I don't like being around the cheating g/f of my boyfriend's best friend!
Q. I'm in a really difficult situation here and need help. My boyfriend and his best friend have been friends forever and they are really close and are always together. My boyfriends best friend has been with his girlfriend for about 6 months n...
A. 24 April 2013: So, tell your boyfriend that you don't want to have any contact with her anymore. When she's around you won't be. ... (read in full...)
Is being better the key to being hot?
Q. I am just wondering, most of us know what makes a girl hot to guys, but what makes a guy hot to girls? Does a guy basically have to be better than a girl he likes, in ways that she feels is important, for her to perceive him as hot? E.g. taller, ...
A. 24 April 2013: You're so lost here, that it's making me think that you should stop thinking about it and simply focus on being the best 'you' that you can be.
You also need to get used to the idea that men typically are pursuing women, so you're going to have ... (read in full...)
Why do I not attract any interest?
Q. Hello all, I am having trouble understanding why I have so many issues attracting or being approached by women at bars and other public places. I dress well, believe i am attractive, have a good personality but I get no interest whatsoever from ...
A. 24 April 2013: If I didn't see the 'male' at the top I'd swear this was written by a woman. How about instead of waiting for women to pick you up, you do the picking up?
I've never had issues with women, but I've hardly ever been approached by them, either. ... (read in full...)
My husband wants to have a baby with another woman. He's says I'm making this out to be a big deal. Am I over-reacting like he says?
Q. Im 20 years old and have 2 kids. My oldest is 4 and she is from a past relationship. Im now married and we just had our son in February. Recently my husband has been talking about having a baby of his own with another woman. I thought he was k...
A. 24 April 2013: This is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. The fact that he wants to do this AND the fact that you're asking if you're overreacting!
This makes absolutely no sense. If he wants another kid, why not with you? Are you unable?
If you ... (read in full...)
She has no feeling towards me now cause I've acted childish through the whole break up and that I've hardly gave her room to breathe or think
Q. me and my girlfriend at the time had our first fallout in our 9 month relationship because i started to mention things about our future as a couple. the only reason i said those things was because she couldn't see me as much as she could cause of ...
A. 23 April 2013: Forget about her. Learn a lesson here: acting the way you did will turn a girl off so much that she'll wish she had never met you. Women (possibly men as well) hate seeing someone in such a pathetic spot. Doing so ruined any chance you had with her. ... (read in full...)
She says I don't act as in love as I say I am
Q. My gf and I have been together for two months. It had some bad times at first, but I've realized after that first month I am deeply in love with her, but she's said I don't seem to be acting as in love as I "say I am." We are gamers so... we'll go ...
A. 23 April 2013: There's no possible way you're "deeply" in love with her.
First and foremost have you met her in person? If not, how far away do you live from each other? If you live far away, how do you plan on having a real relationship?
If this is not a lo... (read in full...)
How should I ask him what our status is?
Q. So I've been talking and spending some time with a guy I met but I don't know what he considers us or if we are just friends at the moment is it ok to ask him what he considers us and if so how should I ask?...
A. 23 April 2013: I don't understand why you need a label. If it's unclear that's probably because your relationship is unclear as well. If it was obvious you would know.
Have you kissed or had sex? Have you gone on dates with him (just the two of you)?
If, ... (read in full...)
Why is she treating me this way? Did she ever love me? I can't deal with this!!!
Q. Hi guys my girlfriend broke up with me 4 weeks ago a 6 month relationship. The thing is she's married and older 10 years she’s 28 I'm 18. Things were great I was moving closer to her she was making it clear it was over with her hubby. To make i...
A. 23 April 2013: Congratulations, you met the real her. This is the one her husband has been dealing with for 9 years.
For many women showing weakness (crying about them) is a huge turn off, and a great way for them to lose respect for you.
Learn your le... (read in full...)
When is it right for a teenager to start having sex?
Q. if a boy tell u to do your school work and then call him and u and this boy been together long and u is 15 year old girl should u have sex with your boyfriend ?...
A. 23 April 2013: Use birth control! ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is a control freak and won't even let me talk without starting problems!
Q. I am currently with a partner for almost 4 years now. She is a control freak, almost always never wanting to admit her mistakes. If I do get her in a corner, she will turn the tables around, accuse me of starting an argument, and then completely ...
A. 23 April 2013: Are you happy with her? Do you like the person she is as a whole? Knowing what you know about her now, if you could go back and do it all over again would you?
If 2 out of 3 is no I'd rethink this relationship. You're not married, probably... (read in full...)
Why is he going from very very hot to cool and will a bit of jealousy make him make his move once and for all?
Q. Does making someone jealous work generally as in they will show their feelings or come forward quicker if they think someone else is interested in you. I wouldnt usually be into games like that but a friend of mine who iv been talking to nearl...
A. 23 April 2013: It could also push him away do I wouldn't recommend it.
Why don't you make a move instead of relying on him? ... (read in full...)
I think I'm gay because I'm crushing on a female teacher
Q. Hello, I think I'm gay. I have had three boyfriends and broke up with all of them because I just didn't have any feelings for them (more than friendly feelings). I have had a few minor crushes on a some of my friends and one bigger one for this ...
A. 22 April 2013: It only means that you're attracted to women. Labels won't do you any good, but it certainly means you should explore your sexuality, only then will you be able to know yourself. ... (read in full...)
Does my Muslim boyfriend love me or is he using me?
Q. I am a catholic woman and have been seeing my muslim boyfirend for over a year now,i am very happy with him,he is originally from Yemen but from the age of ten had lived in cuba, he has been in britain for nearly 4 yrs now, he is still waiting to ...
A. 22 April 2013: I think it's pretty obvious. There's no reason why you need to break up with him on a suspicion, but I certainly wouldn't make any life changing commitments, especially with a married man who has a lot to gain (other than love) from marrying you and ... (read in full...)
Why didn't he tell his potential new boss that he got married since the last time they talked?
Q. My husband recently had lunch with a potential new boss. He met him a couple years ago, when we had just moved in together (not married yet). Now, my husband and I are expecting our first child. He's very proud to talk about it with everyone he's ...
A. 22 April 2013: Sooooo?... (read in full...)
I created a fake ad on Craigslist to see if my boyfriend would make contact. He did, now what do I do?
Q. A little background info first: my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years. He always told me I was his first love and I'm the first girl he's even considered marriage with and so on. His family has even told me I'm the first ...
A. 22 April 2013: Either accept it or leave.
The only other option is to stay with him and pretend he'll change. ... (read in full...)
Is this relationship healthy? Should we break up?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been having problems a lot lately. Last week and today we were fighting because i apparently am not nice to him, and i dont support him, and i don't love him correctly. He also won't allow me to talk to any guys besides ...
A. 22 April 2013: He sounds like an insecure jerk that needs a mommy not a girlfriend. A relationship at your age should be fun and carefree and this seems far from it.
While it may be difficult to break up with him, now is a good as a time as any to learn th... (read in full...)
I'm feeling paranoid about his roving eye!
Q. I have just met a divorced guy with a teenage son. He seems lovely and genuine. We have been going out a lot these past few months and I can't help but notice how visual he is towards attractive women. I asked him if he knew the prety barmaid last ...
A. 22 April 2013: He likes to check out women because he is a human male. The only difference between him and your ex is a little self control. Either that or your ex was afraid of passing you off and this guy isn't.
I check women out when I'm not with my wife; wh... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex my true feelings? We broke up recently and since then he's phoned me and asked if I am sleeping with anyone.
Q. My ex(it's been two weeks since he left,he broke it off) spoke to me last Tuesday 5 days ago (for my birthday). We had a nice chat and at the end of the conversation he asked me if I was sleeping with anyone which I thought this was strange ...
A. 21 April 2013: I would say that if you start telling him you love him and miss him you'll sound a little desperate and that might turn him off.
I'd cease all contact with him. If he wants you he knows where to find you. He's probably well aware that you miss... (read in full...)
Hubby has no job and exchanges sexual pictures with girls online. Help?
Q. Ok im not sure what way to turn... i can really go to my friends like i want too because i dont want them to judge.... but all ive done is cry today... i been with my husband for 15 years off and on but only been married 4 months... we have 5 lil ...
A. 21 April 2013: There isn't many options here.
What you really need is counseling. He obviously needs it more than you.
Or you need to separate so he learns he can't take you for granted.
Or you can do nothing and have him continue to pretend he's... (read in full...)
Am I blowing this out of proportion? Should I confront him? He's my LDR and claims he forgets to text as he's "busy". But never explains what that means.
Q. Dear Cupid May be i'm blowing this out of proportion? I wanted to write here and check before i fight with my bf (of 3 yrs). My bf works in a different city, few days he stays with his friends and few days he stays here with me. I ask him t...
A. 21 April 2013: Nope, it's not too much to ask for, but apparently I it's too much to expect from him.
You can't bully him into being someone he's not. Assuming that you've adequately explained to him how you feel and your sure he got the message you've done wha... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend lying to me? He said I was accusing him of lying and then he gave me a sad look.
Q. Back in January, I remember I was at home and my boyfriend hadn't responded to my texts for over two hours. He finally texted me back, saying he was in his aunties house visiting them. I thought it was so odd, for him to visit relatives as it is so...
A. 21 April 2013: He's obviously lying, so what makes you think he isn't capable of cheating?
There's probably other reasons he'd lie to you. What have you told him that he's not allowed to do? Or what could he do that he knows will upset you?
That's likely... (read in full...)
Would people notice or make comment about my mole removal scars if I wore shorts?
Q. I just wanted advice on if i should wear shorts even though i have two mole removal scars on my thigh. They are about two inches apart from each other horizontally in the middle of my thigh. They are like dark dots that were even bigger than ...
A. 21 April 2013: That's one of those things that only concerns the person who has them. Nobody but you will notice it. If they do there wouldn't be a negative reaction; it's not like you're a freak or something.
Let's say that someone does laugh at you for it: ... (read in full...)
Feel uncomfortable and insecure around my bi step-sister
Q. Hi do just recently I found out my stepsister is coming down for summer . She has only told me and a couple friends that she is bi ( but more like lesbian if you ask me ) not to be crude . Any ways so she I'ma one month older than me. I just think ...
A. 21 April 2013: Just treat the sexual situation as if she was a boy.
Don't change in front her, don't cuddle, etc. But there's no reason to believe she'll try anything simply because she's bi. If she says she likes you just tell her you're not attracted to women... (read in full...)
Advice on the pullout method
Q. I have been with a guy for over a year now and we have been having sex the entire time we came together on the pretext of just sex on both parts it obviously escalated more due to our time together, well we have been using the pullout method and one ...
A. 20 April 2013: I hear a lot of people saying the pull out method doesn't work but it's been my primary method of birth control for about 4 years and has worked perfectly. The only times I've got my wife pregnant is when I didn't pull out. I also used it when in a ... (read in full...)
I'm married and still in love with my boyfriend. How do I forget him?
Q. what i do i m married n still loving my old boy friend amit raj but he rejeced me, i did marry because i was no options in my life but i dont love my husband i found hes greedy of my money n name n fame. i made his career but i want divorce i m ...
A. 19 April 2013: Is divorce an option?
I don't know Indian culture well enough to give advice on what a woman can feel comfortable saying to her husband.
Does he love you? Does he have sex with you?
Try and talk with him about your feelings. Tell him ... (read in full...)
Why aren't Christian guys ever interested in me?
Q. I'm a second-year student at university and I converted to Christianity in my first year here. I've never really been the type to "sleep around" and don't want sex before marriage, and I'd prefer dating someone who shared my religious beliefs, too, ...
A. 19 April 2013: If you change yourself to attract guys you'll have serious relationship problems. The charade can only go on for so long, and so once you start getting tired of pretending your relationship will suffer.
I had a girlfriend do that and it was like... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend now claims he wants to be friends but I don't
Q. my boyfriend broke up with me a week ago but at school he always stares at me and i'm trying to get over him but it's impossible bcoz he told me that he lied to me so many times and i dont rlly know how to handle it. what should i do? he said we ...
A. 19 April 2013: You're going to have to stand firm and tell him that you have no interest in being friends with him or anything else for that matter.
Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing that you're still trying to get over him. Also, there's no reason t... (read in full...)
Do guys like fake boobs if a girl practically has no boobs?
Q. Okay, so I started losing weight about 2 years ago, now I am a gym rat but my boobs are getting smaller, I have gone from 36b to 34a. My sister who's 19 has bigger boobs than me! I'm 25. I got a nice tax return and will be in miami in 3 month...
A. 18 April 2013: Some guys do, some guys don't. I think a safe bet would be implants that look very natural. What size is capable of still looking real on you is probably something a Dr. would have to tell you.
I find obviously fake boobs to be a turn off, but... (read in full...)
Experimenting SEX, and I am Virgin
Q. Okay, I'm 13 and I'm a girl and my girlfriend is 15 she tells me she wants me to get a toung ring so I can eat her out . But were BOTH virgins nd I feel that I should finger her first befor I eat her out but I don't know how to tell her or know if ...
A. 18 April 2013: The fact that your girlfriend thinks you need a "toung" ring to go down on her (eat her out is vulgar, fyi) is proof that you guys aren't ready for the whole thing.
Throughout history people have grown up a lot faster than they do now. People w... (read in full...)
BF friend is begining to threaten my relationship
Q. Hey everyone. I really hope I don't sound immature here but what I'm dealing with is I feel like I'm in competition with one of my boyfriends female friends. She is always trying to get my boyfriends attention and is always trying to talk to ...
A. 18 April 2013: You don't sound controlling in the least here, and that's saying a lot, because 99% of these kinds of questions are asked by controlling, insecure people.
It also sounds as if you have the ability to bring this up and express your concerns... (read in full...)
What's the best solution? My LDR who lives in another country? Or the new guy who wants to see me again later this year?
Q. i have a long distance relationship, my boyfriend (A) is in one country and I am in another country, One time, I met my past puppy Love,(B) and we felt the love between us again. I'm realy in love with him. And I can feel that he is too much in ...
A. 18 April 2013: Fine, you want someone else to choose your future based on a few words, I say go with A. ... (read in full...)
I feel marriage is important but he doesn't
Q. Dear everyone, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and I’m almost 36. We’ve lived together for a year. Problem is this: he knows I wanted to get married and have kids. He wants kids, but he doesn’t want to get married. We talked about ...
A. 18 April 2013: I agree with anonymous...
Here's some things to think about when making your decision.
1.) He'll almost definitely not change his mind, so don't have a baby to try and force him to change.
2.) It's possible he just doesn't see you as ... (read in full...)
Why did my ex burn every bridge possible during the break up
Q. My ex-boyfriend burned so many bridges during the break up. For example taking expensive furniture, not paying my grandpa his $1500 back, called the landlord on me, took my computer knowing I'm a student,and he cut my cell phone off. Only for me to ...
A. 18 April 2013: He's a crazy asshole? ... (read in full...)
What's the best solution? My LDR who lives in another country? Or the new guy who wants to see me again later this year?
Q. i have a long distance relationship, my boyfriend (A) is in one country and I am in another country, One time, I met my past puppy Love,(B) and we felt the love between us again. I'm realy in love with him. And I can feel that he is too much in ...
A. 17 April 2013: This is a question that only you can answer.
Maybe you should think about how these relationships would be able to progress. There needs to be a way for you to be with either A or B in the future. Meaning don't choose a guy who will only be able ... (read in full...)
Is my husband at the root of all my problems?
Q. I have had such a difficult couple of years. Long story short. -I have been a stay at home Mum for nearly 4 years. Gave up my sort of "career" to raise my two kids. Which as left me feeling neglected and unappreciated. - My parents are div...
A. 17 April 2013: It sounds like you have some real problems, but that you may be depressed as well. Sometimes real problems meet depression and it can make you feel like they are bigger than they really are.
For instance you husband going to a strip club. Th... (read in full...)
I feel like I will never be significant in her life
Q. I am so confused and I don't know if I'm totally out of line or if my girlfriend is being unreasonable. My girlfriend is very attached to her family. They are overall a very close, intimate family who are all open with each other. I, in contrast, ...
A. 17 April 2013: If your gf has some emotional issues and the best way she sees fit to fix them is to be with her mom why would you want to interfere with that?
Yes, ideally for you, you would be able to be everything she needed, but that's just not how it is, a... (read in full...)
Why would he want her to come to our wedding when I don't feel comfortable
Q. my boyfriend has a female friend but i have only heard them talk very briefly a handful of times in 7 yrs but we are arguing about him wanting her to come to our wedding. i dont feel comfortable about there friendship, due to what seems to be ...
A. 17 April 2013: Why would you not feel comfortable for no apparent reason?
If your boyfriend didn't like one of your friends for no reason and told you they can't come to the wedding would you just say "anything for you honey!"
The facts that she's a wom... (read in full...)
How to seduce a man in his early thirties?
Q. I'm nineteen and I have a huge crush on a man who's thirty one.. Whenever we're together it just feels right but I can tell we both keep questioning the age difference and it's kept us from moving forward. How can I seduce him and get the ...
A. 16 April 2013: You may want to look up the definition of 'seduce'.
Regarding how to help a relationship form, I'd also agree that nothing special needs to be done because of his age. Tell him that you understand that the age difference could be an issue an... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is annoyed with me all the time!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 4 years is annoyed with me all the time, whatever i do makes him angry, im scared even to talk to him. I already have a lot of problems work realted stress, my family issues and i dont want my bf to give me hard time now. I...
A. 16 April 2013: People get like that when a relationship has run its course. He may not want to break up with you, but he is certainly acting resentful.
You have two choices to make things better: you two can see a relationship counselor so he can get to the b... (read in full...)
I learned my lesson, take your own car ladies! Don't depend on a guy to take you home from a party!
Q. So I went to a party with my boyfriend.... He was eyeballing a girl right in front of me. So I got upset. But I didn't say anything and held it in. I got over it by going into the bathroom and telling myself that I'm pretty too. People started ge...
A. 16 April 2013: Since I wasn't there I can only make assumptions. It sounds to me like you might be a little too jealous. I have a male friend who has ruined more than one night by accusing his wife of various perceived looks/stares/etc.
So (assuming you were... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I love my boyfriend anymore. Should I leave him?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and recently I feel as if I do not love him anymore. He has been all of my firsts. The only guy i have ever dated. Lately it seems that I am wanting more, like maybe for him to surprise me ...
A. 16 April 2013: You really only have two options.
Stay with him forever, or break up with him at some point (now or later).
You definitely don't want to marry him, so what does that leave? Breaking up at some point. That point could be now or when you're 8... (read in full...)
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