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writes:I have a friend who I've been close to for ages. Me and her get on really well, she's fun to talk to and I trust her. Anyway, someone asked me if I liked her and I got worried incase the person told everyone. I've been avoiding her and I tend to ignore her now. Do you think I'm stupid for being like that towards her just because of what I got asked?I said this to my friend about the person asking me if I liked her and how I got worried. I'm just thinking now, do you think she thinks I like her? Or do you think she won't think that because I ignore her? She's tried to talk to me about me avoiding her, but I just literally ignore her and don't reply. So, do you think she'll think I like her if I don't talk to her because of what I got asked? Do you think it makes seems if she does think I like her or not? And if someone acted like this with you, would you think they did like you? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut I said to her that I got worried that person was going to tell everyone. She is upset with me because I haven't heard from her in ages now. She probably hates me and everything. I deserve it for the way I've been anyway. She always said to let it go and I've just complicated the whole situation. It's awkward between us now :(
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 You shouldn't ignore your friend just because someone asked you this. Just take it as another part of your day and move on. This is no reason to ignore your friend and the more you ignore her, the more she'll be upset with you. And who cares what others think about this? If they think that you like her, then it's not your problem. You know the truth, and the truth is that you don't and she's a really good friend. So just let it go, and explain yourself to her and apologize.
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