Confession of my casual fling with an older woman to my new girlfriend?
Q. hi im 21 male. i recently had moved to another city for 3 months for exam coaching purpose. the thing is i was in a casual relationship with a neighbour women. she is 25. it was just sex oriented. then i moved back to my hometown, now I am in a ...
A. 11 April 2013: In that case.... Do you feel guilty? Do you feel like keeping this a secret is very difficult for you?
In that case I'd tell her.
Is there any religious reason why you're supposed to be a virgin? Or is it just "right and wrong"?
If t... (read in full...)
No sex, No kissing, different religion and now my BF does not want to talk to me?
Q. I'm 22yrs plus while my guy is 25yrs plus we have been dating gettin to 4yrs now despite our religion differences,we both love eachother ,he pays me visit,he introduce me to his friends as his wife to be but now everything change suddenly.each time ...
A. 10 April 2013: If a guy only wants to romance your boobs when you see him that means he's using you. And now he's playing games with you because he's upset that you won't let him have sex with you.
This guy is all wrong for you. Find someone who's more respectf... (read in full...)
Turned off by my husbands hairy body, any advise how to tell him kindly to groom himself
Q. Hi, I am a newly married irl.I love my husband a lot but am not able to enjoy sex with him. One of the major reasons is that he has too much hair on his body.I have told him a few times that i don't like too much hair on his body and asked him to t...
A. 10 April 2013: Women always vaguely hint at things and wonder why guys don't do what they are wanting. Hinting isn't working and it'll continue to be that way so you have to be direct with him.
First you should research male hair removal. Shaving would probably... (read in full...)
Confession of my casual fling with an older woman to my new girlfriend?
Q. hi im 21 male. i recently had moved to another city for 3 months for exam coaching purpose. the thing is i was in a casual relationship with a neighbour women. she is 25. it was just sex oriented. then i moved back to my hometown, now I am in a ...
A. 10 April 2013: That's personal information, why would you think it's something that needs to be "confessed"? Are you supposed to be a virgin or something? ... (read in full...)
Should I date him? I'm worried he might be the jealous type....
Q. Hi. Im wondering whether to date this bloke or not. Basically we been talking for some time and we text most days he seems nice enough he even wrote me a very sweet poem the other day! But we have yet to meet Only problem is he seems the jealous ...
A. 10 April 2013: You're old enough that you've developed dating instincts. Use them! You don't have anything invested in this "relationship" at this point; move on before that's not the case and things start getting worse. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend spends loads on himself but wont even buy me a birthday gift! What can I do?
Q. My boyfriend spends lots and lots on his car and bike but dosen't buy me any gifts, let it be birthday, valentines day or annivesary he dosen't bring me anything. I don't expect much from him but somtimes I do want him to make me feel important. And ...
A. 10 April 2013: You have two choices: accept that this is who he is, or find someone else.
You could try talking to him and expressing your feelings in a non judgmental way (not "you neglect me" but "I feel neglected"). Let him know that you don't want to force... (read in full...)
His friends are judgmental, mean, try to break us up and are so disrespectful!
Q. Dear Cupid I'm typing this post because I don't really know who to talk to about this. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over two years and me and him have been through a lot, like most long term relationships. I feel like I'...
A. 10 April 2013: I feel like there must be a lot you're not mentioning here. Did you cheat on him or something? ... (read in full...)
If she was so disgusted why didn't she make him wear a condom?
Q. this is a similar problem to what many other guys posted about being obsessed with their wives past sex lives. but this is a little different. she was married to this selfish loser for twenty years, had two kids by him.was a virgin she discovered ...
A. 10 April 2013: What the f#ck kind of question is this? You admit you asked too many questions and know too much yet here you are. What kind of answer do you want to hear?
Do you want to hear that condoms suck and his penis felt better without one? Or that she... (read in full...)
My gf broke up with me but I know she loved me
Q. My relationship has just ended, i met my girl late feb 2012, seen her for the following 6 weeks then made it official in early april 2012, im 26 now but 25 at the time she was only 17, she was obsessed with me , very clingy always wanted to stay...
A. 10 April 2013: The biggest turn of (and the quickest way to ruin your chances) to someone who needs to think about things is to start pestering them. She might have just wanted space but seeing you so desperate probably made her decide to end things.
What ... (read in full...)
Why did my ex put on facebook a photo of us?
Q. My ex of 3 months has just put an old photo of us together up as his profile picture. Loads of friends clicked on like etc. Saying 'be happy' etc. I'm so angry. I put up a status saying 'I'm single single single single single. The camera never lies ...
A. 10 April 2013: Well, was it a picture of you guys in a unique place? Like standing in front of the Eifel Tower or the Great Wall of China?
If it was just the two of you looking happy sitting on the couch then you were right to be irritated. But you could ha... (read in full...)
Girlfriend very insecure because I watched porn
Q. I have been in a very serious relationship for the last five years with an amazing girl. I love her so much. I would take a bullet for her. I am going to propose to her soon but I don't know when. She's the only person I've ever been in a relati...
A. 10 April 2013: You can start by not watching porn anymore. Her self esteem issues weren't caused by you, they were there before and you watching porn just brought them to the surface, so don't beat yourself up over that.
Also, I'd recommend that you stop bei... (read in full...)
Been dumped by boyfriend - have a few questions on how to move on or how to get him back?
Q. I have been recently dumped by my bf over text with no real explanation. He refuses to reply when I ask for an explanation. One of the reasons may be me recently being needy and constantly calling.I'm trying to move on as this is my only option. I ...
A. 10 April 2013: A lot of the answers here are kind of mean and are presuming to know more than they do.
No contact does work. It inadvertently worked for me (I didn't want her back and didn't take her back when she wanted me).
And I completely disag... (read in full...)
Sex after marriage vs sex if in a long term relationship, what is right?
Q. I'm in college, have never slept with anyone/had a boyfriend and I'm still undecided as to whether to do so before I get married (I'm also Christian though I wasn't raised religious). I would never sleep around but at the moment I feel it's unfair ...
A. 9 April 2013: I feel that sex is special if you only have it with special people, not with anybody who's around when you're horny.
So if you meet someone, after a few dates it would be fair to mention that you are a virgin and you're saving yourself for some... (read in full...)
Been dumped by boyfriend - have a few questions on how to move on or how to get him back?
Q. I have been recently dumped by my bf over text with no real explanation. He refuses to reply when I ask for an explanation. One of the reasons may be me recently being needy and constantly calling.I'm trying to move on as this is my only option. I ...
A. 9 April 2013: If he gave up too easily it's because he didn't care enough.
No contact isn't some foolproof way to get your ex back. It's just the most effective way and simultaneously it helps you get over them. When people contact their exes it tends to make ... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from her, can I send a message without seeming desperate?
Q. i've been speaking to this girl on my tumblr and all of a sudden she added 2 x's (xx) at the end of her messages so i did the same then she added a third (xxx) and we've both stuck with 3 we spoke everyday mostly at least 1 message a day as she ...
A. 9 April 2013: Don't ever ask if someone got your message unless it's important. Don't get ants in your pants- I know I read messages when I'm unable to reply and sometimes forget about them.
Just wait a few days then send her another message or comment.... (read in full...)
How do I get my BF to stop living with his parents and marry me and contribute more financially?
Q. My bf and i have been together for just over four years. He knows I eventually want marriage and a family. I am in my late 20s and he is early 30's so we are at that age to seriously start thinking about it etc. He jokes around, but he is probab...
A. 9 April 2013: Aside from this issue is your relationship excellent?
If not, this could be a deal breaker.
If so you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him. Put on paper the financial impact that selling your house or renting it out would have o... (read in full...)
Could a policeman be called away from home on work duties for 3 weeks?
Q. hi ive just found out that a policeman fancies me, but he hasnt been at home for the last 3 weeks, do they work away for that length of time or am i paranoid and thinking he met someone else?...
A. 9 April 2013: Why are you worried about what a guy that "fancies" you is doing? There's no relationship at this point, so take it easy for now. When he gets back, if he's interested he'll continue fancying you. ... (read in full...)
We didn't have much of a connection, should I just let him go?
Q. Hi so I met this guy online a couple of years ago,we spoke for like a year before we met,he came to see me..and I realised we had nothing to talk abt since we have no common friends or similar interest! Anywys we stayed it touch after the meet but...
A. 8 April 2013: Sounds like the man of your dreams to me! Why not propose now and get it over with.
Sarcasm aside why would you chase a guy you don't like? ... (read in full...)
Her roomate boyfriend is taking his male friend to see my ld girlfriend.
Q. Im in a one year ldr. my girlfriend just moved from her parents place and now she is sharing an apartment close to her campus with another girl. when her roomate boyfriend goes to see her, he comes along with his buddy. They talk and have drinks. ...
A. 8 April 2013: It doesn't sound good but think of it as a test. It wouldn't be fair to prevent her from hanging out with them altogether (and it'd just cause her to lie), but I don't think it's appropriate for her to be hanging out all the time.
Express your ner... (read in full...)
Girlfriend cheated, I no longer wish to be with her. She is emotionally blackmailing me saying she won't be able to live without me!
Q. i am in relationship for the past two years. everything was great until i caught my girlfriend cheating on me. even though i confronted her she somehow emotionally tricked me into staying with her. i am unable to forget this incident. i made it ...
A. 8 April 2013: It sounds like she's a real piece of work. Get Away from her asap! I know it can be tempting to feel responsible for her welfare, but as her ex boyfriend you have no responsibility towards her. What she chooses to do is up to her.
I'm sure she... (read in full...)
Is it really over or is he just trying to get me to contact him?
Q. Hi me and my ex broke up 6 wks ago after been together 2and a half yrs he had new gf 2 wks later he still says he loves me but he really likes her 2 i really miss him alot i stopped texting him 4 days ago he does.nt seem bothered that we're not ...
A. 8 April 2013: I doubt he's over you so soon, but I'm pretty sure he isn't playing games with you, he's just trying to move on with his life, and you should too. ... (read in full...)
How do I make him realize that I'm a catch and he needs to make some effort!
Q. Hi, I have been friends w a guy for 12 years. He admitted to me about 5 years ago that when we first knew each other, in grad school, he had a big crush on me and kept his distance from me because of that. For the middle part of our friendship he ...
A. 8 April 2013: "Remind" him you're a catch by being yourself. If he agrees that you are a catch he'll either treat you like one or not. It's up to you to do what you'd like from there.
You should never be anything but the best you can be. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend will not stop doing weed. What can I do? I don't know what to do about his actions any more
Q. Hi Everyone, I would love some help right now please. I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months and we have always been happy, things are almost perfect. When we argue, it is all about the weed. When we started going out he only smoked...
A. 8 April 2013: It seems pretty obvious that you are the one who put yourself in this situation. Your controlling behavior is pushing him away and I'm not surprised that he gave you an ultimatum.
You have the right to demand he quits smoking. But if he chooses ... (read in full...)
My mom is sleeping with a guy my age!
Q. My Mom is Sleeping with a Guy My Age. Advice? My mom is 45 and she's sleeping with a 21 year old guy I knew while growing up. I'm her only son (only child) and I'm 20. I don't think this is right, or appropriate at all. I think she should act h...
A. 8 April 2013: You're trying to tell your mom that she shouldn't do what makes you her happy, but she should do what makes you happy instead?
Someday you'll likely find yourself in her position so don't be too judgmental. ... (read in full...)
How can I get this man to bend? He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship
Q. I had a beautiful relationship with a man for ten months. We are both 38. We went through through alot together. He had been seperated from his wife for three years. They had no kids involved. The thing is his ex wife didnt really want him back, ...
A. 8 April 2013: I was just answering her question. The guy is not worth her time, that's not disputed by me. ... (read in full...)
How can I get this man to bend? He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship
Q. I had a beautiful relationship with a man for ten months. We are both 38. We went through through alot together. He had been seperated from his wife for three years. They had no kids involved. The thing is his ex wife didnt really want him back, ...
A. 7 April 2013: The other people here are quick to respond without thinking too much but forehand. While they're right that you can't force him or convince him right away, you can start things moving again at a pace that makes him feel comfortable. Since he's ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be treated like a door mat!
Q. Hi I'm with this Guy for 3 years. In this 1 year he never misses an opportunity to tell me I don't measure up to him, that he is with me cause I begged him not to leave me. Always finds something or other to humiliate me. He should be always...
A. 7 April 2013: If he didn't care about you he would have broken up with you, it has nothing to do with your begging. Don't believe anything a manipulative abuser says.
The solution is simple. Break up with him, don't listen to anything he says about it, then... (read in full...)
Boyfriend won't do anything to me sexually!
Q. my partner and me been going out for 2 and a half years but in bed he wont do anything i do everything to him but he wont do anything i love him but im finding myself dreaming about other ppl ive askd him to do things like go down on me he wont i ...
A. 7 April 2013: This is an issue with compatibility. You're a selfless lover and your bf is a selfish lover. It'll probably be that way for as long as you're together, but you can try telling him that you've reached the point that you're not sure that the two of ... (read in full...)
Online guy said he loved me and then he was just gone. I haven't spoken to him in 2 weeks!
Q. i'm 27 and i met a guy with the same age in a dating site. we had been talking in skype/ym or fb for almost every night for a month only, seeing each other's pictures and seeing each other in camera. well, he was always saying that he loved me so ...
A. 7 April 2013: You're right that you can't really love someone you've never met. You're better off without a guy that doesn't understand that. He's probably been "in love/wanting to get married/have babies" a number of times.
Time will help you. ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to get naughty on chat roulette with strangers?
Q. Is it wrong to get naughty with strangers over Chat Roulette? My boyfriend has been gone for a few weeks overseas, and I have been very bored and lonely. I would never cheat on my partner, but lately I have been masturbating with men on Chat Rou...
A. 7 April 2013: I hope you realize that guys routinely record that stuff and post it for all to see. ... (read in full...)
After sex, liquid came out of me. Was it from me? Or him?
Q. Ok, so me and my ex messed around again and we did it 2 times in one day. The first time he was going really fast before he pulled out, and when I stood up and seat back down I felt some warm, liquid come out of me. Then the second time we did it ...
A. 7 April 2013: I hope you're ready for children. ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep on forgiving her broken promises?
Q. Well, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months almost and gave me a promise ring before her car broke down. Then her kids got sick and then she got a terrible flu. And she told me before that wants to marry me someday. But this week she...
A. 7 April 2013: A promise ring is a Christian thing where you promise to wait for marriage before having sex or something. You give it to the person you're saving yourself for.
And you're right I don't think he's paying much attention. ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep on forgiving her broken promises?
Q. Well, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months almost and gave me a promise ring before her car broke down. Then her kids got sick and then she got a terrible flu. And she told me before that wants to marry me someday. But this week she...
A. 6 April 2013: No offense but you sound like a drama queen. Having kids can make things difficult. She probably makes promises because you put her in a position to where she feels like she has no choice.
I'm not seeing any major offense on her part; either t... (read in full...)
Where can I meet some country boys?
Q. Where can you meet actual country boys to date? Like boys that have trucks, work on farms, and like country music; and talk with southern drawls? Do they exist?...
A. 6 April 2013: Of course they do, in any number of small towns in the US or Latin America. ... (read in full...)
Our breakup was due to unfortunate circumstances, but now I want him back! Should I tell him?
Q. Can you win back an ex-boyfriend that broke up with you after a year? I really want to go to his house and explain that I'm still in love with him and that his reasons (problems with distance; my parents dislike for him) are no longer applicable? B...
A. 6 April 2013: Call him and don't ambush him with "let's get back together!"
Ask how he's doing and tell him that you moved closer and your parents are gone (or whatever happened to them). BE CASUAL. Chat, don't ask to get back! You don't ask those kinds of... (read in full...)
I don't think I want a boyfriend anymore, I just want to be alone for awhile. How can I tell my boyfriend this?
Q. my dad has just passed out recently and my boyfriend has been supportive and all that but I just feel like I d0nt need him in my life anymore.i wanna be alone not being involve with anyone is the way I feel normal or not coz I have been moody around ...
A. 6 April 2013: What you're feeling doesn't need to be judged by what's normal or not (in this circumstance at least). You are feeling this way for a good reason as something major has just happened to you.
If you don't want your boyfriend around anymore ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is constantly pissed off with me over the smallest things, I'm starting to wonder if it is worth staying with her anymore?
Q. Hello everyone, I want help/opinions on my over 3 yrs relationship. you see my girlfriend is a great person but she is not a great girlfriend. Its hard to stay happy with her. Shes really delicate in t sense that any little think just flicks the ...
A. 6 April 2013: It doesn't have to be that way! You can be happy again! Simply dump negative Nancy and be single for awhile. Then when the right woman comes along see how it goes.
Staying with someone like herbs stupid, plain and simple. The longer you stay the... (read in full...)
She broke my heart, we got back together but I think the damage has been done
Q. Am totally confused, av been in this relationship now for four years. this january my girlfriend left me for another guy, i later got to find out , and she slammed these words on my face in the presence of her friends that 'she's no more interested ...
A. 6 April 2013: Sorry about your dad.
What you need to do is never talk to her again like your friends said in the first place. She's seen you vulnerable and that was a turn off to her. She cheated on you then blamed it on the devil when she crawled back to ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and hopeless with girls!
Q. I'm 22, I am hopeless with girls. I have never been with one and now I am too scared to even try. I am a male model (physique, underwear etc) so objectively I am pretty good looking at the very least, very hot at the most... which almost compounds ...
A. 6 April 2013: It sounds like you have waaaay more expectations than anyone else does.
Instead of letting everyone else dictate what you should be, why don't you take control of things and confidently be who you are. A good guy just waiting for the right gi... (read in full...)
I miss my ex so much and want him back
Q. Hi. I know it's a stupid question to ask but I miss my ex so much it hurts. And I need advise. Well the short story is we have been together for six years and broke up due to cheating. We have been split up a while but still meet for certain s...
A. 5 April 2013: Who cheated and who ended things is relevant here. ... (read in full...)
Should I think our hook up was just a one time thing? I'm afraid to ask him!
Q. Basically last year I ended up getting involved with my best guy mate, we spent the summer together and then it just ended for stupid reasons and we didn't speak for 8 months. Now we started messaging and we eventually met up. He was cuddling me ...
A. 5 April 2013: See what happens. Asking would be kind of tacky in my opinion. Why do so many women let the guy dictate the terms of the relationship?
If you want to make more out of it then do so, don't leave it all up to him. ... (read in full...)
I made an online profile hoping the guy would figure out it was me. I texted him and now he hasn't texted me back. Now what?
Q. I met a guy on line. Things were going better then expected. I found out he was still actively on more then one dating website. Even tho I know we owe eacn other nothing yet and he has full right to be dating around. I went on the website and made a ...
A. 5 April 2013: With all due respect you probably need to get your sh!t together before you start dating. You barely know the guy and you're already doing weird things because of your insecurity.
Also what makes you think that him not replying is a response... (read in full...)
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