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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 13 August 2007: Now you know for sure, for absolutely sure, that he is a liar and was cheating on you for who knows how long. The good part about your testing him was that it led to exposing it. I think your gut feelings warned you something was the matter.
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Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 25 July 2007: I'm happy for you. You managed.... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 20 July 2007: The civilized peace you mention is worth in itself and I would go for it. After all, you had a love relationship. Sometimes problems like the one you had are good, in a way, because they expose what is not working well, and, with the right ... (read in full...)
Am I a lesbian or am I just curious?
Q. Ok. I know that quite a few people am probably going to say I'm too young to really know what I'm feeling but whilst I understand that and know my feelings may change as I get older right now this is impossible. I'd begun to suspect I might be gay/ ...
A. 12 July 2007: Good luck, dear.... (read in full...)
Never had an orgasm! Is there something wrong with me?
Q. please help me im 35 with 2 kids and have never had an orgasam been married 13 years why is this is there something wrong with me...
A. 11 July 2007: I hope you do solve this issue with him.
You know, I understand that you're not the only woman to never have an orgasm. I recently saw a post by another lady who said she never orgasms through intercourse alone. Many women need other forms of... (read in full...)
My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm
Q. My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm.... We have been making love for the past 3 months and I have one child aged 19, I am 46 my partner is 44. Why is this ...
A. 11 July 2007: I believe the marijuana has a lot to do here. And the situation you describe suggests he has some psychological issues to solve, which make him lose his erection. Also, his saying that you're "loose" suggests that he doesn't get as much ... (read in full...)
I want to last longer sexually
Q. I was in a long distance relationship until very recently. We used to only have Sex a few times every 7 weeks or so and I found that I was ejaculating way too quick when having Sex. While she loved the "warmth" of me finishing inside her, I still ...
A. 11 July 2007: Carry on, man. You're doing the right thing for your future girl and yourself.... (read in full...)
He broke up with me, but we still love each other
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago, but I don't think either one of us is really over it and I want him back... He dumped me because he said he couldn't do it (not sure what that means). Although, he comes from not such a great family backgrou...
A. 11 July 2007: I don't think this is a mindgame. From what you've told us, he seems very much in love but very insecure.
I don't think he doesn't love himself. He is in bad need of improving his self-esteem, though.
If I were you, I would try one more tim... (read in full...)
How can I learn to be apart from my boyfriend without it driving me nuts?
Q. i dont know what to do. I have been with my b/f for over 2 years and i think i have changed since meeting him. He is my first serious relationship so i never really got attached to a guy before. But for a long time now--i found myself thinkin...
A. 11 July 2007: It's pretty obvious that you're insecure about him. You should talk to him to clear any doubts you may have. However, if you can see him 3-4 times a week, I think you should be sure he does love you and is committed to you.... (read in full...)
I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed at me... I'm not too sure how I should feel about this.
Q. Here's the story, I am 20 soon to be 21 (in a week) A couple days ago I met this girl and we got to talking. As the conversation evolved, we ended up talking about sex. Well this is the point where I told her that I was a virgin. Well she laughed ...
A. 11 July 2007: Let us say it clearly: maybe she was mocking him. But, he shouldn't worry.... (read in full...)
My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm
Q. My husband to be says that in the past month my vagina feels much larger and he is finding it difficult to have an orgasm.... We have been making love for the past 3 months and I have one child aged 19, I am 46 my partner is 44. Why is this ...
A. 11 July 2007: I learned that the penis loses sensitivity as we age. Maybe this plays a role, too?... (read in full...)
What can I do to save our relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over two years. Recently, I have been feeling alone. I feel like he isn't interested in me. When I try to tell him how I feel, I end up feeling guilty and cry. He acts as if he doesn't notice that ...
A. 11 July 2007: Let's hope things improve.... (read in full...)
Am I a lesbian or am I just curious?
Q. Ok. I know that quite a few people am probably going to say I'm too young to really know what I'm feeling but whilst I understand that and know my feelings may change as I get older right now this is impossible. I'd begun to suspect I might be gay/ ...
A. 11 July 2007: There can be doubt only about whether you're a lesbian. There is none about your friend not reciprocating, and about the need that you stop any advances or you'll destroy the friendship.... (read in full...)
He broke up with me, but we still love each other
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago, but I don't think either one of us is really over it and I want him back... He dumped me because he said he couldn't do it (not sure what that means). Although, he comes from not such a great family backgrou...
A. 10 July 2007: You know, maybe the low self-esteem is killing him. You have done a lot, certainly, but perhaps the man needs more. If you continue (for a while) to show him you do love him very much, he might just get the confidence he needs.
I honestly... (read in full...)
Whtt happens if you say "I love you" but they dont say it back?
Q. Hi. This question might apply to several situation, but theres one in particular i want to think about. what happens if at somepoint in the future i really feel i love my gf (ive only been with her for 2 and a bit weeks so far) and i tell her...
A. 10 July 2007: Maybe some time in the future she will tell you she loves you too. You know, maybe she doesn't believe you're sincere after only two weeks and a half. I know you can be, but, in this case, she needs to be sure about it. Give her time. If some ... (read in full...)
I want to last longer sexually
Q. I was in a long distance relationship until very recently. We used to only have Sex a few times every 7 weeks or so and I found that I was ejaculating way too quick when having Sex. While she loved the "warmth" of me finishing inside her, I still ...
A. 10 July 2007: Yep, she's right. There are many ways to last longer, and one of them is wanting to. I think a good search in Google will give you a lot of help, in a detail we should not present here.... (read in full...)
My fiance is looking at online porn!
Q. Last night i was looking through some pictures on my internet at home and then started to discover that alot of porn sites had been looked at and also all these pictures of women from the internet. When i asked my fiance he said that he looked a...
A. 10 July 2007: I found the link to the conversation:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-the-dearcupid-men-elaborate-on-their-views.html
Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
I have been having doubts that we want the same thing
Q. Hi there, I have been in a relationship for 4 and a 1/2 years, since i was 15. I have also been living with my boyfriend since i was 18, as we moved to London to go to the same university. Recently i have been having doubts that we want the...
A. 10 July 2007: In my experience, whenever someone asks for "a break", things have come to a point where they are actually considering to put an end to the relationship. I think this is your case. You want to keep the door open, but, deep down, this is what you ... (read in full...)
My fiance is looking at online porn!
Q. Last night i was looking through some pictures on my internet at home and then started to discover that alot of porn sites had been looked at and also all these pictures of women from the internet. When i asked my fiance he said that he looked a...
A. 10 July 2007: I've found a lot of questions in this regard from many women of all ages. I remember we had an interesting exchange of opinions on this, but I cannot find it again.
I understand that porn makes many women feel insecure, and many women feel tha... (read in full...)
Is there an unobtrusive way to get my girl to give me a BJ?
Q. During foreplay, my girlfriend will often very briefly put the head of my penis into her mouth, but never for long. she's told me before that she doesn't like giving head but that she thinks its because of the way she feels about the guy she did it ...
A. 10 July 2007: I think you should not put pressure on her. She will know when she's ready. Wait.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is done having kids, but I dont have any yet, and I really want one
Q. Im 29 and living with my girlfriend, 34, and her two boys 10 and 12. We have been together over a year now and i realise now that she doesnt want any more children and i do. She has had her boys and now want some time of her own, which i underst...
A. 10 July 2007: I'm afraid that you need to be very, very sure of what you want. This is an issue you need to solve now; if you sweep it under the carpet, it will only grow worse. If you must have a child, well, she's not the one to give that to you, and it's... (read in full...)
He broke up with me, but we still love each other
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago, but I don't think either one of us is really over it and I want him back... He dumped me because he said he couldn't do it (not sure what that means). Although, he comes from not such a great family backgrou...
A. 10 July 2007: He loves you a hell of a lot but he feels the relationship will not work out. And he's torn between his feelings and his fears.
You seem to want him back, too. I would try talking to him. Telling him exactly that, that you want him back, an... (read in full...)
Am I bisexual, or just a cross dresser?
Q. hi im 24yr straight male who likes to dress in girls clothes. not very often. Recently i met this guy and have became good freinds. he is bi and we started having sex a few months ago and meeting each other once a week with me dressing as a girl ...
A. 10 July 2007: As in the James Bond movie, "Never say never". If you have had good sex with this man for months, I assume you are bisexual AND a cross dresser.... (read in full...)
We have a great relationship, but he isnt in love with me.
Q. I am currently dating my best friend, we have been on anf off for about a year now. We are together every weekend and we talk on the phone constantly. The problem is he changes his mind about me a lot. I asked him if he was in love with me and he ...
A. 10 July 2007: I find it extremely odd that someone can say he loves you, but then he is not in love with you. Maybe linguists can draw a line between the two, in theory, but I wonder how this could be in practice.
I hope I'm wrong on this, but I think he is pl... (read in full...)
My friend got naked at a party to show my husband what a great body she has
Q. I used to think my husband and i were quite strong and that he loved me but now i am not so sure we had a party and my friend came, she has lost a lot of weight and looks real good now i on the other hand am over weight i am trying to lose it ...
A. 10 July 2007: Eddie always has insightful things to say. In this case, I'm with him and with Stina.... (read in full...)
Is this a normal penis size?
Q. I am a 13 yro black kid and my penis is 6 1/2 inches long and im afraid that i have 2 be huge cuz everybody says im supposed 2 be huge and i dont wanna be made fun of in the locker room. AM i to small?...
A. 10 July 2007: I wanted to give an opinion on size, but then I think it's best to give you an opinion on the heart of the matter.
Just as we are all worried about height, until one day we discover we should care about more important matters, we are worried ... (read in full...)
He wants me to kick my son out of the house!
Q. I have been going to marriage counseling with my husband for the past few months and things have been going pretty smoothly. now he has told me that he does not want my 14year old son in the house because of behavior issues. he has giving me a ...
A. 10 July 2007: Go. I don't see how he can propose this. Maybe the boy is a hell of a lot of trouble, but he's still a 14 year old.
Maybe the boy is a problem because he doesn't get along with your husband. In this case, obviously the adult has to carry th... (read in full...)
How can I get more out of sex with my boyfriend?
Q. I'm a 17 yr old girl from New Zealand, and i need some advice, if anyone has any 2 give. My bf and i hav been 2gether 4 around 8 months now, and we started having sex a little more than a month ago. Our relationship is very strong, and it's the real ...
A. 10 July 2007: I guess you don't want to make your partner feel bad about his sexual technique. But, if he cares about you in the least (and he does seem to), he shouldn't have any problem understanding that some things are good for you and some others aren't
... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and never had a relationship - I want real love! Is this normal?
Q. i never have a relation ship whith someone.i want to have it but i m sker. because i want a real love and a good personne .im 19 years old and i never have a relation ship whith somone.ihave many boys friend but they are just friends . is this ...
A. 10 July 2007: Yep, it is. Just keep looking and you'll find someone who is right for you. Don't become desperate, though.... (read in full...)
He isn't performing in bed... will things get better?
Q. I've been seeing this guy (about once a week)since Christmas just as friends, my ex husband and i have known him and his ex for 20+ years. When we go out together we have a lovely time but when it comes to sex he just cant maintain an erection, on ...
A. 10 July 2007: Maybe it will be better then. But maybe he has some problems with erectile dysfunction. Or a psychological block.... (read in full...)
I was getting on really well with her until... I found out she was pregnant!!!
Q. I've been getting on really well with a young lady for a while now when I see her at her workplace everyday behind a counter and I was contemplating asking her out today when I realised that she was pregnant when she was filling some shelves. ...
A. 10 July 2007: We've all been there, so we can give you the same old advice: move on. I understand the heartbreak, and I'm in the same age group as you, so I (think I) understand you better; but obviously her mind is somewhere else. You cannot win here.
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Never had an orgasm! Is there something wrong with me?
Q. please help me im 35 with 2 kids and have never had an orgasam been married 13 years why is this is there something wrong with me...
A. 10 July 2007: I don't think so.
This you should solve with your husband, and he should be understanding and cooperative. I think he doesn't take you in consideration.... (read in full...)
He said he loves his wife... should I wait for him?
Q. I've been with a guy for three years he got married before we got serious we have a child together; we used to live together at the moment we're not. he said he love his wife for what she done for him but his heart is with me. should I wait for him ...
A. 10 July 2007: I think you should move on. Don't look at his words, but at his actions: he married someone else though you were living with him and had a child by him.
Don't wait for him; sort your own life out. Don't include him if not as father of your bab... (read in full...)
What should I do? I mean he say he will visit often but i'm affraid of losing him?
Q. My ex bf and I want to be together but it's hard me for me to trust him because everytime we get close, he breaks up with me, but he said this time its going to be different because he wants to be with me forever. It's hard for me to trust him sinc...
A. 10 July 2007: I wouldn't believe him either. He's leaving so soon that his promise is worthless. I'm afraid this is the reason why he says "this time will be different".
I wonder why he kept breaking up with you. That seems a bad sign to me.... (read in full...)
We're young and we want to have sex badly.
Q. I want to have sex badley but I not sure if I should do it my boy friend is 16 and im 12 he calls every night tells me come over i am ready. (Moderator Note: purposefully left without corrections)...
A. 10 July 2007: I agree with the ladies. You shouldn't even consider sex now.
You know, when you want something badly, you don't have any doubts about it. That alone tells me HE is the one who wants the sex badly. But then you say he calls you every night. ... (read in full...)
Is there any hope of me and my girlfriend getting back together?
Q. Is there any hope of me and my girlfriend getting back together? I have been living with my girlfriend for 4 years now and we have a beautiful wee girl aged 2 . About 6 weeks ago she came in and announced - Ive something to tell you - Im moving o...
A. 10 July 2007: Yes, some of us have, and, frankly, I don't think she will ever come back to you. It's over. This is hard, but it should clear the confusion, which is the worst part of it all. You can cope with certainties, not with doubt.
Her leaving you was ... (read in full...)
My question is, am I wrong for wanting him to break off his friendship with her?
Q. I’m a gay man. My boyfriend went out with his best friend in April. His best friend brought along her EX boyfriend. They went to a straight strip club and then to the bar after words. When they got into the car to go home, his best friend and her ...
A. 10 July 2007: I'm with rythmandblues2.... (read in full...)
Am I a lesbian or am I just curious?
Q. Ok. I know that quite a few people am probably going to say I'm too young to really know what I'm feeling but whilst I understand that and know my feelings may change as I get older right now this is impossible. I'd begun to suspect I might be gay/ ...
A. 10 July 2007: I see two different issues here. One is whether you're a lesbian; the other is getting over her.
Maybe you're a lesbian, yes. If you're not sure by now, time will tell for sure.
About your friend: if she says she doesn't reciprocate, wel... (read in full...)
I don't want to get my hopes up but its too late, I already have now.
Q. Right, so this lad I've been asking questions about [http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-lied-to-him-about-an-abortion-he.html] I went to a party with him the other day and we kissed again for ages, thing is I was really drunk, but he wasn't. I just ...
A. 10 July 2007: In the other post, you mentioned he doesn't love you. Well, I think this very much tells you what to do.
I don't like the fact that he kissed you when YOU were drunk. I can't avoid feeling he took advantage of you. You should be careful ... (read in full...)
What should I do if I am afraid to tell my girlfriend I love her?
Q. What should I do if I am afraid to tell my girlfriend I love her?...
A. 10 July 2007: Why are you afraid to tell her you love her?... (read in full...)
It's bothering me that my boyfriend told me that about a year ago, he wanted write another girl's name on his crotch.
Q. My Boyfriend (of over a year) told me early in our relationship that a year or 2 ago he thought this one girl was "hot" and attempted to write her name on him er -down there. At the time I didn't really think about it but I recently remembered it ...
A. 10 July 2007: You shouldn't think about it. It's in the past. You are what counts now.... (read in full...)
My breasts were very veiny I mean I could see the blue viens going through my areolas and the rest of my breasts.
Q. Okay, this is probably going to sound really wierd and gross but I need some help from all you girls out there. Last night when I was getting ready to get in the shower I looked at myself in the mirror while I was topless, I realized that my breasts ...
A. 10 July 2007: I don't know much about this, but, maybe you are very fair skinned?... (read in full...)
Is viagra safe for an 18 year old?
Q. I want to have longer sex with my gf. I don't need viagra but i think that using it will prolong the time that we do it for giving the girl a better time. Is this safe to use as I am only 18?...
A. 10 July 2007: From what I've heard, Viagra only means risks for men with cardiovascular disease, and it's unlikely you'll have any cardiovascular condition at your age. I would check with a doctor, just in case. I knew a girl who reportedly died of heart ... (read in full...)
It all seemed like a wonderful dream, now it's turning into a nightmare.
Q. Did I overreact? I've been with my boyfriend for seven weeks but because he lives quite far away we've only seen each other seven times. When we do meet it's only for a night and a bit of the morning as our work shifts clash. He told me he loved me ...
A. 10 July 2007: I do wish you luck. I hope I'm proved right, not for my own sake, but for yours. He does seem to have been raised too conservatively for you; I hope he isn't a bad guy.
I have a personal reason to say you should be patient: I was rejected... (read in full...)
He went away on business and promised to call to say he got there safely... but didn't!
Q. Recently my b/f went away on business. The night he left, he promised to call when he arrived at his first destination. He knows that I am always unable to sleep until I know he's there in one piece. He never called. I laid awake until 1:30 AM ...
A. 10 July 2007: Well, my dear anonymous, with this new information, I have to agree with you: he should have called.... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 10 July 2007: All right, Butterflyfly. We don't know when you'll find the right guy, but I hope you do find him. I hope we've helped you.... (read in full...)
I need closure from my last relationship, but my ex still refuses to speak w/ me even after 15 years! What can I do?
Q. I'm in a happy long term relationship of over 15 years. My problem is that I had one previous serious relationship of 5 years when I was at college. It ended very badly and caused me much pain. I don't think I have ever fully got over it, partly ...
A. 10 July 2007: We understand better now. But, anyways, this is how it will be. I'm sorry about it, you know.... (read in full...)
Told my friends I'm a virgin and it seems all they want to talk about now is sex!
Q. Hey there, I feeling a bit let down by friends right now. A few days ago i told my friends i was a virgin (I'm 19). It's something i dont have a problem with and im quite proud of myself for not sleeping around and having one night stands. I feel ...
A. 9 July 2007: Maybe they want to make fun of you. But I think the choice is yours, and they should respect it. You aren't doing anything wrong; they are.
I'm afraid they would play mind games on you if you complained about this; if I were you, I would go... (read in full...)
He went away on business and promised to call to say he got there safely... but didn't!
Q. Recently my b/f went away on business. The night he left, he promised to call when he arrived at his first destination. He knows that I am always unable to sleep until I know he's there in one piece. He never called. I laid awake until 1:30 AM ...
A. 9 July 2007: I'm afraid you might. Sometimes calling is not as easy as it seems. I had to stay one night in an airport, on my way home, and I simply found no way to let my family know.
Maybe you are insecure about him and he's resenting that. But I wouldn't... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 9 July 2007: I'm with you, Butterflyfly. Only he who has never been through the horrible experience of finding out someone is cheating can disagree with the reason for the testing.
I think you're doing things the right way: you are giving him an option. ... (read in full...)
I need closure from my last relationship, but my ex still refuses to speak w/ me even after 15 years! What can I do?
Q. I'm in a happy long term relationship of over 15 years. My problem is that I had one previous serious relationship of 5 years when I was at college. It ended very badly and caused me much pain. I don't think I have ever fully got over it, partly ...
A. 9 July 2007: I agree with flower girl. She gave you very good advice.
I have a little something to add. I understand your feelings because I was in the same situation. I know you just want to make peace between you two. But, you won't be given that cha... (read in full...)
What can I do to save our relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over two years. Recently, I have been feeling alone. I feel like he isn't interested in me. When I try to tell him how I feel, I end up feeling guilty and cry. He acts as if he doesn't notice that ...
A. 9 July 2007: Apparently you have serious problems. It is not possible to save a relationship unless the two parties cooperate. So I think you should try to get him involved. If he won't, well, the relationship will be doomed. Obviously you are being neglec... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 9 July 2007: Well, with the information you give, it's obvious he was not just curious about knowin who his mistery admirer is. I'm happy to see that you and I are in the same wavelength, but now I want to add something. I'm with you, not in the test itself,... (read in full...)
I have been having doubts that we want the same thing
Q. Hi there, I have been in a relationship for 4 and a 1/2 years, since i was 15. I have also been living with my boyfriend since i was 18, as we moved to London to go to the same university. Recently i have been having doubts that we want the...
A. 8 July 2007: Dear, don't expect things to come your way. Act. If you don't want him back in your life, well, proceed as you should.... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: I agree that you shouldn't play this games. However, I also think there is a reason for you to. If he constantly says he loves you and you found reason not to believe him, there is a problem here.
I also think he should not go with this game, le... (read in full...)
I have been having doubts that we want the same thing
Q. Hi there, I have been in a relationship for 4 and a 1/2 years, since i was 15. I have also been living with my boyfriend since i was 18, as we moved to London to go to the same university. Recently i have been having doubts that we want the...
A. 8 July 2007: It seems to me that you've fallen out of love with him. This happens, no matter how old you were when you first got involved with someone, or how long you've been with that person. There seem to be some personality differences as well, and the ... (read in full...)
It all seemed like a wonderful dream, now it's turning into a nightmare.
Q. Did I overreact? I've been with my boyfriend for seven weeks but because he lives quite far away we've only seen each other seven times. When we do meet it's only for a night and a bit of the morning as our work shifts clash. He told me he loved me ...
A. 7 July 2007: I think you've done the right thing, madam, which is talking. Honest, direct conversation is the key to solving this differences, as love and willingness to solve problems are important, too.
I see I failed to convey my point of view. Cultural... (read in full...)
It all seemed like a wonderful dream, now it's turning into a nightmare.
Q. Did I overreact? I've been with my boyfriend for seven weeks but because he lives quite far away we've only seen each other seven times. When we do meet it's only for a night and a bit of the morning as our work shifts clash. He told me he loved me ...
A. 6 July 2007: I was the Latin in a previous relationship and I understand both you and him.
I'm sorry he's unavailable to read this. I think you two should take things easy. Latin and Anglo souls are very different, and, as you can only judge things in the f... (read in full...)
| *anielepew's friends
These are mutual friends, so *anielepew has
added them and they have added *anielepew!
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![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png){kind=small}
