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*onelysurfer7
writes:I have been dating this girl for almost 9 months weve been off and on several times. In October she cheated on me at her birthday party and then lied about it till christmas. she says she loves me and that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me but she barely hangs out with me, barely texts me, and is barely intimate with me. Shes quite happy with everything because its everything she wants but im not. i love her more then anyone ever but i dont know what to do to be happy. i want to be happy but i want to be happy with her, what should i do?
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reader, lonelysurfer7 +, writes (20 February 2012):
lonelysurfer7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know i should break up with her i just dont know if i can. its hard when you truly love someone to end it. especially when youve put almost a years worth of effort into it
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 February 2012):
 sounds like it's pretty much over as it is... she's just going through to motions and is not as into you as you are to her.
I think for your own sake you should consider moving on.
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (17 February 2012):
Of course your`e not happy, you never will be happy with her, so that is not an option.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2012): you should break up with her, because she's showing very clearly that she's not into you at all. when she finds someone else she fancies who offers her a relationship (maybe the guy she cheated with didn't offer her a relationship), she'll probably dump you. why wait around for that?
have more self respect, by staying with someone who shows so little regard for you, you're putting yourself down.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (17 February 2012):
 You won't be happy with her and she has never made you happy. She is happy because she gets the best of both worlds: a carefree single life and a guy who loves her no matter what. She is only saying sweet things to you to keep you there as a security blanket. You have to love yourself too. What you should do is dump her and find a girl who loves you as much as you love her because loves shouldn't hurt on either sides.
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