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What I've learned from my family.
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How one person changed my life
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8 June 2010: I've been an aunt on this site now for quite a while, at first I started as an anonymous, until I finally took the step to make an account and dare to be identified somewhat. As I've gotten to know a few people on here, albeit still strangers ...
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GF doesn't like her engagement ring, what do I do?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend who said yes. Our wedding is in March and she just finally told me that she doesn't like her ring because people don't know it's an engagement ring when they see it and it won't match her dress and clothes. It's ...
A. 23 October 2012: I am sorry to hear that she turned out to be this way. The only consolaton is that it is good you discovered who she truly is before you married her. Now you got a better picture of her personality, and can make a more informed decision on what to ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 20 October 2012: There's no need to wait until after high school. You can search out therapists right now, no need to wait. You could for example ask your doctor, or if you have a school nurse/counsellor then talk to them about it. Waiting lists can be long, at ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 19 October 2012: Oh, I didn't mean that you are making people feel bad now. But you would make a girlfriend feel bad about herself if you were in a relationship with her while at the same time rejecting her. It can't work. If you're in a relationship you need to ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 19 October 2012: 3. Are these thoughts wrong or mean like some people seem to think?
Morally, yes, they are wrong. Jealousy is a negative feeling. Negativity breeds negativity. That means, if you are jealous in a relationship then you will ruin that relation... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 18 October 2012: Oh, and to calm you down a bit, remember what I wrote earlier. Women in general aren't really that into casual sex. Casual sex is a guy thing, or for a few women out there. Most women I know of only want sex in relationships, and have long lasting ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 18 October 2012: " She tried comforting me and telling me how she wish she waited and how special i was and how i made her feel better than he did but honestly that just made it worse for me so i ended up telling her we shouldn't talk anymore because she deserved ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 17 October 2012: " trust me there are not many virgins (at least that i speak too"
Most virgins, or even non-virgins, would think of this as too private to talk to you about. We had a small conversation about that one earlier. People lie to you, people hint at ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 17 October 2012: OP, like Cindy said: you haven't waited for "so long". I know that at your age time seems to go veeery slowly. It seems like forever until you are 18, it seems like forever until you are 20. But from 20 years and up time starts to fly more normally. ... (read in full...)
GF doesn't like her engagement ring, what do I do?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend who said yes. Our wedding is in March and she just finally told me that she doesn't like her ring because people don't know it's an engagement ring when they see it and it won't match her dress and clothes. It's ...
A. 17 October 2012: Your girlfriend is too affected by her surroundings. If OTHERS aren't happy with her ring then she isn't happy with it. OTHERS don't think it's an engagement ring, and that is why she is bothered... It's so childish, really. What matters is that SHE ... (read in full...)
He's perfect -- except that we can't have kids
Q. Ok - I have a slight issue... lol I really like older men - like REALLY like them. 3 previous relationships have always had a 20 year age gap. Is this normal?? Now I've started seeing a guy who is early 40's and he's everything I am looking...
A. 16 October 2012: There is a big difference between not wanting children right now, and not wanting them EVER. You say you don't want them now, but you are unsure if you'll never want them. Keep that in mind.. you aren't sure yet. So don't make any big decisions ... (read in full...)
We've been fighting and he's texting someone late at night. Plus he says we're "on a break'. Should we stay together?
Q. My boyfriend and I are on a break. However we are still living together, it's awkward. We have been fighting a lot, especially in the last few months, and we have only been together for 8 months, living together for 6. Tensions were high and I ...
A. 16 October 2012: On a break = we broke up, but aren't going to admit it just yet. When he's on a break he's hooking up with other women. That's what a "break" means. It means he not longer has to be faithful to you, but get to try out other women, and then ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 16 October 2012: "And last question, should i go out and have casual sex just to have those experiences like everyone else or is that the wrong decision?"
Wrong decision. "Everyone else" aren't out having casual sex. You think they do, but that is because you choo... (read in full...)
Why do men never EVER approach me?
Q. I feel embarassed just typing this, but well... I am nineteen year old, college student, I am extremely outgoing, I have a lot of friends and I am quite popular with them. I am tomboyish as in "loving sports, fights and cars" but you wouldn't...
A. 16 October 2012: Here's the secret. Men NEVER approach a woman first. Never. If they do it is extremely rare, or they are extremely drunk, or extremely rude. Nice, mature, polite men do not approach a woman.
And right now you're thinking WTF I am sure. And guys... (read in full...)
GF doesn't like her engagement ring, what do I do?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend who said yes. Our wedding is in March and she just finally told me that she doesn't like her ring because people don't know it's an engagement ring when they see it and it won't match her dress and clothes. It's ...
A. 16 October 2012: I suggest you say "Okay honey. If you do not like the ring I got you, you are free to sell it and buy yourself a new one".
I don't think she'll actually dare do it. And I think, if she changes the stone, she will regret it later on.
Then ag... (read in full...)
How do I get my friends and family to see that the relationship I have with younger girl friend is real and that she's not a gold digger?
Q. How do I get my friedns and family to see that the relationship I have with younger girl friend is real? I am 39 and a very successful business man. After breaking off my long time relationship with my ex I started dating a much younger 22 yr ol...
A. 16 October 2012: "Any time I buy her anything or we go on a getaway my sisters will make comments on how she is a gold digger."
How about you reply "Tara is actually treating me to it"? Or, stand your ground and say to whomever comments "Actually, that is very rud... (read in full...)
I don't think we can have vaginal intercourse because of my yeast infection, what else can we do?
Q. I got a yeast infection and im doing treatments and it is helping very well. My fiance and i are spending friday together. Im meeting his parents and then to his place for one on one time. Im concerned because i read the back of my box to see if we ...
A. 15 October 2012: Handjobs, unless you're too uncomfortable? Make-out sessions? Touching and playing with other parts of eacho thers bodies, you have breasts, hands, butt cheeks. You can rub up against each other without intercourse, that can be veeery erotic and ... (read in full...)
When I use toys sometimes I bleed. Can this cause future problems?
Q. Hey well when i use toys roughly some times i start to bleed im just worried this wont make it so i cant have kids in the future will it? thank you...
A. 15 October 2012: No, the use of toys wil not impact your fertility.
You probably are too rough with the toys, and then not lubricated enough, so you scratch your skin. Unless you're bleeding internally then no worries. But if you're starting to bleed internal... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my new neighbour, but I've been in a FWB with my other neighbour for 2 months. How should I play this?
Q. I moved into my apartment building 2 months ago and met my neighbor shortly after the move in. We hit it off right away. We have been hooking up for about a month and a half. It is weird because its like we are in a relationship but we are not.. ...
A. 15 October 2012: Oh please, this girl shouldn't even be in your room in the morning! You slept with her again, didn1t you? Otherwise how could she have been there to make you breakfast in bed?
She wants to be your girlfriend. FWB don't go on birth control pills. T... (read in full...)
Still a virgin. Is this normal? It’s not sex that I’m looking for, just some companionship
Q. Hey guys, I have a question regarding virginity. I know is a question that’s probably asked a lot, but I wanna know if what I’m feeling is stupid or normal. I’ve just turned 20 and I’m still a virgin. I’ve never been kissed, never had any interest...
A. 14 October 2012: " He said it doesn’t matter that I am, and that life is saving that perfect girl for me..."
I agree with your room-mate. Why so negative? Your problem right now is that you don't like yourself. My bet is that you probably have tons of women ar... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 14 October 2012: If the person you are with is the right one, and not just using you, or has no feelings for you.. then you will be special.
If the person is just using you for sex, or have no feelings for you, you will not be special, even if it is their fi... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my size ...
Q. The same old question... I'm a 23 year old male, and I'm caught up in some worries about my penis size. It's 5.3 inches long, and about 5.5 inches in girth. Anyway, I know it's scientifically regarded as average, somewhat under for leng...
A. 14 October 2012: "Anyway, I know it's scientifically regarded as average, somewhat under for length, somewhat over for girth, so I guess it sort of balances out."
No... the average isn't 5.5 inches. The average is between 3.9-7.9 inches. 5.5 is just an average ... (read in full...)
Will I be short forever? I'm 18 now.
Q. As a child I was always taller than normal. As a baby I was born taller than average. I was almost 2 feet long when i was born. At age 8,i was 5'3. But at age 12,I stopped growing and,I've been the same height ever since (5'7). At age 18,is...
A. 14 October 2012: You probably wont grow to twice your height in the next few years, but it is very likely that you will grow a few cm more, yes. My boyfriend was shorter than me until he reached.. well, about 21-22 years of age. He grew from he was 18 and to then as ... (read in full...)
If I marry her will I have to help out her family too?
Q. i have a Filipino girlfriend who's about 13 years younger here in the US. very worried about if i marry her , will her family also expect me to help them out financially? I've read thing that Filipino love to "show off" material things and such. a...
A. 14 October 2012: You need to ask your girlfriend this, and learn more about her culture from HER, and not from reputation. She is the only person who can tell you what is the norm for her family and for herself. ... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to masturbate?
Q. So, i'm 16 years old and i'm basically wondering if you think msterbating is a sin or a bad thing. Even though i don't go to church i still want to be a really good person and not do anything that's considered a sin. Whenever i look this question ...
A. 14 October 2012: It used to be classified as a sin, but sex in general used to be sinful. There are still laws in Massachusetts against sex in any other position than missionary position. These laws are not being followed up on, in these modern times, but they ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to stop worrying over someone's sexual past?
Q. Okay so for those of you who are going to say "get over it" or "the past is the past" please dont bother. For the rest of you here is the problem. I am a virgin, i have only ever kissed(by kissed i mean a peck that lasted 1 second) a girl before, ...
A. 13 October 2012: My guess is that you haven't been in love with any of these girls. If you're not in love then it is easy to be picky about "small tuff". But once you're in love you'll be willing to ignore mountains of trouble... The best thing of course is to ... (read in full...)
Once people change do they ever change back?
Q. When someone changes, do they ever change back? I ask because I was extremely good friends with a guy. He was a strict christain, he cared for and helped people, and he had strict value against no sex unless you're contemplating marriage. It was...
A. 13 October 2012: People need to make their own mistakes. I think for now your best move is to distance yourself from him. Be there for him IF he changes back. As long as he acts like this maybe just keep your distance from him. It isn't worth the bother, he wont ... (read in full...)
Is it too early to do this? Should I allow this boy to come into my tent while we are camping and share my sleeping bag?
Q. I'm 14 (girl) I have been talking to this guy that I met the other day, we have been sending hearts. He's coming camping with me and one of my friends and one of his. He wants to if he can sleep in the swag (sleeping bag) with me, is it to early fo...
A. 13 October 2012: He wants sex with you. Is it too early you think? I would say so yes, unless you want to be known as "easy". ... (read in full...)
There are decent guys like me who get no where. Why do some girls allow guys to treat them in disrespectful ways?
Q. My friends are always giving me a hard time calling me nasty names because they say I treat girls "too nice". At first I use to brush it off but now it is getting really old hearing them go on and on about how I better check to see if I still ah...
A. 13 October 2012: "There are decent guys like me who get no where. Why do some girls allow guys to treat them in disrespectful ways?"
Why are decent guys like you going after women who have no clue what they want, don't have self respect, and are likely mistreat... (read in full...)
Can someone please tell me what 'treating a girl like a Princess' is all about?
Q. what is all the stuff about boyfrinds treating their girlfriends like a princess about Sorry I am clueless about this. How is this done? What do I do? why is it required?...
A. 13 October 2012: It's not required, but it works if you want to charm her and make her stay in a relationship. Although each to their own, different women prefer different things. Personally I'd rather be treated like a queen, but same difference I guess.
It ju... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend keeps texting me for sex!
Q. My ex boyfriend got dumped by his girlfriend now he keeps texting me asking for sex and it is really annoying me and my boyfriend now! I am ignoring him but he just isn't getting the picture, if I don't reply he gets a little abusive in the text...
A. 13 October 2012: Well, save his number then... can't be that difficult. ... (read in full...)
I'm also jealous of their success with women. So can going to a strip club improve things?
Q. My friends and I are in college and just finished a string of exams. They want to celebrate by going to a strip club, everyone needs a first time. I'm conflicted because I don't know what to do. I have low confidence and am starting to believe I...
A. 12 October 2012: First off, you're way too young to think you can "never" get female attention or find love again. And close to 100% of all teenagers over-dramatize everything. They all think they will "never" find someone, and whoopdidoo, they end up happily in ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend keeps texting me for sex!
Q. My ex boyfriend got dumped by his girlfriend now he keeps texting me asking for sex and it is really annoying me and my boyfriend now! I am ignoring him but he just isn't getting the picture, if I don't reply he gets a little abusive in the text...
A. 12 October 2012: "Leave the the hell alone"
It's also possible to block his phone number you know. Play around with your phone until you figure it out, or call tech support.
If that doesn't work, make your boyfriend call him and that ought to scare him away. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to resign yourself to a life without love?
Q. I just want to say this and get it off my chest really. Comment if you wish. I'm getting on for fifty, and have been married for twenty years, most of them unhappily. My wife suffered from serious post-partum depression after our children were bor...
A. 12 October 2012: "I can't tell her that I love her because that would spoil the relationship we have"
Love can come in many forms and ways. Maybe you could tell her that you love her as a friend? Be careful about thinking you love her romantically. You have gon... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got his roommate pregnant with twins. We have a child together. What should I do?
Q. Please help me I just found out about my boyfriend, who lives in another house, got his roommate pregnant 7 months ago. She now had twins but she's not out of the hospital yet. I found out about it today I have never liked her. the first time I...
A. 12 October 2012: "i don't want my daughter to suffer be cause of this woman who can't get a life but thrills on making everyone else miserable" Your daughter wont suffer from this woman.. Your daughter will suffer from her mom desperately trying to keep this dru... (read in full...)
25 and never had an orgasm! Help!
Q. Hi I am 25yrs of age and has never had an orgasm.I've been with my boyfriend for 6yrs now and I'm clueless as to how to make it happen. Please I need some help cause my sex life is falling apart?...
A. 12 October 2012: Do you have a vibrator? Do you have sexual fantasies? It's time you start practicing. If you don't want to go for a vibrator, try a hand held shower. Breathing techinques also work. But in my experience, you just really need to focus on the one ... (read in full...)
I'm 29 and never had sex but should I do it now with my B/f?
Q. Hi So this is a little embarassing for me. Im 29 and Iv never had sex. Iv been with my boyfriend 3 and a half years and hes waiting for me. I know he really wants to do it (as he has before many times before me) Also he has said to me he really n...
A. 12 October 2012: Alternatively, why don't you tell him you would rather be married before having sex? Saves you all the worry about becoming pregnant outside of wedlock. ... (read in full...)
I'm 29 and never had sex but should I do it now with my B/f?
Q. Hi So this is a little embarassing for me. Im 29 and Iv never had sex. Iv been with my boyfriend 3 and a half years and hes waiting for me. I know he really wants to do it (as he has before many times before me) Also he has said to me he really n...
A. 12 October 2012: "Also he has said to me he really needs to do it to feel closer to me and wants me to take a chance on him. "
When you have sex with someone you love it isn't "just sex". It is love making. It brings you closer, it makes your relationship more int... (read in full...)
How can I put myself out there to find myself a lovely and really great wife ??
Q. Hopefully this isn't too small of a matter to bother you with but regadless if it is well or poorly placed, I have confidence that I could get a relationship started fairly quickly if I could find my girlfriend and hopefully wife but I'm not ...
A. 12 October 2012: "I wouldn't throw away a woman who had extra-relational sex in the past, I'm just a monogamous man myself"
If this means that you don't want to date cheaters, I am backing you up. Do not date cheaters. It is a red flag.
Other than that... you... (read in full...)
Is there any way to confirm when I'll be ready for sex? I'm feeling better about it but I am still unsure.
Q. So I was talking to my friend yesterday about relationships and sex. She's done more stuff with her boyfriend than me, but like she totally understands how I feel. She told me to just have fun and if you trust the person you're with, that I've noth...
A. 11 October 2012: Maybe it helps if I tell you what I was thinking right before I had sex for the first time : "I really want to have sex". I went to the lenghts of seducing a friend of mine, without even liking him that way. I just wanted sex. That's what I was ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got his roommate pregnant with twins. We have a child together. What should I do?
Q. Please help me I just found out about my boyfriend, who lives in another house, got his roommate pregnant 7 months ago. She now had twins but she's not out of the hospital yet. I found out about it today I have never liked her. the first time I...
A. 11 October 2012: 7 months and she already gave birth? So... premature then I assume, and with a low chance of making it? You have so little information about this that I am unsure if your boyfriend, or whomever it is that is informing you, has given you correct ... (read in full...)
Why do I shake when near climaxing? I'm embarrassed. Is it normal?
Q. So when and my boyfriend are doing foreplay I obviously get turned up to the point of climaxing and when I know I'm nearing that I get him to stop. I do this because I tend to shake when I do. I'm worried that he'll find it weird which is why I st...
A. 11 October 2012: How can you have sex with him if you can't talk to him about sex? Tell him what's going on, that you're closing in on an orgasm, and that you're embarrassed because you shake.
Although, what exactly do you think is embarrassing? Unless you're f... (read in full...)
Is there any way to confirm when I'll be ready for sex? I'm feeling better about it but I am still unsure.
Q. So I was talking to my friend yesterday about relationships and sex. She's done more stuff with her boyfriend than me, but like she totally understands how I feel. She told me to just have fun and if you trust the person you're with, that I've noth...
A. 11 October 2012: "I do trust my boyfriend a lot, and I want him to be happy in every means possible."
If you're thinking he needs sex to be happy then you're misguided. Boys don't need sex to be happy any more than girls do. You'll not make him unhappy by not havi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend moving away - again!
Q. I need advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and recently he got a job 2 hrs away from the city. He asked me to move with him and it was lucky enough that I could transfer offices. So I've been living in a new town for 2 months with ...
A. 11 October 2012: Woah! That's incredibly selfish of him! Did he not even discuss with you the possibility of him moving back to the city? Did he even discuss with you that he was looking into accepting a job back in the city, and if so why he was looking into that? ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my new neighbour, but I've been in a FWB with my other neighbour for 2 months. How should I play this?
Q. I moved into my apartment building 2 months ago and met my neighbor shortly after the move in. We hit it off right away. We have been hooking up for about a month and a half. It is weird because its like we are in a relationship but we are not.. ...
A. 11 October 2012: What you need to do is cut the intimate connection with the first girl (you said you haven't met up with her lately, but you need to make it clear you wont be hooking up with her again). You're not interested in her that way, and if you keep her ... (read in full...)
This is affecting my relationship. When I'm alone I've been feeling really guilty. Why does this happen considering I've never cheated on him?
Q. So lately I've been feeling really guilty and it's not all the time. It's just when I'm alone. Which is becoming much more frequent. I haven't cheated and I haven't even flirted with anyone. I'm not even sure if I would feel confident flirting any...
A. 11 October 2012: "He recently bought me a promise ring (only because i told him I thought they were cute, and after the fight of him calling them stupid and me getting offended) he came in and bought me whatever ring I wanted. But I don't know if he did that because ... (read in full...)
When do girls get past this immature rubbish?
Q. Easy one, when do girls start to mature and stop messing nice guys like me around? I only ever seem to get "friendzoned" or they lead me on for a few weeks then have the whole "im a screw up, you deserve better" talk....seriously, it's ridiculous ...
A. 10 October 2012: "I don't just rush into relationships"
Is it possible that you're too slow? You're not rushing into relationships, but are you at all entering any relationships? I know the turtle won the race, but in the game of finding a girlfriend (or for wome... (read in full...)
When do girls get past this immature rubbish?
Q. Easy one, when do girls start to mature and stop messing nice guys like me around? I only ever seem to get "friendzoned" or they lead me on for a few weeks then have the whole "im a screw up, you deserve better" talk....seriously, it's ridiculous ...
A. 10 October 2012: I've come to the conclusion that men aren't mature until past 25 years of age. And they say women mature faster than men, so I will place my bet at 23 years of age for women.
Tough luck, you've still got some years ahead of you with meeting ... (read in full...)
Lost my ex husband as a friend when he found someone else. What can I do to get the friendship back?
Q. My ex husband and I were very close like best friends. He did a lot for me and loved and understood me deeply and unconditionally and was always happy for me. We had an open relationship which got messy and he fell in love with another girl. We had ...
A. 10 October 2012: Don't mean to burst your bubble, but he can't have loved you so much at the end of your marriage if he fell in love with someone else. Maybe you have a different understanding of love than I have, but still. I think maybe you are holding on to how ... (read in full...)
Should I date this guy with no job and who didn't go to college? I like him!
Q. Hey guys,I've been friends with this dude since early this year.(March to be precise).Well, we exchanged numbers and really hit it off.Lately we've been spending lots of time together and i really like him and he feels the same way too.Thing is he ...
A. 10 October 2012: Cerberus I have no idea what you're on about. I've never mentioned money as an argument. This isn't about money. He can be broke all he wants. The question is that he is unemployed. Not broke. The problem is if a man is not taking care of himself, ... (read in full...)
Should I date this guy with no job and who didn't go to college? I like him!
Q. Hey guys,I've been friends with this dude since early this year.(March to be precise).Well, we exchanged numbers and really hit it off.Lately we've been spending lots of time together and i really like him and he feels the same way too.Thing is he ...
A. 10 October 2012:
It's not about wanting the man to take care of women. But the man needs to be able to take care of himself... Otherwise is is nothing but a boy, and women do not date boys. Women date men.
... (read in full...)
Should I date this guy with no job and who didn't go to college? I like him!
Q. Hey guys,I've been friends with this dude since early this year.(March to be precise).Well, we exchanged numbers and really hit it off.Lately we've been spending lots of time together and i really like him and he feels the same way too.Thing is he ...
A. 10 October 2012: How does he pay for food? How does he pay for roof over his head?
There are things you should wath out for, and that is how a man treats his nearest family and friends. And how he manages himself in life. If he is taking advantage of his family t... (read in full...)
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