How is this for a profile on an online dating website?
Q. I am a member of a dating site, however I never know what different things to say in a reply that is mentioned in my profile. Here is my profile (is this too bland?): I am a happy-go-lucky guy with one life motto: Live life to the max! My f...
A. 16 July 2013: I think that you should just embrace the bad profile descriptions, it seems to be your destiny, and more honest than a flawless one. Think of it as part of your charm. ... (read in full...)
I moved in with him after one month, realized it's a mistake then moved out. . .
Q. I've been going out with my bf for 5 months. He is 31 and I'm 30. I am his first gf. We have lived together for the last 4 months. I know we rushed and moved in too soon. During this time he lost his job and i only work part time... So we ended up ...
A. 6 March 2013: "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" is a true a statement as any. Give him the space he wants but be sure to make the moments you have count.
The reason moving in so quickly is a bad idea is for one reason only: living with someone can be diffi... (read in full...)
How to test my gf for being a sociopath
Q. Ok so I can't really tell if my girlfriend is a sociopath or not, I know all the symptoms and read ALOT about the subject but I can't tell if in emotionally in denial or maybe she just had a bunch of bad boyfriends in her passed and has always been ...
A. 6 March 2013: Well, let us know how it works out and I promise I won't say "I told you so." ... (read in full...)
How to test my gf for being a sociopath
Q. Ok so I can't really tell if my girlfriend is a sociopath or not, I know all the symptoms and read ALOT about the subject but I can't tell if in emotionally in denial or maybe she just had a bunch of bad boyfriends in her passed and has always been ...
A. 5 March 2013: I don't think you're going to get an answer to your question here.
The real question is why are you trying to prove that your gf is crazy? If you are trying to help her, take her to a professional. Otherwise you shouldn't be with her if she's dr... (read in full...)
How to accept my gay boyfriend's son
Q. My "100% gay" boyfriend used to be in a relationship with a woman and had a son with her. How can i accept this child? It's testing me apart that now WE can never have that first child experience. What do i do? And please don't say "get over...
A. 5 March 2013: You'll need more than you can get here. Look for books on the subject, they're out there. I'm not sure about the gay aspect of this, but accepting a step child is a common issue.
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Should I interfer in the way my boyfriend and his ex wife handle their daughter? She's a spoiled brat!
Q. My boyfriend has a 17 year old daughter from his ex wife,he has introduced me to her and now that I know her I feel she's quite the brat!she has a very expensive taste just like her father!at the age of 17 she has been gifted a mercedes,an iphone ...
A. 5 March 2013: She'll be 18 soon; at this point there's nothing you can do to change how they treat her. When she turns 18 you can tell your boyfriend that you think that it's her responsibility to buy expensive things if she wants them.
He can pay for her scho... (read in full...)
IS this modeling agency on the up and up? They asked me do do some rather risque things?
Q. hi, im really stuck! i need help. i have been contacted by a modeling agency asking if im interested in modeling. i am and i always have been i would love to be a model. The only thing is she told me i had to do my audition on skype on a web cam in ...
A. 5 March 2013: If you can Google their name and find some good info on them I'd do it in the future.
In this case I can't say for sure but if I had to put money on it you are probably on the Internet somewhere by now.
They can record the Web chat and pos... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm never going to find a boyfriend
Q. Settling? Is it ok to do so? Im a almost 22 year old college student, with a job and who's saved up enough cash to buy a car! Im soooo excited! I have no kids and Im moving into my apartment this summer! :-D Im doing great for myself, well i think ...
A. 5 March 2013: DON'T SETTLE! You can meet your future husband at any stage in life. I dated throughout my 20's but didn't find the "right" girl until I was 29. I'm glad I waited and was able to enjoy my youth.
You should travel. Go on an adventure!
Besides... (read in full...)
As the "other" woman in the affair, how to deal with his revengeful wife
Q. I am in a weird situation and need your advice. I (happily married and want to stay in that marriage) had an affair a couple of years ago with another married man, whose wife found out. Their relationship is going down the drain and he told me ...
A. 5 March 2013: People in this situation tell the unsuspecting spouse all the time. They want to hurt you, and they probably feel like your husband has the right to know.
I'd assume it's going to happen. I DEFINITELY don't agree that you should lie and say that... (read in full...)
Ex-boyfriend breaks NC after 2 weeks?
Q. My bf and I broke up and I've been NC for 2 weeks. He's 34 and I'm 30. I broke it off with him after 2.5 years together because I felt like he wasn't giving me enough attention and because he had to go away for work in another state and after being ...
A. 5 March 2013: "No contact" means not paying attention to any contact from the other person. Why he contacted you is irrelevant if you truly want to be done with him. ... (read in full...)
She says she can tell lies about other guys as she is not my wife!
Q. i have been dating since 2 years. my girlfriend wants us to be engaged and then married. i have found her to be on dating sites many times and text messenging guys on different phone numbers. she always told lies about it, but now said that it is ...
A. 5 March 2013: You know what, I agree with her. She can do whatever she wants. She hasn't said any vows to you. But neither have you, so get the funk out while you still can!
I have a friend who was always cheating on his girlfriend. He used to say when the... (read in full...)
Girlfriend won't have sex with me and now won't see me!
Q. I'm 26 plus n my girl friend is 22plus we 've dating getting to 4 years now,each time she pays me visit she refuse me to touch her breast,boob,kiss she prefer hug. The last time she visited me i tried all i could to get her to have sex wit me s...
A. 5 March 2013: Well, it seems obvious that she doesn't feel comfortable going to see you when you're going to spend the whole time trying to push her into doing something she doesn't want.
You should be embarrassed for treating someone you care about that way... (read in full...)
How is this for a profile on an online dating website?
Q. I am a member of a dating site, however I never know what different things to say in a reply that is mentioned in my profile. Here is my profile (is this too bland?): I am a happy-go-lucky guy with one life motto: Live life to the max! My f...
A. 5 March 2013: I don't think the picture being a year old matters as long as it's accurate. I look the same as I did 5 years ago, so if I had a nice head shot from then I wouldn't feel bad using it. Come to think of it I think I've been using the same Facebook ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that this girl might start flirting with my boyfriend
Q. Hello everyone I apologize in advance for this being long but I need some serious advice. I'll just start off by saying I have been in a long distance relationship for almost two years with a really amazing person. We are both around the same age ...
A. 5 March 2013: You shouldn't be worried about this at all. Because if he's trustworthy than he'll have no interest in her and she'll know it. If he's not trustworthy he may mess around with her and sooner or later you'll know. Then you can dump him and find a ... (read in full...)
My father won't approve of my white boyfriend
Q. Dearcupid, I am a black 15 year old girl and I have a 16 year old boyfriend who is white. My mom and dad said that I am not allowed to date until age 16 but my b-day is only a few months away so that's not a problem. The real problem is the f...
A. 5 March 2013: Why tell him at all? When I was your age I was in the same situation and although my parents didn't care, my gf's mom wasn't happy. But we just never needed to make it known to her because it wasn't like we'd be hanging out at her house. ... (read in full...)
I've never even kissed a girl because of my insecurity about my size
Q. hi i'm 21 yrs old guy who never had sex or even kissed a girl, this happen mostly because i'm so insecure with my size down there, i've been reading a lot about this topic and i saw a lot of advices like 'it's how you use it"; "size does not matt...
A. 5 March 2013: So, in order to avoid the possibility of rejection, you're going to reject yourself? Does that make sense?
Look, there are girls who demand a big one. That's something that regular sized men have to accept. The reality is that those women of... (read in full...)
How is this for a profile on an online dating website?
Q. I am a member of a dating site, however I never know what different things to say in a reply that is mentioned in my profile. Here is my profile (is this too bland?): I am a happy-go-lucky guy with one life motto: Live life to the max! My f...
A. 5 March 2013: Exclamation marks are the crutch of weak writing; I'd recommend losing some of them as well as some of the clichés like "happy go lucky"! Also, you mentioned crying two times! ... (read in full...)
Is he just using a line to finish things?
Q. I have been seeing someone very casually for a month, I was not looking for a relationship when we first met (coming out of a bad breakup) so suggested not getting too involved which he was ok with. We have slept together a few times but now he says ...
A. 4 March 2013: I don't agree with sageoldguy, that's quite a generalization. I've never been one to need a "conquest" i just enjoy the one I'm with.
I don't see any reason to doubt what he's saying. It may be a line, but it sounds reasonable to me. Unless t... (read in full...)
My wife cheated and I want to keep our family together but how do I get over the images in my head?
Q. Hello. I write to you today because I recently found out that my lovely wife, best friend, and mother of my 3 lovely children has had an ongoing sexual relationship for the last 10 years. I found emails from the two of them on her laptop and they ...
A. 4 March 2013: She deceived you for so long and hurt you so bad that I believe that the only way you can get over it is to leave her. I know that's not what you want to hear but cheating of this magnitude permanently alters things. You'll never be able to look at ... (read in full...)
If my girlfriend was fooling around with another girl should I forgive her?
Q. Hey, really don't know what to do, so for the first time in my life am asking a message board for answers. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 and half years of bliss! I really couldn't have asked for a kinder sweeter girl, especially...
A. 4 March 2013: Well, what this means is that you probably can't trust her to be drinking by herself. Certain types of cheating are forgivable in my opinion, but I don't think it'd want her to be drinking very much anymore.
If you forgive her don't do it uncon... (read in full...)
She wants a nick name but I'm not sure which one to use?
Q. Hello i,m a male aged 51 and going on a date soon, the woman calls me hun ( short for honey i presume ) she said , she wants me to call her something nice, i,ve got a list of nice nicknames to call her, but not sure which one to use in ...
A. 4 March 2013: I don't understand why you're making such a big deal out of it. This is one of those things that's supposed to be totally natural. Did your mom call you something? Did she call your dad something?
My mom called me sweetie, still does I guess. G... (read in full...)
I can't trust my boyfriend because of his cheating in the past
Q. I'm writing this letter as I'm deeply. depressed and confused and would like to hear some feedback with what I'm about to write..the problem is I'm having trust issues with my boyfriend not just minor trust issues they actually bordering ridiculous ...
A. 4 March 2013: Maybe there's something that you left out, but you didn't mention anything positive here except that you love him, which is meaningless to me because women who's men beat them can say that.
So what it seems like you're doing is literally going cr... (read in full...)
I'm hot but he is not!
Q. I am a divorced mother with 3 wonderful children. I am independent, financially secure, the only thing missing is a good man in my life... Then 7 month ago, I met this amazing man: handsome, sweet, loving, caring, committed, patient, kind, ...
A. 4 March 2013: If the only evidence that you have that he's bisexual is him going to this guys house, I think you're jumping to conclusions. It's likely that they're friends and are simply hanging out.
It's more likely that you're at your peak while he's not... (read in full...)
How can I find a way to bring my true love to my heart?
Q. hello I;m a 48 years old woman I have this friend we are very very very close with each other we tell each other everything. We have known each other since we was little girls but now we are in our 40s. i was in a long term relationship with thi...
A. 4 March 2013: It may seem like you love her, but in my opinion love is only something two people in a relationship can share, other than a friend/family love.
The reason I say that is because no one is perfect, but until you have been intimately involved... (read in full...)
We liked each other as kids, but years later I have trust issues
Q. Hi everyone :) I recently reunited with a guy that I have know for about 7 years now (I'm 20 by the way). We used to live in the same apartment complex for 3 years and we would play at the tennis courts, go swimming, and just hang out pretty much ...
A. 4 March 2013: Yes, it's a good time to be in a relationship. You are aware of your issues; that makes it easy to work on them.
Most people, at some point in their lives, have been cheated on (statistically) . You were one of the ones that found out about it... (read in full...)
No one seems to believe me because of how my other family members act!
Q. This isn't a relationship,dating,love, or sex question. See my family look at me all wrong because of my parent's background and how my sister is,excuse me, hoeing around. My daddy is a thief so they think I still from him. My daddy lies a lot so ...
A. 4 March 2013: Unless I missed it, it doesn't seem like you've tried to have a discussion with them. Not a fight, but a discussion.
You did a decent job of saying what's bothering you here, but I'd think about everything you want to say and how you want to ... (read in full...)
I made a mistake by cheating and boyfriend met someone. How do I get him back?
Q. Hi all. Two years ago today I was dumped by my ex. We both did things to each other. I accept I made him insecure by constantly flirting with attractive guys when we went out, and by flirting on dating sites (which he always found out about). I did ...
A. 4 March 2013: No offense, but you sound like a nightmare girlfriend. Work on being a better person and start over fresh with someone else. Learn to have some self control, or just find someone who would like to be in an open relationship with you. That way you ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't this guy just step up to the plate if he's interested?
Q. I have been speaking to a guy for over a year now online. We met up once last year. We live in different states and are not committed to one another. However, we have spoken of a life together with no specific date set for anything moving ...
A. 4 March 2013: The reality is that you don't REALLY know each other until you been in a none virtual relationship, because virtual relationships are just what you said they are: all talk.
The person you THINK he is is only who he SAYS he is.
A little bit ... (read in full...)
Men: Would you date a woman who won't give oral sex?
Q. I do not like giving blow jobs at all. I could live my life quite happily never having to do it again because for me its not really a pleasant thing even if my partner enjoys it. I'd rather him miss out than endure my gag reflex telling me how ...
A. 4 March 2013: Most women aren't thrilled with the idea. Just about every married guy I know, myself included, feels somewhat cheated because prior to marriage we got them, now we have to live off of a once a year bj.
I'm surviving but it does bother me and i... (read in full...)
My crazy ex claimed she was pregnant the day after we broke up!
Q. Hello, I feel like I'm falling apart and desperately need some help and advice from others to help me piece everything together in my own head. So about 2 months ago I was introduced to a girl through a mutual friend who thought we might be good...
A. 3 March 2013: Not one single word of what she is saying should be considered the truth with the exception of "I hate you."
Did you come inside of her? If so then it's more likely that she COULD be pregnant. Either way it could be anyone's baby. Stay away fro... (read in full...)
He left me standing mid date, with no explaination.
Q. Me and my 30yo boyfriend were hanging out with friends at a coffee shop. He got a phone call (didn't see who it was), went outside to answer it. He never came back. We got there at 9:40pm, he got the call around 10:20. I waited, but my friends w...
A. 3 March 2013: Wow. What a jerk. Unless it was a situation where the time spent telling you would have led to someone's death, there is no excuse for what he did.
My guess is that anyone that would do this to someone else makes a pretty poor signific... (read in full...)
She keeps calling me by her ex's name.
Q. My girlfriend has called me her ex boyfriends name four times now....why??? She was with him for a few years but was cheating with me almost the entire time. She meant me first but i wasnt ready to date yet and she chased me the entire time. SOMEONE ...
A. 3 March 2013: The best advice I can give is run and don't look back. ... (read in full...)
How do I get to the point where I can trust my fiance again?
Q. I dont mean to keep repeating myself, but im living in complete agony. Ever since I found out that my fiance flirted with a girl on a jobsite and got her number. And then text her and called her beautiful. Him and. I have been together seven years ...
A. 3 March 2013: Checking his phone won't do anything but give you a false sense of security, you've all but admitted as much. If that's what you want to build your marriage on, then so be it. ... (read in full...)
What's my sexual orientation?
Q. Ok, so I've almost always identified as being bisexual (at one point freshman year i thought I was gay and for a few months in eighth grade I thought I was straight) But over the course of the last few months I realized something: I only like guys ...
A. 3 March 2013: Labels only confuse things; you are YOU. If you must have a label, well, there aren't a lot of options.
You're not straight or gay, so what does that leave?
People, especially young people, tend to think that sexual orientation is a... (read in full...)
Is it possible to like and care for someone so much even if you haven't been around the much?
Q. Dear cupid, (sort of a long post) Im 20 and I live in London and I met this guy who is 21 and lives in Leicester (just over 100 miles away) I know that's not too long-distance but it does still count as a long distance thing if I can't just rando...
A. 2 March 2013: It's certainly possible to LIKE someone you've barely met, but there's no way to genuinely be in love. Your relationship is based entirely on what each of you chooses to present to each other, not who you really are. In other words, it's more ... (read in full...)
I just want to be friends. So why do guys keep on developing feelings for me? How can I stop this happening?
Q. I'm studying engineering so it's ALL GUYS and I'm not a hermit or anything, so I try to make friends. And I LIKE having friends I can talk to about nerdy things like Linux and Firefly, I mean, most other people don't get it. But the guys ALWAYS e...
A. 2 March 2013: Your only option is to get a t-shirt made that says your feelings on it. Wear it a few times and guys will get the hint.
Realistically you'll probably just have to get used to telling anyone that you're not interested in dating right now.
That... (read in full...)
How do I get to the point where I can trust my fiance again?
Q. I dont mean to keep repeating myself, but im living in complete agony. Ever since I found out that my fiance flirted with a girl on a jobsite and got her number. And then text her and called her beautiful. Him and. I have been together seven years ...
A. 2 March 2013: If he's not going to cheat you should be able to trust him again. The problem is that this was premeditated; it wasn't a drunken accident. He went and pursued this girl. That is something that needs to be addressed because, in my opinion, people ... (read in full...)
I don't think other girls have this much body hair?
Q. I'm a 16 year old girl and I don't know what's wrong with me. I have dark hair on my lower back and my bottom. I also have hair on my stomach, a little bit on my chest and dark hair on my arms. Is this normal? I have always been like this but I've ...
A. 1 March 2013: It's the latina half of you. If you're comparing yourself to girls of other ethnicities than its no surprise that you wonder if it's normal. For many Hispanics its totally normal and it's not that you have more hair, it's just darker.
As long as ... (read in full...)
My married crush says he's divorcing his wife for me. Should I leave my fiance or wait and see what happens?
Q. I have had a crush on this guy since I was 8 years old (I just turned 36) A couple of years ago we reconnected and started conversating early on I admitted to him the crush I still have on him. We started chatting for hours a day sharing everything ...
A. 1 March 2013: Be an adult and break up with your fiance. You obviously don't take your relationship seriously, so no matter what happens with you and the other guy you should end things.
I mean think about it. If you would break things off with the man you ... (read in full...)
Should I try telling my friend that I like him (again)? Even though he thinks we don't have enough in common?
Q. I'm in love with my friend. I have been for the last 8 months, and my feelings are just getting stronger. My problem is whether i should or not. i told him 6 months ago that i liked him more then a friend. And he said that depsite me being amazingly ...
A. 1 March 2013: What would you accomplish by telling him something he already knows? Nobody is naive enough to believe that you were just joking when you told him.
I believe that although he may be attracted to you and you may have a lot in common he may just... (read in full...)
Major drama with my former FWB - Am I wrong for destroying his bicycle? Secondly should I return it to his mother's house and ask for my friend's bike back?
Q. I did something terrible, yet I don't regret the pain. I had a friend I was kind of intimate with on and off for a few years and now we've completely hate each other even though he denies and says I make stories. We're parellel, I mean 1stly he's ...
A. 1 March 2013: Holy crap that's a lot of drama. It sounds to me like you have a lot of issues that you need to address about yourself before you start accusing other people of doing wrong.
Not only should you give the bike back you should have it fixed. Y... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is terrible in bed - will he ever get better?
Q. Hello! So, I am starting a serious relationship for the first time, and I want it to work. I am, however, very unsatisfied with my boyfriend's sexual performance, and I need some good help because I tried what I could and that didn't work. I will e...
A. 1 March 2013: I'm speechless... uhhhh... It's almost as if it's a comedy because I can't imagine him being worse. Many guys need time to learn, I know I did, but it happened relatively quickly.
I think you're just going to have to continue to teach him and ... (read in full...)
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