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My vagina doesn't look so nice

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Question - (12 June 2014) 11 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Hey guys

I don't want him to see my vagina when i was younger i shaved it and i got shaving pimples and i got dark pimple spot and it doesn't look so nice ... what can i do ????

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A male reader, methuselah United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2014):

Hi,

I don't think this will be an issue. In all fairness, I couldn't describe my partner's simply because I don't focus on it in detail. Thanks.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (13 June 2014):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI will make the assumption that the area that has spots is your mons since a vagina is internal (i'm a stickler for knowing our own body parts)

and I'm with everyone else that he wont' notice and if he does notice he won't care.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy + , writes (13 June 2014):

CindyCares agony aunt Naaah, I am sure that there's nothing wrong with your vagina.

Why, do you think that is HE going to exhibit HIS organ at the Metropolitan Museum of Modern Art anytime soon, for the pleasure and betterment of the masses ? :) chances are, his ain't no artistic masterpiece either .

If you are really so worried about this that you are gonna freak out and loose sleep over it, then go see a dermatologist and let her "beautify" the problem area.

But, it would be even better if you just decided that this not an issue.

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A male reader, RevMick United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2014):

RevMick agony auntHi,

I agree that guy's don't care. He will be nervous that you won't like his penis.

What matters is how you both feel when both your bits are together, everything else goes out the window.

If you don't fancy waxing or plucking, when you shave just get some aftershave balm, or alternatively my partner uses aloe vera products and that takes the redness away.

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A female reader, llifton United States + , writes (13 June 2014):

llifton agony auntTrust me, he doesn't care. He really doesn't. He's attracted to you and all parts of you. He won't care about a few dark spots. Don't let it get in your head so much that you don't enjoy it the way you deserve to. Believe me, he won't be thinking about that. Neither should you.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2014):

petina1 agony auntTell him you shaved it. Some men like to hear those words! But also, seriously you will recover and don't shave again. Give yourself a trim in future and you can do your bikini line by plucking then use an antiseptic cream where you've plucked.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2014):

Do wax instead of shaving. I have tiny spot too. Believe me, guys don't care, all they care about is how to get in.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (13 June 2014):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntI assure you.... men do not spend even one IOTA of time LOOKING at your vagina. Their TOTAL focus is upon getting it uncovered, and getting to put their dickey in to it!!!!!

Not to worry. Good luck....

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A male reader, CMMP United States + , writes (13 June 2014):

Trust me he doesn't care, especially when his penis is out.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (12 June 2014):

Tisha-1 agony auntIt's my understanding that when a man who is attracted to a woman is in her presence while she is naked finds that all his blood leaves his brain and moves to another area. This leaves him incapable of critical thinking.

In other words, he's going to be too busy being turned on to notice some dark spots, especially when the sensations are so lovely. Relax.

Go see the chemist or a dermatologist and ask for ideas on how to exfoliate safely and use serum to even out the pigmentation. And stop shaving if it gives you pimples.

Don't let a few dark spots ruin a perfectly good relationship. Give him the dignity of allowing him to decide that he fancies you. I'll bet he'd be pretty annoyed to find that you think so little of him that a few dark spots would put him off.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway + , writes (12 June 2014):

chigirl agony auntGrow out your hair and he wont notice the dark spots?

Do you really think a guy cares? He doesn't. He's way too worried about whether or not you will think he's "small", he wont think about what you look like at all.

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