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*rokenheartedgurl17
writes:Hey aunts and uncles i guess i just really need your guys support on that im doing the right thing this is the worst i ever felt in my life... Heres my story i was with my bf for over a year we just broke up tonight we were on break prior to the break up though and made it clear no fooling around any ways im 17 and he is 19 at 16 i moved out of my parents house to be with him and there has been some really good moments but the bad started out weighing the good months into the relationship.I found out he was sexting other girls and getting and sending nudes still i kept given him chance after chance and I would say if you do it again im leaving you.Well he cheats on me again gets another girlfriend well hes still with me this happened back in may well i broke up with him like i said i would but we after all the crying was over we still acted like a couple and every thing was good.Intell a month ago i saw his message he sent his cousin (3rd cousin) like if we werent related i could treat you so could an was flirting with her an talkin a bit dirty i got upset about it an brought it up to him an he gets ^^^d off at me an thinks im crazy. well sunday night we went on a break but I made it clear no fooling around but during the break he said how much he missed me an didn't know what he had till it was gone so we were gonna work on things.But then i saw he headed a girl who looked pretty slutty on facebook an asked about an than i said if you have nothing to hide give me your password so i can see for myself (he allready knew mine) so he gave it to me there was only two messeges in inbox but under archived there was messeages of him trying to talk to girlsThat wasnt the big deal but than i read the message between him an his cousin and i guess they got drunk and were acting weird and she told him "sarah" knows so i message him saying tell the truth what does sarah an he said that we f*cking like each other and i hope your happy. i was going to try and work things out if you werent so jealous and clingy this wouldnt of happened and now were done. i dont know why but still after everything hes put me through i still love him but i cant keep getting hurt but this This is the hardest thing in my life we been through so much togather but i always make excuses for him cuz hes bipolar and was born with foetal alcohol syndrome and he never knew his dad so i feel bad for all the things he been through.i dont want to hurt him i just with this never happened and things would work out im scared though hes all i known for over a year we had plans togather is it really my fault will the pain ever go away? thank you so much for taking your time to even read this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2012): Go home baby..
He's using you and disrespecting you, that isn't love.. Sometimes young love does work out.. My husband and I are the proof but that doesn't always happen .. And certain this guy is not for you..
Go home and mend bridges if you were my daughter I'd just be so happy to have you back..
Look at going to college, focus on you and a food life ahead, and bare him no ill will but do not waste another moment on this young fool..
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2012): It's really a shame you had to leave your parents' house and home to be with someone before either of you were ready to nurture a relationship. Maybe you had your reasons for leaving and moving in with him. But you are still young. So go back to your family if possible. This isn't good for you, HE isn't good for you. With family and people who DO support you and CARE for you, you will surely find better chances of starting over, starting fresh and getting your life back on track.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 October 2012):
 Your fault was to up and leave your home at 16 to run after some kid you basically knew nothing about ( it's only one year NOW that you are together ) at an age when the average girl is not experienced, wise and mature enough to choose herself a nail polish, forget about a live in partner.
Well, no use cryng over spilt milk.
Forget about this promiscuous cheating brat, with whom you have no future, go back home and next time, think before you jump.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (6 October 2012):
 *YOU* need to grow some teeth.
Bipolar? IRRELEVANT.
Fetal Alcohol Syndrome? IRRELEVANT.
You need to drop him. He's cheating on you over and over and over again, and you have no future with him. Go back to your parents and finish your teenage years the way they're meant to be finished, and if you said horrible things to your parents when you moved out, time to patch things up with them.
This guy thinks nothing of hurting you, then blaming you. Every second you spend with him now flushes your dreams and your life down the toilet. It's only a matter of time now until you either get pregnant or pick up an STI from his reckless behavior OR he tells you he got another girl pregnant.
It's *HIS* fault, and he is emotionally abusing you. Stay broken up with him and do not see him under any circumstances. He is flat out awful.
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