with you, and I know this is hard to accept. He has tried, but it's been a long time, his feelings for you have changed and he dosen't love you in the same way. You won't loose contact with him, you both have ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has changed and he wont talk to me about it
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. We started off really close. He could even get up to go to the bathroom without kissing me first. He used to always cuddle with me, hug me, kiss me goodnight. and since he only works 4 days a week we'd ...
A. 6 March 2010: I think a woman knows in her gut when she's not getting the loving attention that she is used to. However it's hard to get someone to be honest and tell you what's going on in their head. All you can do is talk to him, tell him exactly what you ... (read in full...)
How can he lose interest in sex with me but watch porn all day?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend who I live with for over 6 years, he is 29 I am 24. I need some help trying to understand. For the last 3 years his been on medications, he has had lots of weird side effects from the medications, including w...
A. 6 March 2010: First of all... THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU, your still as beautiful as ever, your still sexy and gorgeous and don't let his behaviour (or any man's behaviour) EVER cause you to doubt how special you are. People have their problems, but YOU ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend watches porn but not in mood for me?
Q. ok, I have read some of the same posts but would like to also share my dilemma and could use advice and support. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, lived together for 4.5 months. 3 months ago,I rolled over in bed and caught him view...
A. 6 March 2010: Sorry, correction.. it's his solo masturbation which makes him useless as lover that bothers you most, and leaves you feeling rejected and sad. Of course he must stop if he can't satisfy you, a real life beautiful woman.. As you said your in your ... (read in full...)
Thinking of giving up relationships.
Q. How can a woman stay off relationships forever? I'm considering that route. I'm really young at 21 to make such a decision, but I don't know. I'm attracted to men, both sexually and romantically. No attraction to women whatsoever. But there are ...
A. 6 March 2010: Counselling!!!!!! Wow, so you think she's got something faulty with her thinking process... Personally, I didn't think she had such serious issues, that needed professional help. I believe what she is feeling is a common reaction, and as she is ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend watches porn but not in mood for me?
Q. ok, I have read some of the same posts but would like to also share my dilemma and could use advice and support. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, lived together for 4.5 months. 3 months ago,I rolled over in bed and caught him view...
A. 6 March 2010: Yes babes, your requests are very reasonable and you are not being demanding on unfair. You have approached this problem in several ways which would allow him and you to get over this problem. You tried porn yourself, didn't like it, but at least ... (read in full...)
Thinking of giving up relationships.
Q. How can a woman stay off relationships forever? I'm considering that route. I'm really young at 21 to make such a decision, but I don't know. I'm attracted to men, both sexually and romantically. No attraction to women whatsoever. But there are ...
A. 5 March 2010: Must be Wednesday... (read in full...)
Thinking of giving up relationships.
Q. How can a woman stay off relationships forever? I'm considering that route. I'm really young at 21 to make such a decision, but I don't know. I'm attracted to men, both sexually and romantically. No attraction to women whatsoever. But there are ...
A. 5 March 2010: Exactly Q.... "She is unhappy with her self and it much more convenient to project this outwardly onto something she will never change and never control."
But she's an adult, she says she CAN'T change, she is not happy with the way other people a... (read in full...)
Thinking of giving up relationships.
Q. How can a woman stay off relationships forever? I'm considering that route. I'm really young at 21 to make such a decision, but I don't know. I'm attracted to men, both sexually and romantically. No attraction to women whatsoever. But there are ...
A. 5 March 2010: I also suggest you stop watching romantic movies and reading romance or chick-lit books. First they give you an image of romantic relationships that are hard to achieve. They deal in fantasy and fairytale, and very seldom show the reality of ... (read in full...)
How do I get over the fear of getting a girl pregnant or catching an STD?
Q. OK, so I've pretty much accepted the fact that most girls today do not wait until marriage to have sex, and if they are not going to wait there is absolutely no reason I should ether. So my next problem is how do I get over the fear of getting a ...
A. 4 March 2010: Thank you Angzw for the infomation about research into the use of two condoms... my advice is probably wrong and outdated.. I'm off to read the information you have provided right now.... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me understand my dream, please help?
Q. Ok So I've Google this question and I can't seem to find the answer... For the past week or so I keep having the same dream, but for the past two nights it has slightly changed. Normally my memory of dreams isn’t very clear, can only remember...
A. 4 March 2010: You miss him. Your used to him in your life, and now his new girlfriend has stopped all this. Your mind is replaying romantic scenes because that's in the past that's what you were. Your just missing someone who was a part of your life, and ... (read in full...)
Is he just toying with me? Or is he really interested?
Q. i recently became aquainted with a teacher from high school who was never my teacher. he came in when i graduated in 07,but when i saw him to attacted to him. so its been three years and i found him on facebook. we never really talked until one day ...
A. 4 March 2010: Think this guy is busy, he's already trying to date someone already, and he's got too much on his plate to sort things out with you. Sorry.... (read in full...)
Together for 6 months, he wants to live together, says no marriage in short term future, should I dig deeper,if I want more?
Q. I’ve been with my BF for just over 6 months. A while ago we talked about marriage in general and he said that he sees it as a label mostly and that getting married doesn’t mean all will be fine in the future. He’s also said that he doesn’t see ...
A. 4 March 2010: Six months... much too soon.... (read in full...)
How do I get over the fear of getting a girl pregnant or catching an STD?
Q. OK, so I've pretty much accepted the fact that most girls today do not wait until marriage to have sex, and if they are not going to wait there is absolutely no reason I should ether. So my next problem is how do I get over the fear of getting a ...
A. 3 March 2010: Please DO NOT USE TWO CONDOMS.. this is very UNSAFE!!! It is more likely that the condoms will break and they will not offer you protection.
Use condoms with a spermicide for added protection.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 3 March 2010: Wonderful Jason, thanks for the update, got to admit, I was a little worried about you. Glad your looking into what this means and how you'll rebuild your future in a better way...
As you say, everything happens for a reason.. :)... (read in full...)
Tips on controlling my outburst during an orgasm
Q. okay, so here it goes. i am 13 and have recently started masturbating. i have orgasms every single time and its hard not to moan or sometimes scream with pleasure! i usually do it when my parents are asleep or when im by myself. do you know any...
A. 3 March 2010: The bathroom is a great place to have an orgasm, you can flush the toilet or keep the water running, this helps cover any sounds you will make... (also good place to drown irritating men like Q)... (read in full...)
How often do men like to have sex in one night???
Q. How often do men like to have sex in one night? Would most guys be pleased if a girl liked to have sex a few times? Me and my new bf had sex 5 times our first night together - he said i was incredible. i thought it was great too but i heard that ...
A. 3 March 2010: Your 22-25years old.. "I heard that some men find girls that like sex too much a turn off"... stop listening to inscure, immature people who don't know what they are talking about. You and your partner like to have sex 5 times a night, go for it ... (read in full...)
I have been faking orgams for my entire marriage.
Q. I have been pretending orgasm and climax for all of my marriage. I have tried to bring myself to orgasm but when the feeling builds up inside me like something I just dont have the words to describe I find I cannot bring it to a conclusion I have ...
A. 3 March 2010: Oh dear, oh dear..sigh
No of course your not to old. Oh dear... just sad about the amount of pain you've suffered over this, it really isn't fair.
Now, not all women orgasm... I say this warning first, because I don't want you to become disapp... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 24 February 2010: Take care babes, I think you'll be fine.. your young and you've lots of growing left to do... :)... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 24 February 2010: "It's just I know my boyfriend likes a 36-24-36 shape, and if I only I had D cups, then I'd be a bit closer to that."
D cups... that's well above the average woman.. girl what size are you?
I also re-read your posts, you were overweight once ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 23 February 2010: You want to tit wank.. hey, I want some guy to be able to lift me up and do the sex thing in the air... can't lift me up, they'd end up in hospital if they tried.... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 23 February 2010: Hi, :)
I love this new attitude you've decided to adopt. It's all about you and what you can do for yourself. It's about making you better for you. And if your happier in yourself, then your guy will be even happier. This is the best thing you ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: Aw heck, you put tears in me eyes.. time for coffee I think.. lol... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: Damn... I'm sorry too.. I keep forgetting you are so young and just learning and we are older and know so much more. Sorry babes, and thank you for coming back to explain... I wish you could tell your boyfriend just what you told us now. :)... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: No.. look there's no point talking to you...
It's your life.. you've been given lots of advice.. now do whatever makes you happy... Leave this boyfreind, find another one and maybe he'll be able to make you happy.... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: Oh one more thing. Why isn't your boyfriends love enough for you? When a guy loves you that's a very special thing. Why is looking better than a moviestar or a popstar more important to you than knowing you are loved and adored? Why isn't your ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: "Not that he loves me less, but maybe he feels less attracted after seeing her or something. "
Ok, again some movement. He's allowed to find other people attractive as long as your not around. He loves you the best, even better than Kate Per... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: This compromise I can agree with.. If your man likes porn, and you don't, of course he should do it somewhere else, not stick it in your face. I guess the same goes for his favourite moviestar or popstar.. I'm the same about cricket, football and ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: He can watch (and wank over, if he wants to) Perry's "Hot N' Cold" video all he wants, just not while I'm there!
Now you want to choose what he watches on television. Can he do this to you as well. Can he tell you what to watch, what to read ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: Yes, I am taking things out of context. I'm trying to challenge your view of the world. Just to see things from a different point of view to see if that might help you. :)
"I guess it's kind of just an ego thing. I make a huge effort to look ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: Is it fair that he should be just like you. What happens to his wishes and desires. What happens to his freedom of choice. Because you think he's the most attractive man in the world, he must think the same or you'll feel unattractive, will get ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: But thanks to everyone, I guess it's my problem, and my boyfriend can just ogle and I have to feel lucky that he picked me :(
No leave him.. you don't have to put up with anything you don't like in a relationship. If your offended and jealous ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: Sorry mistake.. here is the other website, and it's a good one, it's a free online CBT course that you can follow. You can do anything you want, your mind can be challenged, it can be made strong. http://www.livinglifetothefull.com/... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: "I can't help it, how can I control it?
I feel like I can't get over it. I want to be perfect for him."
You are young, many young women feel like you do. As you get older you will get more confidence and stop with this form of self-hate.
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I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: LAWYER!!!!!! You got to get one of those right away.... no more booze, you got to protect yourself.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: Yea.. please stay off the alcohol and booze... I don't want her to see you crushed and needy, as you said, there's already enough talk. You got to keep your head clear and held high. What's wrong with a man wanting to have a normal married life.
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I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: Jason, has she had any sexual abuse in her childhood, or abusive relationships in the past?... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: I don't like her so much no more....no thank you, no talk... nothing... at the moment, I got a lot of nasty words to say about that lady.... sorry.... she dosen't bloody deserve you. I so wanted things to go well. :(... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 15 February 2010: Hi Jason.. thinking of you today on 14th February, hope things are going a little better for you.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: sorry.. OFF TOPIC, but it's nice to see you back Laura.. with your spirtality moving the world, there is never no judgement, people are people, and you always have that guiding light to solve every problem or leave us with wisdom instead. In your ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: To true Mal, you always got to look at the man (woman) in the mirror.. there are compromises you can make, you can talk.. but if you can't look yourself in the mirror, then it's the wrong decision and it's the wrong way.. :(... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: Exactly Q.. live and let live, have fun, one life to live..
But Jason's not happy, and you know how kids change things.. Jason's story is different, but it would be good for people with minor stories to hear what he has to say.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: Damn Q .... I was already feeling sad over Jason and his wife's story... so much love, different interests make it difficult to work...
And now you go and hit me with this....
"She will be the one that go's down as the person that turned her ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: Jason, she hasn't just gone like that babes.. you two are married, walking out isn't the end of the story. We had to push you to make a decision, you were so angry with her, you were starting to loose respect.... Wait, she'll be calling soon, but ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 10 February 2010: Jason, Jason, Jason.. thank you very much. Sorry we are asking you to stir up a hornets nest by being truthful and putting things on the line. But this is necessary, things can't go on like this, the truth needs to be told. I am hoping with all ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Totally understood Katyani, if you look down, you'll see an apology from me as well.. :)
Mr husband, as you can see, we want you and your wife to be a happy.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: hahaha.. sorry original poster, for some reason, it seems like all the aunts and uncles have fallen in love with your wife, and keep thinking about what's best for her and are ignoring your valid complaints.. she must be one hell of a woman.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Harsh and unfair Katyayni, he said he just wants the sex games to stop, so they can settle down to have a normal family. Yes he played, but now he wants to stop and she won't. He loves her, but he can't get her to leave other people alone.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: mmmm.. time for some old fashioned man behaviour..
Do what you said, grab your wife and shake her and tell her.. "NO BLOODY MORE! I WANT YOU, I DON'T WANT OTHER PEOPLE HERE NO MORE..." maybe it's time to stand up to her and stop letting her call... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Slezzy!!!! NO! There are far too many judgemental people here for what is supposed to be an advice site for people with sexual or relationship problems. From what I can understand our aunts and uncles mostly were only defending your wife from ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: "My point is that no matter how unpopular this O.P. is, he is fundamentally still just a man who has changed his mind about being married to his wife"
Hold your horses anonymous, I don't remember this guy saying he didn't want his wife. You seem... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Actually I was flippant with my answer, because I'm angry the way you talk about your wife. But the more I think about it, the more it makes sense. She really needs to know that the "swinging" scene has made you loose respect for her.
As fa... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: You know what.. show her your post, show her exactly what you wrote to us. Then she will understand exactly what you think of her. I don't think she'll mention anything more about children, and all your problems will be solved.
I am so glad tha... (read in full...)
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