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writes:So I been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs. At first he was so sweet with me but then a year later everything started, on a sunday we were suppost to go out so I kept calling him and a girl answers me and says she is his girlfriend that they were at a motel and that she is shure he wont call me again, but 3 hours later he calls me saying he was sorry but like he didn't mean it so I broke up with him but sadly went back with him in 2 weeks! He is also my first one so I thought maybe because of that I keep going back with him the reason I say keep going back with him is because it didnt stop there he did it again! So I moved in with him 2 yrs ago and I can say our relationship is a little better. at first he use to slap me alot and me call out of my name, he was never happy he treated me like crap so now when we fight he does still slap me n calls me out of my name but he ends up crying saying he is sorry! I left everything for him! Im so hurt now that I found out he has been getting in chat lines and he denies it all the time when I show him his profile infront him! He says sorry n that he loves me and there I go, I have tried to leave him but I always come back! I use to cry everytime I would find out but now I just get upset and just tell him I knw what he is doing. We do have our happy moments to when we go eat have, our movie night and all that! But he still does wrong things behind my back, he still calls me names and slaps me when ever we have huge fights. I just dnt knw wat to do I want to leave him even though I can't! Help!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 If you have no self respect at all then hang in there until it gets violent and he begins to really treat you badly. But if you have an ounce of self rspect then pack up and move on.anyone that treats you like you say does not deserve you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2012): "I just dnt knw wat to do I want to leave him even though I can't!"
Sorry OP, but leaving him is what you have to so and you say you can't, so sorry but there's nothing you can do but stay with him and suffer.
For 3 years he's been beating you and you just stay with him, I have no sympathy OP, you shouldn't be in that situation but you won't leave, so there you go. Hopefully someday you'll do what you need to do, but until then there is nothing anyone else can do for you.
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