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30 July 2008: Lately iv been having a discussion/debate with a woman on here about religion, she's a muslim and im not really anything, more of an athiest with a hint of scientologist id say, and as you could imagine our opinions on religion are at complete ...
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I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?
Q. Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him. He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?...
A. 26 June 2008: Well if he seems unapproacheable, then how about trying to speak to him via social networking site's ie myspace, facebook, bebo and so on, or whatever one's are popular from where you're from?... (read in full...)
I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?
Q. Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him. He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?...
A. 25 June 2008: In that case then my dear, i'd say get chatting to him a bit more, and go out somewhere with him, grab a coffee or something, and spend some time together :) then you'll know eachother alot better, thus It'd be clear whether he's into you like you ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about what he will get up to while I'm gone?
Q. I am 16 years old (I know my display age is wrong) and I have been with my bf for almost 2 years. I have always had security issues and problems with trust. Anyway, the other day I asked him if I could look through his MySpace just to ease my ...
A. 24 June 2008: This first girl that you talk about, it was a long time ago he asked her out if it was at the beginning of your relationship, also paying a compliments 95% of the time doesn't mean anything, its just a nice thing to do i guess, don't your male ... (read in full...)
What can I do? ! really hate my body!
Q. Hi i'm sure you get this all of the time but i'm going to ask my question anyway. i really hate my body. i have small breasts (about a b-cup) they used to be bigger (a c cup) and then they shrunk (i lost 30 pounds because i was overweight). they are...
A. 24 June 2008: A B cup is really not that bad! Your boobs are still bound to change, as people have said, i know it'll be hard and you obviously don't see the point or cant, but stop feeling so negative about your body, embrace it! Try looking online for style ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is begging me to have sex with him, What should I do?
Q. I am 13 years old, my boyfriend and I have known each other since we were 4 but we only started dating last year. My b/f and i are really close, but he keeps begging me to have sex with him. I trust him alot, but i'm not sure what to do. Please h...
A. 24 June 2008: Well your still underage i do believe, but saying that, that doesn't stop most teens, Do Not be pressured into Anything! You haven't said whether you want to or not, but It's pretty clear that you don't wanna have sex with him at this age/stage. ... (read in full...)
Is there anyway I could work at winning him back slowly?
Q. I was seeing a guy who i still really like and can't get him out my head, he told me he could not see me but really likes me, but he has anxiety problems, and feelings for his ex. He said he does not want to hurt me as he will let me down as having ...
A. 24 June 2008: Sounds to me like he could do with a friend, send him a text message or something and just say to him something like... Hey its only me, just wanted to know that i'll always be there for you as a friend if you need me. Or along those lines, and be ... (read in full...)
How can I make my brother's wife have sex with me?
Q. How I can make my brother's wife to have sex with me?...
A. 24 June 2008: Whoa geez, you cant MAKE anybody sleep with you, they have to do it on Their OWN will. More to the point.., your sister inlaw? Do you completely despise your brother or something?... (read in full...)
I am a 14 y/o dating a 27 y/o and my friends say it is wrong... should I leave him or just ignore what they are saying?
Q. I am 14 years old and i am dating a 27 year old,who was my brothers friend and he watched me grow up.My friends think hes a paedophile and hate him but i do like him and they know im interested in older guys.Also my friends sister has been threating ...
A. 24 June 2008: I thought it was bad me seeing a 17 year old when i was your age, but this is just something else, this guy does not sound right, he's pretty much nearly 30,.. And your still really really underage. Dump him babes, before this gets out of hand, all ... (read in full...)
I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?
Q. Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him. He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?...
A. 24 June 2008: When you say that You've talked a bit, how much is a bit? It may be because he doesn't really know you, or hasn't really had the chance to talk properly? Just be bold here sweetie, ask him out for a coffee or something? x... (read in full...)
Paranoid teen seeks help to trust boyfriend...
Q. how can i trust my 22 year old bf when i am not around him i know i can kinda trust him but i am not sure he has told me he loves me and want to marry me and buys me gifts none stop offering to pay for everything i am fine with that but he lives an ...
A. 24 June 2008: How comes you fear that he wont live long hun? Send me a private massage if you want to talk about anything further ok? x... (read in full...)
If everything is going apparently fine in the relationship, why would a boy ignore the person for a week and counting?
Q. The psychology of men.. I swear that its impossible to understand? Thats why i need all you lovely agony uncles out there to please tell me your opinions on the following, and explain the what's, how's and the why's! Ok well here we go! Firs...
A. 23 June 2008: Thanks girly i'll have to look into that :) still would be nice to get something from the horses mouth though lol x... (read in full...)
We have never dated but we argue! Do I get on his nerves or does he like me?
Q. I have this guy i work with name dante and me and dante liked each other but now i dont know.we argued alot at a period of time for no reason and i get mad when he talks about another female and vice versus.So we never dated we just liked each other ...
A. 23 June 2008: Hmmm... I really couldn't say why he acts like that? It sounds a bit strange though? Can't say that I've ever had a guy act like that around me apart from in primary school? Thought i'd try and have a go at answering your question since no one has, ... (read in full...)
If everything is going apparently fine in the relationship, why would a boy ignore the person for a week and counting?
Q. The psychology of men.. I swear that its impossible to understand? Thats why i need all you lovely agony uncles out there to please tell me your opinions on the following, and explain the what's, how's and the why's! Ok well here we go! Firs...
A. 23 June 2008: Thank you for someone that has finally answered! Lol my point exactly, all men are different, but just like all people in generally the psychology of them are pretty similar, hence why i had been encouraging as many men as possible to leave me their ... (read in full...)
My BF makes it sound that every problem we have is my fault. How to make him understand how I am feeling without him threatening to break up or blaming me?
Q. Okay this may be a long post but I need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now and have put so much into our relationship and trying to make things work here lately but I feel like its a waste of emotion and time. My boyfriend ...
A. 23 June 2008: Judging by whats already said and whats been said back, your not gonna like this but seriously girl! Get a grip! You may love him yea? But he is not good for you. He aint worth the bother.. Ok so you love him and want to fight for that love but your ... (read in full...)
We broke up but how can I get him to stop blaming himself?
Q. Well i split up with my ex not long ago, due to the differences in our lives and what we want to do with them, and cos i felt like we were more best friends than lovers. We had been together for a year and a half, long distance mostly. We agreed to ...
A. 23 June 2008: That's really no help. Like i said im the only person that he can talk to! I just want him to understand that he's not the blame for anythin,and not to hate himself? ... (read in full...)
Why is it that gay men love me?
Q. Why Is it that gay men love me? I'm a women and my whole life it seems that gay men want to hang out with me. That does not bother me. I have nothing against them. It's just that sometimes I think they like me for a girlfriend but I know they are ...
A. 23 June 2008: I have loads of gay guy friends, they always seem to really like me too! My best friend is gay, but gay guys are just generally really friendly people, and alot of them seem a bit overfriendly which can be interpreted as flirtyness, but just think ... (read in full...)
Not hearing from him is wrecking my head!
Q. Well i dunno where to begin really, iv been kinda seeing this guy n really gettin close to him and have spent alot of time with him just lately,.. Being all cuddled up on the sofa watchin a film, walking down the road hand in hand and all that jazz, ...
A. 23 June 2008: Thanks for your reply tis much appriciated :) iv found part of the problem so i am getting there slowly but surely! Because he hasn't been able to contact me, he's got it in his head that im hating him for what it seemed like he was blanking me, and ... (read in full...)
I'm just WAY too nervous to talk to him. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I am 13 (14 in August) and I like this boy at my school. For valentine's Day, we had the choice to send out a rose to someone. I sent one to him that said from "your secret admirer" and it's already June 22nd 2008, and I haven't gotten any ...
A. 23 June 2008: Wel you wouldn't have got any replies if you signed the rose anonymous lol but... He wouldn't exactly show any signs of interest if he hasn't at least had a conversation with you i guess, i was also too nervous to talk to people that i liked when i ... (read in full...)
I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?
Q. Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him. He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?...
A. 23 June 2008: Well is he a shy kinda guy? It could just be like, he's too shy to say anything back along those lines if you get what i mean? He may like you too in that way, sounds like he's definately interested the way he stares across the room at you or ... (read in full...)
I have not been asked out and I don't believe in this idea that women should take the initiative! Thus?
Q. I seem to be having a very strange time finding a man. Well, obviously you are everywhere, but its one that is attracted to me. I'm a pretty, confident girl, yet no man has ever looked twice at me. If they are they don't approach me. I don't believe ...
A. 23 June 2008: Ah iv been in this kinda situation once or twice in my life, but i came to to conclusion that i have to take things into my own hands! If the blokes you like are just seeing you more as a mate, you dont have to make the first move or anything, just ... (read in full...)
I like this guy and suddenly all my ex's are getting in touch... what is going on?
Q. what is going on, i really like this guy im seeing- we r taking it slowly and all of the sudden a couple of my exs have been in touch wanting to see me. why now? I don't get it....
A. 23 June 2008: This kinda thing happens with me all the time! Lol. As soon as someone comes along that i really like, several others come along as well! I find it as a bit of a curse really,.. It always makes things so awkward! But your ex's, have they just made ... (read in full...)
Is it true love?
Q. ok. well i am 16 and my girlfriend is 15(almost 16) We have been going out for 4month. We have not once argued at all. We have spoke about adding sex and had sexual intercourse. We are still fine together. We are always together almost, as soon as ...
A. 23 June 2008: Knowing whether its true love or not, is something that only you would know! It sounds like a pretty great relationship that you have there.. But like i said, only you know whether its true love or not, at the end of the day its all down to how you ... (read in full...)
Do you think our age difference will interfere in our relationship in the future?
Q. We were engaged two years ago, but we split up. I am almost 28, he is 56. Do you think age difference will interfere in our relationship in the future? HELP PLEASE...
A. 23 June 2008: I couldn't really say whether i think that the age difference would interfere with you relationship, being the ages you are, but i have recently had to split up with someone thats 12 years older than me, just purely cos the fact that we were at two ... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and I'm starting to feel I'm missing out on sex and relationships
Q. A bunch of my friends are all having sex. I'm the only one from my original group of friends that can't get laid. I don't think i'm ever going to find a girl. What age do people usually have the most sex at? I'm 19 and starting to feel like I'm ...
A. 21 June 2008: You dont have to rush into anything you know, and its totally normal and there are many people out there who are in exactly the same situation, there's not really an age where people have sex the most, it varies from person to person, dont worry ... (read in full...)
How can I make myself taller?
Q. Is there anyway i can make myself grow??? I'm 17 and i wanna be a bit taller because of my girlfriend i naturally want to be taller not by wearing thick shoes etc. Is there anyway this is possible? I here pull ups help...
A. 21 June 2008: You've still got a little growing space in you at your age, so you may still gain a couple of inches yet. Unfortunately you cant do anything to make yourself any taller, if you could i would have done it by now im just over 5ft, but height doesn't ... (read in full...)
Why has his mum added me to her facebook?
Q. I'm 19 and there's this guy who I went to high school with who added me to his facebook as a friend. A while after that his mum added me to her facebook which I thought was really weird! She hasn't messaged me or anything saying why. I looked at...
A. 21 June 2008: Maybe she finds you a potential suitor for her son? If your that curious then message her and say something like.. "hey, your whatever his name is mum aren't you? I wasn't expecting and add from you lol :)" but like, keep it short and sweet, and ... (read in full...)
I'm just curious about the 'Friends with Benefits' thing while in relationships,
Q. A guy asked me if i wanted to be friends with benefits with him, and i never done it before, the only thing that worries me is that one of us could end up feeling more than just friend with one or other and we are both in a relationship, he's not...
A. 21 June 2008: All i have to say is priorities. You should be more concerned about your current relationship than how a "friends with benefits" relationship could progress into some sort of emotional attachment. If anything i'd say you should be asking for advice ... (read in full...)
I'm unable to treat my husband nice after he cheated on me. Any advice on what to do?
Q. I am unable to treat my husband nice after he has cheated on me. For example when he asks me to massage his shoulder I say a BIG NO. Such things make our life difficult to live together. Any advice? Please help....
A. 21 June 2008: Personally i would suggest trying to rekindle some romance, get that loving feeling back and that! But mind you, you didnt give much information on how long ago it was, if you've tried to talk about it or just tried to brush it off and hope it would ... (read in full...)
Do I have any rights with regard to her selling the ring before divorce?
Q. My wife has sold her engagement ring and has left the state, she even had a change of address 3 weeks ago, then, this week I filed for divorce. Do I have any rights with regard to her selling the ring before divorce? ...
A. 21 June 2008: Im afraid you dont, sorry. She would be under no obligation to return it to you, putting it into a different context, its like if you bought a friend a present at christmas, and you had a falling out, there's no reason why they should return it to ... (read in full...)
What should I do, stay with my boyfriend? Or get back together with my ex and get an abortion?
Q. I'm 19 years old, I meet my boyfriend in collage who i've been dateing for 5 months, and i'm between 4-5 months pregneat with his baby. I jumped into this relationship too quick, and i just got out of one with my ex, who i was dateing for 4-5 year...
A. 21 June 2008: I was going to leave a message but supermum took the words right out of my fingers, she's right. And you can only get an abortion up to 12 weeks. I wish you all the best anyways lovey x... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to want to try more freaky stuff?
Q. I am in a relationship with a guy that I met when I was pergnate its been a year now and my sex drive is back.I to bring this girl I like home and do a three way.he will not do it but he will go to a strip club with me.I love group sex with couples ...
A. 21 June 2008: No problem, hope it somewhat helped :) tc x... (read in full...)
I fantasize and daydream about this TV guy which isn't fair on my boyfriend. How do I stop?
Q. Hi! There is a guy on TV that I can not stop thinking about. He is so breathtakingly beautiful that it makes me loose my breathe every time I see him (yes I know it sounds silly but that is how it feels) But I think / daydream about him all th...
A. 21 June 2008: Im kind of like that with noel fielding lol, its only human nature to be attracted to someone, and just like a teenage crush it'll pass before you know it, in the mean time try focusing on your fella n how great he is, get out the house a bit and ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should give her the chance to explain or just write her off. What do you think?
Q. I recently broke my ankle, which required immediate surgery and had to spend a couple of days at my "best friend's" house until my mother got here from out of town to help me out. While I was in the hospital my friend had claimed that she had tol...
A. 21 June 2008: I'd say just forget about her, you'd be wasting your time trying to rekindle any kind of friendship, or even bothering trying to find the reason why she's such a back stabber, you really cant call anyone who's acted like that towards you a friend. ... (read in full...)
How do you break it off with someone who makes you feel so trapped? please help me
Q. okay, i have been dating this guy for almost a year and a half, and our relationship is changing. he seems kind of obsessive sometimes and i'm only 17, and he also talks about marriage. i don't feel the same as i used to for him, and i believe it is ...
A. 21 June 2008: I can totally relate to what your saying! My last relationship was alot like that, the guy was alot older than me, and also has a drink problem, and had a drug problem, i was with him for a year and a half, but because the age difference we wanted ... (read in full...)
Not hearing from him is wrecking my head!
Q. Well i dunno where to begin really, iv been kinda seeing this guy n really gettin close to him and have spent alot of time with him just lately,.. Being all cuddled up on the sofa watchin a film, walking down the road hand in hand and all that jazz, ...
A. 21 June 2008: Thanks, its already been a week though, and i'd feel awkward trying to contact him again cos like i said, i dont want to make it seem like im pestering him n that im obsessed, if you get me? Problem is iv really started to like him and i thought he ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to want to try more freaky stuff?
Q. I am in a relationship with a guy that I met when I was pergnate its been a year now and my sex drive is back.I to bring this girl I like home and do a three way.he will not do it but he will go to a strip club with me.I love group sex with couples ...
A. 21 June 2008: Well even though your into all that kinda stuff he may not be, i mean going to a strip club with you is a totally different thing than actually sleeping with more than one person at the same time, your just gonna have to respect that perhaps its not ... (read in full...)
I like my best mates brother but I don't know how to tell people, I'm scared what they will say!
Q. i wrote before saying about this boy i am seeing and he has a girlfriend, but this boy is my best mates brother. my best mate does not know what is going on i just dont have the guts to tell her. i really do like him and i know it would work with me ...
A. 21 June 2008: Well firstly you say that he has already got a girlfriend? I'd say there isn't no point of going round shouting it from the rooftops just yet considering that he's already in a relationship? And you dont exactly know what's gonna happen with that? ... (read in full...)
Tempted to stray now my Bf is far away!
Q. I'm very much in love with my bf. We have been in a long distance relationship for about almost a month and a half, and before that we were practically living together. I just recently met a guy who i think i might have a crush on. I'm not going to ...
A. 21 June 2008: At the end of the day you cant help how you feel, and you cant blame yourself for an attraction! So no, you shouldn't be feeling guilty for anything, its human nature!... (read in full...)
Paranoid teen seeks help to trust boyfriend...
Q. how can i trust my 22 year old bf when i am not around him i know i can kinda trust him but i am not sure he has told me he loves me and want to marry me and buys me gifts none stop offering to pay for everything i am fine with that but he lives an ...
A. 21 June 2008: I know exactly what you mean, but i've had the more awkward side i guess, a stupidly far long distance relationship, talking half way across the country here, but has he actually done anything to arouse suspicion apart from talk about his ex's? To ... (read in full...)
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