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writes:Kind of a weird one here.I work with this girl who I have liked for a while, 5 months ago we got drunk and kissed at a party and it didn't go so well in terms of trying to develop a relationship.I came across too serious and dramatic. So we didn't talk for ages in work etc. Between then and now we have both seen other people but a week ago I asked her out for drinks to 'break the ice' between us and it went very well. What I am having problems with however is that she during this night out she was telling me how she wasn't getting on with her boyfriend and intended to break up with him and since then I keep catching her looking at me.I asked her out for drinks again after she split with her boyfriend which she said yes to but I don't know whether she is interested in starting something between us again or if I am just over-thinking things. I do really like her and one of our other co-workers told me that now she is single I should maybe give her a text asking her out on a date but he then told me that she hadn't been talking to him about wanting to see each other. So I am unsure if that was a hint or whatever. Really confused and I do like her so I was wondering about your opinions on the matter would be.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 October 2013):
I think this could cause some confusion. If she has just broken up with her boyfriend, the last thing you want is to become a rebound. Personally, I would keep seeing her as a friend for a little longer, and maybe speak to her and see how she is, before asking her out on an actual date.
Best to give it a bit more time and just continue speaking to her for now.
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