I'm 15 and in love with my 33 year old teacher

A female age 30-35, *50194 writes:

Well I am 15 years old and am madly in love with my 33 year old teacher, and i know most of you will probably say it’s just a stupid crush, to stop being so stupid and move on, but honestly i know for sure it isn’t a stupid crush, and believe me i cant move on. I started to like him in September when i was moved into his class, and during that time, my feelings for him have got stronger, and now there so strong it feels unbearable. At first i was very shy, and wouldn’t really participate in class or whatever, then i finally got more confident and my grades improved a lot. He seems now to be the only one i constantly think about, and i miss him permently. He’s just the most caring and kind person, and makes me laugh. Sometimes i think he shows hints he likes me to for example me and my two friends were walking up the corridor, when he was walking down the corridor and towards us, at first he seemed to look at us and then he looked at me, then down at my legs then back at me and smiling cheekily. And it wasn’t just me who noticed this my friend did to. And the girls in my class tell me that they always catch him looking at me, one girl said he was helping her with her work, and he kept looking over my way. We seem to always be staring at each other, he always seems to get extremely close to me, and my friends say he definitely looks at me differently compared to other girls. I see my self getting very jealous when he helps other people out in class, i wish i didnt but i do, i just can’t help it anymore, i think he knows i fancy him because i do tend to stare without knowing and my friends have joked around about the fact i like him when he’s been there. They know i like him, but i dont think they know the quite extent of my feelings for him. If he is with other people and i see him, we’ll still stare at each other, and he always gives me this gorgeous cheeky smile. I know he is single which helps, i also know that it is very unlikely that we’ll ever be together but i live in hope that maybe we could be together one day, when i have left i have tried to tell myself that nothing will happen and i should get over him and get someone my own age, and i have been with someone, but i just couldn’t stop think about my teacher, and the boy treated me like crap, the feelings for my teacher seem to be getting stronger with every day, and theres just nothing i can do about it. He just makes me happy, and i just love being in his company, he is so kind always asks how i am, and if im looking down he’ll make sure i am ok, and cheer me up, we have the same interests and talk about football. And it seems to be happening more and more, like the flirting we do, we’ll just stare at each other for ages it seems, and sometimes ill catch him just looking away, as i look up from my work or something, he is more stricter to other students, where as he is pretty calm with me if i do something wrong like texting in class etc, which happened once happened, he treats me different. But now my friends and other people have started to notice things, and think he has feelings for me, but im not sure. There just seems to be this like spark between us, it’s something i have never experienced before and he’s the only one that i seem to have this unbelievable connection with, i cant explain it, but its amazing, and it does scare me sometimes how much i love him, it hurts so bad knowing i can’t have him, i leave school in May next year and i have contemplating whether or not to tell him or not, as i will not be coming back and will be attending another college. I have talked to one of my closest friends, who i have told how i feel and she has been very supportive, and she thinks i should just tell him, but i dont know if i should or not? Do i follow my heart and tell him? I think i would tell him by like a note or a letter, i dont think i could leave without not telling him. I just want to know how he feels about me, cos he does show signs. Any advice on students loving teachers??? Would be appreciated.

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