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I went on a few dates with a girl, but nothing panned out...however I really hit it off with her friend. Should I pursue this?

Q.   A while ago I went on a few dates with a girl but before anything got started we both realized we weren't each other's types and so broke it off. She's now become romantically involved with a friend of mine - which is absolutely fine by me but it ...

A.   11 February 2013: Go for it! You're young. The first girl has moved on and you accepted it. Seems fair you could do the same. ... (read in full...)

I got drunk and made out with co-worker. My husband said don't ever tell him if I cheat but I can't handle the guilt!

Q.   I did something awful and I don't know what to do. I was out of town for work and was hanging out with other people in my field. We were drinking and a man who's very well known in my field started paying attention to me and I was flattered even ...

A.   10 February 2013: I'm sorry but personally I believe you don't feel much guilt regarding the severity of your actions. You crossed the infidelity line and pouted onto this site seeking a sympathic ear to say it was a minor infraction so you shouldn't ruin your ... (read in full...)

How do I forget about her and move on?

Q.   My question is how do I get over a hard love feeling ? I've been in love with her for period of 4 months but lately I discovered that she is in love with another man though she says she is still loving me at the same time she spend most of her time ...

A.   6 February 2013: The best advice I can give is to focus on YOU. After my last breakup, which was really rough, I spent months doing some soul searching. It helped to improve my life. I went back to school to change careers. I got into amazing shape. I foun... (read in full...)

Am I reading too much into the actions of my very nice boss?

Q.   Ok, basically I have a problem at work. From the moment I met my boss, I thought he was familiar and I couldn't place my finger on it, I still can’t. The thing is he's always stared at me, and made a point of talking to me. He made me feel I ...

A.   5 February 2013: This situation sounds volatile. Sounds like you have an attraction to him as much as you think he does for you. If he is with someone else, as a decent person you would owe it that other woman to stay away. Stealing another person's love is one of ... (read in full...)

What does it mean if a guy calls you "high maintenance"?

Q.   What exactly does it mean by 'high maintenace'.. The guy I'm dating now its been a few weeks and the reason he dint ask me out earlier is because he thought I would be 'high maintenance'..what did that mean:( ?...

A.   5 February 2013: It's kind of an insult/compliment/insult. Basically, he thought you would be very time consuming and needy. He thought this because you most likely are very attractive to him and appear to have everything in order (well put together). The other ... (read in full...)

Was it out of line for my therapist to tell me that I'm beautiful?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I recently started seeing a therapist because I have issues with my parents at home. I've been verbally abused my whole life and that is why I've decided to seek out a therapist. Last night I had my fist session with my therapist and...

A.   5 February 2013: I don't think your therapist was saying these uplift compliments as a come on. Simply trying to help you see yourself in a more positive light. Obviously it worked a little since you've deemed his comments as crush worthy. Although if this were to ... (read in full...)

Truly, should I forgive her? She claims she still loves me despite all her actions?

Q.   I've been in a relationship with my fiancee for 5 yrs. She moved into my apartment 2 years ago. l love her deeply and she means the world to me but am beginning to wonder if my love is not being reciprocated. August 2011,she asked some boy out on ...

A.   13 January 2013: Walk away brother while you still have some sanity... (read in full...)

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