I don't feel like I love my boyfriend anymore. Should I leave him?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and recently I feel as if I do not love him anymore. He has been all of my firsts. The only guy i have ever dated. Lately it seems that I am wanting more, like maybe for him to surprise me ...
A. 16 April 2013: You really only have two options.
Stay with him forever, or break up with him at some point (now or later).
You definitely don't want to marry him, so what does that leave? Breaking up at some point. That point could be now or when you're 8... (read in full...)
I can't decide who I want more: my FWB or my ex boyfriend
Q. Hi everyone, i was in a fwb arrangement then i met my boyfriend who is now my ex. i am drawn completely to my fwb he is also the same with me. when were together the sex is amazing but the problem is i still love my ex boyfriend but i cant get e...
A. 16 April 2013: Is amazing sex more important than having a relationship with your ex? BTW, what makes you think your ex and you will succeed when you failed before? Has there been a fundamental change?
If you really can't decide, maybe they'll be okay with an ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a relationship without having sex?
Q. I'm a 24 year old guy. I met this girl, who's a couple of years younger than me, about a year ago. She's verbally impaired (mute, I don't like to call her by this name). We have been very good friends. I don't mind her disability at all. She's ve...
A. 16 April 2013: You should never try convincing someone that they are right for you or you them. If you are there will not be a need for convincing.
Hating sex is something that she'll have to accept about you. If she's too insecure to believe that it's not her ... (read in full...)
Should I marry a girl I love but has cheated and lied to me in the past?
Q. Hi, I ve posted on this website before and I ve found the answers helpful so I am back looking for some more advice please. Should I get married to my on off girlfriend of four years given that we have had quite a volatile relationship? ...
A. 16 April 2013: You're not going to take anyone's advice at this point. If you're smart you know damn well that NOBODY in their right mind would recommend marrying her. Her actions weren't caused by a lack of maturity, they are the actions of someone with a serious ... (read in full...)
How to tell if she's interested or just friendly?
Q. I hope someone can give me some advice. I know I sound pretty inept about it, but it's been about 5 years since I've really dated someone. There's a girl who started working where I do recently, our work is such that we only see each other every...
A. 16 April 2013: You've been single for five years because you are afraid. This isn't something you need the internet to help you with, or a private investigator.
She very well could just be nice. But you still can ask her out. Why don't you start by as ng her t... (read in full...)
Gave my GF herpes, She now wants nothing to do with me!
Q. okay last October, i met a female photographer (39y.o) at a venue while i was out by myself supporting a friends band. I was married at the time and was at the venue to see my friends band and also take photo's of the band as i had begun a new ...
A. 16 April 2013: Although she is somewhat responsible because she didn't insist on condom use, you are a total ^^^^ for not taking 2 seconds to research what 99% of people know, whether or not they have herpes; that it's ALWAYS contagious. While it's relatively ... (read in full...)
She hurt me, I love her but should I just live with a broken heart and no violence?
Q. Hello. I am 21 and I am gay. My girlfriend and I got into an agrument one night at her house, so I grabbed all my stuff and told her I was leaving. I was actually leaving her for good, and she fought it. Thst's nice, but I needed to go home to cool ...
A. 16 April 2013: "The One" doesn't abuse you and make you scared to be with them. Not to mention that you wanted to leave her before she hurt you.
At your age it can feel like you'll never be able to love someone so much, but I promise you, it's not remotely... (read in full...)
What should I read into her comment?
Q. Ok, So I was seeing this girl which I worked with for a while, we started just running together after work, which lead to us sleeping together and going out, dinners, concerts etc. She has children but she had them at an early age, I wanted t...
A. 15 April 2013: Sounds to me that she thinks of you as a male prostitute. She thanked you for a job well done.
I'm actually kidding and I'm surprised that you're looking for signs here. Thanking someone is a polite habit for people. ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out? Or is the age difference too much?
Q. So a bit of a random question, I have moved offices at work and now am at a office closer to home. Of which is next to a bakery.. over the past few months I have been in for my lunch and have met a nice young girl, who seems nice and has a nice ...
A. 15 April 2013: I don't think it's a big deal unless there is a maturity gap. But the age difference itself isn't bad.
What you need to be careful of is moving things too fast. She's likely on a different page as far as relationships are concerned. ... (read in full...)
My Crush always has a hard on around me and does nothing to hide it.
Q. I've noticed that my crush tends to have a hard on when we hang out and he stands in my face and it becomes very obvious to me that he has a hard on. I don't look at it cause I know is there. Is almost as if he wants me to know he has an erection. ...
A. 15 April 2013: That's just weird. ... (read in full...)
When he asks me questions, I feel put on the spot. How do I communicate?
Q. ive been dating this man for about a month, give or take. and it takes me awhile to get use to, open up to someone, but on the other hand he is very talkative, intelligent, comprehensive, sesquipedalian. i love that but, when he asks me questions i ...
A. 15 April 2013: I don't think vocabulary is the issue. I'm intelligent and can hold an intelligent conversation, but I'm not a vocabulary nerd by any stretch.
If you have a hard time understanding concepts, that's another Issue altogether. And, as stated by someo... (read in full...)
How do I ask her out without sounding creepy?
Q. There's this girl who I've been friends with for a good couple of years and over time we've been seeing each other more and more. It wasn't until a couple of months ago I started to develop feelings for her. We met up yesterday at a friend's house, ...
A. 15 April 2013: If you had really grown a pair you wouldn't be afraid of sounding awkward, creepy or desperate.
Are you awkward, creepy or desperate? Then why would you come off that way?
Asking a girl out that has given you signs that she likes you is the... (read in full...)
My Crush always has a hard on around me and does nothing to hide it.
Q. I've noticed that my crush tends to have a hard on when we hang out and he stands in my face and it becomes very obvious to me that he has a hard on. I don't look at it cause I know is there. Is almost as if he wants me to know he has an erection. ...
A. 15 April 2013: I'd say it might not be a hard on. My wife sometimes accuses me of having one but some pants make it look that way a little.
OR, he does have one and he's kind of a pig.
I'm not remotely a prude but that's pretty inappropriate in... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has manipulated me into staying
Q. this is my story.... i am doing my ug course currently.during my freshmen year i met this girl with whom i have been in a relationship with for the past two and half years. everything at first was magical. she was my first love and i believed...
A. 14 April 2013: You should block her in every way she has too contact you. Facebook, phone, email, etc.
She'll get the hint. ... (read in full...)
Her mother caught her doing a hand job on me and I had to leave.
Q. My girlfriend and I were at her house we were cooling about and she was giving me a hand job her parents are strict and against us doing anything however, while she was giving me a hand job her mother saw and called josie out of the room said that I ...
A. 14 April 2013: What is wrong with you? That is the last thing in the world a parent wants to see which is why you do it when there's no way you could get caught! From the sound of it you guys were going at it with her mom just a few feet away.
I have to say t... (read in full...)
I just want to be friends! Guys how do I turn you off FOREVER!; without gaining 100lb, sacrificing looks, nor getting really hairy?
Q. I'm studying computer engineering so it's ALL GUYS and I'm not a hermit or anything, so I try to make friends. And I LIKE having friends I can talk to about nerdy things like Linux and UNIX, I mean, most other people don't get it. But the guys A...
A. 13 April 2013: It's just something you'll have to put up with for now. Anytime a guy asks you out just say "as friends, I'm not looking to date anyone right now." ... (read in full...)
I don't like swinging but my husband doesn't want to quit
Q. My husband and I have been swinging for 3 years and I was never really interested in it to begin with.now when I tell him I dont want to do it anymore he says but we are having fun when in actuality its him having fun. He gets a little to flirty ...
A. 13 April 2013: I think you've done what you can. He's well aware of how you feel and hasn't stopped, and that's fine, he's allowed to make his own decisions.
However, so are you. You know the situation. You know he's not at all interested in quitting and that... (read in full...)
Does sex really matter?
Q. I have a brilliant boyfriend, he really is amazing. We have been together over a year and have lived together most of that time (we met in student accomondation.)We are both twenty and lost our virginities to each other, and I can't imagine a more ...
A. 13 April 2013: This is a deal breaker unless, of course, you don't like sex either.
You may be able to tolerate it for awhile but what if you got married? It would only get worse and you'd eventually NEVER have sex (shudders).
Sometimes you have to say good... (read in full...)
Age difference
Q. I like this girl and really looking forward into having a relationship with her.I am an Egyptian and she is a tourist so i think i can do a lot for her to see my country like taking her to the red sea,watching the sunset from the pyramids,cinemas ...
A. 13 April 2013: I don't think the age difference is probably as important over there as it would be if she was at home. As long as you don't act a lot younger than her it may not be an issue.
Why do you like her when you've barely had any contact with her? Is ... (read in full...)
He's welcome to go out and have fun with his friends, but I can't take him smoking pot
Q. My bf likes to go out with his friends once in awhile. It doesn't bother me that he does, I trust him. The fact is.... he does not respect my feelings on the aspect of smoking pot with his friends. All of his friends do this so he does to. I asked ...
A. 13 April 2013: Things like this are annoying to me. You claim he doesn't care what you think in this situation. "He feels guilty" is a sign that that's not true.
What is true is that you don't care about what he wants (to smoke weed) AND you're trying to force... (read in full...)
Is this a relaxed body language or a sign that they like your body language
Q. I am in my 40's and sat next to a man in a pub and the guy is sitting normally at a table with a group of you all about the same age. After a while he turns his body to face slightly towards you to spread out leaning his back to the side wall of ...
A. 12 April 2013: In some countries that's a marriage proposal.
Seriously though, you read way too much into things, which can sometimes get you into trouble. ... (read in full...)
I am his first girlfriend and he isn't sure that I am the one. Should I let him go?
Q. I'm really confused right now. My boyfriend and I have been going out together for 6 months. He's 31 and i am his first gf. So he has nothing to compare to when something doesn't feel right in the relationship. He told me he had this feeling that he ...
A. 12 April 2013: To have your first girlfriend at 31 indicates he either was raised by a pack of wolves or he has some personality issues that prevent him from connecting with people. I could be wrong.
To me this would be a sign that, at the very least, you need... (read in full...)
I never got the reason why ex broke up with me and I still wonder. Does anyone else feel this way?
Q. No Contact is supposed to help you heal. Blocking my ex out of my life ever since the break up has helped me in a lot of ways, but it has left me so curious. He has no way of contacting me, unless he wanted to show up to my house, I haven't ...
A. 12 April 2013: I meant to add that your previous boyfriend and you weren't compatible either. If you were you wouldn't have thought he was so annoying and repulsive. For some other woman he may be perfect, it doesn't make him repulsive because you had those ... (read in full...)
I never got the reason why ex broke up with me and I still wonder. Does anyone else feel this way?
Q. No Contact is supposed to help you heal. Blocking my ex out of my life ever since the break up has helped me in a lot of ways, but it has left me so curious. He has no way of contacting me, unless he wanted to show up to my house, I haven't ...
A. 12 April 2013: People tend to think that other people think how they do, so it's not a surprise that you feel he broke up with you because of that, but it's probably not true unless you noticed signs. ... (read in full...)
I never got the reason why ex broke up with me and I still wonder. Does anyone else feel this way?
Q. No Contact is supposed to help you heal. Blocking my ex out of my life ever since the break up has helped me in a lot of ways, but it has left me so curious. He has no way of contacting me, unless he wanted to show up to my house, I haven't ...
A. 12 April 2013: Well, the benefit of no contact is that he can't get a hold of you which will prevent you from wondering when/if he's going to call.
Since no one in their right mind would just show up at an exes doorstep long after a breakup, you need to get t... (read in full...)
I thought he wanted me to get pregnant but after I lost the baby, he told me to go?
Q. Hi i really hope you can help me i recently went through a miscarriage we had decided to try for a baby i fell straight away we were so happy about it we talked about spending our lives together things changed afterwards he started saying i wasn't a ...
A. 12 April 2013: I see a period managed to sneak it's way in there at the end.
What to do? Is he your boyfriend or your husband? If he's your boyfriend you leave him and never look back. This is the type of guy who will make a miserable husband and make you unha... (read in full...)
Can anyone help with suggestions on how I talk to him about it or just manage to move on and forget about him?
Q. Will try cut a long story short...I have known a guy all my life, we grew up together and drifted apart as we grew older. I still saw him on occasions and it just so happened that we both had feelings for one another. Things never got too serious ...
A. 11 April 2013: I think you may have had unintentionally bad timing here and it sounds like he may be afraid of hurting you.
You also made the mistake of telling him that you "were willing to commit to something more serious". What you should have done is (with... (read in full...)
22 years old and I really want a relationship. How do I avoid being seen as desperate?
Q. I've been looking for a relationship since I was 15 and after a first awkward date at 17, I simply stopped pursuing women with intentions of a relationship. I feel like I'm so inexperienced that no woman would want to be with me. All the women...
A. 11 April 2013: You don't need to know a girl to ask her out. Why don't you try talking with a girl while waiting in line somewhere or whatever. If she turns you down no big deal.
I realize that you're not just out for sex but I want to tell you that the guy ... (read in full...)
Guys, how generous are you about spending money on your girlfriend? Do guys tend to spend more on a Gf than girls spend on a guy?
Q. How much money do you spend on your girlfriend generally? Girls, do you find that your boyfriend spends more money on you than you do on him? Excluding birthdays, christmas etc. It seems that traditionally the guys are meant to spend more mone...
A. 11 April 2013: Women have no "right" to be spoiled. If they meet a guy who feels the need and can afford it them so be it. I don't see your bf not spending money as being the issue. The problem is that he's not nurturing your relationship. That's what you need to ... (read in full...)
Not sure if she's waiting for me to make the next move?
Q. Met this girl on a night out at the start of march. We talked, laughed and ended up kissing in the club. Exchanged numbers and text back and forth quite a bit for a few days before I asked her out for a date. The 1st date went great, we talked and ...
A. 11 April 2013: I want to reiterate what Cerberus said: don't try and read minds. Men and women have so many issues because they're always trying to read minds or expecting the other person to do so.
That doesn't mean don't ever try and think about what they may... (read in full...)
My BF will not pop the question and I want the whole nine yards!
Q. Is there a reason why a man doesn't marry his long term girlfriend/mother of his children? My boyfriend is 23 and I'm 23 in a few months. I've been with my boyfriend over 4 years and we have a toddler together. I got pregnant 9 months into the...
A. 11 April 2013: The reason could be as simple as him not wanting to get married so young. I didn't, and I'm glad I didn't.
He didn't "make a commitment to you" when you got pregnant, I assume it wasn't planned.
In my opinion 23 is too young to get married; ... (read in full...)
How do I confront my cheating Fiance without making her angry because I spyed into her emails?
Q. How do you let your fiance know that you know she is cheating without her getting mad because you have been looking at her email that she keeps leaving open, most recent email to her "friend" "I still want to meet with you. I want to try if you ar...
A. 11 April 2013: +1 for using the Cerberus Method.
Her cheating wasn't a drunken accident it was premeditated deception with no regard to the guy she agreed to marry. It indicates a (not necessarily sexual) dissatisfaction with your relationship, which means th... (read in full...)
GF is cheating and I don't see it?
Q. I have been dating my jealous, possessive, demanding and highly strung girlfriend for just over 2 years. I have constantly tried and failed to meet her demands and expectations. Her jealousy occasionally turns violent and emotional if she ever gets ...
A. 11 April 2013: The question isn't "how can I find out?" its "What in the hell are you doing with this psycho b!tch?"
She's very insecure (among other things) which can frequently lead to cheating and dating site use as a way to get reaffirmation that you're d... (read in full...)
Confession of my casual fling with an older woman to my new girlfriend?
Q. hi im 21 male. i recently had moved to another city for 3 months for exam coaching purpose. the thing is i was in a casual relationship with a neighbour women. she is 25. it was just sex oriented. then i moved back to my hometown, now I am in a ...
A. 11 April 2013: In that case.... Do you feel guilty? Do you feel like keeping this a secret is very difficult for you?
In that case I'd tell her.
Is there any religious reason why you're supposed to be a virgin? Or is it just "right and wrong"?
If t... (read in full...)
Piles and Anal sex, is it painful?
Q. MY GF HAS PROBLEM OF PILES 6MONTH BEFORE BT IT STILL PAINS.. NOT REGULAR LIKE BEFORE BUT IN THE GAP OF 2-3 WEEKS FOR 1-2 DAY.. I WANT TO KHOW THAT CAN'T BE CURED FOR PERMANENT??? AND IF WE WANT TO DO ANNEL SEX IN FUTURE CAN WE OR NOW IT IS NOT PO...
A. 11 April 2013: I had to look piles up to try and answer your question.
You definitely don't want to have anal sex until they're treated. And if they hurt then they're not gone. Have her go see a doctor or at the least Google treatments for anal piles. ... (read in full...)
Emmotionally too dependant on an abusive GF, Please help me ?
Q. hi, am 21 yrs old..to start off, i was in a relationship with a girl before and she cheated on me and went with some other guy.. this fact made me emotionally very sensitive and insecure..after six months another girl said she loves me and wanted to ...
A. 11 April 2013: You have a lot of problems here that I can't help you with.
But one piece of advice that I want to give is to try and switch the way you view relationships and dating in general.
First, you have to recognize that people are very unique, and... (read in full...)
He wants a sexual relationship even though he's with the other girl
Q. Me and my child's dad hated each other or at least we argued a lotand couldn't get along.... now we talking like two friends,,laughing,,joking,,competing over funny but dumb stuff... he still has this girl he only knew for 6 months vs our 6yrs and I ...
A. 11 April 2013: Do you want to be in a relationship with him? If yes then make sweet love to him, if not then don't.
He's probably enjoying the time you're spending together since there's no pressure, just like you are. And he wants to have sex with you because ... (read in full...)
Not sure if she's waiting for me to make the next move?
Q. Met this girl on a night out at the start of march. We talked, laughed and ended up kissing in the club. Exchanged numbers and text back and forth quite a bit for a few days before I asked her out for a date. The 1st date went great, we talked and ...
A. 11 April 2013: Listen, what's the worst that could happen if you ask her on another date and for some reason she's not interested? She'd say no.
From what you say she's definitely interested so don't sweat these kinds of things, just ask her out and if she STIL... (read in full...)
When the breakup comes should I ask him to return the gift?
Q. On Christmas I went way overboard and bought my boyfriend a very expensive gift. A bit over $300. I know. But I'm young and stupid and I guess it's one of those mistakes that when I'm older I'll look back and tell myself "well, that was ridicul...
A. 10 April 2013: Why are you prolonging the inevitable? Break up with him, forget about the present, and move on.
Dealing with your parents I can't help you with. Just learn a lesson. Don't spend money when you're not making it or you'll be forever broke. ... (read in full...)
After getting back with the Ex-GF you always had feelings for...
Q. I am getting back with my ex-girlfriend after 2 years of her dating some jerk. It really bothers me, that she broke up with me..and then went out with him. She didn't break up with me because of him, I"m sure of this. Should I bring it up...
A. 10 April 2013: What do you hope to gain from asking things like that?
BTW you'll rarely get an honest answer; you'll get a carefully worded response that's designed to make you happy. ... (read in full...)
No sex, No kissing, different religion and now my BF does not want to talk to me?
Q. I'm 22yrs plus while my guy is 25yrs plus we have been dating gettin to 4yrs now despite our religion differences,we both love eachother ,he pays me visit,he introduce me to his friends as his wife to be but now everything change suddenly.each time ...
A. 10 April 2013: If a guy only wants to romance your boobs when you see him that means he's using you. And now he's playing games with you because he's upset that you won't let him have sex with you.
This guy is all wrong for you. Find someone who's more respectf... (read in full...)
Confession of my casual fling with an older woman to my new girlfriend?
Q. hi im 21 male. i recently had moved to another city for 3 months for exam coaching purpose. the thing is i was in a casual relationship with a neighbour women. she is 25. it was just sex oriented. then i moved back to my hometown, now I am in a ...
A. 10 April 2013: That's personal information, why would you think it's something that needs to be "confessed"? Are you supposed to be a virgin or something? ... (read in full...)
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