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writes:This guy at school is being really nice to me, and I've started feeling things for him. He just naturally makes me brighter and I can't stop smiling around him. But, I'm not sure if he's just being nice or he's being flirty.A week ago, he went to our College to do work, from where he lives (quite far), because he thought a supply was left in class, and he started texting me when he realized it wasn't there. Since my my place isn't far, I went over there to drop it and do some work even though it was a Sunday. I helped him with his work and stuff and we played music while he was doing work, he was being really deep and telling me about how the music made him feel, then he got up and made me dance with him a little bit. After he finished working he invited me to eat because it was late and he knew I hadn't. He was acting like a gentleman all the way through (asking if I was cold/wanted his jacket etc). I got really nervous at some point and then he tried to reassure me saying he was nervous too, that it's not often he goes out to eat and made mention to the fact that he thought I was cute; therefore making him nervous.When I came home, I told my friend about it and he said that this guy had essentially tricked me into going on a date with him. He said that no guy would travel from so far away, only having intentions to do school work, that he had planned it all out. If that's true, is it any indication of something being there, in that case?Other things he does:- When texting, he uses the " ;) " face a lot.- Invited me to go to a Sexpo with him...that's not something you do with a female friend for fun randomly, right?- He told me about his other sex experiences and made mention he hadn't really talked to anyone about it before- I made a joke about hearing him orgasm and he said "you're not going to hear mine that easily", along with mentioning he didn't really remember much the about the people he had it with.- He always comes to me first (well he did before I started feeling for him, and engaging as well), just to say hi or start a conversation or poke me or something.I can't tell if he's just really nice and gentlemanly/playful.. I don't understand it that much? I want to tell him how I feel but I just don't want to approach him if he's just super nice and mess up a friendship..Does he like me, or is he just being nice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the responses, I apologize for the tardy reply. He confessed about a week later and we have been together since!
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (18 October 2012):
 I think he likes you for sure. I don't know if he tricked you into a date but I DO think he went out of his way to make it seem casual rather then a date - which means less pressure for the both of you.
I would just go slow and let he make the moves.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (18 October 2012):
 Hi
From what you've said, he likes you plus your friends are right.Let him make the moves and encourage him when he does.
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