A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey guys and girls I need major honest opinions on if my boyfriend is lying to me about cheating. Okay so in september when I was at his best friend house named (Steven) two girls came over and knocked on the door. Steven goes outside and about 10min later my boyfriend said something to me I couldnt hear and also went outside. When I get up to follow him to find out what he told me stevens sister starts laughing and says" thats right, dont let him go with those girls dont let them steal your man". So when I go outside im immediatley suspicious to see that thier are actually two women outside! So later that night we argue about the whole situation he says he just met the women a few days before and they are just Stevens friends . I get over it. Now its January and I decide to play a joke on him (we do jokes on eachother all the time) so I text him from a different number acting like im a guy whos stalking him. And he replies by asking am I SARA OR ...MIKE! So I play along and find out Sara was the girl at Stevens house in september and mike is her boyfriend.when I confront him about this he says SARA and MIKE dont exsist and he was just testing me to see if I trust him. When I dont belive him he admits that I was right and mike is actually stalking him because hes an abusive boyfriend to sara and he told sara to call the police on mike. He says he was just being a good friend to her and gave her this advice on facebook and mike saw the messages. I mean he said he lied at first because I wouldnt belive the story which I dont. Because of my previous thoughts about him and sara in september and because he lied about testing me I dont know what to belive. Whats your opinion on all this ?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 To be honest either you trust him or you don't simple as. If you don't then there is no point being with him. There is no real evidence here to say that he has cheated on you, I think actually you might be looking to much in to things. Maybe he has remained friends with this girl but there is no harm in that, a guy can have female friends.
Okay I agree with you he was wrong to lie to you about this, that makes trust issues straight away. I do understand that. Therefore I think you both just need to sit down and sort this out. Maybe he felt he couldn't tell you about this because he knows you would probably think that there was more to it. You need to learn to trust him more, and in return he needs to be honest with you. So sit down and talk to him about this and try and put this relationship back on track.
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