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hey everyone :)

my name's rachel, or rach or rae if you like :] i live in the uk and i'm fifteen, year 11. im quite easy going and easy to talk to. i try to give good advice, i think i do with problems my friends have. i probably can help most on teenage stuff like relationships, friendships or if you fall out with friends, parents and possibly love. and teachers :) i can try to give advice on other things too. i don't have that much life experience, obviously im only fifteen, but im here to talk to and will try to help if someone needs it or if you just want a good chin wag! :D

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I just want to know the truth, am I fat?

Q.   umm.... wel i've always been really consious bout the way i look and my weight. and now it's just worse than eva because i just read this article about this model that got fired because she was to big and she was a size 8 (british size) t...

A.   15 October 2009: you are defintley not fat :) you have nothing to worry about lol :). wish i was a bit thinner! :L haha. enjoy being happy and healthy and try not to worry too much about what other people think :] x... (read in full...)

Why am I dreaming of the world coming to an end?

Q.   Hi, its the dream girl again. Last night i had another strange dream. Actually i can remember having this dream about a month ago. I'm in a mall there are a fair amount of people, going about doing there shopping. Then my younger sister says that ...

A.   3 October 2009: hey :) you could try looking up what some of the things in your dream mean? id never had a plane crash dream in my life until last summer when i began having them. sometimes it would be like a month before i had one and one time i had two in two n... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and in love with my 33 year old teacher

Q.   Well I am 15 years old and am madly in love with my 33 year old teacher, and i know most of you will probably say it’s just a stupid crush, to stop being so stupid and move on, but honestly i know for sure it isn’t a stupid crush, and believe me i ...

A.   19 September 2009: hello :) wow, i loved your article and how you explained it all :). are you in year 11? i'm 15 and leave in may and have to leave my teacher too :O im not going to say much because like loads of people have given advice and everything hehe, but ... (read in full...)

Infatuated with my teacher, suggestions please?

Q.   My teacher, Mr * lets call him, I believe I might be attracted to him. It's really bad, I can't think straight if I know he's around...I admit I dream about him...lovely dreams about us dancing together on a beautiful yacht at midnight, holding each ...

A.   16 July 2009: heyy! :) awww thankyou. it was no problem :D if you wanna mail me at all you can too :] you know i had a dream about my teacher last night :O LOL! xx ... (read in full...)

Infatuated with my teacher, suggestions please?

Q.   My teacher, Mr * lets call him, I believe I might be attracted to him. It's really bad, I can't think straight if I know he's around...I admit I dream about him...lovely dreams about us dancing together on a beautiful yacht at midnight, holding each ...

A.   14 July 2009: hey hey :D your teacher sounds cool :D mine is the same!!! he's always singing or humming (he actually had an amazing voice :D) and he wears bizarre ties sometimes. infact he wore a yellow shirt and orange tie!! and pulled it off! rofl. hes ... (read in full...)

What is this weird pulsating behind my eye?

Q.   Ok i know this isn't a relationship question, but i've gotten a lot of health help from this sight. My question is that there's this weird pulsing behind one of my eyelids. Could it be something serious? Some people said it could be allergies but i ...

A.   30 June 2009: heyy :) i wouldnt worry too much, if its like twitched its most likley your tired! even if you dont feel it :P. i get it randomly sometimes too, and so my friends lol! and im the same age as you too. or yeah it might be because you use the comp... (read in full...)

Stressed by school and exams - I need tips on how to calm myself down!

Q.   I need help! Im really stressed with school work and its really getting me down. Im doing my GCSEs and i go to a very high profile school which makes us work really hard and im finding it really hard to cope with the stress, i leave the house at ...

A.   29 June 2009: hey :) i know how you feel, ive just finished my exams (thank god!!) and i never felt more stressed over school than i had done over the past few weeks! and on top of revision theres coursework from every other subject isnt there? bloody school :... (read in full...)

What should I give my teacher as a "thank you" present?

Q.   please help me! i only have a few hours to figure this out: i want to get my teacher a thank you present, because i never was at all interested in the subject he teaches before i had him; he made it fun for me. he's a great teacher and has ...

A.   24 June 2009: hey! :) aww yeah those ideas below are great, especially the letter one :D. well, my guitar teacher (would you guess it....) loves guitars! so for christmas i found him a little green (one of his favourtie colours) guitar on a stand and he was r... (read in full...)

Romantic ideas for my boyfriend? please

Q.   Im a bit stuck, i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and he does cute nice romantic things for me all the time... He sends me lovely texts, rings me till i fall asleep every night, buys me little presents randomly, you know that sort of ...

A.   24 June 2009: oh woww thats a really great idea! id love one of them if i had a boyfriend XD very creative and loving and thoughtful! he'll love it! :) x... (read in full...)

Romantic ideas for my boyfriend? please

Q.   Im a bit stuck, i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and he does cute nice romantic things for me all the time... He sends me lovely texts, rings me till i fall asleep every night, buys me little presents randomly, you know that sort of ...

A.   21 June 2009: hey :) you know the picture idea is really cute :] you could wait until you get few more pictures togther, or get some gloss paper from a stationary shop like rymans and print off an a4 big photo and buy a frame and wrap it all up nice :) bu... (read in full...)

How do I stop biting my nails?

Q.   Hi just a short question. I want long nails but I always end up subconsiously biting them. I hate chewing my nails and its not healthy either... Once they grew, but broke and are weak.. How can I grow my nails/stop myself from biting them?...

A.   13 June 2009: hi! :) yeah you could substitute biting your nails to twirling your hair or something hehe :). but if you do manage to grow them and theyre weak, well i know my moms got this nail polish but its nail strengthening stuff and its clear like a gloss,... (read in full...)

Girl, You Can Get Over Him: 4 Tips

Q.   The story is as common as air - boy meets girl, boy dates girl, girl falls for boy. Soon girl discovers boy only wants one thing. Girl gets wise and rejects boy. Boy begs girl to take him back – he claims he will change. Foolishly, girl gives boy ...

A.   11 June 2009: awesome! XD... (read in full...)

I am shy, but want to make more friends, would you give me some suggestions, how do I make that happen?

Q.   I am feeling lonely. I have a great boyfriend but very few friends anymore. I am extremely shy and my confidence is iffy, but I think people mistake this for me being stuck up. I am willing to talk and befriend anyone who approaches me, but don't ...

A.   31 May 2009: Sorry if i just posted a weird post, it sent before id finished typing lol but if it hasnt wel ill type it again :D You should try a new hobby or join a dance class or art or pottery class for example. Thats a good way to meet new people, and they... (read in full...)

I am shy, but want to make more friends, would you give me some suggestions, how do I make that happen?

Q.   I am feeling lonely. I have a great boyfriend but very few friends anymore. I am extremely shy and my confidence is iffy, but I think people mistake this for me being stuck up. I am willing to talk and befriend anyone who approaches me, but don't ...

A.   31 May 2009: hey :) why don't you start up a new hobby or go to a dance class or art class or something thats like weekly? ooo... (read in full...)

Should I give up on trying to find a b/f because I have been unlucky in love so far?

Q.   hi after all my rejection in the last 10 years i think i should give up on getting a boyfriend its too much of pain.there is too much competion out there .the guys i like somebody else so i don,t think is much point, any boys perfer tall,gorgeou...

A.   13 May 2009: hey :) no, dont ever ever give up. not every guy out there likes the description of girls as what you've said. Besdies, being yourself any guy would love that rather than being shallow. please don't put yourself down, one day the right guy wi... (read in full...)

How likely is it that I'm pregnant?

Q.   Hi, my period came today, but I've been worried about pregnancy. I'm on the pill and use condoms, but I heard today about someone who was on the pill and had periods as normal, but discovered at 4 months that she was pregnant. This as a result has ...

A.   12 May 2009: i agree with sammi star, you've got your period, so i dont see how you can be, but take a test just to make sure if you like :)... (read in full...)

Wondering what this could mean, if anything?

Q.   hi aunts, this is a bit af an odd question and i aint guna make it to graphic, i have never had regular periods but the last 2 years i have had one every 5 weeks, however my last one came at 7 weeks then this one at 5 again but the last 2 havnt ...

A.   10 May 2009: hey there! try not to worry too much about it, pretty much every girl gets them irregular at some point :) i didnt get mine for 6 weeks once and got a bit worried lol, and ever since i started, on my thrid day in the cycle i don't get anything... (read in full...)

What should I get my teacher for valentines day to show that I appreciate him?

Q.   What should I get my teacher for valentines day to show that I appreciate him? I don't want it to be able to be taken the wrong way, though. just something little... any ideas?...

A.   9 May 2009: hey! i know this is after valentines day lol, but i was just a bit curious...i love my teacher too! :D did you get him anything? i got mine a christmas present and it went down well! he teaches me guitar, so i brought him a little guitar on a stand ... (read in full...)

My teacher winks at me. Does it mean he likes me?

Q.   Hi, I am kind of confused when it comes to men, so I don't really know what the case is with this. I'm in art school, and I had this teacher in one class last semester who recommended that I take another one he was teaching this year. So I did. I h...

A.   9 May 2009: hey :) wow, its great that he winked at you :D lol. i adore my guitar teacher, and so does my friend, he winked at us both once, so i reckon it was a friendly wink as much i'd have liked it to be more rofl. hmmm....if he is being flirty with you,... (read in full...)

Every time my teacher smiles my heart skips a beat

Q.   i love my teacher, i know what your thinking, but this is seriously the real thing. He is double my age, im 14, and when i'm at school i go out of my way to see him. Everytime he smiles at me my heart skips a beat. He flirts and he told me i was his ...

A.   9 May 2009: hey there :) ignore the ones who say 'at our age were so immature' *rolls eyes* just becasue were young were not always stupid! we might make things like smiles from our favourite teachers more than they are but its amazing feeling like this right? ... (read in full...)

Desperate! How do I get over my teacher?

Q.   I have loved my english teacher for ages; though there is a fourteen year age gap between us so I know nothing will happen. I know teacher crushes are common, and the best thing to do is either get over it, or just enjoy it but keep it quiet. My tea...

A.   9 May 2009: hey there :) i love my teacher to bits. he dosent teach me for anything but i go to guitar lessons which he does after school, but its not like an orchestra practise, its informal so we talk and stuff. it kills me becasue i know he dosent feel the ... (read in full...)

I love my teacher and need some advice

Q.   Hey. So my name's Sina. I'm 17 (turning 18 in June) and I'm madly in love with my teacher... He's my English translating teacher (i'm on a school for foreign language assistants) and he's sooo cute! I think I fell in love with him when he walked ...

A.   9 May 2009: hey there! wow, sounds like you have a great teacher. im not going to tell you you have a crush, because i believe that you don't....i don't either! :P i adore my guitar techer from the tips of his spiky hair to the bottom of his shoes rofl. my mate ... (read in full...)

Fantasies about my teacher in church!

Q.   I have fanices about my teacher and me doing things........ IN CHURCH!!! My teacher goes to my church and he bent over and this thought went thru my mind! Here it is (I wanna play piano and he plays it.) I was at his house and he was ...

A.   9 May 2009: hey there! what a cool fantasy! :D don't be worried, i adore my guitar teacher, ive had plenty of fantasies rofl. just enjoy it, its fun, and think of more if you want! :L x ... (read in full...)

I have a huge crush on my teacher, and I think he likes me too. What should I do?

Q.   I really like a teacher at my school and he dosent actually teach me but we talk and we get on really well. I also think he likes me too. What should i do? Do i tell him or just keep talking to him and act as if i don't? ...

A.   9 May 2009: hey there :) i love my teacher, well technically he isn't my teacher like yours lol, but he teaches guitar on a wednesday after school so i go along lol, and yep, we get on :) and i think he knows i like him lol! :P however he might just like yo... (read in full...)

I'm utterly confused about my feelings towards my teacher and his feelings for me! Help me!

Q.   I'm 16 and I'm going to graduate at the end of the year. Today, I felt this strange sensation in my stomach today, nothing I've ever felt before. There were actual butterflies in my stomach today when I saw my teacher, and I just said, "wow" to ...

A.   9 May 2009: hey :) aww, getting butterflies is great isn't it? i abosultley adore my teacher, i get butterflies everytime i see him and think about him and talk to him! i'd say just carry on as you are, stay friends if thats what you are, don't suddenly jum... (read in full...)

I like my teacher... I just want to say hi to him but I'm too shy!

Q.   hey. i'm 14 and theres a teacher at my school that i really like, he doesnt teach me for any lessons, i just want to say hi to him but i'm really shy. will he think its weird because i havent really spoken to him before. sorry if this seems like ...

A.   9 May 2009: hey chick :) i think you should totally go for it, i adore one of my teachers, wel technically he dosen't teach me anything apart from guitar after school lol, but i like to think were friends :P im in year ten and only started to really like him... (read in full...)

I don't know which to pick, going on holiday for two weeks before I go back to school. Or work experience.

Q.   hey everyone, this isnt really a relationship issue/question, but ive been panicking about this for a while. I'm going into year 11 thhis september, and in october im going on holiday for 2 weeks, and at the same time theres work experience, so I ...

A.   9 May 2009: hey :) you may feel like your missing out by going on holiday, but try not to worry about it too much there are altrenatives if you miss out on wex. you could work at your moms or dads place for a week, (even my mom suggested that when i di... (read in full...)

Students Falling in love with Their Teachers can really hurt? Your Opinions?

Q.   Students look up to teachers because they're smart. They are mature. They're possibly good looking. They've had interesting lives. All the things all people look for in a character. But students can't do anything about it. ...

A.   22 November 2008: Omg that was soooooo right! And all these girls that feels the same, it makes me a feel a bit better. Theres this english teacher at my school and I've kind of always thought he was cool and a bit cute, but in the past few months I've really started ... (read in full...)

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