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Fourteen and I haven't a clue on how to tell my parents: 'I'm pregnant'

Q.   I have a major problem... I'm pregnant. i know I'm totally under aged being on 14 but i don't know what to do about it... i don't want to get an abortion because - no offense towards anyone- i don't agree in them and think that's wrong. I think i...

A.   30 December 2010: Good luck. I'm glad you've got the confidence and some support, now. Let us know how it goes... :) -N&P... (read in full...)

What can I do to keep a girlfriend happy?

Q.   i have a girlfriend and am scared that she may not want to go ahead in this relationship, so i want to keep her happy what can i do to keep my girlfriend happy? ...

A.   27 December 2010: These people are right, you should be yourself firstly. But kind gestures here and there, fun dates, sweet little gifts, romanticisms, letting her in general know you care about her are all classic woo- ing techniques that usually win favour a... (read in full...)

Is my Fetish too Weird?

Q.   this may seem weird but i'm 20 and a virgin. When i masturbate i like to wear girls panties. Is this a really weird thing to do? should i be really embarrased by this and learn to stop doing it?...

A.   27 December 2010: It's not weird. Lots of people share this same fetish!! You aren't being a transvestite, but it would be fine if you were. Look up an Eddie Izzard fansite, or a hair metal site, or a.. I dunno... male danseur or figure skater site and see how many ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend called me fat and that is destroying our relationship

Q.   Hi everyone. This is my situation... I've been dating this guy 'L' for almost 10 months, we've been friends for two years and I'm very in love with him. He says he loves me and I believe it because he has proven me he does love me. Our relation...

A.   27 December 2010: People can be a bit thick- headed and lack social delicacy. He was being honest. Very bluntly so... he of course should have considered your feeling before commenting... perhaps you could tell us more about the context in which he said it and his ... (read in full...)

He talks about sex all day but just goes to sleep when the lights are out.

Q.   My bf talks about having sex with me all day but when it's lights out he just falls asleep. Why?...

A.   27 December 2010: He's tired. Most likely, from the information you give. Have you heard the song Afternoon Delight...... (read in full...)

Is it risky of me to do this no contact for a month knowing I want my BF and the relationship back?

Q.   ok so ive been with my bf for 4 years he cheated..he confessed it and told me that it made him realize how much me and the relationship meant to him and he was willing to prove to me how much he wanted this relationship and to earn my ...

A.   27 December 2010: Did you specify "one month"? If so, it might be better to hold out to what you said.. I know when my stepdad doesn't hold on to his original commands, my little sister walks all over him to get her way.. she's been trained to know he'll give in even... (read in full...)

It just disgusts, saddens, and makes me depressed everytime I think about my girlfriend's past

Q.   So this is kind of a interesting situation. My girlfriend is 16 years old, and I am 18 years old. We have been in a steady relationship for about a year now. I have been having problems getting over her past. At one time, she got mixed into the w...

A.   27 December 2010: The only thing I can say is that... the past is past. The state of being addicted to drugs makes a person desperate in a way and completely changes characters. She isn't the same person now, period. She wasn't the person before the drugs. They ... (read in full...)

How do I tell him I'm not ready?

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months. we are both 15. he says that i have changed his life because i make him so happy and i am amazing to him. he also makes me happy and i am in love with him. recently he fingered me, and i wasn't ...

A.   27 December 2010: First of all, a guy who breaks up with you at your stage in life for being uncomfortable physically with him is being a jerk and not worth any of your time. He's looking for one thing and will get it from someone else. Secondly, DON'T become s... (read in full...)

Fourteen and I haven't a clue on how to tell my parents: 'I'm pregnant'

Q.   I have a major problem... I'm pregnant. i know I'm totally under aged being on 14 but i don't know what to do about it... i don't want to get an abortion because - no offense towards anyone- i don't agree in them and think that's wrong. I think i...

A.   27 December 2010: Just break it. If you are mature and responsible enough to have and raise a child, you are mature and responsible enough to be able to come out and reveal that fact to your parents. Think hard about keeping it. Consider all your options and reso... (read in full...)

Should I be concerned I keep dreaming about sex with my boy friend

Q.   Hello. I'm a 14 year old gir with a 13 year old boyfriend (he's turning 14 in 3 days). This is a bit awkward to say but I keep having dreams about us having sex. I don't know why! I don't want to have sex with him and I'm waiting to have sex until ...

A.   27 December 2010: Yes they are, and they are sign you are a properly functioning human. Enjoy! Don't rush things. If you are still of the social maturity level where you think it must be "discussed" or "proposed" first.. well, think about it. It's unromantic and ... (read in full...)

Am I dealing with a sociopath?

Q.   First, to anyone who may read this I hope your holidays are going great...also want to thank everyone who answered my question last week regarding the same person...it was very very helpful. My question now is am I dealing with a true sociopath...

A.   27 December 2010: It sounds like there's no reason for you to be in this relationship anymore. You feel that you give everything and receive nothing but cruelty back. You should get out! Sociopath or no, she is unfit to be in a loving relationship with you, and her ... (read in full...)

I feel crazy about her but I'm not sure if she feel the same...

Q.   Long distance relationship!!!!!!! I feel kind of silly using this page for this question but i really need some advice. im 18 years old from sweden and i went on a boat trip to estonia and i meet this very beutiful and nice girl that was ...

A.   26 December 2010: Of course, message her, keep getting to know her and letting her know you. You can keep it going, even though it's long- distance... letters, phonecalls, videochat, social networking sites, message- based sites of common interest, occasional ... (read in full...)

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