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Should I contact my ex, who hurt me or wait for him to contact me?
Q. I'm curious if any men out there ever wished they could get their ex back after leaving them for someone else and then a yr. or so later realized you had made a huge mistake or the one you hooked up with ended up dumping you? Were you too much of ...
A. 5 March 2012: OK, so your going to wait and see....
If he's driving pass the house, nothing is stopping you from opening the door and checking for the mail.... (read in full...)
Female hygiene question....
Q. hi a question for the ladies on dc. This is a question on female hygiene. How uncomfortable is it for you the day after a night of sex if you dont have time for a shower in the morning. I bring this up as my partner said she didnt want sex after she ...
A. 20 February 2012: You still get sweaty and end up with that man smell. Women are sensitive to this and she won't be able to relax and have sex properly if she's worried about feeling paranoid at work all day. If it continues to be a problem, you two got to work ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he will not take advice from a girl
Q. When waiting for a take away once with my ex boyfriend, I was reading a magazine with a sex positions article in it. Being flirty, as a joke I showed it to him and he put it back on the table and said angrily I'm not taking sex advice from a girl! ...
A. 19 February 2012: Guy seems to have some sex issues. Are you to blame? HELL NO!! Is he out there having a wonderful sex life? HELL NO!! Like I said, some men have problems talking about such issues. This guy has sex problems and can't even deal with it in ... (read in full...)
Partner lied to me about having an eleven year old child. Is this a red flag?
Q. My partner lied to me about having a child from a previous relationship. I knew he had two other childrend but I didn't know he had had another child who would be eleven years old now. I knew my partner had a relationship with the child's mother ...
A. 19 February 2012: It's still your right to want to ask, to want to fix things. Your a mother and his soulmate, you want the best for all of you and that includes your child. Your instincts are to protect (you, your child and now him) and that is very good.
Leavi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he will not take advice from a girl
Q. When waiting for a take away once with my ex boyfriend, I was reading a magazine with a sex positions article in it. Being flirty, as a joke I showed it to him and he put it back on the table and said angrily I'm not taking sex advice from a girl! ...
A. 19 February 2012: This guy is not your friend. He is off limits, do not flirt, do not touch, he is like fire or poison to you and you will get hurt. No more hanging out together and definitely no sex.
Yes it's hard, I know.. been there meself... print out this... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he will not take advice from a girl
Q. When waiting for a take away once with my ex boyfriend, I was reading a magazine with a sex positions article in it. Being flirty, as a joke I showed it to him and he put it back on the table and said angrily I'm not taking sex advice from a girl! ...
A. 19 February 2012: Ah.... he's an ex for a reason remember that. I don't think it's a good idea for you to be around him right now.... (read in full...)
7 weeks pregnant, two guys involved, not sure what to do, which one to chose
Q. im currently 7 weeks pregant and involved with two guys who i think the world of that im seeing, i know it s wrong i just can't help it, I know who most likely the father is and that guy i have literally known a month. Hes indian and not got a br...
A. 19 February 2012: Please go to your doctors right away, and I hope that everything is ok. It's funny how these emergencies make the mind clear and show us the decisions we must make. My heart goes out to you.. blessings babes... my words are not enough right now... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he will not take advice from a girl
Q. When waiting for a take away once with my ex boyfriend, I was reading a magazine with a sex positions article in it. Being flirty, as a joke I showed it to him and he put it back on the table and said angrily I'm not taking sex advice from a girl! ...
A. 18 February 2012: Macho man... lol.. many guys are like this, they hate to show any vulnerabilities or insecurities.. Much easier to go to a man for advice, where you can pretend you don't care, tell them little, forget a lot and lie a bit and get advice that doesn't ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with built up hatred for my ex? He just went missing when I told him I was pregnant and he never cared to check on me until months later
Q. It has been about 4 years since I had an abortion. I had gotten pregnant by my ex. I had also gotten sick around the time I was pregnant. I had to make a choice to have surgery for my illness and lose the baby..or stay sick and keep it..I ...
A. 17 February 2012: Women who for whatever reason terminate a pregnancy, or have a miscarriage, or lose a child often suffer painful emotions and feelings. Same thing happens with any type of bereavement. Your ex treated you terribly and wasn't there when you n... (read in full...)
Partner's 38 year old son lives with him and isnt happy about us dating
Q. I have been divorced for 6 years and my partner widowed for 15 months. We have been friends for about 30 years and are very much in love. He has taken me to meet his siblings and I have done the same.They are all so happy for us. My sons think he is ...
A. 16 February 2012: I'm wrong as you say, sorry for adding any suggestions. You now know what the problem is, you will be able to fix it. As has been said, it can only be because the son is still grieving. I should have followed my instincts and not answered this ... (read in full...)
What does it mean to "use" someone?
Q. I recently recalled an argument I had with a woman some time ago. She slept with men for money. She tried to keep it secret, but once I found out, I was very troubled by it. One reason was that she did not really need the money--it was not like she ...
A. 16 February 2012: How do you know Nicole didn't love her husband? Did you know the couple personally? From what I remember of the story, she had a messed up life, and he had shown her a lot of kindness, and not only in financial terms. I personally think it was a ... (read in full...)
7 weeks pregnant, two guys involved, not sure what to do, which one to chose
Q. im currently 7 weeks pregant and involved with two guys who i think the world of that im seeing, i know it s wrong i just can't help it, I know who most likely the father is and that guy i have literally known a month. Hes indian and not got a br...
A. 15 February 2012: I think you need independent advice. Many people on the internet have their own opinions about pregnancy and abortion and may not be thinking about what is best for you. Contact your local family planning clinic, there you will find people who ... (read in full...)
Hoping to enjoy something denied me until now. How can my Bf make my birthday really special when we make love?
Q. My 21st birthday is on Friday. And I know I'm going to have the best sex of my life. I'm probably going to be drunk, but I hope not too drunk where I cant remember it. My problem is, though, I've never had a vaginal orgasm before. My current ...
A. 15 February 2012: "There is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm." Well then I am a scientific oddity. Because I have vaginal orgasms all the time. I don't think my clit is being stimulated because I orgasm from mouth kisses too.. and yes I've looked it up and... (read in full...)
Female hygiene question....
Q. hi a question for the ladies on dc. This is a question on female hygiene. How uncomfortable is it for you the day after a night of sex if you dont have time for a shower in the morning. I bring this up as my partner said she didnt want sex after she ...
A. 15 February 2012: Don't know about icky afterwards. But I like to bath/shower together before sex, and won't leave the house unless I have shower, sex or not.
It's a valid excuse, how people like to keep clean is different for many people. But if she washes e... (read in full...)
I feel that my association with this girl is just screaming 'pedophile' even though it's legal
Q. Hey, In a weird situation right now regarding a girl's age. So the backstory is, I was out at a club with my friends, ended up talking and dancing with a few girls. As standard, try the whole 'are you coming back to mine thing' haha to whic...
A. 15 February 2012: If it's going to be shared, one last thing...
There is more than legal restrictions on 16 year old's in the UK. Parents also have the ability to turn to social services if they think that their child may suffer harm because they are beyond p... (read in full...)
Partner's 38 year old son lives with him and isnt happy about us dating
Q. I have been divorced for 6 years and my partner widowed for 15 months. We have been friends for about 30 years and are very much in love. He has taken me to meet his siblings and I have done the same.They are all so happy for us. My sons think he is ...
A. 15 February 2012: I wasn't going to answer this one, but there is something I think the aunts have missed. You've known your partner for 30years and he now after 15months he is in a romantic relationship with you. That means you probably knew his wife before and ... (read in full...)
I feel that my association with this girl is just screaming 'pedophile' even though it's legal
Q. Hey, In a weird situation right now regarding a girl's age. So the backstory is, I was out at a club with my friends, ended up talking and dancing with a few girls. As standard, try the whole 'are you coming back to mine thing' haha to whic...
A. 15 February 2012: Thanks anon who reminds us about grooming
The sexual offences act in the UK, states that if you have been close to someone under the age of 16 and you were over 18, but waited until they were 17 (age goes up) to have sex, then you may have com... (read in full...)
I rejected him because I was I wasn't sure what sort of relationship I wanted with him
Q. Dear agony aunts, it's valentine's day today and I gave a valentine to the guy that I rejected a few months back but really liked a lot(the thing is, I don't know what kind of way I like him!) . And he was astoundingly cold to me, as though I was ...
A. 15 February 2012: Sorry babes, but your only feeling exactly how he felt when you turned him down. I think the valentine's day card was a nice gesture. At least he doesn't feel so much a fool and knows there was some type of interest.
I suggest you write a ... (read in full...)
I feel that my association with this girl is just screaming 'pedophile' even though it's legal
Q. Hey, In a weird situation right now regarding a girl's age. So the backstory is, I was out at a club with my friends, ended up talking and dancing with a few girls. As standard, try the whole 'are you coming back to mine thing' haha to whic...
A. 15 February 2012: In the UK the legal age of consent is 16 and you are able to have sex with a person of any age above that. The UK does not have a "Romeo and Juliet" clause, where she can only date and have sex with people a couple of years above her. There is... (read in full...)
I tested positive for HIV. I very obviously got it from my boyfriend but he's turning around and blaming me for everything!
Q. Hello all I have a very sad story to tell and I need some advice as I am at breaking point. I have been tested HIV positive recently, and that was already really hard to deal with...I had a boyfriend and on the day I found it out, I cound't br...
A. 15 February 2012: Yes I hope the truth comes out one day too. In the meantime, have they given you details of the Terrance Higgins Trust, they have are the experts on HIV and Aids, and have counsellors available as well as information. This, who gave the disease... (read in full...)
'Free Spirit?' Or did he mislead me? Should I wipe him from my life?
Q. M led me on for approximately 9 months. It started off as a normal friendship, however it quickly became intense with the knowledge of his life partner passing away a couple of years ago. For reasons unbeknown to me, he chose to get close to me ...
A. 15 February 2012: I do understand how you are feeling believe me... Please take care of yourself.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend told me I act weird when I receive blow jobs
Q. My girlfriend of 6 months is 12 years younger than I am, but very much more sexually experienced than I me. I got married young and I have only been with two women in my life while she is very adventurous and loves sex. She is also blessed with bei...
A. 14 February 2012: I'm sorry for her and her big mouth, she probably didn't mean it as an insult but more of a compliment, in fact she wasn't bloody thinking. As you say, you've not had many good bj's and sex before wasn't that great. So just like a child seeing s... (read in full...)
I think she has a problem with me being a Christian, is she a bad friend and should I stop hanging out with her?
Q. I'm a Christian. I'm not a bible thumper, and I love the gays, and I swear, and you wouldn't know I was a Christian if I never told you. Last summer I got a job teaching kids art at an art school, and there I met a girl my age that was really ...
A. 14 February 2012: Maybe it's she believes in Scientology, or maybe she's a pagan witch and is resentful about how Christians treated her community. Maybe she's was abused by a Christian priest. Who knows. It's not because she's an atheist though, you don't even ... (read in full...)
What does it mean to "use" someone?
Q. I recently recalled an argument I had with a woman some time ago. She slept with men for money. She tried to keep it secret, but once I found out, I was very troubled by it. One reason was that she did not really need the money--it was not like she ...
A. 14 February 2012: "That's why you'll never see a woman criticize another for using her body to gain wealth." Wait a second, lets not put all women in the same basket. I think it's been made clear by several women here about men and women using each other. B... (read in full...)
Is he addicted to porn? And is this the reason why we don't have sex anymore?
Q. hi this is really difficult to write about but i hope someone can give me some advice on how to deal with my bf of two years. After a long time of wondering about our sex life, I've realised that my bf is addicted to porn. We get on really wel...
A. 14 February 2012: It does sound like pornography addiction to me, and that's not something I say often. At first I thought of other reasons for his behaviour, maybe he loves you but he doesn't fancy you, maybe he has problems with his erection. But you've been very ... (read in full...)
Why is this woman appearing and disappearing from his facebook page?
Q. I'm not really worried about this, but i'm curious about it. I have been dating someone for a few weeks now. After the night we first met, we kept intouch on facebook. I noticed that a woman had left a comment on his page saying " Hey, still on ...
A. 14 February 2012: Your relationship isn't broken, the guy show care and attention and he talks highly about you in public, but you can't relax and enjoy yourself, you just keep worrying about the future.
Worrying about trouble before trouble comes is a great wa... (read in full...)
What does it mean to "use" someone?
Q. I recently recalled an argument I had with a woman some time ago. She slept with men for money. She tried to keep it secret, but once I found out, I was very troubled by it. One reason was that she did not really need the money--it was not like she ...
A. 14 February 2012: Your reference to Kant is very interesting.. but isn't it the case that there has been many criticism about how much we do for ourself (self-regarding actions) and how much we do purely to make other's happy (other-regarding actions)
Sex is a bri... (read in full...)
'Free Spirit?' Or did he mislead me? Should I wipe him from my life?
Q. M led me on for approximately 9 months. It started off as a normal friendship, however it quickly became intense with the knowledge of his life partner passing away a couple of years ago. For reasons unbeknown to me, he chose to get close to me ...
A. 14 February 2012: "I have not tried to say I've been an angel in this situation, but I got stuck in it deeper and more quickly than I realised when it was happening."
Personal responsibility at last.... and religion has no bearing on how people deal with death. ... (read in full...)
'Free Spirit?' Or did he mislead me? Should I wipe him from my life?
Q. M led me on for approximately 9 months. It started off as a normal friendship, however it quickly became intense with the knowledge of his life partner passing away a couple of years ago. For reasons unbeknown to me, he chose to get close to me ...
A. 14 February 2012: Thanks for your update. So you felt promises were made because he told you he loved you, talked about marriage and kids and told you he was a great person. Telling someone you love them is a kind of promise, and yes speaking about marriage and ... (read in full...)
I never want to talk to my father again
Q. Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was a...
A. 14 February 2012: You were angry and mad, could see that. And you dad aint the brightest at making sensible decisions. Got that too. And his marriage aint that good, and he's not really good about keeping his business out your face. Yes he doesn't have to ask you ... (read in full...)
My G/f doesn't want a child, yet is against any form of birth control apart from me using a condom. She says if the condom rips then we can just put the baby up for adoption!!
Q. Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years she is 20 i am 23 we have been having sex for around 2 months, she was a virgin and wanted to wait, but a conversation we had the other day has confused me slightly. She says to me that ...
A. 14 February 2012: Yes your right about spermicide, not needed and no longer recommended in the UK.... (read in full...)
My G/f doesn't want a child, yet is against any form of birth control apart from me using a condom. She says if the condom rips then we can just put the baby up for adoption!!
Q. Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years she is 20 i am 23 we have been having sex for around 2 months, she was a virgin and wanted to wait, but a conversation we had the other day has confused me slightly. She says to me that ...
A. 14 February 2012: I don't think she knows much about contraception. It's her right not to take the pill, many women can't use it or don't like to take chemicals into their body. But pills and condoms aren't the only contraception available.
I think what she is s... (read in full...)
Is there light at the end of the tunnel? This new relationship is a nightmare.
Q. Three years ago, I gave up my career, left my two teenagers with my ex-husband(divorced 12 years), left my home, parents, and friends to move to the East Coast for a guy that I love. I moved in with him and his 10 yrs old son from his previous marr...
A. 14 February 2012: No he's not just a little kid, he is one mixed up manipulative little brat... lol. Not his fault, but I can see how he got that way.
No dad around, an unhappy lonely mother who is overwhelmed and busy with a 2 year old and an affair. So the 2yea... (read in full...)
If the "I have to pee and it feels like you're stabbing me" pain during sex is g-spot stimulation, how can I cum and make it GO AWAY so I can enjoy sex?
Q. I don't get it. I've been sexually active for years and have had sex partners of ALL sizes. EVERY single time, the result is the same: I use the bathroom before intercourse JUST IN CASE I wind up squirting. ...the first 2 or 3 minutes of...
A. 14 February 2012: You mentioned only two things UTI and PID.. have you checked for chlamydia and other STD's, I think chlamydia is linked to painful sex.
Only other thing I can think is the guy is going too deep, too fast. Sex is not supposed to hurt. Not sure abo... (read in full...)
Why is this woman appearing and disappearing from his facebook page?
Q. I'm not really worried about this, but i'm curious about it. I have been dating someone for a few weeks now. After the night we first met, we kept intouch on facebook. I noticed that a woman had left a comment on his page saying " Hey, still on ...
A. 13 February 2012: Don't know babes... only yesterday *blew a kiss" to me male fb friend. I know he's single, but it wouldn't matter, I blow kisses to everyone. Now if he deleted me, I'd be pissed, because a short note to say "I've got a girlfriend who doesn't like ... (read in full...)
I really like a girl who hates me
Q. I'm 16 and I fancy this girl who is 14 goin on 15 and she hates me so much but I love her and I cant get over her, she knows how I feel as all my freinds asked her out for me even tho I did'nt give them permission. I just got a gym membership so I ...
A. 13 February 2012: Many of the aunts will have moved on, but I'll give it a try
First 2 and a half hours isn't that long.. calm down, you don't want to look obsessed. Maybe she is busy with something else. If she doesn't get back to you, then text back in a couple... (read in full...)
I never want to talk to my father again
Q. Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was a...
A. 13 February 2012: Anon aged 14, there is nothing to be sorry for, your considered opinion and your advice is as valuable as anyone here. Thank you for taking the time to help.... (read in full...)
'Free Spirit?' Or did he mislead me? Should I wipe him from my life?
Q. M led me on for approximately 9 months. It started off as a normal friendship, however it quickly became intense with the knowledge of his life partner passing away a couple of years ago. For reasons unbeknown to me, he chose to get close to me ...
A. 13 February 2012: Don't think you'll like what I will say, but I'll take your invitation up. Question for you... What responsibility do you have to you? What is your responsibility for developing this situation? I read your story very carefully, and I noticed ho... (read in full...)
My best friend/room mate found my vibrator and won't stop teasing me about it!
Q. I've been single for a couple years now and I've been living with my best friend (who happens to be a guy) for four years. We've known each other since we were 16, though, so it's not a huge thing and he's also been single for longer than I have. ...
A. 13 February 2012: lol.. so you ignored a lot of our immature advice (me) and decided to act like a grown adult.. Good for you... I hope all goes well.... (read in full...)
Why is he threatening to break up if I refuse to delete pictures from my FaceBook?
Q. My boyfriend of two months just started saying that it's bothering him that i have a few pictures of my ex on my facebook profile. The pictures are just of prom posses which shouldn't bother him. (it wouldn't bother me at least) and there are a few ...
A. 13 February 2012: You should leave this guy right away. You've only been dating for 8weeks, but already he's possessive, telling you what to do, wanting you to destroy memories that you should keep for the rest of your life. You've probably been with your ex and... (read in full...)
Should I contact my ex, who hurt me or wait for him to contact me?
Q. I'm curious if any men out there ever wished they could get their ex back after leaving them for someone else and then a yr. or so later realized you had made a huge mistake or the one you hooked up with ended up dumping you? Were you too much of ...
A. 13 February 2012: "She also, told me he wished he had not been so foolish to end a 7 yr. relationship and that he really did love me" Men that are happy, in love with you and dying to get married, do not end a 7year relationship, go off with another girl and... (read in full...)
It's complicated, but she doesn't want to put in the effort. I really do care for her!
Q. I have an issue. I am complicated with a girl that I've since highschool. We have gone out our senior year for a year into our freshman year of college (which was long distance) until complications got in the way. After our breakup, for about a...
A. 13 February 2012: I'll answer your question to Bardia.. In my situation it hasn't ended and it's lasted probably as long as you've been on earth. It bloody well hurts a lot and spoils other things in your life. I understand your feelings, but I'm in your girl's ... (read in full...)
Partner lied to me about having an eleven year old child. Is this a red flag?
Q. My partner lied to me about having a child from a previous relationship. I knew he had two other childrend but I didn't know he had had another child who would be eleven years old now. I knew my partner had a relationship with the child's mother ...
A. 13 February 2012: I'm curious to what happens now. You already have a kid for this guy.. are you going to dump him and ban him from being a father.. Protect the child from who? Is there signs that the guy is abusive, has he hurt you or your child in anyway. Leave ... (read in full...)
His balding is becoming such an obsession lately...how do I get him to embrace it?
Q. I have been dating my guy for hitting 2 years now. I am 29, he is 35. His hair is thinning, just as it was when I first met him. It has become such an obsession with him over the last six months, and its driving me nuts. He has stopped going out ...
A. 12 February 2012: Most guys I know just shave it off and go for the sexy bald look.. and like you, I find this exciting.. :P Back off, leave him alone, you can't convince him with words. But it doesn't hurt to suddenly get yourself an obsession for bald men... ... (read in full...)
I never want to talk to my father again
Q. Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was a...
A. 12 February 2012: ScaredForLove... my words are clumsy, mistake isn't the proper word. It's unplanned pregnancy. They didn't plan to have you, but as soon as they knew you was coming they did their best. From the moment you first opened your eyes and waved your ... (read in full...)
I never want to talk to my father again
Q. Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was a...
A. 12 February 2012: ScaredForLove (interesting name)
Your mother wasn't a child when she got pregnant, she was at the legal age of consent. Your father didn't rape her, he wasn't an old man who manipulated her, they were two young people who made a mistake.... (read in full...)
A man 20 years older than me asked me out, how do I handle it?
Q. So I've been telling everyone on this (amazing) site about the situation I am in with an understanding, respectful, attractive, laid back 42 yr old gentleman who is in the middle of a divorce from his wife of 18 years. There has been an attracti...
A. 12 February 2012: Missy don't break the no-sex rule until the divorce papers are in your hand. And I'd be very careful about dating him until he is out of the house. Once he has his own place, then he is a separated man and no-sex dating can begin. Then you can go ... (read in full...)
The reason why so many relationships fail
Q. I've come to realize recently that there are so many relationships that fail, so many guys and girls that break up with their boyfriend/girlfriend, and so many broken hearts. You may say it's because of the increased population, but I say it's b...
A. 12 February 2012: I can't really argue much with what you say.. said something similar in a post yesterday. Yes it's important to find someone who matches you as well as someone you love. But I'm not sure about perfect men and women who never manage to screw up. ... (read in full...)
I never want to talk to my father again
Q. Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was a...
A. 12 February 2012: Parents can't love who their children demand. They can't have sex or not have sex because a child still at school tells them what to do. Soon you'll be gone and will have a husband of your own. Does your father then have the right to tell you who ... (read in full...)
Partner lied to me about having an eleven year old child. Is this a red flag?
Q. My partner lied to me about having a child from a previous relationship. I knew he had two other childrend but I didn't know he had had another child who would be eleven years old now. I knew my partner had a relationship with the child's mother ...
A. 12 February 2012: One woman beat him up
The other takes his kids away because he has a girlfriend
Your on here because you judge him because of how he's treated
Guy doesn't seem to have much luck with women... (read in full...)
Partner lied to me about having an eleven year old child. Is this a red flag?
Q. My partner lied to me about having a child from a previous relationship. I knew he had two other childrend but I didn't know he had had another child who would be eleven years old now. I knew my partner had a relationship with the child's mother ...
A. 12 February 2012: It would be a red flag to me. I like men who love their children, and I expect them to maintain a good relationship with the child's mother, if not friendship, then at least they should be a support to her and their child. Then I can be sure they ... (read in full...)
My best friend/room mate found my vibrator and won't stop teasing me about it!
Q. I've been single for a couple years now and I've been living with my best friend (who happens to be a guy) for four years. We've known each other since we were 16, though, so it's not a huge thing and he's also been single for longer than I have. ...
A. 12 February 2012: Missed the part about him being single... that just gives you even more insults to give if he won't back off and act decently. The best way to stop offensive jokes is not to laugh, not to hide but lay bare the other's inadequacies that are causing ... (read in full...)
My best friend/room mate found my vibrator and won't stop teasing me about it!
Q. I've been single for a couple years now and I've been living with my best friend (who happens to be a guy) for four years. We've known each other since we were 16, though, so it's not a huge thing and he's also been single for longer than I have. ...
A. 12 February 2012: I like to recommend all women to buy a vibrator even if they never use it. Purely to overcome their embarrasment about sexual issues and gain the confidence to say "yes I'm a sexual being".
Just like you said here is just what I would say... "... (read in full...)
It's complicated, but she doesn't want to put in the effort. I really do care for her!
Q. I have an issue. I am complicated with a girl that I've since highschool. We have gone out our senior year for a year into our freshman year of college (which was long distance) until complications got in the way. After our breakup, for about a...
A. 11 February 2012: Either be a proper boyfriend to this girl or leave her alone to find someone else. At the moment she's stuck in situation where she's not free but she's not committed. You both still have feelings, and therefore cannot "just be friends". If you ... (read in full...)
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