Is it really her reputation that she cares about or there's really something she is hiding from me?
Q. now, we have been in a long distance relationship for over one years. i think she loves me but that too she likes to flirt with other guys who are good looking. Plus, she never discloses in front of any guy that i am her boyfriend and give me the ...
A. 27 March 2013: Man, I know you're young, but it's time to learn that you need to stand up for yourself. If that means leaving someone who you like (but who disrespects you because of peer pressure) than so be it.
Is something going on? Yes! She's being a crappy... (read in full...)
He should be more concerned with whether I'm pregnant than with getting drunk
Q. Should i leave my boyfriend?. My boyfriend told me last night that he come over today while i did a pregnancy test. He text me earlier today, asking if i was going to have the baby, and i said yes. He also said that he would come over at 1.00pm, but ...
A. 27 March 2013: What does "this should be his top priority" even mean?
You think he shouldn't do anything until he finds out for what reason? Just tell him when you see him and don't worry about such minor things. ... (read in full...)
Did he scare himself off when he nearly said that he loved me?
Q. I have been dating a guy for 3 months. It has been an incredible journey, we can't get enough of each other and we have both been very open and expressive with our feelings so far, although we have not yet used the L word. This guy seems very ...
A. 26 March 2013: I think you're severely over thinking things... Besides, he might have been close to saying "I just love FU¢KING you" and maybe thought twice and changed it because he was worried you'd find it too vulgar.
Relax and enjoy your relation... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend's sister has feelings for me and it makes me uncomfortable
Q. My girlfriend's sister is overly nice to me and I can't help but think she might have feelings for me. I'm 24, my girlfriend is 25 and her sister is 19. She does have a boyfriend herself and seems happy enough with him but whenever he's not around ...
A. 26 March 2013: I'd say that she's behaved totally appropriately from what you say here, so at this point you might be overreacting.
What's wrong with her having a little crush on you if she never acts on it? Nothing as far as I'm concerned! ... (read in full...)
If you've just started seeing someone, when is the right time to have sex?
Q. Hey y'all To start off, I've started seeing this guy recently. He's older than me by 5 years, but our personalities seem to really suit one another, which is why I think we really hit off so far. So, we've talking for 2 weeks now. We've g...
A. 26 March 2013: I definitely don't agree with waiting "a minimum of three months". Telling someone to wait a specific amount of time based on your preference is self centered.
My wife waited less than two weeks. That's the same for just about everyone I've eve... (read in full...)
I'm in pain over someone who doesn't even think of me
Q. hello, well met someone last year lasted 3 month ,treated her like an angel. Wrote poems, dancing, open every door,sweet talker, romantic. her ex beat her all the time. it was going great i thought, fantastic. went on a 3 day trip, that weekend ...
A. 26 March 2013: You're right, I'm sure she doesn't think about you you're too nice and that's obviously not what she wants. Sorry to be blunt but you need to get over it and find someone who you're compatible with. Don't try and save a girl. Just find someone who's ... (read in full...)
If you've just started seeing someone, when is the right time to have sex?
Q. Hey y'all To start off, I've started seeing this guy recently. He's older than me by 5 years, but our personalities seem to really suit one another, which is why I think we really hit off so far. So, we've talking for 2 weeks now. We've g...
A. 26 March 2013: For some people its within 10 minutes of meeting, for others it can be 10 months. Wait until you feel comfortable and ask him to be patient and tell him good things are worth waiting for. ... (read in full...)
She text me and told her not to text her again, but should I text her back?
Q. Hello i,m a 52 yr old man, haven,t had much experience with women, find it difficult to read the sign,s/ signals, i have been on 2 dates with a 51 yr old woman, but 6 days ago she txt me and said, that she finds me childish, and have i got mental ...
A. 25 March 2013: No doesn't mean yes, fyi.
Find a woman that appreciates your childishness and inexperience. Don't be afraid to ask a woman out; the worst you'll hear is "no". ... (read in full...)
He is too intense - could this be a bad sign?
Q. I have been divorced 6yrs and i'm 48yrs old. Last week I met a guy as I was window shopping in the town. He stopped me and told me I am the woman of his dreams and can we talk.(Of course I was flattered, and would like to be in a relationship after ...
A. 25 March 2013: I think you're over thinking things, too. Maybe you have a fast metabolism or something, but I'd suggest just taking it slow and going with the flow for the time being.
Not everything has a meaning. Sometimes people don't feel good, sometime... (read in full...)
My boyfriend pressured me into sexual things and I don't know why I always gave in.
Q. I dated this guy last year, and I had only known him for 2 months when we started dating. I was completely innocent when we started dating, and he had a lot of sexual experience with girls before me. At first the relationship started steadily, but ...
A. 25 March 2013: I think people are afraid of being rejected, so they may do things to fit in or be accepted, even if they don't want to.
If that's the case here and you have a problem saying "no" you need to learn that standing up for yourself is importan... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's pornography use makes me feel insecure
Q. hello I am in a relationship of a year and i love this guy we get on and everything is pretty excellent, but he is a boy of 16 years so porn is something he tends to induldge in and i hate it, the thought of him getting turned on by someone skinnier...
A. 25 March 2013: Well let's just get this out of the way: he's almost assuredly not looking at skinnier, prettier girls in order to get off. He's looking at SEX. Men are more simple when it comes to porn than women realize.
Although I understand feeling insecure... (read in full...)
Is jealousy a way of showing that you care?
Q. Is jealousy a way of showing that you care? I'm just wondering if acting jealous is really someones way of showing you that they care about you, and your well being. My bf is not jealous at all, he doesn't mind who I am friends with, who I talk...
A. 25 March 2013: It's got nothing to do with caring. It has more to do with insecurity than anything. A jealous person is afraid of being left, so they try and limit their partner's activities to reduce the likelihood of that happening.
Since most people are afra... (read in full...)
Moved cross country to live with her, to find out she has no time and is withdrawn.
Q. I met this girl from a different country half a year ago and we decided to move in together. I'm currently living in her apartment. Coming here I knew things were going to be hard since I have no friends, etc. I have a lot of free time compared to ...
A. 25 March 2013: "I don't know how long I can keep feeling like this."
Well, unless you leave her soon you're going to figure that out. You've met the same fate that a million people in LDR's have before you.
You moved in with someone who you THOUGHT you knew... (read in full...)
Perfect LDR Relationship suddenly falling apart?
Q. Hi, i am from Toronto and currently in a online relationship with an absolutely amazing man from Florida. We met at a dating site and we clicked immediately after talking for 3days. He told me "I love you" on the third day. i was a bit confused...
A. 25 March 2013: There's no such thing as a perfect LDR, unfortunately, so the result isn't unexpected to anyone on the outside.
The truth about these types of relationships is that they usually don't work and often the reasons seem mysterious because the whol... (read in full...)
On a trip I had a drunken hookup, is it time to end things with my boyfriend?
Q. I went away on a university trip abroad and (very drunkenly) hooked up with one of my classmates. I have a boyfriend of two years, and have been having doubts about the relationship for a while but cheating just further assured me - is it worth ...
A. 23 March 2013: "Is it worth re-igniting?"
Since you didn't give any helpful information, impossible to give a good answer other than that it's worth it if you think it is.
Think of relationships as a way to find the best person to spend the rest of your lif... (read in full...)
She's starting a new job soon so I want her to pay towards the rent and bills, how do I bring this up with her?
Q. So been with gf for 5 years most of long distances. Back in Aug we moved in together I own the house and she was going to pay rent for $250 Month. With her not makes much money I said hold on to it and when u get better job you'll be able to help. ...
A. 23 March 2013: My advice is to be a big boy and use your words! ... (read in full...)
Should I call off my engagement? He is possesive but my family need his money....
Q. Hello all, I would really be grateful if anyone can guide me through this problem I'm facing. Iv met my current fiance 1 year ago, we've started talking and we directly clicked, he's a really really well off business man who is much older than me,...
A. 23 March 2013: If you like being a slave/escort then stay with him. Just know that it will only get worse and one day he'll probably get rid of you when you don't look as good as you used to.
Then what? You'll have no money, you'll have suffered his abuse fo... (read in full...)
Wife said she needed space. That was 4 years ago! Do I wait?
Q. This is me and my wifes 2nd marriage, we've been together 22 years. married 13. when we met i was unfaithful, a couple of times freshly out of my first marriage by 3-5 months, kept going back sex only.\ now those transgressions are here was of 5...
A. 22 March 2013: There comes a time for many people where it just doesn't make any sense to be married any longer. The kids are grown, you haven't been happy in YEARS...
I'd say you've reached that point. YOU need to go see a lawyer. Get it all off your chest. S... (read in full...)
Two months no contact. Did she ever really love me?
Q. Help please, It’s been two months now I haven’t received a call or text from my girlfriend, we were together for three months, during the first month all was fine... Two months back she started complaining about having insufficient airtime...
A. 22 March 2013: No offense but if you still question what's going on after two months with no contact, then that's the real issue here.
To most people, two WEEKS (or less) of no contact should be sufficient to take a hint.
I doubt whether the two of you e... (read in full...)
Why won't my partner give me blowjobs?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 8 years and she has never giving me a proper blowjob, and by proper I mean that she has never gotten me off while doing it. She rarely goes down on me, and I mean rarely, I'm taking once every year or two. And ...
A. 21 March 2013: I'm going to guess that she's one of the only women you've been with so you haven't learned by now that just about every woman who gives enthusiastic blow jobs does it for a living.
That's my experience and of many of my friends as well (except ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a guy likes you, or if he just wants sex?
Q. Hi to anyone who can help me figure this out. Male agony "uncles", your views are wanted the most. What I wonder is, when do you know if a guy actually likes you, or if he's just after sex? I have this kinda complecated "thing" with a friend of...
A. 21 March 2013: Why is he interested in you? You have a vagina and you're not afraid to use it.
When a guy is interested in more than sex he will give you more than sex. He'll take you out on dates and try to get to know you. He'll want to spend not sexual t... (read in full...)
He has become 'best friends' with a female co-worker, they text all the time and go to lunch together. If I get upset about it he calls me insecure, but don't I have a right to be in this situation?
Q. My husband and I have been married for six years and he has always had the same job.. Well recently he has started talking about a coworker all the time telling me how great she is. He goes to lunches with her alone and they text back and forth ...
A. 21 March 2013: I don't have much to add here except to say that just because you don't do something doesn't make him doing it wrong. I don't think having female friends is wrong unless you have a reason to not trust your husband (he's cheated in the past or ... (read in full...)
I cheated with a married family friend and now feel crushed that he has ended things
Q. I made the bad decision to cheat on my husband but I don't know what makes me feel worse... The fact that I cheated or that the other guy broke it off because he doesn't want to hurt his wife. We are all very close and have been friends for years. ...
A. 20 March 2013: I guess that's your punishment.
Rejection sucks. Use this as an opportunity to reinvigorate your marriage. ... (read in full...)
Men: Why is my husband watching porn that involves fat women over 60?
Q. Hi, I'm married woman in my 30s and have a small son. Me and my husband watch porn together, but recently I found out that he is watching a different type of porn when I'm not around, it involves the opposite of me, women that are over 60 and fat. ...
A. 20 March 2013: It doesn't have anything to do with him not liking you. Why would he go out and watch porn with women that look like you when he has you? He probably just has additional turn ons that he likes to indulge. ... (read in full...)
Why would a man leave a classy woman for a piece of trash?
Q. How can you be in love with someone and barely know them after 2 months of dating all you really do is talk on the phone you. You dont know nothing about this person I would think that first get to know a person before calling them your trophy or ...
A. 20 March 2013: You are probably over simplifying this a little bit. You're situation and life in general.
Not to mention, to many guys, "classy" is a word only used by women that think they're better than other people. ... (read in full...)
How is this romantic and not creepy?
Q. My roommate just got a date with a girl for being a creep and messaging her on facebook when he didn't even know her. He sent a message to her on an account he newly made that said I quote "I don't know you very well but one of my friends knows you ...
A. 20 March 2013: If he was unattractive (in her eyes) then she might find it slightly creepy.
But it sounds like you have a lot to learn about women if you don't see why this worked. ... (read in full...)
I'm confused...am I a virgin or not?
Q. I was in a relationship 1year back but that guy ditched me very badly. We once tried to have sex. That time he didnt enter me compltely but I was having some pain when he started entring me therefore I ask him to stop and remove from inside me. ...
A. 19 March 2013: Let's just say "Yes, you are a virgin" since it will make your life easier and it doesn't matter either way. ... (read in full...)
Why is she blocking then unblocking me?
Q. A girl I was pursuing blocked me at whatsapp but not at facebook and later four five days passed and she unblocked me suddenly. Why? Little background : I met this girl and she thought I was weird at first and later, she asked me for a coffee to...
A. 19 March 2013: I don't know what to say about this girl, but in the future I suggest that you quit playing games. Women like to be pursued, so if you don't show them any interest its going to work out how it did for you. ... (read in full...)
Why does my g/f say she'll have sex and then change her mind?
Q. my girl friend never shows any inetrest in sex , i can leave mentioning sex for months.. she dosent say a word. Then once in a while she will say we can have sex tonight but then drops her plans with out saying a word! She never gives me a reason.. ...
A. 19 March 2013: Yes, she can help you understand this.
It sounds to me like you should file this one under 'incompatible' and move on with your life. ... (read in full...)
I never thought a long distance relationship would be so hard!
Q. Hello everyone, first of all, I really want to thank you for your time and good will to help. :) I've been in a long distance relationship for 2 months now. The last time I saw my boyfriend was a month ago. The problem is - I just miss him so much!...
A. 19 March 2013: LDR's are ridiculously hard to be happy in, unless you're a certain type of person that has some intimacy issues or something.
First things first: its only been a couple of months and you're having problems.
What is your goal with this guy? D... (read in full...)
I don't feel my boyfriend is completely open with me and I can't fully trust him. How do I get him to open up?
Q. If you are single or married to a business man please help with this concern of mine. First let me tell you all I have some trust issues that developed earlier on with how my father was with my mom. My mom trusted my dad and when he was out on h...
A. 19 March 2013: You can't force someone to open up to you. Being a private person is no indication that they are lying to you.
If you continue treating him as if he's done something wrong, guess what's going to happen?
It's important to learn this lesso... (read in full...)
He knows I like him, and I wonder why he hasn't talked to me or asked me out!
Q. I've liked a friend of mine for a while. He isn't looking for a relationship but he knows I like him according to his best friend. I see him everyday, I go to his house to see his sister, I have time alone with him every week. I know he's never ha...
A. 19 March 2013: Guys at his age are often too shy and fear rejection, and considering he's never been with a girl before that's probably the case here.
When I was his age, anything short of a girl literally telling me she liked me wasn't enough for me to risk ... (read in full...)
He knows I like him, and I wonder why he hasn't talked to me or asked me out!
Q. I've liked a friend of mine for a while. He isn't looking for a relationship but he knows I like him according to his best friend. I see him everyday, I go to his house to see his sister, I have time alone with him every week. I know he's never ha...
A. 19 March 2013: Why haven't YOU asked him out? ... (read in full...)
How do I make him regret leaving me?
Q. my boyfrnd left me for no having sex i am a muslim and my religion doesnt allows sex before marriage what should i say to him so that he remebers it all his lifee and regrets wat he did with mee after promising soo man times that he wont leave me or ...
A. 19 March 2013: The only thing you can do is move on and forget about him. It's possible he'll come to regret things but there's no guarantee.
People promise things in every relationship and they're usually broken by the time the relationship ends. That's s... (read in full...)
Army girlfriend problems...should I stay or should I go?
Q. H everyone! So I'm dating someone in the army for almost a year although we've known each other for years. He's based in Hawaii while I live in Illinois. We're vey much in love and I know this is the man I'm going to marry. He has three years left ...
A. 19 March 2013: Go or things may not last that long. One year into four years apart and you're having problems.
Yes it'd be a pain and set things back career wise, but fortunately he should be in a position to help you pay the bills while you get things sorted o... (read in full...)
Should I go out with him? I'm scared of my safety because he's rich and influential!
Q. i like this guy and he loves me too. He is asking me out, he wants me to be his gf and lover. Yes i want that too, i want him to be my bf, but i dont really know, im confused. Because since he asked me this, i've been watching him, he doesn't ...
A. 19 March 2013: You've given so little information that I think some of the people here may be jumping to too many conclusions and assuming more than they know.
The guy may very well be upset that you are making a big deal out of his power. He likes you, you... (read in full...)
How can I meet girls that are into girls?
Q. So I've been bicurious for a while, but despite knowing there are plenty of lesbian/bi girls out there, I never seem to meet any. The only ones I ever notice are because they are kissing in public or holding hands (aka taken.) And I don't like the ...
A. 18 March 2013: Well it's not like people get tattoos to declare their sexual preference. Hence the reason gay bars and the Internet are such popular places to meet people. Does your town have a gay neighborhood? Many cities do, and frequenting those areas can be ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend talks to a girl who I am not comfortable with. How to deal with this confusing situation?
Q. How would you deal with your boyfriend being friends or talking with someone you do not feel comfortable with? This girl who has recently became friends with some of my boyfriends friends has now targeted my boyfriend and is becoming a littl...
A. 18 March 2013: Trying to control him won't solve anything. You either trust HIM or you don't. If you don't, why are you with him? ... (read in full...)
My American wife has accused me of getting married for a Green Card, what should I do now?
Q. 6 months ago , I got married to US citizen in Pakistan. We met through dating site and after four months she came to Pakistan to marry me. After honeymoon,once she got back to US, she filled Spouse Visa Petition for me. One month ago, we had a ...
A. 18 March 2013: It seems like she doesn't care if it was for the green card or not. That sounds like she was coming up with an excuse (even if she believed it) to justify not seeing you.
Look, the bottom line is that you two made a mistake. I'm sure you can admi... (read in full...)
Should I talk to him about our cuddling while we slept in the same bed?
Q. I have a friend that I have known for 3 years we almost dated once, but chose to be friends and its made our friendship pretty strong. The other night I was visiting him at his house and he told me I could sleep over if I want. I made the choice to ...
A. 18 March 2013: Whomever came up with that title really dropped the ball!
Anyways my guess is that he likes you enough to be receptive to talking about it. The worst that would happen is he'll tell you he's not ready for a relationship with anyone.
The bes... (read in full...)
Is my friend Gay
Q. I have a friend and we went for classes together and became great friends. She told me she was dating a guy named D and loves him but turns out that she was never dating him. Once I asked her if she found me more attractive than him, she said sh...
A. 18 March 2013: It sounds like you're asking if she's gay because you're interested in her. It can be awkward to talk about such things, especially in high school. I think it's safe to say she's "confused" at the least. Talk with her about it and remind her that ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to him about our cuddling while we slept in the same bed?
Q. I have a friend that I have known for 3 years we almost dated once, but chose to be friends and its made our friendship pretty strong. The other night I was visiting him at his house and he told me I could sleep over if I want. I made the choice to ...
A. 18 March 2013: Whether or not to talk with him about it is totally dependant on what you're trying to accomplish. Do you want a FWB arrangement? Do you want a relationship? Do you want him to not have feelings for you?
I had a friend who I really liked more tha... (read in full...)
He is too intense - could this be a bad sign?
Q. I have been divorced 6yrs and i'm 48yrs old. Last week I met a guy as I was window shopping in the town. He stopped me and told me I am the woman of his dreams and can we talk.(Of course I was flattered, and would like to be in a relationship after ...
A. 12 March 2013: Some people are just out of touch socially. So maybe he just had an "intense" personality. I don't think it has to mean anything bad. On the other end of the spectrum he could be someone who doesn't get excited about anything and looks like he's ... (read in full...)
He is too intense - could this be a bad sign?
Q. I have been divorced 6yrs and i'm 48yrs old. Last week I met a guy as I was window shopping in the town. He stopped me and told me I am the woman of his dreams and can we talk.(Of course I was flattered, and would like to be in a relationship after ...
A. 18 February 2013: In my opinion you can do whatever you want as long as it's not hurting anyone.
I don't see why coffee the next day was too soon since coffee is just a way for two people to talk, it's not a date.
But the guy is out of line by being so persist... (read in full...)
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