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writes:Hi I'm 14 years old...ever since this school year started i met my social studies teacher, and I'm heavily in love with him. I totally understand this is wrong and those of you who think so i won't listen to you so don't bother. Anyway he always stares me down, jumps when i drop something and always stands by me. The other day we were in the classroom alone, I wanted to kiss him so Badly DX but I chickened out...also he favors me.Every time he sees me he makes sure he says hi. I dream about him every night and I know more about him than most...only because we talk. I want to be more faster but I don't know how!!! ( Only if your going to help me with what "I" want than please do! other wise leave me alone thanks) ^.^ I would totally appreciate your help...and fast thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2012): How about you wait till you're 18 and no longer a student at that school. Then go ahead, seduce away.
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (7 January 2012):
Read this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/crushes-on-teachers.html
Lot's of helpful and insightful info right there.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 January 2012):
so you WANT to be selfish and childish?
i don't think you need any help there... you are doing fine all by yourself.
Listen honey a grown WOMAN would know how to entice a man
once you know... do it... then you are ready.
not before.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 So, you want us to teach you how to get this poor guy in trouble and make him loose his job and end up in jail ?...Why should we. He has done nothing bad to us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2012): A teacher student thing isn't going to work, sweetie.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 I know you want us to tell you how to seduce your teacher, but unfortunately we are unable to give advice on this site that would incude an illegal act. So dont come asking for advice on how to break the law - no-one is allowed to give out that kind of advice here.
Please stop and think for a second - you say you love this man, so if you really love him then do you want to hurt him beyond repair? If a teacher has an affair with a student, even a simple kiss or inappropriate affection is deemed as criminal activity. He will be caught at some point, it wont be kept secret believe me - so then he will first of all lose his job (this is an immediate dismissal), followed by a court case with the charges of something like pedophila, sex with a minor...etc. Then he will be found guilty, and get sentenced to a very long time in prison. Once he comes out of prison he will be on the sex offenders register which he will have to declare whenever he tries to get a job - and no-one will employ him because of this offence. So he will have no job, a criminal record, chances are his family and friends will disown him.....is this really what you want for him?
If you truly love someone you will want them to be happy, and that will be more important than your own happiness. So you have a choice - be selfish and ruin his life by carrying on like this, or take a step back, be mature and leave him alone. Let him carry on with his life and be happy.
Your crush will pass in time, yes the feelings you have are strong now and it will be hard to control it. But for his sake you have to, you simply cant kiss him or go ahead with this because he would lose everything.
I hope you stop to think and read the advice you have been given, I know it isnt what you want to hear but you are looking at this from your point of view and forgetting about him completely in this picture.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 What you need to be told is not what you want to hear,but here goes; "You're 14, get a grip! life is too short to be trying to do any kind of fast-forward to adulthood, relax and enjoy youth. You will only be young once, live every minute of it as a youth. By the time you're my age you'll wonder what the hell happened
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX +, writes (6 January 2012):
 I can speak from experience here~ I've had about 9 teacher crushes varying from when i was 11 till about 17 and these have also varied in intensity; some were a simple "oh, he's cute" type ones and some where more like "i love their personalitly so much and we get on so well". You can't have a relationship with him whilst you are at school, no matter how much you want it to happen. If you still feel the same way when you leave the school permantly, then you could consider telling him if he was single~ but don't expect him to reciprocate the feelings.- when i was 16 i confessed to a female teacher in her mid 40's who i can honestly say was my first love(i'd loved her for 2 years). At the time i thought it could really happen, and she'd given me litle signs like your teacher that she could maybe like me back. When i told her she said that she was flattered but couldn't return the feelings due to the fact that she had been my teacher and even if i was 40 it wouldn't have made a difference. Because I truely loved her, i let her go after that and now just hope that wherever she is she is happy and if its meant to be in the future, then it'll happen :)If you are "heavily in love with him" then you wouldn't simply decide to kiss him as a spur of the moment type thing as that is just selfish. You'd also make things awkward between you both and he'd have to report it. You may get transferred into a different class which surely you wouldn't like? Or if he did act on it, then he would be behing bars where you also couldn't see him. Just try to work hard in your lessons and impress him with your grades~ that will make him like you a lot more ^^
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