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In love with a married man, but how do I cope with our break up?
Q. Hi, i hope you can help me out of this absurd situation. i fell in love with a guy i work with in the same office, he is married, with two kids. out of guilt we both called it a very close friendship, then he called me his soul mate and then his...
A. 1 February 2012: Again, if you manage to actually walk away and break the destructive relationship, please come back and share your experiences with the other ladies still living in torment.
Thank you for sharing your experiences so that others may learn.... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 11 July 2010: You never answered my question..
What are these lie's he tells about "EVERYTHING"?... (read in full...)
Soon to be ex wife wants a farewell f*ck but I have a girlfriend!
Q. I am about 2/3 the way through a divorce with my wife of 20 years. I have been separated from her for 4 months now and seeing someone else who I care about very much. This woman was an affair that turned into a committed relationship. My wife and ...
A. 11 July 2010: Sorry, question to wrong person.. please ignore... (read in full...)
Soon to be ex wife wants a farewell f*ck but I have a girlfriend!
Q. I am about 2/3 the way through a divorce with my wife of 20 years. I have been separated from her for 4 months now and seeing someone else who I care about very much. This woman was an affair that turned into a committed relationship. My wife and ...
A. 11 July 2010: You never answered my question..
What are these lie's he tells about "EVERYTHING"?... (read in full...)
Soon to be ex wife wants a farewell f*ck but I have a girlfriend!
Q. I am about 2/3 the way through a divorce with my wife of 20 years. I have been separated from her for 4 months now and seeing someone else who I care about very much. This woman was an affair that turned into a committed relationship. My wife and ...
A. 11 July 2010: No judgement here babes, I just want problems solved..
The aunts are right, it's best if your a single man and don't do promises to anyone.. Going straight to your girlfriend definately made your wife's heart harden. It does look like your gir... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 11 July 2010: I know.. I know.. I know you was close to giving up on life.. I know that you were angry and would calm down and want to stay..
Your scared about the future, your scared to stand alone. But this marriage isn't working.. Baby girl, YOU TRIED TO... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: Yep, I know you was drinking.. you had me frightened for a while... but you came back and I knew then that you would be alright..
Again, thanks for putting me mind at rest.. No problems, we all do stuff when we is hurting, I've been there meself. ... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: Now we are friends and you are well, I feel better.. Are you able to sleep now? Tomorrow will come soon enough.
... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: Ah thank you dearest for coming back and putting my mind at rest... that was real kind of you, as I said I was getting worried.
... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: I am worried about you right now.. please update your post and tell me your alright.
... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: I'm very worried about you right now.. keep the hotline number nearby and you call them if the feelings get any worse. I need you to calm down, cause you won't be thinking straight..
It is better you talk about this lying thing in the morning,... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: I'm listening, and thinking...
So he lies does he?
Why are you so upset about this friend when the other things don't seem to bother you?
I notice your not sad or numb anymore, no you sound mad.. not good if he's been drinking.. arguemen... (read in full...)
I'm gay, but attracted to my wife. Am I wrong?
Q. I'm gay, that means I'm sexually attracted to other guy and not to a girl. That's a biological fact, I accepted that. I currently married to a woman and I consider my life happy. Sure I'm not sexually attracted to my wife but there is something else ...
A. 10 July 2010: I should read more carefully, you got kids so you can sexually perform.. again unless either of you love someone else, I can't see anything wrong. :)... (read in full...)
I'm interested in my boss, how can I move things with him forward?
Q. I am in the final days of my job and I have a BIG crush on my higher boss. For the pass few months I have been picking up on his body language. When in a whole staff meeting of about 70 staff he scans the room looking for me then stares. when I ...
A. 10 July 2010: Thanks Sis, the post didn't make any sense without that added information. She's over 40 and she has problems asking her boss out on a date???? Now I understand more about the situation.
I think I remember seeing the ring dream post... advice g... (read in full...)
I'm interested in my boss, how can I move things with him forward?
Q. I am in the final days of my job and I have a BIG crush on my higher boss. For the pass few months I have been picking up on his body language. When in a whole staff meeting of about 70 staff he scans the room looking for me then stares. when I ...
A. 10 July 2010: ah, understood, was a bit confused as you can tell... lol... (read in full...)
I'm gay, but attracted to my wife. Am I wrong?
Q. I'm gay, that means I'm sexually attracted to other guy and not to a girl. That's a biological fact, I accepted that. I currently married to a woman and I consider my life happy. Sure I'm not sexually attracted to my wife but there is something else ...
A. 10 July 2010: Does your wife know that you are gay? Do you sleep with men whilst you and her are married, does she know and does she consent?
People live all types of lifestyles. Many, many gay people get married and live happily,, there is nothing wrong wi... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: Book an appointment with your doctor and check your blood pressure, stress can be dangerous to you both mentally and physically. Make sure you stop drinking, eat healthy, try to walk or get some excersise, and try and get enough sleep. You must ... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: Your body is under stress because you are worried and unhappy. You need some counselling yourself, this isn't only about him, it's about you and how you feel and how you deal with things. Is there another appointment with that counsellor you and ... (read in full...)
I'm interested in my boss, how can I move things with him forward?
Q. I am in the final days of my job and I have a BIG crush on my higher boss. For the pass few months I have been picking up on his body language. When in a whole staff meeting of about 70 staff he scans the room looking for me then stares. when I ...
A. 10 July 2010: Just ask him out for coffee, best when you leave the job, because some companies ban romance between workers.
It's not love yet, just a harmless flirtation. Be direct, if the guy aint married just ask him out when you are free.... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: Can you register with Dear Cupid, give yourself a name that is strong and beautiful.. It's uncomfortable talking about my experiences..
When you try to force away the bad feelings and pretend your happy when your not, it comes out in all types of... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: No, No, No!!!!
That won't work.. I tried it and it eats at your soul and kills you inside.
If you cut yourself off, you'll be frozen inside and out, you won't remember how to smile, you won't know the different between pain and happiness... and... (read in full...)
How far can Christians go sexually without violating our faith?
Q. I'm 17 years old and have been with my bf 6 months. I am a Christian and am unsure how far sexually it is ok to go. He has fingered me and I've given him a handjob but have began to think this is wrong and so my question is, how far, as a Christian, ...
A. 9 July 2010: Yes.. you've already gone to far. If you want to remain without guilt and issues, then you and your boyfriend should spend time outside the house with other christians. Don't be alone with him, because this leads to temptation.
Much depends ... (read in full...)
Soon to be ex wife wants a farewell f*ck but I have a girlfriend!
Q. I am about 2/3 the way through a divorce with my wife of 20 years. I have been separated from her for 4 months now and seeing someone else who I care about very much. This woman was an affair that turned into a committed relationship. My wife and ...
A. 9 July 2010: Yes indeed... you will take the woman's traditional role.. Your too special to be used as a "stud", something that will mess your current relationship up. Marriage (ie: no divorce and forgiveness and understanding) or walk away and put your energy ... (read in full...)
Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17?
Q. Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17? ...
A. 9 July 2010: She's just threatening you, she will not throw you out. It will make her look like a bad mother.
She probably has her own problems, maybe a divorce, maybe menopause, money problems???? At the moment I'm guessing about what is wrong with her.
... (read in full...)
Soon to be ex wife wants a farewell f*ck but I have a girlfriend!
Q. I am about 2/3 the way through a divorce with my wife of 20 years. I have been separated from her for 4 months now and seeing someone else who I care about very much. This woman was an affair that turned into a committed relationship. My wife and ...
A. 9 July 2010: Is there any hope that you and your wife might stay married. If so, then the sex may be your last opportunity to save your relationship.
If however you are sure that whatever problems that drove you to divorce remain, then break away, don't ha... (read in full...)
He refuses to stop smoking pot. How can I get him to stop?
Q. my boyfriend of 3 years refuses to stop smoking pot. we have argued and argued about it. when we got together he had only smoked it a few times and so had i so it was fine. then about a year ago he started smoking non stop. all day it seemed like, ...
A. 9 July 2010: Nothing you can do honeypie... He chooses to smoke too much pot, he's hiding from life.
Try to keep him out of the house, hobbies, interests and entertainments that show him the life outside may make him realise what he's doing.
People abuse ... (read in full...)
I really don't know if I want the truth because then our relationship has been built on decite and lies.
Q. I have been married for a long time and I believe we love each other. My wife claims she only had one sexual relationship before me but it was multiple times. I had to learn this from friends before I confronted her and she admitted it to be true. I ...
A. 9 July 2010: Again, maybe in your world...it's not good to generalise what "most" men of all different ages and different cultures may think.... (read in full...)
Wife wants attention of strangers
Q. We've been married about 25 years and have had our problems like any couple usually does. I adore my wife and have eyes only for her. My wife is still very good-looking, very shapely, but lately, she says, has had doubts about herself and when, out ...
A. 9 July 2010: So sorry, but this of course is best for you... I hope it makes her realise what she is giving up, and dosen't drive her to more reckless behaviour..
Maybe time apart is for the best. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17?
Q. Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17? ...
A. 9 July 2010: Hahaha.. So many British aunts with different advice on the law. Only one American aunt actually had the sense to get an internet link so you can find out for sure.. lol
mmmm.. Says something about the British laws... :)... (read in full...)
My mom thinks I'm too young to have a boyfriend!
Q. Dear Cupid, My mom is being so protective over me ! I have a boyfriend, we're both fourteen and madly in love with each other. I thought telling her the truth that i have a boyfriend would be so much better but it turned out worse ! Whenever...
A. 9 July 2010: lol... I'm impressed, most young people never write as back, and never take our advice..
Tip: Just try to do well and be considerate. Your mother will start becoming happier and will love the change in you. When she starts praising you, the... (read in full...)
Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17?
Q. Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17? ...
A. 8 July 2010: No don't think it's illegal, however your parents are still responsible for you untill you are 18years old. If they have asked you to leave then your school and social services will be involved. Your parents will not be punished, but the ... (read in full...)
I really don't know if I want the truth because then our relationship has been built on decite and lies.
Q. I have been married for a long time and I believe we love each other. My wife claims she only had one sexual relationship before me but it was multiple times. I had to learn this from friends before I confronted her and she admitted it to be true. I ...
A. 8 July 2010: "Nothing could be further from the truth for many if not most men" (Serpico)
Please speak for yourself.. before I came on this website I never met a single man who was interested in his partners sexual past... I guess it's the country I'm from, bu... (read in full...)
Found items which may mean my husband is masturbating, he denies it, what do you think??
Q. please help me, about 3 months ago i found two socks under our bed with what looks a lot like semen stains i questioned him about it he said its not semen! and the other day i found another one screwed up in the wardrobe which again looks like dried ...
A. 8 July 2010: It's impossible for you to compete.. you may be satisfied with the amout of sex your having, but your husband is not. It is impossible for you to be available every single second of the day when he may be feeling horny. It is also impossible for ... (read in full...)
I cheated on her 3 years ago and now she doesn't believe me or trust me
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now. During our first year of dating o cheated on her now she doesn't believe anything that I say I'm doing when I'm not with her!...
A. 8 July 2010: The issue for you both is how she will be able to regain trust. Your relationship cannot work if she cannot find it in her heart to forgive you and trust you again. She must try to work on this, with your help, otherwise your relationship is ... (read in full...)
My wife is still in touch with her ex husband and I say cut him off
Q. I have a question about your opinions regarding ex's. My wife and I both agree that ex-bf's and ex-gf's should be forgotten after all it didn't work out, so it's not fair to the new person to have to deal with that old baggage. Here's where we d...
A. 8 July 2010: What I think isn't important. You and your wife have an agreement, there should be no contact with ex partners. He's an ex partner, they are in contact, she is breaking the agreement you set up. If she can stay in contact with an ex partner, you ... (read in full...)
My mom thinks I'm too young to have a boyfriend!
Q. Dear Cupid, My mom is being so protective over me ! I have a boyfriend, we're both fourteen and madly in love with each other. I thought telling her the truth that i have a boyfriend would be so much better but it turned out worse ! Whenever...
A. 8 July 2010: People that pay bills make the laws.. your mother doesn't want you dating because she is frightened your education will suffer and she's scared you'll start having sex young and get pregnant.
Change your attitude, instead of fighting her, try to i... (read in full...)
Wife wants attention of strangers
Q. We've been married about 25 years and have had our problems like any couple usually does. I adore my wife and have eyes only for her. My wife is still very good-looking, very shapely, but lately, she says, has had doubts about herself and when, out ...
A. 8 July 2010: She must be willing to compromise or otherwise you have every right to seek a divorce. She is playing with danger, how long will it be before she needs more excitment and starts to think about committing adultery? She is playing with fire and ... (read in full...)
I couldn't help probe about her sexual past, but I wish she wouldn't have been so honest!!!
Q. Ok here's my problem. My gf and I have been dating for a little over a year now, at the begining of the relationship I asked the inevitable question " how many men have you slept with"?. She asked me to answer the question first, I told her 80 women ...
A. 8 July 2010: Be thankfull that you've found yourself a truthfull woman who cannot tell a lie. She will never cheat on you or betray you. Ok, so your not the biggest or the best, but your the one she wants to be with. That's the best present, she could be with ... (read in full...)
We have no experience, should we "explore" before our wedding?
Q. Hello everyone! I got engaged to my high school sweetheart about a month ago, (we started dating our junior year of high school). I've always believed in waiting until I was married before having sex and even though he doesn't have the same belief, ...
A. 8 July 2010: I suggest since you've done without sex, it's probably best to keep it like that untill nearer to the wedding. Start sexual exploring two weeks before your due to get married, and it dosen't have to go as far as oral, touching genitals should be ... (read in full...)
Is there REALLY an age limit on love???
Q. Hi! My boyfriend of almost six months is 19 turning 20 in August and I`m 15 turning 16 in September, I look older for my age and I`m also more mature than most 15 year old girls. I know a lot of teenagers say that, but, no, I REALLY am. I`m going to ...
A. 8 July 2010: Sorry, he's 19.... my mistake
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Is there REALLY an age limit on love???
Q. Hi! My boyfriend of almost six months is 19 turning 20 in August and I`m 15 turning 16 in September, I look older for my age and I`m also more mature than most 15 year old girls. I know a lot of teenagers say that, but, no, I REALLY am. I`m going to ...
A. 8 July 2010: Your 15, under the age of consent in the USA... you've been dating this older guy of 18 (over the age of consent) for only 6 months and your already having illegal sex..
Yep, I believe this guy is probably mentally as mature as you.... ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 7 July 2010: That's what I'm worried about, that wild card of a brother, he's got to learn to act normally.....
Go to the clinic, give them your dates, period and stuff.. tell them everything, it's confidential and they don't judge... they will be able to ... (read in full...)
In love with a married man, but how do I cope with our break up?
Q. Hi, i hope you can help me out of this absurd situation. i fell in love with a guy i work with in the same office, he is married, with two kids. out of guilt we both called it a very close friendship, then he called me his soul mate and then his...
A. 7 July 2010: If loving you is right, I don't want to by wrong (By Millie Jackson)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OUTDdq1m67Q
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cZ13jHp7_P4
Life is short, very short, and your wasting it........ (read in full...)
In love with a married man, but how do I cope with our break up?
Q. Hi, i hope you can help me out of this absurd situation. i fell in love with a guy i work with in the same office, he is married, with two kids. out of guilt we both called it a very close friendship, then he called me his soul mate and then his...
A. 7 July 2010: If loving you is wrong...
I don't want to be right
If being right means living without you
I'd rather live wrong than right
My Mama and Daddy say "It's a shame..."
"It's a downright disgrace"
But as long as I've got you by my side
I don't care... (read in full...)
Relationship with a married man who doesn't leave his wife
Q. I met a man online. He is still married, but she has moved out of the home. They run a business together and to date they still draw from the same money pot. I have told him from the beginning that my values want a legal separation and/or divorce, ...
A. 7 July 2010: One year and still no divorce on the menu... he could be one of the truthfull one's, but they aint many of them...
When a man loves you, he wants to be next to you all the time, he wants to sleep with you every night... One year later, and he's... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 6 July 2010: Sorry babes, my computer's been down... glad your still posting and trying to work things through..
Yep, I knew it was you... yes he may have been traumatised by war, a lot of guys are, but that still dosen't excuse his behaviour one little b... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 6 July 2010: I heard pregnant... damn, just when things were going so well.. so what happens now dear lady?... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 27 June 2010: Q she's American.. she aint listening.. how can we find her name and address and give her husband a good "talking"...
Sigh.. suppose we'll have to let the daddy deal with him.. far less bruising, cause they love him more than we do.... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 27 June 2010: You've got some of the best aunts we have at Dear Cupid trying to make you understand.. ABUSE IS ALWAYS WRONG.... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 27 June 2010: Baby, my heart is breaking for you, you expect so little from the world. His family love you too, they don't want you hurt, they want you smiling and happy.. That's what all us Dear Cupid Aunts want as well..
ABUSE IS ALWAYS WRONG... giving a... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 27 June 2010: They love him, and they want him to make them proud and they want him happy. IT IS NOT RIGHT, to abuse your wife. Your husbands family are acting brilliantly, they want the best for you and the best for him.
ABUSE IS NOT OK.... He needs to go co... (read in full...)
My partner has lost interest in physical contact
Q. i have been dating for six years and have two kids but since i fell pregnant with the second born my partner has lost interest in making love, kissing,hugging even just to hold my hand but he says he love me,but does this mean that may be i am ...
A. 27 June 2010: There is not enough information here to give you a proper answer. Have you argued, are you having problems with money.. Is he stressed at work, are you tired and angry, do you have sex often?...
Without more information I can't tell you whats wr... (read in full...)
Turban wearing man seeks honest opinions
Q. So I moved into the states when I was 10 and now that I am getting older (in my 20s) I am finding that finding love is one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. My question is for all women. I am a turban wearing man with a trimmed beard. I...
A. 26 June 2010: Me and CindyCares have the European experience, people with Turbans (Sikh's) blend very well into the European culture and date outside their religion and marry other races often... it's as normal here as a cup of English tea.
... (read in full...)
Turban wearing man seeks honest opinions
Q. So I moved into the states when I was 10 and now that I am getting older (in my 20s) I am finding that finding love is one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. My question is for all women. I am a turban wearing man with a trimmed beard. I...
A. 26 June 2010: Turbans and trimmed beards have no problems with girls.. but I'm in the UK, we have large Sikh community, so it's normal to me.
A native american indian, now that is strange and different...... (read in full...)
Had a miscarriage at 14 now I long to be pregnant again...
Q. i had a miscarriage at 9 weeks and im 14 years old. i was really scared about the pregnancy but came round to the idea and accepted it. and now i have strong sense of longing to pregnant people and young babies and want to get pregnant again. i dont ...
A. 26 June 2010: Go and talk to your mother..... (read in full...)
In love with a married man, but how do I cope with our break up?
Q. Hi, i hope you can help me out of this absurd situation. i fell in love with a guy i work with in the same office, he is married, with two kids. out of guilt we both called it a very close friendship, then he called me his soul mate and then his...
A. 8 June 2010: Ah... Hi Ladies, I see many more have joined the group... just to remind any of you who want to change your life, summer is here, you have time to loose weight, get a new swimsuit, get the married waste of space out of your life, and go catch other ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 2 June 2010: "Sorry. Sometimes a question takes on a life of it's own beyond what the original poster is asking. It's starts becoming a brawl between the people answering and we miss answering the posters original question." (Q1605)
Sorry, dear poster, ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 2 June 2010: Oh dear, I'm immoral because I accept human frailty and mistakes... ah well, you all are perfect, so that means everything evens out in the end. Thanks BunnyTee for reminding me that I'm more immoral than the writer of this story.... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 1 June 2010: PS: What do we do about Dean.. talk to John first, do not lie to him, your friendship and marriage was never built on lies.. See what John says.
Then go talk to Dean.. either you keep things secret, and you both agree to protect John's pride...... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 1 June 2010: Hey Babes, I don't deal in who is the most moral, and I aint wearing no angel wings and halo... Lucky for me, I know all kinds of stuff in life happen, so when I make a mistake and fall down, I never look like a hypocrite.
Ok, so I was wrong.. ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 1 June 2010: Hope I don't get whipped and hung as an immoral witch/bitch (choose your insult) but I see things differently.
Woman basically married the wrong brother. She knows that, her husband knows that and the brother knows that. That's why this is a mes... (read in full...)
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