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Why didn't he tell me about this close female friend of his? Why has he saved hundreds of emails? And why is he buying this woman gifts that I don't even know about?

Q.   I don't know if I'm overreacting or not... I hope someone can help me clear this up in my head. I have discovered that my husband of less than a year has a close female friend that until the other day, I did not know about. I found out when he left ...

A.   9 February 2013: You feel like he is cheating on you? HE IS cheating on you in one way or another. ... (read in full...)

She sends texts to her male workmate every day. Does it sound like I have a right to be discouraged and want to leave her? She dismisses my fears.

Q.   My wife and i have been married 5 years and for the past 2 years, she has been texting her workmate and calling him on a daily. We also live very close to her workplace and he takes her and picks her up. Ive spoken to my wife about my dislike...

A.   9 February 2013: I think both of them are making a mockery of you. I would find it very difficult not to confront him and demand he shows me the texts that she keeps deleting out of her phone. You are allowing them both to make a fool of you.... (read in full...)

Never violent, nor unfaithful. But we did horrible things to each other. Yet I love her still. How can I get over her?

Q.   I was with the most amazing woman in the world! The time we spent together was the most amazing time I have spent with anyone. We got each other on every level. Mentally and physically! When things were good they were the best they have ever bee...

A.   1 February 2013: Doing bad things to each other is not ideal in any relationship. How do you get over her? Remind yourself of all those bad things what caused you to break up. You broke up for a very good reason. Dont forget that.... (read in full...)

I can't provide the storybook life she wants.

Q.   Hey folks just wondering what everything thinks. myself and the other half have been together for four years and have spoken abt house, marrage etc. Everything is great but she is always trying to change the type of person i am and traites i.e s...

A.   27 January 2013: Whatever it is that you would like to change about her would probably fall on deaf hears anyway. She is too busy trying to change you. This will not stop and eventually you will not recognize yourself anymore. You will be merely her extension. Tell ... (read in full...)

Is looking at porn the morning after you've slept with your girlfriend, a bit odd and uncalled for?

Q.   Would anyone else agree with this? Looking at porn the morning after you've slept with your girlfriend is a bit odd and uncalled for? Why would they want to look at someone else that soon?...

A.   26 January 2013: He will have been looking in on the act, not looking at "other" females.... (read in full...)

How can I break up with my internet buddy? Shall I just tell him the truth, even if he thinks I used him?

Q.   Hi there, my problem is that I started internet dating and met this guy and slept with him on our first date because I wanted to show my ex-bf that I could and had moved on. This guy is nice but now he is still around, he told me he loves me and w...

A.   20 January 2013: It sounds like the nice guy has come last again. It is bound to upset him. Not because he loves you, but because he cannot get anyone else. That is why he used internet dating. Just dump him. He is using you just as much as you have used him. There ... (read in full...)

I want a relationship with trust and honesty!

Q.   I have caught my boyfriend on dating sites 5 times this year. He has promised to stop doing it from now on. He said that all the other times too. I find all i do lately is look for evidence of him doing it again. Just like i have done in the past ...

A.   27 December 2012: What you want, you will never get from him. Of course you should end it. You should have ended it the first time you caught him.... (read in full...)

She treats me like dirt? What can I do?

Q.   To everyone else we are perfect for each other. Photos of us together are all over her facebook. She`s forever announcing to the world how much in love she is, and she tells me that all the time. There`s also another side to this. Her secret d...

A.   23 December 2012: People like her can be possessive, jealous and demanding because they imagine everyone else is the same as them. She has been and always will be abusive. You need to break free of her.... (read in full...)

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