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He flirts with me, is buying me a Christmas present. But he's with another girl. What to do about my huge crush?

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Question - (21 December 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I don't know how to put it into words!

Erm well it's nearly Christmas and I like this boy and he likes me back.

I went out with him once for like a week about 1 month ago but I broke up with him because this other girl who liked him started threating me

He completely understood and said would you ever go back out with me? I replied yes.

So now I really wish I hadn't panicked and broken up with him. I speak to him nearly everyday and I told him that I still love him and he said he loved me too but he is with someone which made me feel like a douche for telling him how I felt

But he said if things don't work out with him and this girl he'll go back out with me and I was like... Ok.

I'm completely in love with him.

He's buying me a anklet for Christmas and I'm buying him a braclet and he is buying his gf a box of chocolates but he still calls me babe,baby ect even though he's going out with her.

He always flirts with me loads. I dunno what to do really?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (22 December 2012):

Honeypie agony auntYou are his spare - I agree with iAmHereToHelpYou.

All the cutesy nicknames doesn't mean he loves you. He just knows most girls are suckers for those nicknames.

What you are feeling is infatuation, a crush NOT love. If he can drop you and move on as quickly as he did - and STILL try and get you to be his "thing" on the side.. he SURELY doesn't know what love is.

Let me say this, IF he realllllllly loved you he wouldn't be with this other girl and flirt with you. He thinks he is a badarse player.....

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