She's pregnant with the other guy's child, says she doesn't want him anymore but then why does she still have his photos, help!
Q. Please help me i had been dating for 9years with my girlfriend, I find out she was seeing someone else then i move out of our apartment i still love her a lot we even have a child together i find out she is pregnant with that guys child she told she ...
A. 21 May 2013: What it may mean is that HE doesn't want HER, not the other way around.
Don't think about staying with her unless the two of you go to counseling. She had a second relationship- this was no one time mistake and she knew exactly what she was doin... (read in full...)
How do I send her a text message to let her know I'm interested without sounding like a stalker?
Q. I got to know this girl at the end of the semester really well. She is my ideal girl. We spent a night together studying until 5 in the morning and we talked about how we can be OCD about certain things and talked about our family and personal ...
A. 20 May 2013: Step one: stop being a wimp. If she likes you, you'd have to be a wierdo to sound like a stalker.
Step two: stop being a wimp. Pick up the phone like a grown man and call her. It may not be your guys' style until now, but it's the right think to... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 1 year has never said I love you and never talks about the future. Should I be concerned?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together a year. He's a very caring person, always there for me and if I ask, will go out of his way to help me out. We keep in contact the whole day by texting or calling each other. He normally initiates sending a good ...
A. 20 May 2013: Listen, if you want to be concerned that he hasn't said "I love you" after 3 dates, that's your right. However, if you're trying to get to know his motives a little better so that you can make an educated decision, then here goes:
There are some... (read in full...)
How can I get him to flirt with me again?
Q. I have a huge crush on my classmate since the start of the semester so during the last day of the semester I decided to approach him and introduce myself. It went pretty well. He told me that he actually wanted to talk to me too and he was very ...
A. 19 May 2013: Don't worry about looking like a stalker, just contact him.... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my smoking and drinking could delay or event prevent getting pregnant
Q. Hi everyone, so basically what it is is that I really want a baby (so does my partner) I came off the mirena two months ago, I drink on weekends socially but quite a lot and smoke 8-10 cigarettes a day, I know that's awful to do when trying to ...
A. 18 May 2013: You're still very young, I'd wait until you haven't been smoking for awhile. Like months, not hours.
I'm not a doctor, but my aunt used to smoke and drink and she had so much trouble getting pregnant and the times she succeeded she ended up havin... (read in full...)
I'm planning to visit my long distance boyfriend, but too young to rent a hotel. Any suggestions?
Q. So, this isn't really a relationship question, but my LDR boyfriend and I are planning to meet pretty soon and recently I've been trying to get everything prepared to go visit him. There are two problems though, I suppose. We're still pretty y...
A. 18 May 2013: I think you need to realize that not everyone thinks the same way you do. It's entirely possible his mom doesn't care if you sleep over. When I was that age my parents didn't as long as they liked the girl Ok.
I think asking her to rent a room w... (read in full...)
My friend is acting as if our hot making out meant nothing!
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of two years because he treated me like crap, but I was really feeling down so I started hanging out with a friend. Yesterday I was riding home with they guy and things just kind of happened and we ended up making out in ...
A. 18 May 2013: People need to stop repeating the old cliche that "he used you".
She clearly states she was feeling down so she hung out with him. There was no using going on here that wasn't mutual.
"Using" should be reserved for people who manipulate other... (read in full...)
Am I naive to hope he'll change his mind about marriage and kids?
Q. Hi. I've been with my lovely boyfriend for five years. We want the same thing for our futures but he wants them much later than me. Instead of breaking up about it, we've decided to just take it day by day. I can't imagine being with anyone else. ...
A. 17 May 2013: You're probably being naive, but you wouldn't be the first. I know that I had absolutely no desire for kids/marriage at that age and it caused the breakup of a good relationship.
While there are pluses to having children early, there are more adv... (read in full...)
He said he wasn't interested in me so why has he started staring?
Q. Hi, I send a guy on my class a fb mail. He replied he isnt interested in me. I ignored him totally. One month later I saw this guy looks/stares at me at lectures, sometimes he stares deeply and long at me. Until now we had 15 lectures and he stare...
A. 17 May 2013: Why don't you just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime? ... (read in full...)
Is he avoiding me because of the blood or because he never really cared?
Q. Hello, this is a little long but please do read. This is a bit of a messy situation, literally. Yesterday i interviewed a man who i have a serious crush on, a very sexy handsome man with massive muscles, i sat next to him to take a picture and aske...
A. 17 May 2013: For a mature man blood wouldn't be a big deal. He probably didn't respond because it was a one time thing. ... (read in full...)
He said he wasn't interested in me so why has he started staring?
Q. Hi, I send a guy on my class a fb mail. He replied he isnt interested in me. I ignored him totally. One month later I saw this guy looks/stares at me at lectures, sometimes he stares deeply and long at me. Until now we had 15 lectures and he stare...
A. 17 May 2013: Are you showing some skin? If not, maybe he was staring THROUGH you, not AT you. I've been caught staring at girls when I was really looking behind them or just staring at nothing.
I'm sure that if he really was interested he wouldn't have sai... (read in full...)
If I want optimal results, should I be clean shave, have some stubble, or full beard?
Q. I know looks are only part of what women want, and other factors for attraction come into play, like how active I am, how I take care of myself, etc. But, my question here is, what should I do, facial hair wise, to get some more potential suitor...
A. 16 May 2013: Every woman is different, you should know that by now. There are some women who go nuts for a beard, and others, like my wife, that find it gross. I'd say the "safe" bet is clean shaven, you'll probably attract a wider variety of women, but alas, ... (read in full...)
Do I have any right telling my boyfriend to stop talking with this girl that I feel uncomfortable with?
Q. Do I have any right telling my boyfriend to stop talking with this girl that I feel uncomfortable with? This girl has only known my boyfriend for about a week and she has been talking very openly about how much she likes sex and been telling him...
A. 16 May 2013: Trusting him is one thing, but the conversation has already become inappropriate and there's no reason you should put up with it if it makes you uncomfortable. Many people on here are just insecure, jealous people, but you have good reason to be ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to flirt with me again?
Q. I have a huge crush on my classmate since the start of the semester so during the last day of the semester I decided to approach him and introduce myself. It went pretty well. He told me that he actually wanted to talk to me too and he was very ...
A. 16 May 2013: Yeah, text may be your only form of communication, but look where it's got you. Two people can only carry on for so long by text. Be brave, make a phone call and tell him you were wondering if he'd like to fill in the blank. ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to flirt with me again?
Q. I have a huge crush on my classmate since the start of the semester so during the last day of the semester I decided to approach him and introduce myself. It went pretty well. He told me that he actually wanted to talk to me too and he was very ...
A. 16 May 2013: You probably gave him the impression you weren't interested. What you need to do is be a little more direct and ask him out. After that he'll have no doubt that you're interested and he'll probably start flirting again. ... (read in full...)
How could I not see the evil person that he is?
Q. First all thanks for reading this. I am single 34y woman. I met a guy living overseas last year. We had a good time and after we both left to our own countries we kept the communication by skype and fbk..etc. I found the opportunity to do some ...
A. 15 May 2013: Well, had you met him in person at the beginning you would have noticed how he was right away. The internet allows people to be anyone they want to, even the king of Nigeria.
I would stop placing all your bets on 'virtual' people.... (read in full...)
For my porn-addicted boyfriend, will me not having sex with him make him distant or just horny?
Q. hello, this might sound childish but i really need to make my boyfriendd want me more, i really need to tease him, but will me not having sex with him (we r sexual active) make him distant or just horny. see the thing is he watches porn and i hate ...
A. 15 May 2013: I think that if him watching porn makes you feel insecure there are a couple of things you should consider. The first is that its simply a quick way to stimulate himself. He doesn't watch it because hes not satisfied with you or he wishes you were ... (read in full...)
For my porn-addicted boyfriend, will me not having sex with him make him distant or just horny?
Q. hello, this might sound childish but i really need to make my boyfriendd want me more, i really need to tease him, but will me not having sex with him (we r sexual active) make him distant or just horny. see the thing is he watches porn and i hate ...
A. 15 May 2013: For the record, I never labeled women who don't want their mate to watch porn as insecure. I asked if it makes her insecure, maybe it wasn't worded well.
And I have no problem with people labeling porn watchers as perverts; everyone is entitled... (read in full...)
I do everything for him and he does nothing for me! Is this love?
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship since 2 and half year now. I did so much for my fiancé that now days no one does. I got laser hair removal for 10,000, I gave him everything he asked me for, expensive perfumes, shampoos, glasses, iphone ...
A. 15 May 2013: It sounds like you fell in love with a scam artist. When the only thing that you get out of a relationship is pain that means you've stayed too long.
You don't love him, you just crave his acceptance. You need to dump him and block him. If you d... (read in full...)
HELP!!!! My weight is ruining my relationship
Q. I have had two children and I am now 70 pounds overweight. I'm very unhappy, angery and out of sorts with myself. I know that I need to lose weight, but after working, taking care of my dads kids and then taking care of my own kids, I find I h...
A. 15 May 2013: I think your problem here is that you need to find motivation. There's ALWAYS time to work out. ALWAYS. Finding the energy is similar to motivation, but the lack of energy is caused by your sedentary lifestyle and obesity.
Force yourself... (read in full...)
My FWB is sick of me and called me a whore! Did I do anything wrong to deserve to be treated this way?
Q. Dear Cupid I am in on and off FWB with my best friend. I fell in love with him but he says he likes me but no love word. Long story short, he bacame very abusive (physically and emotionally) lately. I couldnt even hold a decent conversation ...
A. 15 May 2013: It sounds like he's mentally ill. Leave him and block him, this "relationship" has run its course and will only get worse from here. ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him about this Facebook page that showed up in my browser history?
Q. Whilst going back through my history to find a webpage I had visited a few days ago, I noticed a certain name kept popping up and clicked onto the facebook page. I have never been on this page, nor do I have facebook! So I figured it was obviously ...
A. 15 May 2013: He's intrigued by/attracted to her. Don't make a big deal out of it as he really hasn't don't anything wrong. People deserve privacy for this exact reason. 99.99% of people have things, however small, to hide from their spouse. ... (read in full...)
For my porn-addicted boyfriend, will me not having sex with him make him distant or just horny?
Q. hello, this might sound childish but i really need to make my boyfriendd want me more, i really need to tease him, but will me not having sex with him (we r sexual active) make him distant or just horny. see the thing is he watches porn and i hate ...
A. 15 May 2013: What exactly is the problem? Does he chose porn over being with you? Or are you just insecure? ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend suddenly needs space. Do I give him space? Or dump him?
Q. My boyfriend of 5 months suddenly says he needs to "reconnect" with his friends (aka drinking buddies) and plans to stay out every Friday night with them. He says I'm not invited "for now" - and besides I work at 7AM on Saturdays and he wants to s...
A. 14 May 2013: It sounds like the two of you aren't compatible. Explaining to him why this isn't a good idea is a waste of breath because there really isn't anything wrong with it, you just don't like it.
II think friendships are critical to a healthy relation... (read in full...)
I really like her but I'm not sure if she likes me, plus she might have something going on with another guy! What should I do?
Q. so my best friend (R) has a twin sister called J and she met this guy at a mutual friends party, they kissed and thats it. since that party we spoke more and i didn't hear anything about this other guy and every time we were around each other i kept ...
A. 14 May 2013: You probably blew it by waiting too long. You have to strike fast or some other guy will. You may be afraid of asking her out but if you don't how are you going to progress? Do you want her to mess your hair up, stare, and text with smiley faces ... (read in full...)
What are your views on no sex before marriage?
Q. I am Christian but nondenominational and I honestly can't decide whether I should wait till marriage and the most committed relationship possible to have sex or have fun, play the field and get experienced with boyfriends at college. I would love to ...
A. 14 May 2013: Sex is important and I think virgins fail to understand all of the reasons you SHOULDN'T wait until marriage until it's too late.
Being selective about who you have sex with is important if you decide to have sex before marriage. Don't let a gu... (read in full...)
Dating a girl for 2 weeks, saw some strange messages on her phone then her best friend calls me to tell me to walk away from her! What should I do?
Q. I have been online dating for about a year and I go on about 2 dates a week. I'm no Brad Pitt but i'm a good looking guy and have just qualified as a children's doctor. I met a girl (M) 2 weeks ago and we have been on some dates. She is cute ...
A. 14 May 2013: I hope that you're using protection that you bought yourself.
I think it's weird that she is telling you she wants to marry you and have your babies after only two weeks. This alone tells you that she's compulsive and doesn't understand her own ... (read in full...)
He has changed, what do I do?
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years is becoming very abusive lately, he is abusive only with me, with his friends and others he behaves very sweetly. He hasnt said a single nice thing to me in past few months. I tried not to evoke his anger in anyway,...
A. 14 May 2013: Your feelings are more the craving of acceptance than love. You just want him to show you love back. It can mess with your mind.
Either way he obviously won't change. If he couldn't last one day then he's not going to be changing any time soo... (read in full...)
Can I breakup with my boyfriend a week before his birthday?
Q. I met my boyfriend on holiday almost 1 year ago. He lives about 300 miles form me so we only really see each other for a weekend once a month. He comes to see me mostly and I have went to his twice (he is 20 and I am 18). We have spoken every day ...
A. 13 May 2013: Breaking up with someone will often hurt them, the only thing you can do about it is to be gentle and respectful of their feelings (assuming they've been respectful of yours).
I'd break up with him now. Tell him you'd really like to be there on... (read in full...)
Texting relationships: good or bad?
Q. What are your opinions on a relationship that is 90% texting, phone calls maybe every other day or so and mostly booty calls. The guy is telling the woman he loves her, but he is telling his really close friends that "Hell No I Do Not Want To Spend ...
A. 13 May 2013: It sounds like a rhetorical question to me. It's healthy if that's what you want. ... (read in full...)
He wont tell his married ex about me.....
Q. Hello that's my first time to ask online but I'm really upset and stressed. My story is long and will try to make It short. I'm in a long distance relation. He was my friend before becoming my bf but there was too much chemistry between us he was i...
A. 13 May 2013: The guy still loves her, and he's not able to get as close to you because you're in a long distance relationship. If you still want to be with him, you'll have to accept his feelings for her. Getting mad at him won't take them away. Getting closer ... (read in full...)
Is it worth having him as a friend if he can't remember my birthday?
Q. Dear Aunts, I have two best friends, and I always tell them everything, but this problem involves one of them. One of them (I'kll call him A) has been wonderful to me, but I don't want to trouble him about my conflicts with the one who has hurt...
A. 13 May 2013: No offense, but you sound like a huge drama queen. HUGE. It's time you learned that you aren't the center of the universe.
People forget things and it doesn't mean he didn't care; he's got his own thing to deal with. Maybe you're one of those pe... (read in full...)
We haven't even gone out on a first date and he's told me he wants to see me naked and squeeze me! Is this normal?
Q. Hi, am a girl of 22 years old and for the past 4months I have met a man double my age. Most of the times we have casual talks only. We meet but not regularly. He says he is single. I like the guy. To my suprise he just told me that he wants to see ...
A. 13 May 2013: It sounds like he wants sex with absolutely nothing else. No relationship, no friends with benefits, just sex with a stranger.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has moved out again, for the fifth time!
Q. My boyfriend of two years moved out again for the fifth time. He usually calls or comes back by now but not this time. His Family is being very nasty towards me and he didnt just move out he moved 3 hours away. When he left he said he was going to ...
A. 12 May 2013: Sounds to me like you two are a poor match. He may be your emotional crutch since you lost your son, but it's time to move on from this unhealthy relationship. ... (read in full...)
I need some courage to leave my cheating boyfriend but I don't want to hurt him! Help!
Q. I'm in a bit of a pickle, me and my boyfriend have been together for four years, we have a one year old son together. Two months after I had my son I found out that the previous year that he had been cheating on me for a month with a friend of mine ...
A. 10 May 2013: FYI, your friend isn't really your friend. I wouldn't believe two words she said... That's not to say he didn't do it, but I wouldn't base everything on her being honest.
Second, guys lie. She probably wanted him to say things like that to make ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about oral sex unprotected from 4 years ago?
Q. I am here to ask about the effectivenes of HIV home test such as OraQuick, as well as the rist of Oral sex when it comes to HIV. The reason why I am asking is because I literally just took one OraQuick test, followed the instructions to the T and ...
A. 10 May 2013: My opinion is that you're suffering from obsessive compulsive disorder and need to stop worrying.
BTW the real reason to worry about unprotected oral is herpes, not HIV. ... (read in full...)
We are never intimate and now she doesn't seem to care as much about me, is she dating someone else?
Q. Hi thanks to you all for answers to my questions thus far. i'm a guy of 26 plus and my girlfriend is 22 plus she work as a secretary we have been dating getting to 4yrs. now we both love each other we've not had sex, romance or kiss even when she ...
A. 10 May 2013: Well to be honest with you, intimacy is a critical part of a healthy relationship. Since your relationship is long term but completely lacked intimacy it wouldn't surprise me if she has lost interest. It doesn't mean she's with anyone else, she just ... (read in full...)
Is he just leading me on to use me?
Q. am a 20 yr old girl,i met this guy over a dating site he is 30years old,ok we did the obvious that is exchanged phone no.s and started chatting thro the phone he was like, he liked me and i liked him to that was after a month of talking through ...
A. 10 May 2013: You're using each other. That seems pretty obvious. A friend with benefit relationship doesn't always last for very long because there is no commitment. ... (read in full...)
He says I don't turn him on sexually. Porn is his preference. Do I stay for the sake of our children or leave?
Q. Hey everyone. Am depressed need your advice. I am mother of twins they are only 3 years. My husband of 4 years has told me we should split up in several occassions. I have found him on dating sites twice and everytime he diactivate the a...
A. 10 May 2013: Staying in a miserable relationship for the kids doesn't do them any favors. I was afraid of marriage for years because my parents had a volatile relationship.
If he makes sufficient money then he can pay sufficient child support. I don't th... (read in full...)
How do you KNOW whether to stick with a relationship or simply admit defeat?
Q. How do you KNOW when the time is right to end a relationship? I've asked friends and the most common response I have received is that "you just know". I don't see how this is the case. I have been in a relationship for little over a year, but I fe...
A. 9 May 2013: It sounds to me like you DO know. At a year you shouldn't be feeling this way if it was meant to be. ... (read in full...)
My friends were pushing me so they could upset me and it worked.....was it really a joke?
Q. I had two friends. Il call them friend A and B. We have been friends for 5years since grade 7 (now in grade11). Well, we had conflicts here and there but they never lasted this long. Unfortunately, something unexpected happened the day before ...
A. 9 May 2013: With friends like that you don't need enemies.
Don't worry and wonder about what people like that do. Just be a good person and have enough strength to leave people when you realize they aren't right for you. ... (read in full...)
How do you KNOW whether to stick with a relationship or simply admit defeat?
Q. How do you KNOW when the time is right to end a relationship? I've asked friends and the most common response I have received is that "you just know". I don't see how this is the case. I have been in a relationship for little over a year, but I fe...
A. 7 May 2013: That's a hard one... I'd say there are certain differences and things that can make it easy to know, but in your situation it can be difficult.
I'd say it depends on what your issue is with her. Some things can change, so to throw away a great pe... (read in full...)
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